dont try to manage it o.cos it might get to a point where anything he does will irritate you.its better for you to just move on and find love elsewhere

I think the only reason this lady thinks she is not attracted to this guy is because he is always around whenever she needs him. If the guy can just stop putting his heart on his tongue and get tough on her the tide will turn immediately. Most women find it difficult to love what they feel they can manipulate or control anytime. Let the guy start to withdraw from her she will start to chase him. You begin to wonder when some women start to cry that a guy stops chasing or loving them when they start to love the guys. Which man won't get tired of you after a long term of unreciprocated affort?. This lady probably won't value that guy until she loses him. By the way, if you don't want him why are you keeping him around for material benefit? that's wickedness. Stop seeing the guy all you are doing is using him or else you may end up hurting him or turn him to a hard core player and make life difficult for other women with good intentions.

when u are not attracted to the guy what are you doing with him then i think there is more than you are saying its better for to let go cos u will get tired of the guy oneday and it mite be late to quit

They say you will never know the value of something until you loose it. You have someone that treats you like a queen and is willing to marry you. And you're here saying you don't feel anything about him. Am sure that if you see him with some other girl, all those feelings you didn't have for him would disappear. You would be the one begging him to come back to you.

I feel really bad for this man.

I wonder what happened,
did she let him go and he is better now or did she see past his ugliness?

for love my dear there is no stability where there is no love

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