Mrs, Chima:

Ladies!  

You have noticed no one comment to answer my question when I asked what if this WAS YOUR DAUGHTER OR YOUR FAVORITE FEMALE RELATIVE?  

What if this was your MOTHER, AUNT, GRANDMOTHER, FEMALE COUSIN, SISTER, AND GREAT GRANDMOTHER?  It is okay for a man to beat them like they stole something and I am sure you LOVELY MEN were raised by DECENT WOMEN.  

So why would a decent women hit a man to the point where he is sending her to the hospital?  

Or you was raised by a hood female relative?  

MzD@rkSkin:

^^LOL exactly. I just don't get it. I have done it in the past UNKNOWINGLY (talk to guys/give them hugs and he sees. . .gets mad etc) and I have seen the type of reaction is generates, so why would I want to do it on purpose?

So I'm @ work,, enjoying some mango lol and she write me on FB, with this crap! then had the nerve to ask me if I want to witness this tonight! I said heck no! If he kicks them both, I won't have any sympathy!

2buff:

I would draw out the cold-hard fact that she went out of line laying a finger on the man and STARTING SOMETHING SHE CAN'T FINISH like a grown-azz WOMAN should know not to do. pre-pubescent GIRLS should not be getting into relationships in the first place, which is what a female would have to be mentally to INITIATE PHYSICAL ASSAULT with a male.

^^yeah fuggin ryte! you would grab your machete and fly faster than the bat mobile to that negro's house!

silentc:

If a pint sized man (lets say he weight 50kg) gets into an argument and hits/slaps a muscular larger sized man (lets say he weight 120kg) and they larger man beats up the smaller sized man, would we call it unfair?

We have 2 valid arguments here. . . . .  take boxing for example, there are different weight classes and as such fights are fairer (as people fight within the same weight class). So sometimes a man hitting a woman is not fair as there is the natural advantage men have over women.

On the other hand, we grow up to learn that men and women are equal and as such a woman who doesn't want to get beaten up shouldn't hit a man (as we are all equal). If she hit a fellow woman and gets beaten thoroughly we wont cry blue murder would we? We would see it is a fair fight.

I honestly don't know the answer to the question. . . . . I would confess that it is a tough one to call.

]I made SEVERAL POSTS ON THE THREAD addressing the issue from different angles. i am not advocating for women on men violence, i am just saying it is not the same as a woman trying to kill a man vs a woman who is angry after let's say she caught him cheating and sporadically starts swinging or something. as for the women who slap their men to be the "b0ss btch" they can get stomped out for all i care, but an emotionally hurt woman i understand, it is not right but it is reality and for him to beat her like he would another man it is wrong!

@Eku i understand you 100 percent. I joke like that, sry if you didn't know lol surely u wouldn't be that dumb enough to say that on here and mean it.


@ogugua88, be realistic, that didnt prove schit. You look bad, keep trying to drag me down with you. Gonna be a tough mission to complete, cunumunu. 

2buff:

She doesn't have to get beaten repetitively before it looks like serious damage on her body.
Being a buff guy, one well-placed slap would be enough to send her fly-spinning backwards like a cyclone with a face like poo afterwards. Just one.

And I'm not prone to violence, so that is why it would be wise for her not to get physical with me. She might need plastic surgery after just one retaliatory slap.

MzD@rkSkin:



@ogugua88, be realistic, that didnt prove schit. You look bad, keep trying to drag me down with you. Gonna be a tough mission to complete, cunumunu. 

2buff:

And I'm not prone to violence, so that is why it would be wise for her not to get physical with me. She might need plastic surgery after just one retaliatory slap is all.

eku_bear:

Exactly. I'm 6'1, 215. My gf is 5'5, 120. Does it really make any sense for her to hit me?   Yeah, I'm mostly a mild manner nice guy. . . the chance of me hitting her back is close to zero. I'd be more surprised than anything.

But if you are a woman with any sense in your head, why would you do it? Even nice guys like me will eventually snap. What is the point of risking it, as a woman? Unnecessary wahala, imo

eku_bear:

@silentc: It isn't a tough call at all! Don't introduce violence into the situation and expect the other party not to do so too!

Why should there be double standards? There is no justification for it. Anyway, all of this is a moot discussion. Naija women are not mumus. . . the chance of you meeting a nigerian woman who will want to hit a man is very low.

@Mrs, Chima: None of my female relatives would do anything like that.

eku_bear:

Exactly. I'm 6'1, 215. My gf is 5'5, 120. Does it really make any sense for her to hit me?   Yeah, I'm mostly a mild manner nice guy. . . the chance of me hitting her back is close to zero. I'd be more surprised than anything.

But if you are a woman with any sense in your head, why would you do it? Even nice guys like me will eventually snap. What is the point of risking it, as a woman? Unnecessary wahala, imo

Mrs, Chima:

ONCE AGAIN, if your female relatives get jumped by a man simply because they h[b]ave grazed against or bumped against a man[/b] WHETHER IT IS intentionally or not.  WHAT WOULD YOU DO?  Just say "Oh, you shouldn't bumped him"?  Seriously spare me the bullshit.

MzD@rkSkin:

^^yeah fuggin ryte! you would grab your machete and fly faster than the bat mobile to that negro's house!

ogugua88:

Topic: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First?

Ask whether if she blows breath on him too.

Mygoldie:

some peeps think they are pretty just becos they managed to advertise their pic on NL, duh!!!

did i mention a name? NO.
ok if you think i am reffering to you, BRING IT ON!!!

MzD@rkSkin:

LOL^^added what? we ARE ANSWERING THE DAMN QUESTION. THIS IS NOT A YES OR NO QUESTION BUT COMPLEX AND INTENDED TO GENERATE DISCUSSION!

Listen lol Eku I respect your views but I still hold on to mine. I am not gonna go around in circles. everything I needed to say have already been said. pretend like I am still here and argue with the posts I have already made if you have the time, you especially Ogugulala lol  

ogugua88:

Unfortunately for you, you were mentioned when I was referring to illiteracy. I know you're not referring to your crony, MzD@rkSkin, so say my name.

Mygoldie:





so you know yourself then, nice try.I can't even mention her  name, urgh!!!

ogugua88:

I can't argue with you because I no longer know which side you are on. You condone restraint here. You condone abuse in your thread. So, until you pick a side I won't debate anything else you say as I will consider it invalid.

Keep backpacking on Ogu.'s retarded references. It was taken out of context, go and read the thread and get some common sense on the way back.

You are the one who bragged about beating women and now all of a sudden is "captain equality" after getting called out and leeching up to Og. because she is the only other odd ball out.  

@ Ogu. I am nobody's crony, dont try to style me because I can do the same and you won't appreciate my words. btw stop staring @ my back side, Ragdoll might kick you for violating her space. . .on my profile  .

ogugua88:

You and MzD@rkSkin have your panty alliance and have not made any attempt to hide it. She's the only one with display pic. I'm the one with whom you're beefing and have myself in my display pic. Unlike you, I know 1+1=2 and can read between the lines of your basic English.

And you, your one woman only "Dyk Riding *Federation". 

*more members will be added, Buff is in the process. 

Mrs, Chima:

LMAO!  Did this mofo say we ADDING poo?  Oooh lawd!

MzD@rkSkin:


Men are human yes but at the same time, facts are facts men are stronger than women. that is why i say restrain her, call her all the btches you want to and walk about but DO NOT BEAT HER. END OF STORY!

Mrs, Chima:

ONCE AGAIN, if your female relatives get jumped by a man simply because they have grazed against or bumped against a man WHETHER IT IS intentionally or not.  WHAT WOULD YOU DO?  Just say "Oh, you shouldn't bumped him"?  Seriously spare me the bullshit.

MzD@rkSkin:


Keep backpacking on Ogu.'s not-so-smart references. It was taken out of context, go and read the thread and get some common sense on the way back.

You are the one who bragged about beating women and now all of a sudden is "captain equality" after getting called out and leeching up to Og. because she is the only other odd ball out.  

@ Ogu. I am nobody's crony, dont try to style me because I can do the same and you won't appreciate my words. btw stop staring @ my back side, Ragdoll might kick you for violating her space. . .on my profile  .

eku_bear:

I'd love to do all of that. But if it becomes a habit? And restraining her doesn't work? Or if it is late at night, I'm drunk or already in an emotionally excited the state?

Anyway, advice to all you women. . . human beings aren't too different from animals. You know that you wouldn't beat your dog, because being an animal it will eventually turn on you and bite you. Might not be a bad idea to show your man the same respect.
I[b]f it was just a bump, then I'd of course be very pissed. But if she slapped some dude? And especially if it were a repeated thing? I'd probably still beat the sh1t out of the dude, but at the same time I'd understand his position.[/b]