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Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by 190: 12:53am On Jun 05, 2011 |
cos im angry |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by kandiikane(m): 12:54am On Jun 05, 2011 |
Why? |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by playboy19(m): 1:10am On Jun 05, 2011 |
kandiikane: Here we go again lol ' Okay we've heard you miss ruler. You can as well come and take me to the altar. The earlier you start facing the reality, the better for you guys. When it comes to men and women issue, it is purely a domino-cracy issue, not a democracy. Like one comedian rightly said, it's a dicky-dikk world. The word is "dic-tatorship" not puxssy-tatorship and to you Mr Chi-vita or whatever, they could applaud you all they want online and make your lil dikk rise, yet, they know deep down you're one of 'em puxxsys they've been craven for all their lives. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by ojdollars(m): 1:18am On Jun 05, 2011 |
Poster - Richvkunt , You have changed my life, Saved my Marriage and turn me into a new man. From Today onward, things would never be the same for me and my entire family. I need you permission to make this Post about the role of a man and a woman into a small back that would be shared freely to Married Couples, Americans who believe so much in Divorce because of Ignorance to this revelation, if you don't mind, please email me directly at once, My email is onoriodelucky@yahoo.com. We need to talk more, you can find me on FB with OJ Onoriode. I am looking forward to your email, I need to talk to you as soon as possible, thank you so much, No one can never know all. I love you Sir/Ma. Onoriode PS: I would have given you my phone number, but don't know if it's OK to give you on here, just write me and we would talk more. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by kandiikane(m): 1:25am On Jun 05, 2011 |
^^^LMAOOOOOO, is this a joke? playboy19:Say whatever you like but without us you are nothing. . . |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by 190: 1:35am On Jun 05, 2011 |
ojdollars: He has obviously been suffering cos he decided to give who ever he married the equal rite some animals are talkin about on this thread Now look at him happy cos the OP has spoken sense into him smh |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by playboy19(m): 1:35am On Jun 05, 2011 |
ofcourse without you guys, i wouldn't be a playboy cos there wouldn't be anything to play with. So, thank y'all very much Atleast i dey appreciate una now. Isn't that what you all want? |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by MrsChima(f): 5:51am On Jun 05, 2011 |
kandiikane: Apparently it is a joke. They wouldn't last a day without the Speaking of "playboy", you can't tell who are the worst hoes, male or female. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by MrsChima(f): 5:55am On Jun 05, 2011 |
kandiikane: That's about sum it up but sadly people pick and choose what scriptures befits them. My thing is if you (general speaking) are going to quote scriptures, quote what in it and not what you think should be in it. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by Nobody: 6:07am On Jun 05, 2011 |
For those brothers and sisters that have seen the light we thank goodness. The modern woman has kept man in shackles because men have failed to take their proper role in life. That is the cause of the high rate of failed marriages in society today. I know men who are married or in serious relationships today can relate to what am talking about. I am not talking about the virgin male poster on NL trying to hook up with females, Such brothers are in the dark,they have been blinded by these females. In fact such brothers have almost become females. They think like females. Infact such brothers need to sew skirts and put them on,cos they are cheer leaders. Who the cap fits, Some of the women here amuse me,it is not war of the sex.es,it is nature and your God given role. You need to submit to your man,if you don't want him to stray.Worship him and adore him because he is your KING and then he MIGHT consider making you his queen. With some of the posts from females I am reading here its no surprise most of you have NO man and are not into ANY relationships because you refuse to see men for what they are. It is no surprise that most women are losing their men to HOUSEHELPS and HOUSE MAIDS because they refuse to know their roles in life. What are the house helps doing better ask yourself. 90% of married men today have extra marital affairs.WHY? Because women have refused to play their natural God given role. Females stop spending 100% of your time on NL posting BS. Go out and get a man. Treat him like a king and be submissive to him. Cook,wash,and warm his bed. Put more effort into it. Then you might just stop him from straying, |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by Nobody: 6:31am On Jun 05, 2011 |
Thank you Dr. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by MrsChima(f): 6:38am On Jun 05, 2011 |
Richvkunt: I see you are still SKIRTING AROUND the obvious. Keep make believing if it suits you. Do not only read the bible UNDERSTAND IT. The only person that should treat you like a king is the one you are married to and return treat her like a queen. If the woman you are married to do not mind being an area rug then WE shouldn't have a problem with it, at least not me. Adding what you have stated: Males stop spending 100% of your time on NL posting BULLSHIT. Go out and ACTUALLY GET A WOMAN, Treat HER like a QUEEN and be submissive to HER. Cook,wash, take care of your children iillegitimate or not and KEEP A JOB. Put more effort into it. Then you might just stop HER from CALLING YOU A WORTHLESS NIGGA. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by Nobody: 6:45am On Jun 05, 2011 |
^^^ I see you refuse to see the light. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by MrsChima(f): 6:48am On Jun 05, 2011 |
Richvkunt: I am sorry I do not agree with modern day nor past day sexism bullshit. If that is the light, I am more than joyous to NOT SEE THAT LIGHT. I am not into bondage as well. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by Nobody: 8:02am On Jun 05, 2011 |
Granted, men and women have roles. However, every man and woman differs, and every relationship a man has with a woman can and will differ from the relationship of another man and woman. Some men prefer to stay at home and watch children while the woman works. I've seen this plenty of times in my neighborhood alone. His role is to be a caretaker, whilst hers is to be a breadwinner. It's been working for them as they have been married for nearly two decades and have healthy children. Some women stay home while he works. Some women and men both work, caring for their children when they can. Some of these couples are successful; some are not. OP, apparently you prefer submissive women. Find yourself a submissive wife and submissive mistresses. To say anything is fact according to Bible and should be applied to all is silly considering that every human being differs and has his or her own set of values and beliefs. To each his or her own. Osondi owendi. Very simple. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by MrsChima(f): 8:27am On Jun 05, 2011 |
ogugua88: (clicks Facebook's I like button) |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by 190: 9:27am On Jun 05, 2011 |
Richvkunt: enough said ( let they who have ears let them hear) sadly they dont Personally our Nigerian women would forever appreciate your advice and come back to Thank you |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by Nobody: 9:46am On Jun 05, 2011 |
ogugua88:[b]] This man is in shackles. He needs to sew a skirt. See what happens when a guy is kitten whipped. Brother you are in serious bondage. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by omoekoni(m): 9:49am On Jun 05, 2011 |
Geeez, peeps are still on this issue. Ok lets go, Ema wo bobo yi ke--- Are you sure you're really getting laid (as you claim) in real-life? Coz, any small thing like this you're next reply is always "You need to get a room." What's so "room-getting" about having a conversation? mscheww-- Don't know about you but girl on girl does it for me and the way you girls were going at it, was kinda hot Hmmm- Btw, you think I didn't see your "Infamous Post" abi? hmm-- I saw it very well. People were hailing you, you too you were blushing and grinning--C'mon hide those green teeth of yours!--lol-- For you mind now, you don achieve ba? Nonsense! Infact, I wanted to reply you yesterday night but I had to let it slide. Why? You guyz will never get it! Never! There was no point in wasting my time. If you really think degrading women is the way forward-- Go on soun! More grease to your dry elbow People will always recognize the truth, but its a matter of choice to accept it or not and i am not surprised at all you had to let it slide, your womanly brain couldn't compute a come back for that nothing personal babe PLUS who said anything about degrading women?? after all, you have to be on a grade before you can be degraded.init?. Granted, men and women have roles. However, every man and woman differs, and every relationship a man has with a woman can and will differ from the relationship of another man and woman. Some men prefer to stay at home and watch children while the woman works. I've seen this plenty of times in my neighborhood alone. His role is to be a caretaker, whilst hers is to be a breadwinner. It's been working for them as they have been married for nearly two decades and have healthy children. I refuse to believe this because if you are a MAN and you stay home to take care of the kids for two decades while the woman brings in the money, then their is something seriously wrong with you and the woman should have left your ass a long time ago. Just imagine, the man tells the kids no, and the woman says "yes", surely the MAN'S opinion will be ignored making him feel like a bloody wimp(which he is) Anywayz, through experience i know that arguing with a woman is of no point and won't get you any kitty , so i will tell all you females here just like i have told my numerous ex's and future ex's to come,, "you are always correct" and now, here kitty, kitty kitty |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by MrsChima(f): 11:00am On Jun 05, 2011 |
Richvkunt: The person you quoted is a woman. In this case, I feel sorry for all the men who know how to sew a skirt. Damn you. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by MrsChima(f): 11:06am On Jun 05, 2011 |
omoekoni link=topic=681907.msg8457697#msg8457697 date=1307263795 Refer to the red bold. There are men who are disabled, lacks of working experience, and doesn't meet specific qualifications to obtain employment. There are men around the world including Nigeria who depends on the woman to bring home the bacon for the time being until they are able to obtain a job. Those men shouldn't be complaining about women staying home when the men can't even obtain jobs themselves. The woman is forced to work outside the home but the issue still remains SOME men do not work and still expect the woman to perform duties he expects of her. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by kandiikane(m): 11:25am On Jun 05, 2011 |
Although I understand other women's view on roles and I have given quotes on both these role I accept that for me personally. . . If I am married and I work and my husband is a house husband- I will definitely not allow that in my house. . If I have a weakling as my husband who says yes to everything I say- I will not allow that in my house. . .For me my role as a wife is to know that my husband is the head of the house, I did not marry him, he married me. I Will summit to him and do what he wants. In my marriage the moment I become the husband and wear the trousers its over. I see husbands who let their wives walk all over them as weaklings aka p[i]uss[/i]ies. I want a man who is a man and knows he is a man and takes no s[i]h[/i]it. . .I go to work come back and cook and clean, I will even massage his body if he wants and even clean his ass if worst comes to worst AS long as he treats me good, respects me as a woman,wife,mother, loves me adores me does his best to bring in for the family, treats me like a queen, being faithful,affectionate. . .etc By doing all these for my husband does not me I am below him or whatever you might think but because he is going to be my king and I will do all my best to treat him as such. I am stubborn yes but when it comes to my husband its no joke thing. Btw, I was brought up in a family which mainly consists of women, where the women actually are the head of the households-being all defensive towards your husband or challenging is not what makes you the head but how you look after yourself, your husband, family and household. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by Amya(f): 12:03pm On Jun 05, 2011 |
kandiikane:[ Easier said than done! |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by MsPotato(f): 12:10pm On Jun 05, 2011 |
The world would be a much peaceful place if every one knew and accepted their role in this journey called life. U made it seem like women are the bad people on this earth. Do you actually think and feel that your phrase[b]"there is no man that can stick to ONE woman,"[/b] is a good and not evil thing? Whatever happen to your vows during your wedding day to your wife? If you guys stop cheating, than the world would not have been to an end ok? And do you honestly think the phrase [b]"Women are created to be playthings for men" [/b]would actually allow women to even respect you? Im sure they would sh1t on your face you can mark on that Men like u is what I hate and men like you are the ones that made me hate myself and Im this close o even changing my sex. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by Amya(f): 12:45pm On Jun 05, 2011 |
People are here, quoting bible passages and talking about submissiveness and all. The thing is, times have changed. What applied then(a 100 years ago and more), doesn't apply now. Then, the men brought home the bacon and the women took care of the home and family, and everyone is happy. Presently, things have changed. No one wants to marry a liability. They want to marry graduates, working class and even undergrads. Many men want their wives to work in other to supplement his income. And you still want her to be submissive and have no say in how you decide to run the family all the while nodding with approval at your wisdom. Sorry to burst your bubbles dudes, you can't have it both ways. Look at this scenario : a regular working mum, a good wife. She wakes up say 4 every morning cleans her home, makes breakfast for her family, dress her kids for school, dress herself for work, drives the kids to school, drives to work, picks the kids from school, goes back to work, finishes for the day and comes back home. she makes dinner for the family, clean up for the night, gets the kids to bed and does one or two other things that needs to be done and then wants to turn in for the night by say 11, and her husband who had gone to hangout with his boys straight from his office just came in 5 minutes ago demanding for a freshly hot dinner which the good wife scrambles to prepare. . . after which he wants to shag her and wants her to be as freaky as a LovePeddler. . . she's the good wife, so she rushes to wear her fu.c.k me lingerie that always turns him on. After pleasing her beloved husband who's now snoozing, she tries to sleep, but after what seemed like an hour, her alarm bell shrills and she has to turn it off so as not wake beloved husband. Another day begins for her. . .it goes like this, a continuous circle. She's bound to snap sooner than later. If you want a submissive wife that would rub your foot, run your baths and screw you senseless, then go to the village, pick an illiterate and provide her every need or better still you can get a robot, I hear the gynoids are becoming quite popular these days. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by duduspace(m): 1:09pm On Jun 05, 2011 |
This guy takes the mickey, didn't know such T. Rex type humans still walked the earth. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by Thirst4Lif: 3:33pm On Jun 05, 2011 |
@ Amya Very good post! Your one statement, "men want to have it both way" is so very true! |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by emmatok(m): 4:33pm On Jun 05, 2011 |
THESE SEXIEST TREAD IS STILL ALIVE. Since Men and Women don't wont to accept their roles. Instead they want to compete with each other. Let the woman become the man, and the man becomes the woman. Happy now. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by Nobody: 4:57pm On Jun 05, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima: I was refering to the man who for two decades played the role of a wife,while the wife played his role. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jun 05, 2011 |
duduspace: T.Rex reporting for duty and you sir need to sew a skirt. |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by 190: 5:30pm On Jun 05, 2011 |
emmatok: Abi oo One thing i have noticed here is most women esp those making stupiiiid comments on this thread readily wish they were men ( who can blame them ) I keep saying it over and over ( women Should worry bout how to train children ) face the pains from the labour room instead of worrying bout power they would never get has oprah ever been to the labour room sef and she calls herself a woman beyonce -- No kids Tyra banks-- no kids and these are some women'z role models smh !! No woman without a child is capable of been called a woman, shes should be called an ANIMAL |
Re: Men And Women: Please Know Your Role In Life by SouthChi(m): 5:38pm On Jun 05, 2011 |
You believe the sole basis for manhood is being a dominant provider.(not to be confused with a love-vendor) Then thats too bad, because you want your women to submit to men based on their ability to provide, then you are going to lose your women. No wonder African women are exploited so much, because they are taught to submit to a provider. No wonder people with "money" travel to the "land of the provider", there are no principles to stop them. You callously justify cheating on your wives ,as you see fit, but wonder why your women are seeking men outside of Nigeria. --------------------------------------------------------- My prediction is that the male population in Nigeria will continue to grow and all your educated women will continue to leave. I predict that homosexuality among Nigerian men will multiply in direct correlation with the increasing disparity between the men to women ratio. I predict that the same oppressive mindset that justifies female oppression will also feed the fear and denial of Nigeria's homosexual underground. I also predict that the children's children of this "new era" Nigerian women are going to organize and fight this issue from the inside and the children of the educated Nigerian women who left are going to fight the issue from the outside. Somewhere in the middle of this, the real truth will emerge, insecurity will surface in the form of increased violence against women. Violence is what really makes oppression work, so stop hiding behind the bibles, |
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