FL Gators:

I'd loff to take you, chickling. . . . but I get sth in return. . . . you already know what

sagluva:

[quote =chic2pimp

What I'm doing commenting on Male Beauty?
Well, if you are willing to spend money on me, i'll make it worth your while
i'm not a trick but wut do u plan on doing?

Pweety4me:

_{Derailisation. .} .

chic2pimp:

Vamos from hia jor

FL Gators:

loser, male gold digga.

Pweety4me:

_{I'm not d one dat's gonna get in trouble. . .}

chic2pimp:


Neither will I

Pweety4me:

We'll see about dat *reporting* [/sub]

sagluva:

i've been reading through alot of the threads on here and i notice that alot of guys are complaining about how girls offer nothing in relationships and all they care about is money and never give anything in  return and blah, blah blah. My question is what about the girls who give alot in their relationships but dont get much in return?

Is it wrong for them to spend alot on their boyfreind? i ask this question because over the course of my relationship with my bf, i have spent alot on him,  i bought him a ps3 and video games and ralph lauren perfume for his bday, helped him pay for his car, bought him a mac for our anniversary, a 52 inch flat screen tv and $600 gift card for christmas,  alot of my friends tell me that i shouldnt be doing that and the guy will take advantage of u if u do.

So my question is, is it wrong for a girl to spend alot of money on a guy she loves?

TOPE2000!:

Are u obasanjo's daughter?
All these for a guy that might tell u later on that u r not good enuff for him anymre :-\ but if he is spending on you like that, i have no qualms

Kenny_G:

Thnx jare aha wetin! I think you are indulging him, and from your post it would appear he is milking it for all it's worth. For one, he is a student so anything beyond the basic neccesities he needs to get a degree is indulgent, buying a guy a car, mac etc is just OTT afterall if he really needs them that bad he can get a PT job. Where i really have a problem with you is what happens when he graduates and decides to loaf around for a while expecting you to keep financing him, or when you find out that he is humping a course-mate in the same car u bought him, or he is on Nairaland right now chatting up some girl in the Romance section using your Mac computer what then happens?

Ujujoan:

@ poster!

There's nothing wrong in a girl spending on a guy, but what I have a problem with is on what YOU are spending on . .

Game, TV, Car . . . C'mon!

I can invest in a guy's biz, help complete his tuition, pay for his medicals e.t.c . . that's if he's desperately broke, and I'm the President's daughter! But how can you buy a guy a game, TV? Is he going to die if he doesnt use a designers perfume?

You are doing it the worng way girl, there something fundamentally wrong with what you are doing! If you disagree, try taking a break from all that and see how fast he'll run!

parislomo:


I've been looking for this all along. It sums up my thought/perspective/understanding/et al on this matter. Thanks Uju