Evaberry:



what kind of mindset if you don't mind my asking and no one said anything about love here

mykel25:


U are liking him hence want a relationship... No feelings no potential loving... U just want to chop him n clean mouth ba? Children of nowadays Chai!

Evaberry:


TF!!!! it's little children that do that nonsense of chopping and cleaning mouth. do u know what love is?
love is not something you feel after 2 weeks of knowing someone, the word love gets abused alot by people. from likeness comes love you just can't start screaming love up and down anyhow.

Evaberry:


TF!!!! it's little children that do that nonsense of chopping and cleaning mouth. do u know what love is?
love is not something you feel after 2 weeks of knowing someone, the word love gets abused alot by people. from likeness comes love you just can't start screaming love up and down anyhow.

kizyalex10:
The truth about this is that,like me nd most men,proposing to a girl is like tying her down,no matter hw u love d girl,it's nt good to tie her down,when u re nt financial stable to take her to alter yet.because if u tie her down,nd when d money comes nd she is no longer ur choice,then it's bad because she must have by then drove men who came within dat period away because she hoped on u.so is better a woman disappoint men than men disappoint women,cos women have a marriage lifespan,unlike men.there will be a age a woman will reach,she won't even be selective again,all she want to knw if the man is still breathing,if yes,then she don't see anytin wrong in marrying him,unlike d male counterpart,who can marry a teen even @ 60.for me my own case is complicated,i am comfortable,but am a bit below of what is required I assume,to make my girl I love so much my wife,she is a pharmacist nd from a more than average home.now I can't propose to her yet because tying a woman down without knowing hw soon I will be comfortable enough(financially)to take her to alter,want to stabilise my business bfor taking dat step,if she is still available then,i will knw she is truely for me.but if she is nt,d search continues

blustone:


I think you shld still inform her about ur intention & plans.
The worst that can happen is a NO.
Some ladies can see the future, by knowing how serious a guy can be.
Having her as a friend, close friend, can even help to project u better in life.
Some good ladies can advise well too.

I just dey waka pass...

hisMrs:
uncle please what does this mean? she has to give u a sign before u propose?

chiboy429:
This one that i dont even have who to propose to where will i start.

Bammzzie:
Yes o cos it may lead to crash if I'm nt careful

tosyne2much:
I will propose if a bag of rice is reverted back to 8k

Nma27:
Start from d Top

chiboy429:

Wow you have just given one of the best advices so far. well i would appreciate if you can break it down for more understanding.

Divay22:

Okay
When are proposing?

Nma27:
Start by being friends, getting to know each other, see if there's any attraction. Then you graduate into dating and from there propose. If you are in your late 30's the process shouldn't take more than 7months.

lefulefu:

propose ke
ok wen i see a gud girl

chiboy429:

What if it happens that the guy involved is career conscious that he rarely have time to meet the female folks for friendship. i think this is me.

Divay22:

So the one you're with now is not a good girl abi Isokay o

Eazybay:


Okay leme tell u.. Statistically the number of clubs, hangouts and bars in densely populated areas over the last decade has tripled/quadrupled!! This has turned majority of our youths to unrepentant hedonists, both male and female. While we all want to have good money, good lives and lovely kids we also want to keep our hedonistic thirst entirely SATED. Hence a lot of youths are viewing d child out of wedlock thing as a perfect solution.

As for me, I believe variety is the spice of life. I dont wanna make no vows yet. Even if I wanted to, money is a factor. The harsh financial climate could get harsher, so why take d risk? My salary would av been kool for a family of 3 (one child) at about 5-10yrs back but now, its a struggle BTW job and biz jes to stay afloat.

PS: If I find someone like lalas247 I wee propose on d first date.

God help us!!

lefulefu:

ehn
iyam not in a serious relationship o
serious relationship no be beans o
not with the serial cheating dat goes on anyway
person go say he wan call im fiancee for phone.while she dey on phone with the guy ..another go dey knack her frm the back for bed .one dude told me how he dey kpansh one random babe for im car and while he was drilling her the babe fiancee called her on fone and was telling her how he loved her and the babe replied she loved him too .this one girl wey her marriage due in a week oo .so u see how the commitment tin fit give person heartache.na when u really sure on the type of person u dey wit dats wen u talk of commitment .

Divay22:

I agree with you though, but yours just might not be the same...
And i hope you see her soon

Nma27:
Well, u could ask your relatives to refer a nice lady to you... Weekends should b OK for courting, then u could give her spare key... And d rest will b history.

girl4rmspace:


Ok I will marry you. Go make the preparations

chiboy429:

How i wish it could be that easy as you said because my major problem is that the nature of my career makes it almost difficult to be stable in a place.I may be in the office and receice a calll that requires me to change location. but i wish to change career but it seems hard for me considering the difficulty of finding a job in naija presently.

hisMrs:
propose first na

Lalas247:

Is that so

tosyne2much:
You sef dey laugh ni

Eazybay:


It is sooooo my dear, dat hour glass shape is enuf to send any dude straight to da altar!