Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,194,517 members, 7,954,965 topics. Date: Saturday, 21 September 2024 at 01:22 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding (61510 Views)
Who Is Tracy? Pregnant Woman Quizzes Her Husband Who Insists He Is Not Cheating / Foreigner Flies To Nigeria To Wed His Lover At Ikoyi Registry (video) / Don’t Trust Any Of This Girls On The Street...they All Coded Olosho (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (10) (11) (12) (13) (14) (15) (16) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by amethystnnty1: 8:26pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
Ziggylady: Guess what he'll most likely get married to someone of his level or less or someone who sees in him potential for a higher status/resources/higher utility value. I can bet you no girl will agree to marry him if she thinks she's higher than him. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Kimcutie: 8:29pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
MhisTahrah:You mean the ones whom women manipulate? |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by DatIjebuBoi: 8:51pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
teebee22:He has to!!.Can u trust someone who does not trust you?,He needs it for the same reason she does if not she should give him the original and be content with the photocopies or she should do what I suggested earlier.its funny how women say things like bad influence,not being a real man when things dont go their way because the reason the wife is holding to the certificate is to protect herself and their is nothing wrong with that.what I have a problem with is the fact when the man wants the same protection he is supposedly influenced by bad people. 3 Likes |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Waffarianman(m): 9:14pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
manomam: Pics of the solar charger or Idonbliv it |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by bebe2(f): 9:20pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
LaudableXX: I worked till till the year I had my daughter, it was the same a the boyfriend of a childminder was putting his penniss in a babies mouth to us as sucker. No amount of money can make me leave my child to a stranger. Stop comparing the abuse of a child with the wrong choices a young adult might make in university. Think of urself before ur 13th birthday and unwilling understand wat am trying to say. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Waffarianman(m): 9:24pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
manomam: |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 9:40pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
Kimcutie:No. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by LaudableXX: 10:42pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
bebe2:Oh, did you get the boyfriend arrested? I hope you did. It would serve as a deterrent to others. Now where exactly did I compare the abuse of a young child, to the the wrong choices a young adult might make in university? I merely pointed out, that kids who have been so highly sheltered by having their mums around 24x7, might not be able to take independent decisions by the time they are left on their own, with no one to monitor their choices. Hence, they could end up going astray. As a 13 year old, I was in govt-owned boarding school, and among the top students in my class. That school was in a totally different state from where my parents lived, and it was a 5-6 hour journey by road, from home. You were only allowed visitors, once in 3-months. No phone calls, except direct ones made to the principal's office. I grew, I learnt, I thrived and got smart. By the time I got into a public university, I was well-prepared to face life head on! Please note that I spoke about taking a job/career/business that allows proper supervision and monitoring of your home and children. I never suggested that you should leave your child alone with a stranger. Many working mothers these days, take their kids along with their maids to the creche or to the daycare centre close to their offices, while they are at work. They pop in at regular intervals, to ensure that the baby & nanny are ok. Others who have their businesses, make sure they convert a section of their shop or inner office to a playroom, where their maid and kids can stay, under their supervision. My point is that taking care of kids can be combined with a job/career/business, if you are a woman. Many women have done it, and not all of them have sob stories to tell. You might do yourself a great disservice by staying at home as a full-time housewife, with nothing to show for it, except kids who would soon grow up and leave you behind, much later in life. The sad thing is that by the time this happens, it may be difficult to get the kind of job you desire to fill the gap, and you might have remained stagnant career-wise and educationally, after spending years as a stay-at-home mum/full-time housewife. I have seen women who choose such options, and have ended up feeling inadequate, after making such choices. Anyway, it is your call. I wish you the best in your full-time housewife ministry. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by bebe2(f): 10:56pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
LaudableXX: The childminder/boyfriend saga didn’t happen to me , it happened in 2010, same year I had my daughter. Life is not a sprint, let everyone run theirs. Looking after my is wat gives me sound sleep at night , all my businesses/activities are wrapped around my children’s schedule. That how I find my peace of mind. We can’t be chasing after waters falls. Am contented with my lifestyle, I don’t want Louis Vuitton bags or red sole shoes or Hummer Jew or house in Banana island. My family runs smoothly on this route, so we gonna keep on it. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by BlackAdam55(m): 11:12pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
i agree with the op 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 12:06am On Jun 18, 2018 |
Ziggylady: why did you quote me? |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 12:08am On Jun 18, 2018 |
omoloulah: You know nothing about maintainance laws in Nigeria. You must probably be thinking Nigeria is UK or USA. There's nothing like alimony in the Nigerian constitution. If you're referring to child support then think again because child support is different from alimony. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 12:09am On Jun 18, 2018 |
bebe2: Full time housewife in the 21st century . Sounds funny... You don't have the details of my bank account so I don't know how you came into conclusion that you're more financially stable than I am. Well ..your life, your choice. Believe what you choose to believe in. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 12:11am On Jun 18, 2018 |
greatman247: Preach Man! I'm not totally against registry wedding .if at all it must be registry then make sure the woman has her own properties and she also has her own money.. anything other than that don't attempt registry wedding. Nobody goes into marriage with the hope or thoughts of divorce but this is the 21st century ,everything is possible. There are times in marriage when divorce becomes inevitable .Love doesn't keep a marriage rather it is communication and understanding that keeps a marriage .If you marry because of love, love will fade some day and all those good characters will also fade some day thus making the marriage unreconcileable. This is one of the reasons I don't support getting married to a broke woman or turning your wife into a full time housewife. A broke individual can never be trusted. It is the broke ones that will go any length to share your properties and make you emotionally devastated. Broke people can be greedy and very dangerous If the woman has her own properties and her own money there's no way court will share any properties because she can't prove that you wasted her life. She can only be awarded child support if you both have kids and she was also awarded custody of the kids. anything other than that I won't advice any man to do registry. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 12:12am On Jun 18, 2018 |
Ziggylady: I'm married. Purchase some sense before you insult people because you don't agree with them. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Ziggylady(f): 12:17am On Jun 18, 2018 |
Elder001: If your type is married,then its little wonder most marriages are a joke these days. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Ziggylady(f): 12:19am On Jun 18, 2018 |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 12:23am On Jun 18, 2018 |
Ziggylady: Your mind is insane. Nobody compelled you not to ignore the post. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 12:24am On Jun 18, 2018 |
Ziggylady: Are you that stupid? in as much as i don't owe you any explanation. Below is a post i just made to clarify my stance I'm not totally against registry wedding .if at all it must be registry then make sure the woman has her own properties and she also has her own money.. anything other than that don't attempt registry wedding. Nobody goes into marriage with the hope or thoughts of divorce but this is the 21st century ,everything is possible. There are times in marriage when divorce becomes inevitable .Love doesn't keep a marriage rather it is communication and understanding that keeps a marriage .If you marry because of love, love will fade some day and all those good characters will also fade some day thus making the marriage unreconcileable. This is one of the reasons I don't support getting married to a broke woman or turning your wife into a full time housewife. A broke individual can never be trusted. It is the broke ones that will go any length to share your properties and make you emotionally devastated. Broke people can be greedy and very dangerous If the woman has her own properties and her own money there's no way court will share any properties because she can't prove that you wasted her life. She can only be awarded child support if you both have kids and she was also awarded custody of the kids. anything other than that I won't advice any man to do registry. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Ziggylady(f): 12:27am On Jun 18, 2018 |
Elder001: Go take your biopolar drugs....you need them urgently. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Chuknovski(m): 12:35am On Jun 18, 2018 |
what if soo broke youv got nothing to be inherited, |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Daboomb: 12:57am On Jun 18, 2018 |
teebee22: Just come and see woman "wayo-sense"! A husband that is capable of keeping family assets like share certificates, Land titles, Passports.... the only thing he is not capable of keeping is Marriage cert! Mariage cert IS NOT a woman's right. It belongs to the "married couple". You people shoudl stop talking dumb. Chisox, these our Nigerian women sef. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Daboomb: 1:08am On Jun 18, 2018 |
Ziggylady: Look at this Dindinrin! When you said "Naija males and their delusions" ....l guess that is a complement? People like you are so foolish you just talk banally and throw words around.. Its a pity that you cant think beyond "Emabssy Visa Application" like that is what marriage is all about! What about people who have dual citizenship (Nigerian and European/American) and dont have to go to an Embassy before travelling abroad? Suffice to say, your comprehension skills are non-existent and its a shame you cant see beyond your nose. That you fall into the category opf "No Future Ambitions (NFA) and will still remain poor after thrity years, is quite understandable... especially with your type of mentality and shortsightedness, that's 'given'. Now Buzz-off and let me discuss with intelligent people joor. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Daboomb: 1:22am On Jun 18, 2018 |
amethystnnty1: The bolded is the 'historical summary of marriage', even in Blblical times when the woman marries a man, for protection, procreation and feeding. All these shyters talking about a "One Bucket man" mot needing a Pre-Nup, you can bet they would never marry a One Bucket man, even when all they bring into the marriage is just only a single, broken and utterly useless wash-hand Bowl. 2 Likes |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 1:30am On Jun 18, 2018 |
Daboomb: You need to understand that must of these guys are kids. They say all sort of Bullshíts trying to gain likes. Some have never seen a complete copy of the Nigerian constitution that has over 800 pages but they'll be talking about law on social media. The girl you quoted from her posts one cannot take time before knowing her age and social range. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 1:31am On Jun 18, 2018 |
Ziggylady: It's sad that Nigerian parents no longer instill manners into their children. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 1:34am On Jun 18, 2018 |
Daboomb: Pre-nup is important for everybody whether broke or rich. The broke one might become rich tomorrow. Even if you're living in 1bedroom now and you want to go for registry.. pre-nup should be a must for you. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Nobody: 1:50am On Jun 18, 2018 |
Obierika: K. Acquire the property in your name then and make sure you don't request for any financial assistance or whatever assistance from the woman. except.. you request from her. then. ..make sure she also request from you to acquire her own too. balanced. |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Blonchilli(m): 8:51am On Jun 18, 2018 |
bebe2:Leave that guy. Sometimes I find it hard to believe the guy is married, I just pity for his wife at home. His kind will throw her out with not even a tissue paper to her name |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Blonchilli(m): 8:57am On Jun 18, 2018 |
HARDDON:You deserve a medal for this |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Sterope(f): 10:13am On Jun 18, 2018 |
Yes. She might gain a bit but not a lot like her western counterpart. Our law needs a reform but not to the extreme like the west. pocohantas: |
Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by Masterppower: 10:24am On Jun 18, 2018 |
mistyebby: True talk my sister... how are you doing |
(1) (2) (3) ... (10) (11) (12) (13) (14) (15) (16) (Reply)
Ten Ways Guys Frustrate The Life Of Virgin Girls..... / Man Returns Lady's Number After She Played Hard To Get / What Kind Of Guy Does This To His Girlfriend (photos)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 103 |