Armenian:

I might be old fashioned in thinking it's weird having a girl doing the spending.

Even if she has more money, i just find it normal being the one buying the
gifts for her.

Also considering how hard i think it is being a girl (physically weaker,beautiful on the inside, genetically more caring and emotional, CHILD BIRTH!!),
i just think i'd rather do they lavishing. PERIOD.

When they are in love, they give and give and give and most times are misunderstood.

Maybe im in the wrong century but that's just how i feel.
chikena.

franklampard082:

Not a bad thing to spend so much on your guy but girls that I know like that are either obesse or look kinda like weird mc or just straight out ugly. Now am not saying that you look like a boy or something but some girls do this to feel more secure in a relationship. Please don't kill me for telling you the truth cuz sooner or later, someone else would tell you the same thing.

sagluva:

@ theblessed   i should get a life? i have one thank you very much. A very happy blessed one. if u read through this post u would see that i said i am naturally a giver,  i give alot to my friends and family. On my friends bday i gave her a tiffany's bracelet and ring so its something i do for everybody that means alot to me. i enjoy seeing the happy faces on people when i give em something,  I give to the underpriviliged 2. i have family back home who dont have alot and i make sure i send em stuff.

Funny but if it was a guy who came on here and said he gave his girl all this stuff,  none would complain,  i always said it should be 50/50 in a relationship. obviously someone can afford more than the other but both should give back. its not the amount that matters but its the thought,  i would appreciate a card and a love note on valentines day more than a designer purse so my point is its the thought.

TOPE2000!:

Yea. . . . . if you going to spend money on your bf atleast spend with sense.
Why the heck do u have to buy him TV, do u live together?
u bought him Mac and all other rubbish.  u r not his mum. i wud even prefer if u help him with his tuition fees.

sagluva:

i would never spend money on a guys tuition, bills, rent or anything of that sorts. the guy can get a job and do that on his own or ask his parents to help him out. Not moi. i give gifts thats all. All these gifts were done on a special occasion. I dont just wake up one morning and decide to spend just for fun,  i'll buy little things here and there but not like that.
no we dont live together,  i live on campus/home

TOPE2000!:

So buying your bf Flat screen TV, 600dollars giftcard, Mac, playstation n all sorts are all gifts?
How many times does he do bday in a yr?

sagluva:

haha funny lol,  mac and flat screen tv were 6 month/1 year anniversary gifts, 600 gift card was a christmas gift and ps3 was a bday gift,  anyways  this thread was about if its wrong to give in general

TOPE2000!:

Biko, i have a brother ooo
Honestly there is nothing bad in spending on your bf, but he must be spending more on me.

sagluva:

haha funny lol, mac and flat screen tv were 6 month/1 year anniversary gifts, 600 gift card was a christmas gift and ps3 was a bday gift, anyways this thread was about if its wrong to give in general

TOPE2000!:

Biko, i have a brother ooo
Honestly there is nothing bad in spending on your bf, but he must be spending more on me.