XhosaNostra:


I don't wanna scare him off too early. Lala gusha ndikuchebe


I'm loving this morning. Nice weather. Rain but no thunder. A much needed break from the heat. How are things your sides.

Lol, people are so mean. Look what they say about Bonang's "kiss kiss".

LMFAO

LMFAO, listen to this one . Now you sound xhosa as besitsho

Great , the weather is forgiving as always.


LMAO, never knew she has a kiss kiss . Lol , people are mean look at them comparing her to zintle .

Splinz:


What is freakin alright in giving that extortioner such a huge sum

What a lousy thief!

Birds of a feather flock together. See her saying ,'Biko, just give her the money'. It means she would or has already done same. I'm very angry right now.

the worst thing is she said; we won't get married, if you don't give me 500k"

ladies and guys defending her, you guys should explain that statement... if she wants to buy something is that the tone to use??

guys nobody needs a soothsayer to tell us this bitch is going to dump the guy whenever he runs out of money... this life isn't a playground... there are some mistakes you make that you'll live to regret till ur death. don't make those mistakes

Love is Unconditional. If She loves you as claimed, she will never bring up issues that will hinder your marriage plans. Whether you have it or not, her request shows that whatever thing that made her agreed to your proposal is "deception". A woman is a Man merger hence a manager, she is a helper to man. Your wife to be is suppose to help you cut down the marriage cost rather than inflating the cost by ridiculous demands. In my opinion She is Iyawo Asiko and her love is condition. At this point I remember the song of one musician " when money dey, woman go come, when money no dey, woman go run" She is a typical example of this kind of woman.

Let your direct siblings know about this, let your parent hear about it. Hear their opinions, make use of the good one and discard the others. Well as long as I am concern. She either isn't ready for marriage, not in love with you, in love with the material things you do give me or she's a woman of circumstances. Not every woman is a wife.

Marriage is a life contract. And the Doctrine of God does not permit divorce

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Splinz:


What is freakin alright in giving that extortioner such a huge sum

What a lousy thief!

I wonder o.

pls run for your life, she does not love

Lionessza:




LMFAO, listen to this one . Now you sound xhosa as besitsho

Great , the weather is forgiving as always.


LMAO, never knew she has a kiss kiss . Lol , people are mean look at them comparing her to zintle .

Kikikiki. No rush. Until we get him home, sibethi'zinto nge-timing

Btw, the girl in the middle is the one AKA was rumoured to be cheating on "B" with. He could be dating her now, hence the comparison between the 3. It's interesting how he moves from one relationship to the next, without even breathing. As for B, what goes up must come down. He showed her that you cannot trust a guy who cheated on someone else to be with you. Now she can go find another guy to lockdown in that kiss kiss. Kuthiwa people with kiss madolo bamnandi, I guess because they're locking in all that heat, no escape

to me the issue isn't the money..
I know how women thing's are if you have the money to give her to wahala.
the issue here is the condition attached to it..
be honest with yourself if things go bad for you will she stand by you...
if you want that amount of money there's a right way to do it not blackmail her seems as if she's gonna do you a favor by marrying you..
oga run

bidv:
Nairalander I bring greetings from the other side,

I have this lady I'm currently in relationship with for 2 years now, early last year I proposed to her and she said "YES" following that I introduced her to my family and the both families got to know each other, December we Did a mini introduction (Knocking at the door), my plans is for us to get married this April. My overall budget is 2M for everything (I don't want to spend too much for wedding). Now the problem is, my fiancée is asking for 500K to buy her personal needs for the wedding that's excluding her family lists. She said without the 500K she's not interested in the wedding. I believe she's asking because she knows I have it. I really love her and I don't want to loose her, should I give her or I should let go? Please I need a good advice of what to do.

OP a lady said if u don't give her a particular amount of money, he will dump u and u accept

XhosaNostra:



Kikikiki. No rush. Until we get him home, sibethi'zinto nge-timing

Btw, the girl in the middle is the one AKA was rumoured to be cheating on "B" with. He could be dating her now, hence the comparison between the 3. It's interesting how he moves from one relationship to the next, without even breathing. As for B, what goes up must come down. He showed her that you cannot trust a guy who cheated on someone else to be with you. Now she can go find another guy to lockdown in that kiss kiss. Kuthiwa people with kiss madolo bamnandi, I guess because they're locking in all that heat, no escape

Awe .


Oh , didn't know he's moved on already wowu. Ja , she was happy when he was rubbing their relationship on zinhle's face , let her take this one. Lmfao, really? Never heard of that but it would make some sense , plus nezigweqe . I've heard of eye clit e ngaphandle buy just don't get it .

Your fiancee wants to pay her boyfriend off with the N500k she is demanding. I am sure she will continue paying the guy even after marriage. think!!!

Lionessza:



Awe .


Oh , didn't know he's moved on already wowu. Ja , she was happy when he was rubbing their relationship on zinhle's face , let her take this one. Lmfao, really? Never heard of that but it would make some sense , plus nezigweqe . I've heard of eye clit e ngaphandle buy just don't get it .

Lol, I don't know about "brackets", but I've also heard le yamalebe Andithi girls from Limpopo go to the mountains bayotsalana amalebe from what I've heard. Kuthiwa ane-vice grip But to me they look disgusting lol. I wouldn't have sex with someone with flappy "things". Ha!

kimbraa:
Please give her the money. You said your budget was around 2M, you can give her and bring your budget down to 1.5m. Secondly, overlook those saying you shouldn't marry her 'cause the threat was to make you give the money, though it was wrong of her to place a condition to it but she may be one of those who don't know how to demand for things as others do. I believe a good wedding gown should cost close to that amount, she'll add make up, shoes, and whatnot. Abi, is there something else she needed the money for?

you are no different from the lady you trying to defend

After reading your comments, I had a big relief.

franchasng:
Men and women beauty eh

I am sure the op's fiance is very cute and highly loaded back and front like G-wagon, reason he cant reason well again even with clear signs, pity men

I used to have a very hot, as in over hot girlfriend like this, she was so cute and sexy that my friends always ask me guy are u sure u want to marry this chick weh fine like mami iwota so

She's from a rich family o, but see demanding and once u don't grant her demand she will start crying and that makes me weak

She used this on me and whenever I make up my mind to walk away after friend's advice me, once I see her again and her over beauty enters my head and i am back to caring for her again, poor me

Until i began to socialise and met other hot girls then i was delivered and I walked away finally, she is still begging to come back and promising to have changed but fear no wan gree me go back lol

Op, man up and walk away, she is not good for u, once she meets her dream man, she will be begging him to come wed her even for free, thats how ladies are. They form kingkong when they dont love u deeply enough but once they do like my ex who is now pleading and pledging to be the best woman she never was, they will do anything to keep u.

Dont let her beauty overshadow your good reasoning, walk away now and dont go back! Let her learn from this and be good to the next guy she will meet

The truth is, woman need money and if no get money hide your face make another man pikin run your race

Really?

XhosaNostra:


Lol, I don't know about "brackets", but I've also heard le yamalebe Andithi girls from Limpopo go to the mountains bayotsalana amalebe from what I've heard. Kuthiwa ane-vice grip But to me they look disgusting lol. I wouldn't have sex with someone with flappy "things". Ha!

Nam never heard about the brackets , but was just thinking it should be so lol. Ja , I've heard that and they are very secretive about it but I've seen it and hay , thanx shame...I prefer leyam . Lol, oh!. They do look scary , no wonder bengafuni ibonwe ( once had a roommate from pha).

SweetPuffPuff:
its 7pm. its u who should sleep

ok,which part of the world are you?

Scam alert!!!!

May God help us all....... There is no big deal in giving her d money. I guess Maybe she want to use it for her wedding needs I. E wedding gown, traditional wears., bridal shower, jewelry e.t. c. And u also mention dat she know u ar capable of giving her and u love her. Why not give her den just dat its shouldn't be a MUST... she can't force u to give her. Or maybe u shld try nd confuse her dat u can only her some amount u can afford.

bidv:
That's exactly my fear, because she knows I can afford that, tomorrow might be something more bigger

your on your own bro lol. you why I got no advice for you? I know what it is to fall in love and I'm 90% sure everything that was said here you'd would listen to them either good or bad that psychological bro so I'd just grab a pop corn n a bottle of coke and wait until the deeds is been done n love cleared from your eyes before I talk but then I hope it's not to late tho

but op a lady asking 500k before proceeding to a marriage I guess that should send a message down into you. tbh the stuff sounds funny isn't it to you to?

Lionessza:



Nam never heard about the brackets , but was just thinking it should be so lol. Ja , I've heard that and they are very secretive about it but I've seen it and hay , thanx shame...I prefer leyam . Lol, oh!. They do look scary , no wonder bengafuni ibonwe ( once had a roommate from pha).

But some of them do talk. Or it's because I know how to get someone to spill the beans Bathi they insert a stick pha & wena you must grip it tight. They also teach them uku-mover lol & other sex related things. It's kind of weird because they say it's old ladies teaching them all this. Kinda gqwirhy if you ask me

I've seen natural malebe though. Lol, my cousin has them + a former friend. The friend had to wear tights underneath because ayekhuhlana. Ewwwwww.

donstan18:
This one you are typing 500k and 2 million up and down, how are we sure you are not owning MTN and GLO!

Below is MY ADVICE

This woman you claimed to love and want to marry, have you asked and confirmed why she wants to marry you?

Is she really inlove with you?
Is she marrying you for love or for money?
Will a lady who loves you attempt such demand?
A lady threatening to call off your wedding if she doesn't get 500k from you should be a clear act to tell you what the future holds.
Be brave!
Think like a man!
Save the future!
Don't be blinded by boobs and ass!
Marriage should be a lifetime contract!

And if I ever hear I REALLY LOVE HER from your mouth again, eh!... If I hear it again!!, If i hear that nonsense again from your mouth!

Imagine the nerves, calling of the wedding. If she dosent get 500k. If the guy like, Make him no wise. Some women hv no business being married. That's if the story is true sha. Maka ndi nairaland di egwu

Annibel:
Like you said... YOU LOVE HER...
Biko just give her the money. issorite

Annibel:


stop calling somebody's wife thief na...

Lmao!.... Highest sarcasm I've seen on Nairaland!!...

What is N500k... Jesus Christ n die for you for Free

bidv:
Nairalander I bring greetings from the other side,

I have this lady I'm currently in relationship with for 2 years now, early last year I proposed to her and she said "YES" following that I introduced her to my family and the both families got to know each other, December we Did a mini introduction (Knocking at the door), my plans is for us to get married this April. My overall budget is 2M for everything (I don't want to spend too much for wedding). Now the problem is, my fiancée is asking for 500K to buy her personal needs for the wedding that's excluding her family lists. She said without the 500K she's not interested in the wedding. I believe she's asking because she knows I have it. I really love her and I don't want to loose her, should I give her or I should let go? Please I need a good advice of what to do.

Nigerian ladies have been foolish.

Attaching conditions to relationships. You are a chicken. The only condition in marriage is Love and Understanding. Money is for comfort, not submission tactics.

What if when you want to have sex with your wife, she says N5,000 or no sex. Then you will open another thread to ask childish questions.

donstan18:
This one you are typing 500k and 2 million up and down, how are we sure you are not owning MTN and GLO!

Below is MY ADVICE

This woman you claimed to love and want to marry, have you asked and confirmed why she wants to marry you?

Is she really inlove with you?
Is she marrying you for love or for money?
Will a lady who loves you attempt such demand?
A lady threatening to call off your wedding if she doesn't get 500k from you should be a clear act to tell you what the future holds.
Be brave!
Think like a man!
Save the future!
Don't be blinded by boobs and ass!
Marriage should be a lifetime contract!

And if I ever hear I REALLY LOVE HER from your mouth again, eh!... If I hear it again!!, If i hear that nonsense again from your mouth!

My brother thanks for hitting the dude (lover boy) below the belt. He wants let us know he's a BIG BOY. Na today we dey hear dis kind story ?

bidv:
Nairalander I bring greetings from the other side,

I have this lady I'm currently in relationship with for 2 years now, early last year I proposed to her and she said "YES" following that I introduced her to my family and the both families got to know each other, December we Did a mini introduction (Knocking at the door), my plans is for us to get married this April. My overall budget is 2M for everything (I don't want to spend too much for wedding). Now the problem is, my fiancée is asking for 500K to buy her personal needs for the wedding that's excluding her family lists. She said without the 500K she's not interested in the wedding. I believe she's asking because she knows I have it. I really love her and I don't want to loose her, should I give her or I should let go? Please I need a good advice of what to do.

If all u said is truth, the faults is all urs
Coz for u to come out openly and tell d world u have #2m budgeted for the wedding.. Its very clear u will have told her worth over $200m... For her to accepted ur proposal..... Well its good to show money to ur woman, but she should also no when u are broke too...the people u are gonna spend the rest of ur life with shouldn't be a misery to u...
All u need to do it to test her
Tell her u are in bankrupt... That people u owe are coming to seize all ur property... U need her help...u can't do a lousy wedding again...u want very low key wedding.
And dis one u are bragging about money some girls are watching they will just destroy ur home coz no girl wanna suffer..
Ignore my typos jare...

XhosaNostra:


But some of them do talk. Or it's because I know how to get someone to spill the beans Bathi they insert a stick pha & wena you must grip it tight. They also teach them uku-mover lol & other sex related things. It's kind of weird because they say it's old ladies teaching them all this. Kinda gqwirhy if you ask me

I've seen natural malebe though. Lol, my cousin has them + a former friend. The friend had to wear tights underneath because ayekhuhlana. Ewwwwww.

Lol, maybe you know how to cokovisa. Ouch! . Hayi maan , how are these Gogos kanti ? . That's so sick , I can't imagine looking my grandmother in the eye after that , yho lol. Like I said the other day some cultural things I sense buloyi kuzo . This is kinda over the top, haybo. So basically , we are incompetetion with formally trained sistas sinyile mos.


Ja , I know about the natural ones but le ka girl was something a little bit graphic for me . It's disturbing to look at , even for 1 sec lol. Aqinile amadoda out there yerrr.

donstan18:
This one you are typing 500k and 2 million up and down, how are we sure you are not owning MTN and GLO!

Below is MY ADVICE

This woman you claimed to love and want to marry, have you asked and confirmed why she wants to marry you?

Is she really inlove with you?
Is she marrying you for love or for money?
Will a lady who loves you attempt such demand?
A lady threatening to call off your wedding if she doesn't get 500k from you should be a clear act to tell you what the future holds.
Be brave!
Think like a man!
Save the future!
Don't be blinded by boobs and ass!
Marriage should be a lifetime contract!

And if I ever hear I REALLY LOVE HER from your mouth again, eh!... If I hear it again!!, If i hear that nonsense again from your mouth!

No mind that dude. Six months from here, he'll be back opening a new thread, "Please, I need your advice, my wife......."

franchasng:
Men and women beauty eh

I am sure the op's fiance is very cute and highly loaded back and front like G-wagon, reason he cant reason well again even with clear signs, pity men

I used to have a very hot, as in over hot girlfriend like this, she was so cute and sexy that my friends always ask me guy are u sure u want to marry this chick weh fine like mami iwota so

She's from a rich family o, but see demanding and once u don't grant her demand she will start crying and that makes me weak

She used this on me and whenever I make up my mind to walk away after friend's advice me, once I see her again and her over beauty enters my head and i am back to caring for her again, poor me

Until i began to socialise and met other hot girls then i was delivered and I walked away finally, she is still begging to come back and promising to have changed but fear no wan gree me go back lol

Op, man up and walk away, she is not good for u, once she meets her dream man, she will be begging him to come wed her even for free, thats how ladies are. They form kingkong when they dont love u deeply enough but once they do like my ex who is now pleading and pledging to be the best woman she never was, they will do anything to keep u.

Dont let her beauty overshadow your good reasoning, walk away now and dont go back! Let her learn from this and be good to the next guy she will meet

Where do I send ur kisses and hugs to?

donstan18:
This one you are typing 500k and 2 million up and down, how are we sure you are not owning MTN and GLO!

Below is MY ADVICE

This woman you claimed to love and want to marry, have you asked and confirmed why she wants to marry you?

Is she really inlove with you?
Is she marrying you for love or for money?
Will a lady who loves you attempt such demand?
A lady threatening to call off your wedding if she doesn't get 500k from you should be a clear act to tell you what the future holds.
Be brave!
Think like a man!
Save the future!
Don't be blinded by boobs and ass!
Marriage should be a lifetime contract!

And if I ever hear I REALLY LOVE HER from your mouth again, eh!... If I hear it again!!, If i hear that nonsense again from your mouth!

My guy take