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Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by precious1967(m): 11:36am On Dec 02, 2017
rubbish. shameless prostitute.
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by Audray(f): 11:37am On Dec 02, 2017
What'd you think? That he wanted to adopt you into the family?

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Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by ENG1110: 11:38am On Dec 02, 2017
No is no and yes is yes. What the man did is rape, but she cannot win the case because of her stupidity. This is one of the times I blame the victim. She wasn't tied down, and no man will spend almost 100k on you and not have sex when that's the reason he spent it. She should have left immediately she found out he is married.
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by habsydiamond(m): 11:39am On Dec 02, 2017
Na cockroach brain dey her head.......I sense she's lying...a guy raped u without be held captive for 5days and u can't run for help...u need deliverance.
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by Nobody: 11:39am On Dec 02, 2017
#EraOfTheHoes
#FuçkThem&PayTheirRent
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by chrisbaxtian(m): 11:41am On Dec 02, 2017
ubunja:
stay away from women if u love your freedom. stick to porn and masturbation. no stress.

No! I would rather visit ashewo! what's all this rubbish! angry

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Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by legitnow: 11:41am On Dec 02, 2017
E be like say rape don turn to waiting dem dey take play for Nigeria.

I am tired of this country. angry

Very serious offence is wat Nigerians joke with.

Wat a useless bunch. Somebody need to tell dem. embarassed

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Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by NwaAmaikpe: 11:43am On Dec 02, 2017
dominique:
Sheesh!!! This is the stupidest rape allegation I've ever seen. What stopped her from packing your bags and returning to her base the moment she found out he was married? So she actually lodged in the hotel with him, allowed him to take her shopping more than once, she wasn't tied and locked up in the hotel o. It's because of idiotic girls like this that real rape victims are not taken seriously and often mocked.

Truth of the matter is, she's angry either because 1) the maga has stopped paying or 2) he refused to leave his wife for her and she decided to pin a rape charge on him. Either ways she's dumb AF.
Ishilove:
This is not rape. Mscheeeew

shocked

Too many conflicting standards.

Why isn't this rape?
She said she asked him to stop, so it was non-consensual.

Shebi you people say rape is when a woman says no and the man goes ahead to debbé?

Going by that, she was raped.
But she was too liberal, naive albeit good-spirited to realize it then.
The word is overrated, misunderstood and has become a very viable option for exploitation.

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Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by rosalieene(f): 11:43am On Dec 02, 2017
No comment

this one weak me
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by Lordspenzo(m): 11:44am On Dec 02, 2017
4Ken:
If a girl says she doesn't want to do and you still force yourself on her it's rape.

If a girl follows you to a hotel or to your house or office, even if she wears a mini skirt and no undies and she doesn't consent, it's rape.

If you and the girl are doing it and after a while she says stop but you don't stop, it's rape.

A lot of Nigerian men need to understand this.
And if a lady leads u on,its sexualharassment..stp making men look like d devi

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Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by Nobody: 11:44am On Dec 02, 2017
All these fake stories... do not spend your strength on women, your vigour on those that ruin kings. Prov 31: 3. Men should start treating their semen like money. Don't just waste it. Let it work for you just like a rich man does not work for money but money works for him.

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Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by 2shure: 11:45am On Dec 02, 2017
all these okpo wey don cast badoo.com
dem many for dia
see okpo wey like osho free
abegi
did he cum inside u.
and u guys went to super market
how can i lofge a gal for5days
gone r d days wen my dic dey hard for phone.
men i go rape u every minute.
i sure say na 3star hotel
at most d man don spend like 200k or 150
den u no wan make he fuc.
u geh luck say nor be west tins.
i trust afonjas.
u deny am sex after every.
dem nor dey geh time for arguements
na sharp ogume
dem go use your head do rituals
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by Stormyharper(m): 11:45am On Dec 02, 2017
4Ken:
If a girl says she doesn't want to do and you still force yourself on her it's rape.

If a girl follows you to a hotel or to your house or office, even if she wears a mini skirt and no undies and she doesn't consent, it's rape.

If you and the girl are doing it and after a while she says stop but you don't stop, it's rape.

A lot of Nigerian men need to understand this.

I 100% agree with you. Same apply to guys if a guy said stop and the girl continue or cowgirl style it is rape if a guy doesn't want pleasuring and the girl continue to do it it's rape. Just as it is applicable to female doesn't mean guys can't say no too. Anyway with this girl I don't think she get case reason is the guy didn't kidnap her also she knew the first night why 5days on rape of sex beside 4months ago where's the DNA or evidence
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by 4Ken: 11:46am On Dec 02, 2017
Lordspenzo:

And if a lady leads u on,its sexualharassment..stp making men look like d devi

If a lady or a man flirts but doesn't consent to sex then Mr man that's rape
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by queenfav(f): 11:46am On Dec 02, 2017
This her case would be hard to win!The girl is very stupiiiidddd. So you travelled to go see a stranger without carrying any money.. Not even money to bring u back home? The man kept on raping you but she had energy to leave the hotel room to the pool side? Chilling things i guess. What stops her from calling any family member or friend to send her money. Even if its a loan, so she can get on the next bus to ph. These people should stop throwing the word "rape" around please! I no wan vex this morning. He raped you but took you shopping and you picked stuffs!Wawu. From a legal point of view, this case is dead on arrival! She clearly consented impliedly because at no point in time was she under false imprisonment. She could have left at any time!

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Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by Nobody: 11:47am On Dec 02, 2017
The way blonde girls throw the rape word around these days, it's almost as though the word 'sex' has been replaced with 'rape'.

Lawd!!!!
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by djeezy(m): 11:47am On Dec 02, 2017
As a lawyer her rape claim is weak. Save facts are twisted. I don't want to say much. In law we don't just look at express consent. We have implied consent too and all her actions can be construed as implied. It could have made a lot of difference if she had reported to the police when she was first raped. Instead she stayed all through and even went shopping with the said rapist. Like seriously that dumb. If she's being cross examined she will shed tears. Why are you in the hotel room? How many days did you stay? You had the chance to leAve but u didn't? You went shopping after the rape with the assailant? Did you report to the police? Where is your doctors report,? Do you have corroboration? Why did you exchange nude pics with the accused? What did you do when you found out he was married? Before now have you ever discussed having sex with the man, which you did discuss. Weak case. Mt chew. Lalas247 come and see o.

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Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by Grundig: 11:47am On Dec 02, 2017
This rape issue will always favour the ladies. They call the shots. The law does not favour the guys.

Guys, practice restraint.

I can't even suggest planting hidden camera or using your phone camera cos that also has it's legal implications.

Guys, just practice self restraint. It is safer.
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by legitnow: 11:48am On Dec 02, 2017
All the men here working hard to turn a very serious crime into comedy.


When ur daughters get raped be sure to see the comic relief to her trauma.


Rape is rape and that man should be arrested and charged to court.


Let him prove his innocence and the lady should provide all the evidence and attend all the court hearing.


They are both mad.
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by mpowa(m): 11:49am On Dec 02, 2017
4Ken:
If a girl says she doesn't want to do and you still force yourself on her it's rape.

If a girl follows you to a hotel or to your house or office, even if she wears a mini skirt and no undies and she doesn't consent, it's rape.

If you and the girl are doing it and after a while she says stop but you don't stop, it's rape.

A lot of Nigerian men need to understand this.
How can somebody rape you for five days, when you're not kidnapped? I'm not understanding o.. Maybe this is a new type; CONCENSUAL RAPE.

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Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by darlington15(m): 11:49am On Dec 02, 2017
The girl in question is a stupid ass mofo.

After sharing nudes and having phone intimacy,she knew he was going to have sex with her before her travel ,yet she went.

When she found out he was married,yet she stayed

When he made sexual advances to her,she still fucking stayed,
When he asked her to take a shower ,she refused but she still fucking stayed in the hotel room with him for 5 fucking days.
She went on shopping with him and enjoyed his money.
To me,this is not rape,this is a business transaction.
The man got his profit (which was sex), from his investment in her.

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Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by eph12(m): 11:53am On Dec 02, 2017
4Ken:


If a lady or a man flirts but doesn't consent to sex then Mr man that's rape
Yes it's rape but it becomes questionable when you allow it to go on for days as a matured lady and not a minor. Could it be some girls purposely say no at first so as to blackmail the guy for rape?

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Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by legitnow: 11:54am On Dec 02, 2017
darlington15:
The girl in question is a stupid ass mofo.

After sharing nudes and having phone intimacy,she knew he was going to have sex with her before her travel ,yet she went.

When she found out he was married,yet she stayed

When he made sexual advances to her,she still fucking stayed,
When he asked her to take a shower ,she refused but she still fucking stayed in the hotel room with him for 5 fucking days.
She went on shopping with him and enjoyed his money.
To me,this is not rape,this is a business transaction.
The man got his profit (which was sex), from his investment in her.


Na lie, some of us here will never allow u people to degenerate this country even worst than it is.

Imagine the attitude here.

U people want to normalise rape.

It wont happen, the price will be too heavy.
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by Nobody: 11:57am On Dec 02, 2017
Omo before we straff we go sign contract nii
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by Nobody: 11:58am On Dec 02, 2017
Daeylar:


Truth,
this girl is a joker and deserves to be arrested,
Rape is not a word to be used lightly by fools and imbeciles,



You found out he was married, you didn't pack your bag and go, you stayed in the hotel, the next day you went for shopping,
Mtcchheeeewwwwwwww
I stopped reading after that part,

The whole point of the visit was to have sex, she said that much, she comes, finds out he is married and says she won't have sex because he married, so why not leave? Why didnt she leave at that point?
Knowing quite well that she isn't ready to have sex with him because he is married. Furthermore she wasn't held against her will so she could have left at any time, but she decided to stay. And go for shopping.

She needs to be arrested and sent to jail, so that people will know better than to use rape as a joke or for their attention seeking antics or to punish a man they don't like.
I couldn't agree less. She is a bitch.

dae, I will be sending Santa to you with a bag of Baby supplies & Essentials.

Counting down * winks*

#NoBitchAttitude
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by Horlufemi(m): 11:58am On Dec 02, 2017
It's a fabricated story.

Next!!
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by ashawopikin(m): 12:00pm On Dec 02, 2017
She must be crazy, shopping for five good days. d fact dAT we ate in December no mean say d man na father Christmas, what was she expecting
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by legitnow: 12:03pm On Dec 02, 2017
Horlufemi:
It's a fabricated story.

Next!!


Exactly, I think all this story going around social media should be taken with a pinch of salt.


I seriously sense that somebody somewhere is behind the fake story.


They want to discredit the offence of rape and by so doing normalize it.


I have always been a strong advocate of justice and as such I will never support any acts of criminality.


Rape is a very serious offence and those who take part in it should be dealt with severely.


It is an important deterant, that helps us to maintain family values of morality and decency.


Now that is not saying that i dont like sex like any other man but sex must be consensual and even better in marriage.


This country is in the gutter, even whilst in the gutter we still have a duty to keep the gutter clean.
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by adecz: 12:04pm On Dec 02, 2017
You
1) Exchanged nude pix

2) Had phone intimacy

3) traveled to Abuja to meet him

4)checked into hotel with him

5) denied him sex for 2 days

6)enjoyed several days of continuous shopping

And then you said he raped you??

The guy is a perfect gentleman....

Just enjoy his money & stop all this
'Rape' nonsense... Cock teaser!! angry

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Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by helpee(m): 12:04pm On Dec 02, 2017
4Ken:
If a girl says she doesn't want to do and you still force yourself on her it's rape.

If a girl follows you to a hotel or to your house or office, even if she wears a mini skirt and no undies and she doesn't consent, it's rape.

If you and the girl are doing it and after a while she says stop but you don't stop, it's rape.

A lot of Nigerian men need to understand this.
so if the guy is about to COME when the girl says STOP....should the man keep COMING OR HE SHOULD START GOING...What if by nature the COME refused to go BACK..you will still blame the innocent guy who couldnt help but COME instead of GOING?

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Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by Edipee(m): 12:05pm On Dec 02, 2017
;D5 grin grin grin grin grin
ayokellany:


What do we call a reverse situation where the man ask the lady to stop but she did not. Does that pass for rape against the lady as well ?
Re: Lady Lodged In Hotel By Married Man For 5 Days Threatens To Sue Him For Rape by Afrobasic(m): 12:06pm On Dec 02, 2017
These kind of stories water down the criminality of a real rape case.

These days, when I see a thread on rape, I'm just like Mehhh. undecided

Too many females want to be victims thereby taking attention away from the real victims.

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