Onasa22:
please, the woman is at fault for not seeking her husband permission, unless u don't know what it entails to be married.

Did you see me write anything along the lines of it not being her fault. Again i said she can do what she wants and that the husband does not get to make decisions FOR her not WITH her huge difference. so lets assume she asks him( put it in mind that she really really wants to get it done) which im sure he might have said no to does that not make him selfish so his decision stands but hers doesn't is that what youre saying.

worldman2: I believe u most be out of ur senses a house wife that he paid her bride price if u don't have some thing to say keep quiet

so because he paid her bride price she cant get it done? so a wife is a commodity not a human being? so she's a slave just because he happened to give her parents some items so she cant make decisions on her own oh let me guess she has to let you know before she applies for a job or before she takes a shower in the morning and im the one out of my mind huh.

Reptyle: Strange that some folks here think tis ok for a married woman to run off and modify herself without discussing with her spouse and getting his consent Her action is grave enough to end some marriages!!! Even as oyinbo dey crase reach, them still dey get the consent of their husband before dem dey do body modification...at least I dey watch Doctor 90210 and "Skin Deep" and I dey see how men dey escort dem wives come tattoo parlour or hospital to come get breast implants etc. Using myself as an example, I have been trying to get a power bike for years but because my wife does not agree, I have not been able to get one. This is inspite of the fact that she is fully aware I used to own one in school right up to the point where we started dating. Its not like I cannot afford one or just run off and get one inspite of her protest. I hold back out of respect for her as my significant other.

@ Kemmye
While I respect your opinion, I beg to differ a bit. When you get married, your body no longer belongs to you by implication. It is no longer yours to do with it what you will...just as your husband's body is no longer his to do with it what he wills without your buy-in. That is why it's called "Cheating" when you lay with another person or he with another ooutside...except it be by mutual consent...

Thanks for not insulting me and i do understand you trust me. however some quote on quote men here think im saying crap all because i said she can do whatever she likes and he does not get to make decisions for her. note i didnt say with her someone said it earlier than even if the guy says no if she wants to do it she will. but some people think if the "man" says no she's not supposed to do it? y not. so she doesn't get a say in any decision but he does all because of bride price or some crap like that like are you kidding me.

Op...she's definitely cheatin on u...
Makin her partner marvel at d sight of d tattoo.....cus its definitely not for u..


If na me...no mAtter how long d mArriage..na alt+delete.. No mercy..

Imagine d kindA fool dey'd have made of u?

Just wondering I have a wife, and then she goes of and do something she knows very well I don't like, without even making an effort to convince me why she wants it.
Hmmmmm may God not let me see such, am still thinking on the best way to react. Cos I dare not say something I have not yet experienced.
Because if na me as I be so, na God go help me and the woman for that house. Cos she obiously doesn't value her marriage.

fatterman: I am married and Live with My wife at Home ,This morning as my wife was sleeping and her phone was ringing, so I woke her up to her pick calls, to my surprise she was rushing very fast and hiding her body, and I ask what is wrong with you, what i saw was so suprsing, she has tattoo all over her body, she never tell me her plans to draw a tattoo on her , and i never like a tattoo, she draw the tattoo on her bosom, waist, private parts, and shoulders, hmmm, I am still at shock, I don’t know what to do, I ask her what is the meaning of what she did, she never responded to me, My question is how can a married woman draw a tattoo without her husband permission? I am very angry now, I just rush out now, and still thinking what to do?

Since she doesn't care about opinion, ignore her.

Do your things without her permission and opinion.


Fair is Fair.

kemeye, are you male or female?

Kingsleyinfo: Just wondering I have a wife, and then she goes of and do something she knows very well I don't like, without even making an effort to convince me why she wants it.
Hmmmmm may God not let me see such, am still thinking on the best way to react. Cos I dare not say something I have not yet experienced.
Because if na me as I be so, na God go help me and the woman for that house. Cos she obiously doesn't value her marriage.

pack her bags and throw her [b]a[/b]ss out and tell her to go and either stay at the house of whoever told her to have that tattoo OR at the tattoo artist place. lol!

my own is even worst, if she "drastically" changes her hairstyle without informing me, and the look is not to my liking,thats a YELLOW CARD........and if she doesnt sort it out? RED CARD and out!!!!

i once broke up with one gal that suddenly lost her damn mind and decided to be pro black. at first she looked nice with her new afro but then it got out of hand and she looked CRAZY with this HUGE afro on her head. when i asked her to do something about it and she wouldnt (she claimed she looked like Angela Davies), i gave her a RED CARD and told her to go and date Angela davies then, lol!

neyostica: kemeye, are you male or female?

i can be whatever you want me to be

fatterman: I am married and Live with My wife at Home ,This morning as my wife was sleeping and her phone was ringing, so I woke her up to her pick calls, to my surprise she was rushing very fast and hiding her body, and I ask what is wrong with you, what i saw was so suprsing, she has tattoo all over her body, she never tell me her plans to draw a tattoo on her , and i never like a tattoo, she draw the tattoo on her bosom, waist, private parts, and shoulders, hmmm, I am still at shock, I don’t know what to do, I ask her what is the meaning of what she did, she never responded to me, My question is how can a married woman draw a tattoo without her husband permission? I am very angry now, I just rush out now, and still thinking what to do?

fatterman: It so crazy that my wife could even do such, when she knows i dont fancy it? what promt her doing such in the first place? i dont trust my wife, i have been having serious doubt about her, because she behave funny these days.

You married the wrong woman, I'm sorry. Better luck next time.

Having a tattoo does not imply cheating.
What the lady has done is wrong no matter how you look at it. She has sought trouble and stress where it is absolutely unnecessary.
Except of course, she is really trying to prove a point to her husband.

And yes, women are not commodities. Because a guy has paid bride price does not mean his wife is his slave or has no input/voice/feelings.

Still, the wife's actions are not wise.

kemmeye:
i can be whatever you want me to be

i believe you are female hence your comments

neyostica:
i believe you are female hence your comments

*shrugs* idk am i?

kemmeye:

*shrugs* idk am i?

your words absent meaning

991: This is funny, this made me call my wife to read this thread with me.
@OP
u aint married yet.
am suprised some folks here only said she would have told her husband, gawd!! get your senses back guys, there is a great chasm between having a moderate fancy tattoo and having tattoos on private parts. western culture my a$$. next is ear rings on her private parts and then she will appear in a pornographic Movie soon.

i wonder where you get that kinda wife from, in a disco i guess.

God bless u man

neyostica:
your words absent meaning

and you think yours has meaning?

Duke_Nija: @op Truth be told, i don't understand how people make justifications for rubbish. How can a married woman tattoo her private areas without her husbands consent. Even when she knows he hates tattoos? I have one word for you. She's most probably having an affair, or is sick of her marriage. Just Get a divorce.

Very easy to say but very hard to do (DIVORCE, you may be on it for 5years in court) thou but it is the truth if you can CON, her to church preferably winners let Pastor Oyedepo slap the madness out of her I guess she would realise, she is being possessed by an EVIL SPIRIT! Seriously (if you descend on her they would shout you are molesting her allow someone with the spiritual authority the opportunity to do it) I am serious

^^what would going to see your pastor do? will pastor Oyedepo's slap remove the obvious tattoo by miracle?!

kemmeye:

and you think yours has meaning?

jupiter c0ck

kemmeye: you dont own her she can draw a tattoo whenever and wherever she wants. you dont get to decide for her even though she's married to you

You are either divorced or in an unmarried relationship or some single mother who have no hope of getting married...which is which?

Agreed, he did not own her....She should have at least have the courtesy to inform him before attempting to put permanent ink on her body...If he refused and she does it, that will be a different story...she would have at least told him why she wanted to have it done. That is how a husband and wife take care of business at home.....Each of them lost their in dependency the day, the both said "I do"

This z one of d reasons y kills always advice us on datin sum1 well b4 marrying the person.personally 4me,i come 4rm a christian family and we dont condone tatoos of any kind.so if after dating a gurl who knows i hate tatoos and promised not to have 1 but lerra turn around to have a tatoo after we got married,read my lips ''ITS OVER''....CHIKENA...i know its sounds harsh but thats the cold truth.to me,d OP neva truly dated his wife well cos he wud have seen this coming

MRbrownJAY:

pack her bags and throw her [b]a[/b]ss out and tell her to go and either stay at the house of whoever told her to have that tattoo OR at the tattoo artist place. lol!

my own is even worst, if she "drastically" changes her hairstyle without informing me, and the look is not to my liking,thats a YELLOW CARD........and if she doesnt sort it out? RED CARD and out!!!!

i once broke up with one gal that suddenly lost her damn mind and decided to be pro black. at first she looked nice with her new afro but then it got out of hand and she looked CRAZY with this HUGE afro on her head. when i asked her to do something about it and she wouldnt (she claimed she looked like Angela Davies), i gave her a RED CARD and told her to go and date Angela davies then, lol!

Thumb up bruv Massimo Bussaca! Aside, every woman is expected to be submisive to her HUSBY; a gud reason 4many celebrities' marriages collapse.

linearity:

You are either divorced or in an unmarried relationship or some single mother who have no hope of getting married...which is which?

Agreed, he did not own her....She should have at least have the courtesy to inform him before attempting to put permanent ink on her body...If he refused and she does it, that will be a different story...she would have at least told him why she wanted to have it done. That is how a husband and wife take care of business at home.....Each of them lost their in dependency the day, the both said "I do"

are you effing kidding me or you didnt even read what i wrote i said for her not with her jeez i think thats the problem a whole lot of you are mis interpreting what i said i didnt say her not discussing it with him was good. Again i said she should be able to do what she wants and no one gets to make the decision "FOR" her. geez and if you dont still get it then i dont know what to say anymore

neyostica:

jupiter c0ck

*sigh* you're acting like a kid and i have no time for that crap.

kemmeye:
*sigh* you're acting like a kid and i have no time for that crap.

still tongue or see it parted from fuckin mouth

these days women behaves so much like bitches in the name of tattoos

neyostica:
still tongue or see it parted from fuckin mouth

ok so you're a creep why are you suddenly picking a fight did you go off your meds or did someone stab you in the balls? stop acting like a freaking stalker afterall you did ask me a question i didnt know you were insane i would have left you alone. I know a shrink i can refer you to cuz you sure as hell need one i mean whats wrong with you?

p.s while you are at it go back to middle school or something and learn ENGLISH

kemmeye:

ok so you're a creep why are you suddenly picking a fight did you go off your meds or did someone stab you in the balls? stop acting like a freaking stalker afterall you did ask me a question i didnt know you were insane i would have left you alone. I know a shrink i can refer you to cuz you sure as hell need one i mean whats wrong with you?

p.s while you are at it go back to middle school or something and learn ENGLISH

you give foul tongue, absent thought, with no course

neyostica:
you give foul tongue, absent thought, with no course

you need help asap i mean who writes like that. weirdo

Oh! Men, did you say on the private parts, a married woman... Special
Places for the landlord himself!
Wait a second, did they actually say, let their be tattoos and their
Where tatoos or did She just open all those parts.

If she have not born any child for you, ha! You took a wrong turn, but if
She Ave kid/kids maybe she want to feel young again but she will still go
Gaga again if care not taking

Talk to her and be two steps ahead of her from now on words. Goodluck

MRbrownJAY: ^^what would going to see your pastor do? will pastor Oyedepo's slap remove the obvious tattoo by miracle?!

Jumping to conclusions, that I attend the church, hmm, well I don't, but my church would do more then what Pst. Oyedepo would do to her, so for an easy way out, that would still get the job done I just proffered a solution, that might work without allowing the "affair" to go southwards (DIVORCE) my opinion! It wouldn't remove the tattoo, but I can assure you she would go and remove the tattoo herself eh! With immediate alacrity by the time they finish telling her the evil spirits behind the ink for the tattoos, the inking needles the personality, and then the thought that over came her and made her desire a tattoo in the first instance she would turn into a jelly beans

kemmeye:

you need help asap i mean who writes like that. weirdo

@OP, if the way you put it is the truth, I can guarantee you, she has no respect for you.

One thing I always tell the students attending my Masterclass on "Being a Man": A woman that does not respect you can NEVER love you.

Take this as . . . . . .


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lLCEUpIg8rE

GUY JUST CHILL OUT , FIRST OF ALL YOUR WIFE HAS MESSED UP PRETTY BAD, SHE HAS TO REALIZE THIS BY YOU TELLING HER AND HER UNDERSTANDING SHE HAS REALY MESSED UP, LET HER FIRST KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER AND HOW MUCH SHE HAS UPSET YOU THEN TRY TO FORGIVE HER SLOWLY ,LIFE IS SHORT NO ONE IS PERFECT BUT MARRIAGE MAKES YOU SEE AN IMPERFECT PERSON PERFECTLY.ONCE IN A WHILE TRY TO JOKE ABOUT IT, BUT MEN YOU REALLY NEED TO MAKE HER KNOW YOU ARE DAMN UPSET, FOR EXAMPLE DONT TALK FOR ONE WEEK , NO CHOP FOR ONE WEEK , NO SEX FOR ONE WEEK, JUST KEEP TO YOURSELF. PLEASE DONT SHOUT AT HER, DONT LET HER SEE THE WORST YOU CAN DO. I HOPE YOU GET OVER THIS, HAVE A HAPPY MARIED LIFE. YOU CAN ALSO GET A TATOO TO YOUR BUTT TO GET EVEN. CHEERS[/i][i][/i][/color]