No,it is not proper,it shows u r a coward.Though, in special cases,it is allowed, for instance, in a situation of long distance. Delay could be dangerous, hence, u need to voice out ,in such a long distance.

ublight:
Hello all...

There is this babe I have been crushing on since last year.

We finally got chatting around December, and I sincerely like her. I feel she likes me too.

I wanted to finally ask her out last month, but she travelled to Lagos to visit her parents. She was supposed to return a week after, but the corona lock down came up.

I really want to ask her out, so should I do it over the phone? Or wait for her return?

you can even say it through a text message and do a follow up with a call. It doesn't matter

Phone call beta... I did via text message and she gree... Guy na ur money o... Na ur body... Na ur energy... Na ur time... Appreciate am wella

chatinent:
Girls aren't that expensive, ask them anywhere. They respond to many men!

You sound hurt. Go date men. They seem more your type

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ublight:


what if she thinks i am chicken livered that i dont have the guts to ask her face to face

why you come dey worry us na. Since you know asking her via phone makes you look chicken hearted as you say

Wish you the best.

Come back here when you break up.

And so what u didn't read of d guy who met a girl on Facebook..asked her out online and got married the following week.google it u will see it there

No. Do it through letter writing!

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naijaguy1234:
Love is in the air. Do it gradually on the phone and finish it off in person. If you toast her fully on the phone she may form a big girl. How about you start over the phone about her likes and dislikes? Foods, movies, fashion, animals cities, etc.
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Really funny........ My advice! Go make some money and she will be the one chasing after u. Real niggars chase money not women.

BestAccessories:
If you want something serious with her, NEVER EVER asked her on the phone.

Keep the conversation going, get to know her more via chat, phone calls etc.

KEEP THE CONVERSATION INTERESTING AND GOING.

Use this opportunity to ask some serious questions about her bla bla bla.

By the time she is back depending on your conversation she would already understand the direction you are heading.

This is what you should do ......

Osobi32:
Really funny........ My advice! Go make some money and she will be the one chasing after u. Real niggars chase money not women.

see another kid..how much do u have..are u richer than don jazzy .y is he not married...anyone can sleep with an harlot it's not expensive it just 500 naira same with don jazzy..the guy is talking of his girlfriend he intends to marry and u are shouting Yahoo money and harlot oga grow up o

naijaguy1234:
Love is in the air. Do it gradually on the phone and finish it off in person. If you toast her fully on the phone she may form a big girl. How about you start over the phone about her likes and dislikes? Foods, movies, fashion, animals cities, etc.
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this is beautiful! I like it

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Invite her,hang out with her and talk to her face to face,, u can only ask her out on phone when she is far from you, long distance..
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chatinent:
Girls aren't that expensive, ask them anywhere. They respond to many men!

What a slowpoke

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dawnomike:
Well...It depends on how you present it! This is 5G age so it is allowed

Don't let pastor Chris hear this o.

Kizzygentle:

She will never accept via phone call or chat even if she wants to date u. There is a spirit that follows Nigeria girls when u ask dem out on fone. That spirit will never allow dem say yes. And d moment she says no via phone that's how she would keep turning down ur request even when u now tell her face to face. U would already spoil d cruise. My guy just keep d good conversation going till she returns and invite her to ur place if u feel she likes u enough. U may not necessarily ask her out if she pays u a visit. A kiss trial would do it for u. Asking a Nigeria girl out is a 90 to 10 percent chance for the lady to accept Allah. Am begging u as a real gee. No try am oo. U go spoil everything. Good luck bro. She is yours already if u follow my 2cents.

The advantage of using this strategy as a confirm gee as you must be observant she has love up..is that if she was in a relationship before self..trap don catch

this is a stupid question.. what rubbish!

What's my business .. your mate are looking for a way to make money.. you are here seeking advice on when to ask a girl out .. if like no make money .. she go accept you, later she go leave you follow who get money

blowjohn:


Full force lockdown in abuja, lagos and ogun.

so how will nairalanders make that happen

Don't collect advise from Nairaland men


There is nothing wrong with asking her out via a phone call, it is even better than that WhatsApp thing


You don't need to be obvious about it. Just play it cool by casually mentioning, "Maybe when you get back, we could hang out sometime"

That way, you are making a suggestion, more than an actual, outright date.

Don't wait for her to come back. There are interesting men in Lagos too. In a time of lockdown and a pandemic, I am honestly amused, that some people think you should wait for her to come back and do some grand face to face meeting or whatever.

Procrastination is a huge problem for Nigerian men. Don't procrastinate good people from your life. Strike while the iron is hot or forever hold your peace, never assume you are the only player in the game

BestAccessories:
If you want something serious with her, NEVER EVER asked her on the phone.

Keep the conversation going, get to know her more via chat, phone calls etc.

KEEP THE CONVERSATION INTERESTING AND GOING.

Use this opportunity to ask some serious questions about her bla bla bla.

By the time she is back depending on your conversation she would already understand the direction you are heading.

What if he loses her to someone else?


Moreover, for this COVID19 period, via phone ain't bad

Kizzygentle:

She will never accept via phone call or chat even if she wants to date u. There is a spirit that follows Nigeria girls when u ask dem out on fone. That spirit will never allow dem say yes. And d moment she says no via phone that's how she would keep turning down ur request even when u now tell her face to face. U would already spoil d cruise. My guy just keep d good conversation going till she returns and invite her to ur place if u feel she likes u enough. U may not necessarily ask her out if she pays u a visit. A kiss trial would do it for u. Asking a Nigeria girl out is a 90 to 10 percent chance for the lady to accept Allah. Am begging u as a real gee. No try am oo. U go spoil everything. Good luck bro. She is yours already if u follow my 2cents.

What Nigerian girls are you talking to?

The appropriate way to ask anyone on a date is via phone, except I live in a different Nigeria

What kind of respectable lady accepts to visit a man she is meeting for the first time in his house? This is such trashy advice, gosh!

OP, if the girl you like, is anything like the money hungry dingbats, these people approach, then such an advice will work.

No respectable lady will visit a man in his house, before meeting him at a neutral venue for the first time. Even the "free" girls in America, will not go to your house for an official invite to a date.

God knows what you people are following, no wonder you berate Nigerian ladies a lot on this site.

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safarigirl:
Don't collect advise from Nairaland men


There is nothing wrong with asking her out via a phone call, it is even better than that WhatsApp thing


You don't need to be obvious about it. Just play it cool by casually mentioning, "Maybe when you get back, we could hang out sometime"

That way, you are making a suggestion, more than an actual, outright date.

Don't wait for her to come back. There are interesting men in Lagos too. In a time of lockdown and a pandemic, I am honestly amused, that some people think you should wait for her to come back and do some grand face to face meeting or whatever.

Procrastination is a huge problem for Nigerian men. Don't procrastinate good people from your life. Strike while the iron is hot or forever hold your peace, never assume you are the only player in the game

Cmanforall:

What if he loses her to someone else?


Moreover, for this COVID19 period, via phone ain't bad

I'm just reading nonsense advice on this thread

We are talking about a pandemic and they are saying "When you see..."

What are the chances they will still be in contact with each other, by the time the lockdown is over?

Nigerian relationships are trash and I now see why.