cyrilamx:
Are you serious? Then let chat. I don't have a car yet and I don't pose with any? Am seriously looking for that help mate.

Prechbills:




you balling boy... that's how we roll.. make that fvcking cash and fvck the hell outta the damn pussies.. if she was fat when you started fvcking her by the time you're done she should be slim and lousy.. no regrets, that's for my money! their future husbands gonna suffer the blow

MissRaine69:

Does it matter if your end goal is just to do a drive by?
If you have no intention of getting to know the person mode of communication is irrelevant.

If the intent is on building a foundation finding out essential detail via chat is necessary for instance if you have anything of substance to actully talk about if and when you do meet face to face. Nothing depresses me more like small talk.

gloria34:
and ur d.p? lol, I Dont hate guys with cars, I detest their mentality and right now, relationships are not on my agenda. trying to put my stuffs together, thanks

46arcadez:


Face to Face bro.
Chatting doesnt work for a lady that is serious.
I had to quit today cus of this knowingly fully well that my gal is one stone throw away

EgunMogaji:


Who cares?

Man up, cowboy. Be a man and lead.

Egun “male chauvinist pig” Mogaji

unyted:
Exactly. You have to be funny to take a woman interested. Be funny and bust her balls. Just roll and never take anything too serious early on

softwhispers:

You again!��‍♀️
Boyfriend you nor want, girlfriend you nor want
Ehn?

swiz123:


You talk true!!!!!

PrimadonnaO:
For me, I like a prior acquaintanceship via chats. It's a phase by phase thing for me. First, we chat and I decide if I want to even bother talking to you over the phone, before we can even think about having live conversations.

Personally, I think it makes for better interactions. When you do eventually hang out, you wouldn't be short of words after the perfunctory small talk.

BrideOfDracula:
Face to face for me because I'm an analyzer & an observer by nature.

I'm also big on body language. Sometimes when a person is talking, I can hear the things they're not saying just by looking at them. It's easier for me to "read" a person when they're sitting right infront of me.

Chatting is probably the worst way of communicating imo. One) Because of different styles of communication. Some people can go hours or days without responding. Whereas, I'm very methodical & quick to respond. So when someone "takes their time" to respond, honestly, I get angry. I feel disrespected.
Two) I'm impatient & I like communication to flow. That's impossible with chatting because there's always going to be a "waiting period" in between, which sorta kills the vibe for me.

gloria34:
its not like that o, I just want to b me 4 d main time, when I finally go into a relationship, I will value it and not cause d guy problems. i also need to check well, i nor want problem either

BrideOfDracula:
Face to face for me because I'm an analyzer & an observer by nature.

I'm also big on body language. Sometimes when a person is talking, I can hear the things they're not saying just by looking at them. It's easier for me to "read" a person when they're sitting right infront of me.

Chatting is probably the worst way of communicating imo. One) Because of different styles of communication. Some people can go hours or days without responding. Whereas, I'm very methodical & quick to respond. So when someone "takes their time" to respond, honestly, I get angry. I feel disrespected.
Two) I'm impatient & I like communication to flow. That's impossible with chatting because there's always going to be a "waiting period" in between, which sorta kills the vibe for me.

gloria34:
and ur d.p? lol, I Dont hate guys with cars, I detest their mentality and right now, relationships are not on my agenda. trying to put my stuffs together, thanks

Shugarlord213:
I don’t know what you people are saying. I have taken women as h.oes and treated all Nigerian girls as the same.

I stopped dealing with women for 5 months to enable me save money to buy a car, because with a car you have unlimited access to their kitty even your friends wives and girls will follow you just so you know how cheap they are.

Once I fvck a naija gal, I just drop her at the busstop and leave #500 for her hand. Sometimes as soon as she steps off my car, I zoom off

If the girl like male she call me again if she doesn’t call me I get over 40 number ladies women way day disturb me for WhatsApp

Why spend for a leech when you got a car and bills to pay. I even bought a dog so to tell you I can’t afford to spend money on another being with complete legs and hands

Guys get sense pls and pls. Get a car if you don’t have. If you are on leggedis benz we way get car go fvck your babe and we don’t care how you feel atall

Shugarlord213:
I don’t know what you people are saying. I have taken women as h.oes and treated all Nigerian girls as the same.

I stopped dealing with women for 5 months to enable me save money to buy a car, because with a car you have unlimited access to their kitty even your friends wives and girls will follow you just so you know how cheap they are.

Once I fvck a naija gal, I just drop her at the busstop and leave #500 for her hand. Sometimes as soon as she steps off my car, I zoom off

If the girl like male she call me again if she doesn’t call me I get over 40 number ladies women way day disturb me for WhatsApp

Why spend for a leech when you got a car and bills to pay. I even bought a dog so to tell you I can’t afford to spend money on another being with complete legs and hands

Guys get sense pls and pls. Get a car if you don’t have. If you are on leggedis benz we way get car go fvck your babe and we don’t care how you feel atall

BrideOfDracula:
Face to face for me because I'm an analyzer & an observer by nature.

I'm also big on body language. Sometimes when a person is talking, I can hear the things they're not saying just by looking at them. It's easier for me to "read" a person when they're sitting right infront of me.

Chatting is probably the worst way of communicating imo. One) Because of different styles of communication. Some people can go hours or days without responding. Whereas, I'm very methodical & quick to respond. So when someone "takes their time" to respond, honestly, I get angry. I feel disrespected.
Two) I'm impatient & I like communication to flow. That's impossible with chatting because there's always going to be a "waiting period" in between, which sorta kills the vibe for me.

gloria34:
if she have nothing upstairs and can't chat, y do u thing a facial confrontation will b any better

chinedubrazil:

me na worst
you hardly see me outside.
To speak english face to face with u is like nigeria biafra war

funmisticqueen:
Face to face, chatting is for cheap people. I dont do chat

gloria34:
I think I have to hold d person behind this Monika in high esteem

Martin0:



oh now I know

ahamonyeka:
you catch op for there.

DWJOBScom:

We actually row the same boat. Bolder behind the screen

softwhispers:

1. A relationship should never make you into someone else - you can be you in a healthy relationship

2. You ‘fall’ in love, not ‘go into’ love - it must be spontaneous, unplanned, exhilarating

3. Love will be the gift you give yourself, or at least, so says Celine Dion

More to the topic at hand, I find that instant messaging excludes you from so many vocal cues that can enrich your conversation with a lady and up your ‘chaiking’ game

Is she talking too slowly, in a whispers? (Network may delay an instant reply)
Does she sound tense, worried, unhappy? (She will just type nvm)
Does she catch your jokes, laugh heartily? (LOL is the biggest scam ever)

BrideOfDracula:


What do you know? You mean the WhatsApp thing? I told you the truth before lol. I don't use chatting apps because I know how I am. An entire friendship or relationship could be ruined because of how slow someone responds. I honestly don't have the patience to wait. I'm the type that'll give you 3 hrs maximum to respond, after that it's not good.

A friend & I were exchanging messages about two months ago. She initiated the conversation, btw. After the last text I sent to her, she didn't respond until this past Saturday. Am I stupid? You didn't respond to my message & you expect me to act like everything is OK? It's unacceptable! See Marty, when we communicate, I expect a closing. Let's say "Bye". DO NOT leave me hanging & expect me not to take it personal. I'm petty like that A friendship WILL end if you don't show consideration for my time.

AlexCk:
depends.
people are difference.

some prefer chatting, they are sooo good with chats, but face-to-face, they are terrible, while others cant chat at all, but when you talk to them on the phone or face-to-face, mehn, they can talk for Africa.

Martin0:



oh I see, just like how it taking me time to reply you now

BrideOfDracula:


Lol, I don't mind how long it takes for someone to respond here. I'm not emotionally invested. Offline with the people I care about though, it's a different story.

Tripleclick:
Looll........ *faints*
Me de try sha.. might talk other issues with the girl... But to chick her? That one is a big mountain to climb

Martin0:



OK, let go out, go take a shower and get dressed up assap