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Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by ayettymama(f): 3:51am On Mar 09, 2010
^^ loooooooooolz

me am tryna calculate how many of us gogo club wiv that amt!!!

even my thai friends dare not do so!!!
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by na2day2(m): 3:51am On Mar 09, 2010
sagluva:

i've been reading through alot of the threads on here and i notice that alot of guys are complaining about how girls offer nothing in relationships and all they care about is money and never give anything in  return and blah, blah blah. My question is what about the girls who give alot in their relationships but dont get much in return?
Is it wrong for them to spend alot on their boyfreind? i ask this question because over the course of my relationship with my bf, i have spent alot on him,  i bought him a ps3 and video games and ralph lauren perfume for his bday, helped him pay for his car, bought him a mac for our anniversary, a 52 inch flat screen tv and $600 gift card for christmas,  alot of my friends tell me that i shouldnt be doing that and the guy will take advantage of u if u do. So my question is,
is it wrong for a girl to spend alot of money on a guy she loves?

the question i have to ask, is what does he do in return, what has he gotten u? how does he treat u? to answer ur question generally, NO but it has a comma in it. i will explain better when u have answered my questions
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Nobody: 3:51am On Mar 09, 2010
sagluva:

@ Fl gators yea i'm in college. i get weekly allowances from my parents
Oh I totally understand. . . . grin

ayettymama:

the minute i transfer money into my daughters acc
this is the text that will accompany it;

hey dear just wired u money

thunder fire your mouth if u spend it on any yeye guy!!

i must see the georgous dresses  u buy with it!!

xoxo mommy!!!
pls i beg u

You'll talk harshly to your daughter like that? grin

chika98:

who is entering club with 600quid? Me I want to tag along to that club o!
grin
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by ayettymama(f): 3:52am On Mar 09, 2010
^^ u are not from ekiti of u are askin me that!!
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by chika98: 3:53am On Mar 09, 2010
FL Gators:

Oh I totally understand. . . . grin

You'll talk harshly to your daughter like that? grin
grin

My sister I wan follow dem pop that bottle too o! I enter Abacus the other day and see big boys rolling out while I was chilling with my gin and tonic dey count my dollar to pounds. Hmmmm E no easy o!
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Nobody: 3:55am On Mar 09, 2010
ayettymama:

^^ u are not from ekiti of u are askin me that!!
rotfl Of course I am.
Non of my female family members talk harshly like that.
Infact, I cant recall my mom cursing grin I only curse outside of the house, scared of the consequence grin grin grin

chika98:

My sister I wan follow dem pop that bottle too o! I enter Abacus the other day and see big boys rolling out while I was chilling with my gin and tonic dey count my dollar to pounds. Hmmmm E no easy o!
rotflmao grin grin grin
You dey crase. . . . You wouldnt want to follow chic2pimp, he'll be asking you to do the buying grin
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Pataki: 3:56am On Mar 09, 2010
ayettymama:

Gooooood Forrrrbid

naa my sista will neva take £600 to the club!|!

we not that independant!! we still follow the boys small small

please please tell me what uni she goes

pls i beg u

Why do you so wish to know the id behind the person? grin Still follow small small boys? grin We will all get there one day abi? cheesy

Hmmm. . . . I cannot tell you on a plain forum like this. TMI!!!!
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by chika98: 3:59am On Mar 09, 2010
FL Gators:

rotfl Of course I am.
Non of my female family members talk harshly like that.
Infact, I cant recall my mom cursing grin I only curse outside of the house, scared of the consequence grin grin grin
rotflmao grin grin grin
You dey crase. . . . You wouldnt want to follow chic2pimp, he'll be asking you to do the buying grin

E no easy for here at all jare. grin Na this their tube thing wey dey chop money pass.
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by sagluva(f): 3:59am On Mar 09, 2010
@ayettymama i dont agree withe veryhting that u say but i love reading ur posts lol. btw love the shoes on ur profile
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by ayettymama(f): 3:59am On Mar 09, 2010
FL Gators:

rotfl Of course I am.
Non of my female family members talk harshly like that.
Infact, I cant recall my mom cursing grin I only curse outside of the house, scared of the consequence grin grin grin
rotflmao grin grin grin
You dey crase. . . . You wouldnt want to follow chic2pimp, he'll be asking you to do the buying grin

lol

u must have neva been to ekiti

how to curse is the 1st thing youll learn!!
o gel tahts the way i talk- jokingly of course- with a serious note!!!

chika98:

My sister I wan follow dem pop that bottle too o! I enter Abacus the other day and see big boys rolling out while I was chilling with my gin and tonic dey count my dollar to pounds. Hmmmm E no easy o!
hehehehehe

madam hustlers
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by ayettymama(f): 4:01am On Mar 09, 2010
sagluva:

@ayettymama[b] i dont agree withe veryhting that u say but i love reading your posts lol[/b]. btw love the shoes on your profile

its aiight luv- good luck sha
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by H2O2: 4:03am On Mar 09, 2010
if you're adonis with a fat wallet, why not cheesy
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Nobody: 4:03am On Mar 09, 2010
chika98:

E no easy for here at all jare. grin Na this their tube thing wey dey chop money pass.
grin
arent you in US, what are you doing in London hustling? grin

ayettymama:

lol

u must have neva been to ekiti

how to curse is the 1st thing youll learn!!
o gel tahts the way i talk- jokingly of course- with a serious note!!!
I said I never cursed at home. . . . never said I didnt learn from awom igboro grin
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by chic2pimp(m): 4:03am On Mar 09, 2010
H2O2:

dem niggaz is from the cave son
Omo I tire ooo ahn ahn grin
No be everytime I go dey spend nah abi? undecided

chika98:

who is entering club with 600quid? Me I want to tag along to that club o!
I dey your side jare.
Me sef make I tag along.
We just go dey pop crystal here and there grin

FL Gators:

. . . . from the p[i]im[/i]pz mouth. Of course you wont see any wrong in it. Mo jeri e grin
Toyin o ti like wahala oo grin
I remember this dude in my college, his sugar mummy bought him a brand new car shocked shocked shocked.
Nah so all of us dey jealous am grin

FL Gators:


You dey crase. . . . You wouldnt want to follow chic2pimp, he'll be asking you to do the buying grin
Abi oooo grin
Nah so we goo dey share the buying like egbon and aburo.
She go buy one bottle, I go buy the second.
Fifty fifty no cheating wink cool
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Sauron1: 4:04am On Mar 09, 2010
sagluva:

i've been reading through alot of the threads on here and i notice that alot of guys are complaining about how girls offer nothing in relationships and all they care about is money and never give anything in  return and blah, blah blah. My question is what about the girls who give alot in their relationships but dont get much in return?
Is it wrong for them to spend alot on their boyfreind? i ask this question because over the course of my relationship with my bf, i have spent alot on him,  i bought him a ps3 and video games and ralph lauren perfume for his bday, helped him pay for his car, bought him a mac for our anniversary, a 52 inch flat screen tv and $600 gift card for christmas,  alot of my friends tell me that i shouldnt be doing that and the guy will take advantage of u if u do. So my question is,
is it wrong for a girl to spend alot of money on a guy she loves?

There should be no limit to the amount a woman should spend on her boyfriend.
U have done exceptionally well for him. . . . . . .He won't forget you. cheesy
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by chika98: 4:05am On Mar 09, 2010
FL Gators:

grin
arent you in US, what are you doing in London hustling? grin
I said I never cursed at home. . . . never said I didnt learn from awom igboro grin

I go vacation na. No hustling for your sister o! I just dey maintain! Plus fine guys full this place . Kai!
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by ayettymama(f): 4:06am On Mar 09, 2010
i love chic2pimps honesty

but u really need to change to a more suitable username

like chick2broke

chick2split bills

chic2scrub!!

grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Pataki: 4:07am On Mar 09, 2010
Ayettymama,

What makes you think she is not even on this forum? grin Now if you tell me why you are intrigued in knowing who she is or she might possibly be, I might be ready to disclose who this babe is, and which club you could meet her and me crew this coming weekend. wink

But she is definitely in one of the two uni's first mentioned above. tongue
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Nobody: 4:08am On Mar 09, 2010
chic2pimp:

Toyin o ti like wahala oo grin
I remember this dude in my college, his sugar mummy bought him a brand new car shocked shocked shocked.
Nah so all of us dey jealous am grin
Abi oooo grin
Nah so we goo dey share the buying like egbon and aburo.
She go buy one bottle, I go buy the second.
Fifty fifty no cheating wink cool
Me like wahala?
You're talking as if you dont know me. I'm the 2nd to gentlest person on this thread undecided
LOL @ jealous am. . . . no lie, talk true. Confess say na that your sugs mama grin

Chika, you hear, chic2pimp is your ideal club partner

ayettymama:

i love chic2pimps honesty

but u really need to change to a more suitable username

like chick2broke

chick2split bills

chic2scrub!!

grin grin grin grin grin grin
grin grin grin grin rotfl

chika98:

I go vacation na. No hustling for your sister o! I just dey maintain! Plus fine guys full this place . Kai!

na true you talk? Maybe I should plan on visiting London. Busy_bodyz got a visitor.

Na ugly men full US? embarassed cry
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by chic2pimp(m): 4:08am On Mar 09, 2010
~Sauron~:

There should be no limit to the amount a woman should spend on her boyfriend.
U have done exceptionally well for him. . . . . . .He won't forget you. cheesy

3 GBOSAS FOR YOU grin

na2day?:

the question i have to ask, is what does he do in return, what has he gotten u? how does he treat u? to answer your question generally, NO but it has a comma in it. i will explain better when u have answered my questions
Forget that side jare.
Shey una dey ask men dis kain question when dey spend anyhow on women? undecided
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by sagluva(f): 4:09am On Mar 09, 2010
na2day?:

the question i have to ask, is what does he do in return, what has he gotten u? how does he treat u? to answer your question generally, NO but it has a comma in it. i will explain better when u have answered my questions
 He treats me good and he has bought me stuff here and there. Not in the same price value as wut i get him but he cant afford to do that being a student so its cool.  He tattooed my name. grin grin grin grin
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by chika98: 4:10am On Mar 09, 2010
FL Gators:

Me like wahala?
You're talking as if you dont know me. I'm the 2nd to gentlest person on this thread undecided
LOL @ jealous am. . . . no lie, talk true. Confess say na that your sugs mama grin

Chika, you hear, chic2pimp is your ideal club partner
grin grin grin grin rotfl

na true you talk? Maybe I should plan on visiting London. Busy_bodyz got a visitor.

Na ugly men full US? embarassed cry

Leave chickentoshrimp o!

This is not my first time here but the first time I am allowed to drool. Dem sabi dress plus that their accent! Jehova! embarassed grin cool
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Sauron1: 4:12am On Mar 09, 2010
chic2pimp:

3 GBOSAS FOR YOU grin

TBH, it's a give n take thingy.
The dude spends QUALITY time with the OP and she pays for his services.
She can only spend as much as she gets. . . . .
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Nobody: 4:12am On Mar 09, 2010
sagluva:

 He treats me good and he has bought me stuff here and there. Not in the same price value as wut i get him but he cant afford to do that being a student so its cool.  He tattooed my name. grin grin grin grin
@the pix in your profile, you dont look 19. Older.
You're also a student. . . . helping to buy a car? $600 gift card?

I think you should slow your roll. . . .

It'll suck if he ends up taking another chick around the neighborhood with that car.

Buy him a chewing stick, a shirt, pack of pen/pencil or even a perfume.
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by ayettymama(f): 4:13am On Mar 09, 2010
omg pataki

its a lie  shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

ithe person is soudin like my friend

no worries

i dont want to no anymore

cos if it turns out to be she wont like the outcome
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Nobody: 4:14am On Mar 09, 2010
chika98:

Leave chickentoshrimp o!

This is not my first time here but the first time I am allowed to drool. Dem sabi dress plus that their accent! Jehova! embarassed grin cool

Plz stop. You're torturing me. . . . dont worry, you'll soon come back here to the ugly men too cool

Guess I got a summer vacation location cool grin
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by ayettymama(f): 4:15am On Mar 09, 2010
pataki unquote me pls

where i mentioned the unis

i dont want anyone stalkin me
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by chic2pimp(m): 4:17am On Mar 09, 2010
sagluva:

 He treats me good and he has bought me stuff here and there. Not in the same price value as wut i get him but he cant afford to do that being a student so its cool.  He tattooed my name. grin grin grin grin
I'll Tatoo your Face on my A$$ if you spend that kind of money on me grin

ayettymama:

i love chic2pimps honesty

but u really need to change to a more suitable username

like chick2broke

chick2split bills

chic2scrub!!

grin grin grin grin grin grin
Nah so we see am ooo grin
As long as you are willing to spend on me, you can add other names to your list as well wink

FL Gators:

Me like wahala?
You're talking as if you dont know me. I'm the 2nd to gentlest person on this thread undecided
LOL @ jealous am. . . . no lie, talk true. Confess say na that your sugs mama grin

Chika, you hear, chic2pimp is your ideal club partner
grin grin grin grin rotfl

na true you talk? Maybe I should plan on visiting London. Busy_bodyz got a visitor.

Na ugly men full US? embarassed cry
No be my Sugar Mummy oo, I wish jare grin

You gentle ke? grin I laff in Ekiti grin. Gbe oshi e kuro ni bi jor tongue

P:S Nah who be the Most Gentle person on this thread?
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by sagluva(f): 4:17am On Mar 09, 2010
@ fl gators
your the first person i know who has told me i look older,  how old do i look 2 u? just curious
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Pataki: 4:18am On Mar 09, 2010
ayettymama:

omg pataki

its a lie  shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

ithe person is soudin like my friend

no worries

i dont want to no anymore

cos if it turns out to be she wont like the outcome
London is full of rich spoilt girls and I can tell you for a fact she is not your friend. grin

What outcome would that be Miss? Now you have to spill the beans to me. I am interested in this your postulation.
chika98:



This is not my first time here but the first time I am allowed to drool. Dem sabi dress plus that their accent! Jehova! embarassed grin cool
Now I get why my friends are always travelling down to America at every break they get from work. American women can trip for the British accent esp. in a black bruva.

Are you still around or you have gone back to the States?
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by chika98: 4:20am On Mar 09, 2010
Pataki:

London is full of rich spoilt girls and I can tell you for a fact she is not your friend. grin

What outcome would that be Miss? Now you have to spill the beans to me. I am interested in this your postulation.Now I get why my friends are always travelling down to America at every break they get from work. American women can trip for the British accent esp. in a black bruva.

Are you still around or you have gone back to the States?


Yes it is darn hot! nah still around these parts for a while
Re: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Nobody: 4:21am On Mar 09, 2010
sagluva:

@ fl gators
your the first person i know who has told me i look older,  how old do i look 2 u? just curious
In your early 20s. . . . 21 and up lol
Its not a bad thing, its a compliment actually.

chic2pimp:

I'll Tatoo your Face on my A$$ if you spend that kind of money on me grin

Oh that reminds me. . . . how does my face tattoo look on your a$$?
I loffed it smiley

chic2pimp:

No be my Sugar Mummy oo, I wish jare grin

You gentle ke? grin I laff in Ekiti grin. Gbe oshi e kuro ni bi jor tongue

P:S Nah who be the Most Gentle person on this thread?
My dia friend, shuttup dia.
I'm very gentle, well, atleast off NL cool

P.S Still me

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