spade:

The People

1.Naydene(South Africa) - She's really possessive. I only agreed because she was my first. I didn't know any better then.
2.Naydene(Nigeria) - She's a real money freak
3.Zainab - She's a flirt and always wants to have sex every minute of the day
4.Linda - I really like her, but she always thinks I'm cheating on her
5.Amanda - She always goes around having sex at her young age(18) and I tagged her the name LovePeddler!
6.Sandra - She was always picking up fights with me so I gave her the name BITCH! I had earlier asked the Nairaland Members for help but I was too late when they started replying.
7. Lisa - She tells me she likes me, but I want to take my time

What happened

1. Naydene(South Africa) - She had misplaced jealousies about me and even got angry at me when she saw me talking with my female coursemate at school. She was always comparing me to her ex-boyfriend 'Nosh' (A Bouncer) and this really pissed me off and I had to call it quits with her.

2.Naydene(Nigeria) - She was always bugging me and asking me to buy her stuff that was way beyond my pocket and would stop talking to me whenever I said no. I eventually dumped her when I almost exhausted my bank account.

3.Zainab - She went around sleeping and fucking around with anybody she saw. We never really clicked because I knew
It would have a sad ending. She still stalks me around, but I can handle it.

4. Linda - She thought I was cheating from day one and had sex with one of my "friends" but discovered I wasn't and asked us to come back again but I just thought It was best we quit that relationship.

5. Amanda - She looked trustworthy in the beginning but she turned out to be a faker who had sex at her young age.
We quit the relationship and she got pregnant for either a bus conductor or an egg seller (I can't remember) and ran off to Benin and has never been heard from again. I feel so disgusted I was ever in a relationship with someone like that.

6.Sandra - She was always picking up fights with me and it looked like she enjoyed them. In all the relationships I've had, that one was too fake and I had dubbed it a "Plastic Relationship". We eventually quit when she crossed the line. Ihad wanted to save that particular relationship because I was too tired of having disastrous relationships.

7.Lisa - She keeps telling me she really likes me, but I don't want us to start this relationship because I want to take my time time to understand girls, What they like and what they hate as to keep my relationship safe.

Lessons Learnt

1. Always feel free to say no to girls when they ask you for a relationship and you don't feel the same way
2. Try as much as you can to understand your partner
3. try harder to save your relationship and if you can't WALK!
4. Be careful who you call your friends because they can become the inverse in the face of something that means a lot to you .

And Most of all,
5.Pray to God to keep you safe from the urges of extra-marital sex. You don't have to join in just because everybody is doing it so try not to be easily influenced or seduced by the forces of darkness who take control of your once stable life and ravage it beyond repair

Thanks!
Love, Spade

Officially, I have dated zero girls!

lionheart:

I pleading the fifth and taken it 2 my grave with me

dollie-pie:

u mean he follows u round like a puppy? u shld be happy girl.

Bhola:

Better come bribe me now, before I spill the beans.

mo money:

i hav dated, Doris, Charity, Boma, Christabell, Inoscencial, Amaka, Regina, Mabel, Favour, Ibiba, Esther, Jessica, Obele,Thelma, Joice, Queen, these i could remember and just parted with Blessing few days ago

trying to be sincere

lionheart:

abeg mind ya business

otokx:

which one be laughs evilish?

lionheart:

school is ok . . . . . studying my black @$$ off

bondxie:

1. Kemi - 18yrs old :- She is kind of freak about money
2. Dunni - 28yrs old : Too Matured for me,Au will u satisfy her sexually, she is one hell of a bitch. Got disvirgin tru her on a mango tree.
3. Esther- 16yrs old:- Good,but can't just setle dwn with her.Dont ask me why o!
4: Sylvia -21yrs old : Possesed all i want in a woman,but very extravagant,lousy,can nag and above all, she is violent tempered
5: Tope - 21yrs old : She has a steady girl bk in school but still wan me to do the service at home.
6: Tola - 21yrs old : Good for me,and i can't place anythin against her
7: Ife - 27yrs old : My Ideal Woman, Finaly settled dwn with Her.Ko easy, to get a virtue woman, no be joke.U ve to be favoured.


Why we Broke up ?
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1. Kemi : Cos of our family altitude toward the relationship
2. Dunni : Infedelity,A.I.D.S
3. Esther: Distance,
4. Sylvia : Infidelity,quit in a dramatic way
5: Tope : Encourage her to stick with her man. Quit afterward
6: Tola : Distance, and the prospect for us to get married is slim,so i quit



Well just learnt that :-

1. How to manage distance because it is bound to occur in any relationship
2. How to manage crisis because u can't run away from it,
3. Be more resposible in words and actions
4. Appreciate others personalities in terms of their altitude,behaviour,traits,e.t.c
5. Above all,Trusting not in Man/Woman except God. So right now i don't trust my wife, am trusting God for her life.Cos in Him alone i cannot be disappointed