Timekeeper:




Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut
communication with her totally and move on or I shud
still call her and talk Sha...
Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I
truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side,
is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can
take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call
her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some
hours.
But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still
be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut
her off and move one....?

Timekeeper:



Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut
communication with her totally and move on or I shud
still call her and talk Sha...
Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I
truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side,
is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can
take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call
her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some
hours.
But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still
be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut
her off and move one....?

TOMSY:
You can NEVER get over her if you keep on making effort to get close to her by going to her hostel or something. If she wants to see you, let her make all the effort. The key is to just treat her like you would a male acquaintance. Just drop it. Think about it. Will this girl matter in the next two years? I doubt it. Even if it works out, you'll go for your service, and it will become a long distance relationship, which is difficult to maintain. Me personally I discovered that when I get a bad vibe from something at the ery beginning, then it's not likely worth it.
So, in conclusion just MOVE on.

Timekeeper:
Sacramento1212

... Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut
communication with her totally and move on or I shud
still call her and talk Sha...
Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I
truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side,
is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can
take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call
her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some
hours.
But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still
be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut
her off and move one....?

sacramento1212:


No, stop doing all that but that doesn't mean you should keep malice with her. If she calls, answer her calls but you should try and be more focused with your studies.

You still have a long way to go than to bother yourself with an inconsistent girl. Do not call her again, i repeat, don't call. If she has you in mind and notices that you aren't doing the things you used to do, she will be bothered and try to reach you but if she doesn't care, then she wouldn't.

Cheers

Timekeeper:
Saff


I will cut off since she is not interested... Thanks

Timekeeper:




Thanks so much.... I'm grateful

Sacramento

Timekeeper:


Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut
communication with her totally and move on or I shud
still call her and talk Sha...
Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I
truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side,
is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can
take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call
her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some
hours.
But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still
be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut
her off and move one....?

Timekeeper:



Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut
communication with her totally and move on or I shud
still call her and talk Sha...
Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I
truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side,
is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can
take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call
her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some
hours.
But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still
be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut
her off and move one....?

openmine:

Timekeeper:



As a lady... Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut communication with her totally and move on or I shud still call her and talk Sha...

Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side, is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some hours.


But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut her off and move one....?

Cc: colourich

Timekeeper:



Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut
communication with her totally and move on or I shud
still call her and talk Sha...
Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I
truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side,
is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can
take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call
her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some
hours.
But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still
be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut
her off and move one....?

Timekeeper:


Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut
communication with her totally and move on or I shud
still call her and talk Sha...
Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I
truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side,
is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can
take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call
her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some
hours.
But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still
be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut
her off and move one....?

Trottle:


Bro, delayed gratification/self discipline is one of the hallmark of a MAN. I'll advise you to just cut her off COMPLETELY. If you linger on by calling and chatting, those false emotions caused by proximity which is falsely interpreted as "love" will not die off.

Since you've told her your feelings of wanting her (as a POTENTIAL wife) and she's still indecisive (more like IMMATURE) and she seems to want to inappropriately exploit to the fullest the very fleeting power of youth, attractiveness and beauty (which many later regret doing), plus she's very free with guys (something we both greatly detest and dislike in a future wife); kindly cut off all communication. You'll be surprised and thank yourself that you did sooner than later, as your self respect and esteem will be intact.

Don't go to her hostel again for such. Kindly divert that time to other productive efforts, and you may be surprised at the outcome.


Kindly keep us updated o.

Saff:
100%. Dont stalk her on social media, keep yourself busy. Block her if possible. Do this for at least 2 months and you’ll get over her completely. She may come back to you and beg, but don’t give in.

If you go back to her, don’t come back here to ask us for advice again. Thanks

openmine:

Bro U have already been friendzoned by her!
The moment she said she wasn't interested should have been the right time to take a walk!
She was even the honest type......
Since she is a carefree person who doesn't want any kind of commitment like a relationship, let her be..!

Yes U can start by cutting of all kinds of communication with her...So that you can focus on better things!

Since you are still studying,I will recommend that U put all ur efforts on making good grades and aiming to be something great in life!

Be successful though legally!

Don't settle for less or for people who can't see your worth!
Just move on with your life!

Trust me,there are better ladies out there!

You will discover later on that the lady you were breaking your head for was not worth the time and was only just a distraction to your main objective in life!

Timekeeper:


Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut
communication with her totally and move on or I shud
still call her and talk Sha...
Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I
truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side,
is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can
take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call
her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some
hours.
But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still
be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut
her off and move one....?

Timekeeper:


Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut
communication with her totally and move on or I shud
still call her and talk Sha...
Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I
truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side,
is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can
take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call
her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some
hours.
But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still
be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut
her off and move one....?

Daeylar:


what do you feel you should do? you're the one living the life. so ask yourself that question, what will make you happy? doing what you used to do or cutting her off?
if you feel like you can handle it. continue. if not, then just bow out. stop talking to her. move on

you've already courted her by the way, and she refused. nothing else you can do.

besides, I don't understand your love for her. you keep complaining about the way she is free with guys yet you met her like that, did you expect her to change for you or to fit your standards of what you consider appropriate behavior ? that's not right and that's controlling behavior,
try and take people as you meet them, don't try to change them in any way, either you can handle them or you can't. it'll help you alot

Reelmii:
madam u are shouting

Timekeeper:


Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut
communication with her totally and move on or I shud
still call her and talk Sha...
Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I
truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side,
is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can
take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call
her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some
hours.
But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still
be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut
her off and move one....?

Timekeeper:




Good one..... I do under but u no ladies with playing victim (sorry to say this)... I understand that I shud give her space but what if she later says I didn't fight for her love.... If I give her space simply bcox she is not ready emotionally mainly bcoz of her freedom like I typed above, she is a free type... If I take my space, she may say I didn't love her truly and that you I didn't fight for her

ecstasy357:



Be unpredictable. Get in her mind, stay in her thoughts and have her heart.

To her you will always be you, predictable and seeking for validation/affirmation.

Women are ruled by their emotions. That emotional freedom she's preaching about ain't possible for her.

You just need to find a way to get through to her. Just get in her mind. Our thoughts shape our reality

sirusX:
I wonder if written words could depict tone of voice

Anywayz, you sound like you're vibrating over the matter and thus rushing into things

You need to calm down and understand yourself and understand the lady... especially what you want from the relationship

That way you can relate better with her and not seem so desperate for a relationship. Calm her fears and make her ease into the thought of being with you without feeling stifled

Timekeeper:



How do I get in her heart??