I was in a mall with my wife and my 6 year old
At a makeup store, my 6 year old ask me to leave the store
I said OK and walk out
Few minutes later, I was walking back into the store and she said leave Dad
It final get done on me why my 6 year old was asking to leave the store , so that she can get some makeup
She know I don't like her have a makeup

shouldnt she be arguing over toys and not makeup.

anyway, I would throw the stuff in the trash later, assuming you dont want to cause a scene at the store.

what kind of makeup btw- full war paint or just kiddie nail polish.

NO COMMENT.... JUST GOING TO ASK OTHERS.

Husband or no husband,she shud av told the man.he had a frigging right to know wat his wifey was up to...lets b honest,if the man had done something that the woman had made clear she didn't like it would have bin hell on earth.#FACT#

fatterman: I am married and Live with My wife at Home ,This morning as my wife was sleeping and her phone was ringing, so I woke her up to her pick calls, to my surprise she was rushing very fast and hiding her body, and I ask what is wrong with you, what i saw was so suprising, she has tattoo all over her body, she never tell me her plans to draw a tattoo on her , and i never like a tattoo, she draw the tattoo on her bosom, waist, private parts, and shoulders, hmmm, I am still at shock, I don’t know what to do, I ask her what is the meaning of what she did, she never responded to me, My question is how can a married woman draw a tattoo without her husband permission? I am very angry now, I just rush out now, and still thinking what to do?

my brother you we can't control them, we just have to try to tolerate them, secondly it seems to a high degree you are not in control of your wife, not as in commanding control but logical reasoning control, does she have kids yet? if she doesn't, whats your problem? if she had kids, my submission it would have made her more responsible, you know extra responsibilities, it seems she like to go out of way a bit to freak you out so you could have a possible disagreement which can not be reported to anyone because they would look at it as trivialities, so my brother if you don't go to church START NOW SERIOUS I MEANT SERIOUSLY O! hoping the relationship would not go southwards.

Mr H2: you dont own her she can draw a tattoo whenever and wherever she wants. you dont get to decide for her even though she's married to you.

Kemmeya, u b beta mum, na ur typ woman go control till u die. If a wife, who is suppsd 2 1 body wit d husby, will do such a thing witout her husbys consent, den u must b a fool.

U aren't making sense o, why u dey diss person wey dey speak same thing with u

No disrespect but mayb her bf likes it..

I should be worried if I am confronted with such a sight if my wife does something behind me without informing me. There are some surprises I will personally take whilst some others, I will frown at. It is obvious that she knew her husband detest tatoos that is why she was hiding her body from him. I cardinal rule between a married couple has been breached but there is still hope if they want to keep the relatioship. They should talk.

tiniyata: OP another guy that digz your wife has asked her to get the tatoo,or he prolly was the one that did it,if not why was she hiding it from you,and come to think of it,how can a married woman go naked for another man to tatoo? thats preposterous! the guy go just de finger the punny join. . .kai its painful,i really do feel the OP pain. but wait o,which kind tatoo did she draw on her kpekus? if its a big dikc na im be say your own don finish o.

you've just got d truth of the matter from this poster!

According to one of the earlier comments, the decision was Influenced by somebody more important to her. You're just not as important as the other person if I may be straight forward with you. She doesn't just bloody care about you and whatever it is you may feel.

bennyraz: When i was talking about rules & regulations in relationship, most people felt i was weird. You see what am talking now abi? If there where rules & regulation in the Ops relationship, trust me, his wife will never do anything without his consent. So POSTER,GUYS, WHAT IS THE SOLUTION Poster, tell you wife to ERASE it if it is INKED. Me have gat tatoo on neck and hand, i don't think it's bad sha.

You are right.She is just worldly and wants to feel among.She doesn't respect her husband as well.What a shame!

you do understand your wife
if she did many at a time, am guessing its more of defiance than anything else

the best you can do is voice your anger at it, and don't talk about it again, cos she might have done it to get you pissed off.
and in future, when she is talking about it, just ignore her as if she is not in the room. She would get the message

My girlfriend does like tattoos and when we met she was showing me the recent one and talking about the next.
she has got the trailer stamp (well i don't tell her that's what classy people call tattoos on the backside)
I just told her that i don't like tattoos and none is ever getting on my skin.

We've been going out for over 2 years now and she has never said she is going for another tattoo and even if she decides to, she knows the enthusiasm ends on her facebook page and friends.

And sincerely after a while, you would really not remember it is there

Me i neva marry o but i fit tell when my babe dey hide something. As in....if to say her phone no ring, op for no find out about the tattoos? U live in the same house with your wife and u don't know when or how she got a tattoo, and u only saw it when she got out of bed...obviously, there is a disconnect somewhere.

maybe it was the result of a prank while she was drunk.

or she was under peer pressure- strange things happen.

U live in the same house with your wife and u don't know when or how she got a tattoo, and u only saw it when she got out of bed...obviously, there is a disconnect somewhere

true.

I love tattoo and my wife wouldn't go for it. Seeing how stunning it appears on ladies, I feel so terrible that my wife hate the idea with passion. Funny enough, apart from being a former beautify queen, she's also involved in the movie industry (production, artist make-up and script writing), where tattoo etching is widespread. What a shame! Anytime I see a lady with tattoo (especially coloured ones), the essential branch of my body will just rise and become as hard as rod.

My guy, you’re pretty damn fortunate that your wife likes tattoos. I kinda envy you.

This is funny, this made me call my wife to read this thread with me.
@OP
u aint married yet.
am suprised some folks here only said she would have told her husband, gawd!! get your senses back guys, there is a great chasm between having a moderate fancy tattoo and having tattoos on private parts. western culture my a$$. next is ear rings on her private parts and then she will appear in a pornographic Movie soon.

i wonder where you get that kinda wife from, in a disco i guess.

Her level don pass your own... Guy Upgrade ...lol

^^^tramp stamp nt trailer stamp.

@op either u did something to piss her off and she's getting back @ u with 'henna tatts' or she's dumping you and she wants to make you the guilty party.

OP I don't know if its safe to say she has no respect for you\your feelings but what she did sure suggests that.

True its her body but hey she's married and as a married woman,you don't just run off and get tattoos in the most sacred places without your husband's consent.

What makes this one worse is that she knows her husband doesn't dig tattoos,i strongly believe she maybe tired of the OP or is having an affair cos i see no reason why she would deliberately do something she knows would hurt his feelings without blinking an eye,to make it more annoying,she had them drawn places where he'd frequently see them,kai and e fit be another man draw the thing for her sef .

OP,I advice you calm down and talk with her,like seriously ask her what the ish is all about,I read somewhere in your post that you don't trust her,well that's another thing to look into,I believe you both don't have a good relationship,

@freecocoa,
I never knew yu had wisdom until today.

@op
Above is the best post and I totally agree wif you.

But looking at some pples post they are really foolish.how can someone say a married woman should not seek permission frm her husband before drawing tattoo on private parts meant for his eyes only?haba. Who drew it now has the right to see it abi?
Some of you hear are foolish I swear.

Your wife has a guy dat she adores and worship and he fancies tattoo.that's the.truth.

haba!!!
what the woman did was plain wrong
she is MARRIED and should always have it in mind that it is a partnership affair
The deed is done, if she can get rid of it, good, if not u gat to accept it and live with it

Mr H2: you dont own her she can draw a tattoo whenever and wherever she wants. you dont get to decide for her even though she's married to you.

Kemmeya, u b beta mum, na ur typ woman go control till u die. If a wife, who is suppsd 2 1 body wit d husby, will do such a thing witout her husbys consent, den u must b a fool.

its kemmeye re.tard open your eyes. so wth is your problem like really did you just wake up today and out of all the stu.pid things you waste your life doing decide to insult me like wtf is wrong with you .if you have problems go see a shrink and stop trying to start a fight i'm sure you'll never in your stupid miserable life try to start if you were face to face with me as..s.hole

That was wrong of her!not even considering her marriage & how the hubby will feel about it.Even if she wasn't married she should be consulting her partner before doing certain things talkless of her husband.A virtous woman is accountable to her hubby and God..In as must as she owes her body the Bible mandates her to be under the husband she owes him Humility.They could have discussed it!

My brother....this ur wife is really acting strange.dont be suprised if its her lover that did dat to her!I want u to be vry careful with her,she can harm u....

Welcome to the New World of EMANCIPATED women!! . I hope she did not draw the head of BAPHOMET on her boobies? . I can imagine what this hapless brotha is going thru ryt now. How can he go home at xmas, then introduce the LADY GAGA beside him as his WIFE? LOrd have mercy!!!

[b] FROM MY ANALYSIS OF THIS STORY HERE ARE MY CONCLUSIONS

1, OP IS A BIG LIAR THIS NEVER HAPPENED TO HIM.

2, HIS WIFE IS THE BREAD WINNER OF THE FAMILY, SO HIS OPINION DOES NOT COUNT

3, HIS WIFE IS HAVING AN AFFAIR SINCE HE DID NOT NOTICE THE TATOOS

4, HE DOES NOT COMMUNICATE WITH HIS WIFE SO HE WOULD NOT KNOW WHAT SHE INTENDS DOING

5, HIS WIFE NEVER GOT TO KNOW HIM, BECAUSE IF SHE DID, SHE WILL KNOW HER HUSBAND DOES NOT LIKE TATOO

6, HIS WIFE GAVE HIM MONEY TO PAY HER BRIDE PRICE AND SHE HAS A BF NOW THAT SHE IS MARRIED, THAT'S WHY SHE HAS NO RESPECT FOR HIM AND DID NOT THINK IT WISE TO CONSULT HIM.

7,HE MUST HAVE DONE SOMETHING THAT MADE HIS WIFE LOOSE ALL THE RESPECT SHE HAS FOR HIM AND DOES NOT CONSIDER HIM IN HER DECISIONS.

8, LIKE I SAID, THE WIFE IS THE BREAD WINNER, WHY CANT U PICK UR WIVES PHONE WHEN ITS RINGING? WHY WILL U WAKE HER FIRST TO PICK THE CALL, SHE MUST BE THE MADAM OF THE HOUSE.

SO OP YOU CAN CHOOSE FROM ANY OF THE ABOVE AND TELL US WHICH ONE BEST DESCRIBES U .[/b]

[size=15pt]I will send her home to go and bring her parents like student wey never pay school fees. WTF!![/size]

Who even drew those tatoos on her sacred members?

It may be that you misjudged her character before you married her. It happens. My advice, monitor her closely from now on, you may need to start thinking of taking a second wife(assuming that you have the financial capacity to support a polygamous family) but by all(any) means condition your decisions to avoid having to sacrifice too much of your values and future aspirations.

When these kind of people want to bleed a man dry, it usually starts with little sips like this. Today, tattoo, tomorrow boyfriend.

kemmeye: you dont own her she can draw a tattoo whenever and wherever she wants. you dont get to decide for her even though she's married to you

..u are mad,if ya is behaving funny and dat sets in u shld pamper her

I wouldn't have a problem with them if they are inked at places that are somewhat hidden to the wider public.

Baba_Eleko: [size=15pt]I will send her home to go and bring her parents like student wey never pay school fees. WTF!![/size]

Gbam!

Please ask her how the tattoos were drawn, by a male? Was her panties down?
If her panties was down, be ready for the worse.

#SMH#