Lonestar124:
Jacob in the bible married his two wives when he was servant to their father...I don't know how he cope with them.

Our sophisticated mentality is ruining us to zero and we think we are going higher.

Let change our way of thinking.

Relationship is love not financial stipulation.May God bless you for saying this you are really a wise person

ivolt:

Please reread his posts. He hates money and hates anybody who loves it. About making money, if you get a million naira gift from someone will you reject it because you didn't "make it"?
You made any money you attract to yourself whether through cutting grass or from a friend. No money is superior!

Ximenez:
So what will happen if they are together and work together? Instead of saying she should work for hers and he should work for his.

In a relationship, what partners need most from each other are the things that money can't buy. There are situations whereby it will be the lady that will help the guy in the beginning before things will eventually get better for them.

I used to have a man as a neighbour then that once said he wouldn't mind if any of his daughters should come home with a road side mechanic as a fiance, meaning he is more concerned with the happiness of his daughters than anything else.

About my sisters. I am the first child and I have only sister that I love so much. If she comes home with a broke/poor guy, that's not even a problem at all as long as they are in love with each other and the guy makes her happy. As long as the guy is not poor in vision and ambition, we are going to help them, my dad is there, mum, uncles, aunties. Poverty and brokenness will be forgotten and they will be happy.


But most of you ladies that you call yourself slayqueen, you just want to enter a yahoo boy's car or one Alhaji who will give you instant cash, that's why majority end up being used for rituals.

Shugavee:
being poor is different from being broke!! Asin u want a lady to cm into ur life to suffer with you!! Would u pray for that to ur sisters!!! If u don’t hv let her work n make hers while u work n make urs, it’s simple as abc

safarigirl:
They can toast whoever they like. My own is they should not come online later and start whining about how all girls are gold diggers

Nigerian men have PHD in whining as if no be them enter the gbege by themselves. Na ojukokoro go kill most of them

ubunja:

shugavee - ubunja your mother is a whorè
kimbraa - ubunja you're broke
phreshy - ubunja you're hurt.


just see how crazy you all are. make up your mind.!!!

koffsman:
Actually it's time to hustle but in the main time if you have a lady in mind walk up to her if she still av sense and you Tel her your plans and she sees you have a future not just a dreamer why not u can toast or woo because to me Love don't cost a thing

ivolt:

I agree that you are jobless. I mean what kind of engaged man write many insulting posts on a thread about money. Since you love poverty, why not leave those who love money alone and enjoy your beautiful impoverished life?

ivolt:

The truth is you can't stand those who are running companies. When you finally arrive, you will start aiming for those broke ones who will be dependent on you.

Shugavee:
I know they gonna eat me raw, but do I care? Absolutely not!!


So now when I mean broke not probably that u don’t hv a car or something, do u feel it’s okay for a guy who can’t afford a date or maybe just surprise u sometime with little gifts should bother toasting a girl,, asin as little as u can afford!!! How can u start toasting a girl with I am broke I am broke suffer with me money is coming? Does that make sense??

Shugavee:
now u r just being pained!! I am not saying he has to be a millionaire or something!! But he shouldn’t meet a girl for her to suffer with him!!! If he is a meat seller he can get her mama out of 300 coke of 100!! 1k when she needs it !!! Not I am broke suffer with me!!! Please u guys need to do better!!! All these ritual talk is not an excuse!!! They can both work together to make a better life for themselves but not at the beginning

ApostleLucifer:




Is this how you 'hustled'?

ApostleLucifer:
Why did pocohantas, our very own alpha feminist & relationship expert cheat on her boyfriend (serially)?

kimbraa:
Op is right. Instead of chasing skirts while broke, channel your energy in making money.

Ximenez:
Love is different from what we see around these days, it might come when you are poor or when you are rich, but the problem is that it might only come once and if you don't take that chance you might never get it again.


These days what we have is people writing down specs and going about looking for people who fits into those specs and for most girls it revolves around money.

That's why marriages don't last these days. You see people paying 2m for bride price, 5m for wedding and another 2m for honeymoon ending the marriage after few months with a text message of 4Naira, because they've missed their ideal partners in the past because they didn't meet/see them in the position they envisaged then.

Shugavee:
I know they gonna eat me raw, but do I care? Absolutely not!!


So now when I mean broke not probably that u don’t hv a car or something, do u feel it’s okay for a guy who can’t afford a date or maybe just surprise u sometime with little gifts should bother toasting a girl,, asin as little as u can afford!!! How can u start toasting a girl with I am broke I am broke suffer with me money is coming? Does that make sense??

Ximenez:
Love is different from what we see around these days, it might come when you are poor or when you are rich, but the problem is that it might only come once and if you don't take that chance you might never get it again.


These days what we have is people writing down specs and going about looking for people who fits into those specs and for most girls it revolves around money.

That's why marriages don't last these days. You see people paying 2m for bride price, 5m for wedding and another 2m for honeymoon ending the marriage after few months with a text message of 4Naira, because they've missed their ideal partners in the past because they didn't meet/see them in the position they envisaged then.

Shugavee:
Story for the gods!!! Don’t be broke n toast a girl!! Simple!!! Cry me a river

Ximenez:
pained for what exactly? I think i might have overestimated you,but when i saw 300, 100 and coke i now know the category that which you belong.

TheUbermensch:



So ultimately a relationship is built on love, never money.

Correct.

But anyone with such view should be 100% submissive to her man. As in completely.

Lonestar124:
Jacob in the bible married his two wives when he was servant to their father...I don't know how he cope with them.

Our sophisticated mentality is ruining us to zero and we think we are going higher.

Let change our way of thinking.

Relationship is love not financial stipulation.

Shugavee:
being poor is different from being broke!! Asin u want a lady to cm into ur life to suffer with you!! Would u pray for that to ur sisters!!! If u don’t hv let her work n make hers while u work n make urs, it’s simple as abc

Shugavee:
I know they gonna eat me raw, but do I care? Absolutely not!!


So now when I mean broke not probably that u don’t hv a car or something, do u feel it’s okay for a guy who can’t afford a date or maybe just surprise u sometime with little gifts should bother toasting a girl,, asin as little as u can afford!!! How can u start toasting a girl with I am broke I am broke suffer with me money is coming? Does that make sense??

Creamz:


What is your definition of broke in the first place? For me when i had no job and had NOTHING MUCH, my woman believed in me and my dreams as all i had at the time were my DREAMS. She nulged me to sucess. Seeing her believing in me made me work harder. Today she is my wife. She never met me already made. Today she lives in a duplex owned by me and I'm planning on getting her a car for her next birthday as she just gave me a handsome baby boy. Sometimes all you need is someone to believe in your dreams not necessarily in how large your pocket is ATM.