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Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by kemmeye: 8:03pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
Onasa22: Did you see me write anything along the lines of it not being her fault. Again i said she can do what she wants and that the husband does not get to make decisions FOR her not WITH her huge difference. so lets assume she asks him( put it in mind that she really really wants to get it done) which im sure he might have said no to does that not make him selfish so his decision stands but hers doesn't is that what youre saying. worldman2: I believe u most be out of ur senses a house wife that he paid her bride price if u don't have some thing to say keep quietso because he paid her bride price she cant get it done? so a wife is a commodity not a human being? so she's a slave just because he happened to give her parents some items so she cant make decisions on her own oh let me guess she has to let you know before she applies for a job or before she takes a shower in the morning and im the one out of my mind huh. Reptyle: Strange that some folks here think tis ok for a married woman to run off and modify herself without discussing with her spouse and getting his consent Her action is grave enough to end some marriages!!! Even as oyinbo dey crase reach, them still dey get the consent of their husband before dem dey do body modification...at least I dey watch Doctor 90210 and "Skin Deep" and I dey see how men dey escort dem wives come tattoo parlour or hospital to come get breast implants etc. Using myself as an example, I have been trying to get a power bike for years but because my wife does not agree, I have not been able to get one. This is inspite of the fact that she is fully aware I used to own one in school right up to the point where we started dating. Its not like I cannot afford one or just run off and get one inspite of her protest. I hold back out of respect for her as my significant other. Thanks for not insulting me and i do understand you trust me. however some quote on quote men here think im saying crap all because i said she can do whatever she likes and he does not get to make decisions for her. note i didnt say with her someone said it earlier than even if the guy says no if she wants to do it she will. but some people think if the "man" says no she's not supposed to do it? y not. so she doesn't get a say in any decision but he does all because of bride price or some crap like that like are you kidding me. |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by Nobody: 8:21pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
Op...she's definitely cheatin on u... Makin her partner marvel at d sight of d tattoo.....cus its definitely not for u.. If na me...no mAtter how long d mArriage..na alt+delete.. No mercy.. Imagine d kindA fool dey'd have made of u? |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by Nobody: 8:29pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
Just wondering I have a wife, and then she goes of and do something she knows very well I don't like, without even making an effort to convince me why she wants it. Hmmmmm may God not let me see such, am still thinking on the best way to react. Cos I dare not say something I have not yet experienced. Because if na me as I be so, na God go help me and the woman for that house. Cos she obiously doesn't value her marriage. |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by emmatok(m): 8:33pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
fatterman: I am married and Live with My wife at Home ,This morning as my wife was sleeping and her phone was ringing, so I woke her up to her pick calls, to my surprise she was rushing very fast and hiding her body, and I ask what is wrong with you, what i saw was so suprsing, she has tattoo all over her body, she never tell me her plans to draw a tattoo on her , and i never like a tattoo, she draw the tattoo on her bosom, waist, private parts, and shoulders, hmmm, I am still at shock, I don’t know what to do, I ask her what is the meaning of what she did, she never responded to me, My question is how can a married woman draw a tattoo without her husband permission? I am very angry now, I just rush out now, and still thinking what to do? Since she doesn't care about opinion, ignore her. Do your things without her permission and opinion. Fair is Fair. |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by neyostica: 8:33pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
kemeye, are you male or female? |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by Nobody: 8:40pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
Kingsleyinfo: Just wondering I have a wife, and then she goes of and do something she knows very well I don't like, without even making an effort to convince me why she wants it. pack her bags and throw her [b]a[/b]ss out and tell her to go and either stay at the house of whoever told her to have that tattoo OR at the tattoo artist place. lol! my own is even worst, if she "drastically" changes her hairstyle without informing me, and the look is not to my liking,thats a YELLOW CARD........and if she doesnt sort it out? RED CARD and out!!!! i once broke up with one gal that suddenly lost her damn mind and decided to be pro black. at first she looked nice with her new afro but then it got out of hand and she looked CRAZY with this HUGE afro on her head. when i asked her to do something about it and she wouldnt (she claimed she looked like Angela Davies), i gave her a RED CARD and told her to go and date Angela davies then, lol! |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by kemmeye: 8:41pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
neyostica: kemeye, are you male or female? i can be whatever you want me to be |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by isalegan2: 8:41pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
fatterman: I am married and Live with My wife at Home ,This morning as my wife was sleeping and her phone was ringing, so I woke her up to her pick calls, to my surprise she was rushing very fast and hiding her body, and I ask what is wrong with you, what i saw was so suprsing, she has tattoo all over her body, she never tell me her plans to draw a tattoo on her , and i never like a tattoo, she draw the tattoo on her bosom, waist, private parts, and shoulders, hmmm, I am still at shock, I don’t know what to do, I ask her what is the meaning of what she did, she never responded to me, My question is how can a married woman draw a tattoo without her husband permission? I am very angry now, I just rush out now, and still thinking what to do? fatterman: It so crazy that my wife could even do such, when she knows i dont fancy it? what promt her doing such in the first place? i dont trust my wife, i have been having serious doubt about her, because she behave funny these days. You married the wrong woman, I'm sorry. Better luck next time. |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by deniyor: 8:42pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
Having a tattoo does not imply cheating. What the lady has done is wrong no matter how you look at it. She has sought trouble and stress where it is absolutely unnecessary. Except of course, she is really trying to prove a point to her husband. And yes, women are not commodities. Because a guy has paid bride price does not mean his wife is his slave or has no input/voice/feelings. Still, the wife's actions are not wise. |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by neyostica: 8:46pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
kemmeye:i believe you are female hence your comments |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by kemmeye: 8:48pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
neyostica: *shrugs* idk am i? |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by neyostica: 8:51pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
kemmeye:your words absent meaning |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by Nobody: 8:53pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
991: This is funny, this made me call my wife to read this thread with me.God bless u man |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by kemmeye: 8:53pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
neyostica: and you think yours has meaning? |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by olajide8(m): 8:54pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
Duke_Nija: @op Truth be told, i don't understand how people make justifications for rubbish. How can a married woman tattoo her private areas without her husbands consent. Even when she knows he hates tattoos? I have one word for you. She's most probably having an affair, or is sick of her marriage. Just Get a divorce.Very easy to say but very hard to do (DIVORCE, you may be on it for 5years in court) thou but it is the truth if you can CON, her to church preferably winners let Pastor Oyedepo slap the madness out of her I guess she would realise, she is being possessed by an EVIL SPIRIT! Seriously (if you descend on her they would shout you are molesting her allow someone with the spiritual authority the opportunity to do it) I am serious |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by Nobody: 9:02pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
^^what would going to see your pastor do? will pastor Oyedepo's slap remove the obvious tattoo by miracle?! |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by neyostica: 9:02pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
kemmeye:jupiter c0ck |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by linearity: 9:02pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
kemmeye: you dont own her she can draw a tattoo whenever and wherever she wants. you dont get to decide for her even though she's married to you You are either divorced or in an unmarried relationship or some single mother who have no hope of getting married...which is which? Agreed, he did not own her....She should have at least have the courtesy to inform him before attempting to put permanent ink on her body...If he refused and she does it, that will be a different story...she would have at least told him why she wanted to have it done. That is how a husband and wife take care of business at home.....Each of them lost their in dependency the day, the both said "I do" |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by Nobody: 9:03pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
This z one of d reasons y kills always advice us on datin sum1 well b4 marrying the person.personally 4me,i come 4rm a christian family and we dont condone tatoos of any kind.so if after dating a gurl who knows i hate tatoos and promised not to have 1 but lerra turn around to have a tatoo after we got married,read my lips ''ITS OVER''....CHIKENA...i know its sounds harsh but thats the cold truth.to me,d OP neva truly dated his wife well cos he wud have seen this coming |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by opabukun(m): 9:04pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: Thumb up bruv Massimo Bussaca! Aside, every woman is expected to be submisive to her HUSBY; a gud reason 4many celebrities' marriages collapse. |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by kemmeye: 9:09pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
linearity: are you effing kidding me or you didnt even read what i wrote i said for her not with her jeez i think thats the problem a whole lot of you are mis interpreting what i said i didnt say her not discussing it with him was good. Again i said she should be able to do what she wants and no one gets to make the decision "FOR" her. geez and if you dont still get it then i dont know what to say anymore neyostica: *sigh* you're acting like a kid and i have no time for that crap. |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by neyostica: 9:13pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
kemmeye:still tongue or see it parted from fuckin mouth |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by Revolva(m): 9:13pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
these days women behaves so much like bitches in the name of tattoos |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by kemmeye: 9:23pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
neyostica: ok so you're a creep why are you suddenly picking a fight did you go off your meds or did someone stab you in the balls? stop acting like a freaking stalker afterall you did ask me a question i didnt know you were insane i would have left you alone. I know a shrink i can refer you to cuz you sure as hell need one i mean whats wrong with you? p.s while you are at it go back to middle school or something and learn ENGLISH |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by neyostica: 9:44pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
kemmeye:you give foul tongue, absent thought, with no course |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by kemmeye: 9:47pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
neyostica: you need help asap i mean who writes like that. weirdo |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by iykemanchi(m): 9:47pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
Oh! Men, did you say on the private parts, a married woman... Special Places for the landlord himself! Wait a second, did they actually say, let their be tattoos and their Where tatoos or did She just open all those parts. If she have not born any child for you, ha! You took a wrong turn, but if She Ave kid/kids maybe she want to feel young again but she will still go Gaga again if care not taking Talk to her and be two steps ahead of her from now on words. Goodluck |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by olajide8(m): 9:49pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: ^^what would going to see your pastor do? will pastor Oyedepo's slap remove the obvious tattoo by miracle?!Jumping to conclusions, that I attend the church, hmm, well I don't, but my church would do more then what Pst. Oyedepo would do to her, so for an easy way out, that would still get the job done I just proffered a solution, that might work without allowing the "affair" to go southwards (DIVORCE) my opinion! It wouldn't remove the tattoo, but I can assure you she would go and remove the tattoo herself eh! With immediate alacrity by the time they finish telling her the evil spirits behind the ink for the tattoos, the inking needles the personality, and then the thought that over came her and made her desire a tattoo in the first instance she would turn into a jelly beans |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by neyostica: 9:54pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
kemmeye: |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by Sagamite(m): 9:57pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
@OP, if the way you put it is the truth, I can guarantee you, she has no respect for you. One thing I always tell the students attending my Masterclass on "Being a Man": A woman that does not respect you can NEVER love you. Take this as . . . . . . https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lLCEUpIg8rE |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by 100gigabytes: 10:02pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
GUY JUST CHILL OUT , FIRST OF ALL YOUR WIFE HAS MESSED UP PRETTY BAD, SHE HAS TO REALIZE THIS BY YOU TELLING HER AND HER UNDERSTANDING SHE HAS REALY MESSED UP, LET HER FIRST KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER AND HOW MUCH SHE HAS UPSET YOU THEN TRY TO FORGIVE HER SLOWLY ,LIFE IS SHORT NO ONE IS PERFECT BUT MARRIAGE MAKES YOU SEE AN IMPERFECT PERSON PERFECTLY.ONCE IN A WHILE TRY TO JOKE ABOUT IT, BUT MEN YOU REALLY NEED TO MAKE HER KNOW YOU ARE DAMN UPSET, FOR EXAMPLE DONT TALK FOR ONE WEEK , NO CHOP FOR ONE WEEK , NO SEX FOR ONE WEEK, JUST KEEP TO YOURSELF. PLEASE DONT SHOUT AT HER, DONT LET HER SEE THE WORST YOU CAN DO. I HOPE YOU GET OVER THIS, HAVE A HAPPY MARIED LIFE. YOU CAN ALSO GET A TATOO TO YOUR BUTT TO GET EVEN. CHEERS[/i][i][/i][/color] |
Re: Wife had Tattoo Inked all over her body Without My Consent by richardbry: 10:04pm On Apr 10, 2012 |
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