freecocoa: if i were the OP,I'd look out for other signs and forget about the phone.

Mkenyaa: The no. of dirty secrets stored in someone's phone is directly proportional to how quick they grab it from you when you take it.

Mkenyaa: The no. of dirty secrets stored in someone's phone is directly proportional to how quick they grab it from you when you take it.

Mkenyaa: The no. of dirty secrets stored in someone's phone is directly proportional to how quick they grab it from you when you take it.

born2fuck: Listen my bros poster, never give her awareness, don't even show green light, pretend and you get a result, don't ask for her phone but always have your mind there . Even when she drop the phone beside you. Ignored as if you don't even see anything but I assure say a day go come when she will lost herself either by sleep and or walk away since you have not been bothering,her mind will not even be on phone and if she is the type that locked phone with phone code, monitored her call, if she goes out to call definitely she is cheating.. I dey bear born2fuck, no bi because my mama and papa give me but caught two girls with phone, one with text in her phone, the guy wrote,meet me at pab hotel and the other, a called from Baba alaye, see. Me now, my life don change, 2 heart breaking, I have broken more than 10, Bleep prostitutes and street girls close to 200

pendo89: What do u want to do with her phone?
I dont let anybody touch my phone anyhow

Scash: There no biggie joor... Lots of guys might be asking her out and she just doesn't want you to see it. I have a friend that coded her fone cos of her bf, said he'l get an heart attack if he gets to read her inbox... But shez very devoted to him
So if shez actually planning to marry u... Put ur body on d ground, diaz no problem.
Its when you start suspectin shady bizness u shld worry

Abbeycity88: exactly!!! wot oda sign?

Scash: There no biggie joor... Lots of guys might be asking her out and she just doesn't want you to see it. I have a friend that coded her fone cos of her bf, said he'l get an heart attack if he gets to read her inbox... But shez very devoted to him
So if shez actually planning to marry u... Put ur body on d ground, diaz no problem.
Its when you start suspectin shady bizness u shld worry

Mrs.Chima:


Damn, you beat me to the punch!


Op

She is not your wife and YOU DO NOT OWN HER.

Decryptor: Hey! I thot ur husband and your in-laws warned you never to come here again?

Spirit of Okija:

Even your parents dont have that kind of openess..

Some of you have a really fairy tale idea of married life.. Some couples are still shy of walking b'utt n'aked in front of each other.. Some spouses do not know how much each other earns so why would her keep her phone private mean they are not ready to be married?!

The Guy has issues of trust and thats gonna be a problem in the future.. He could get paranoid and start beating her at the slightest suspicion of infidelity, he may even kill her one day in a blind jealous rage..

If I knew the girl, I would advice her to dump him.

sazycul: I think most girls does that, my girlfriend doesn't allow me to touch her phone either, just because she doesn't want me to feel bad and worried, she loves me so much that she won't let me listening to her conversations, girls will always receive love calls or text messages even if they are married,if you keep going through their phone, you'll get heart broken

lucom:


In making your point you don't have to bring in my parents, that said I don't know how you were raised but where I come from honesty and complete openness is the legal tender with with you procure trust which is vital in every relationship.

perragy: what do u guys mean by privacy? esp in a realtionship leading to marriage... if u r not totally open, there is no altar ahead of us. stupid girls always go against openness in relationships.

Seyilome: See let say the fact ,this is not a joking matter,let us call spade a spade,that girl is cheating on him,cos i have had such relevant experience before.it is very important for a woman to submit her life to her spouse,dat girl has skeleton in her cupboard.WHEN U LOVE A WOMAN SHE MUST LOVE U EQUAL OR EVEN MORE that makes relationship last.brother think twice there is fire on the moumtain but u dont seem to be on the run,women are desperate,u never know what they could do.hmm!

manugbo:
Not a good marriage at all.

Both of u are hidding some things from each other thats just the bitter truth.

U need to go for church councelling

makky: I never saw where d poster wrote "about to get married" in any of his posts so why d fuss from u all.
My experience when I was in school thought me so many things abt privacy esp phone. My ex virtually colonized my phone, i dnt call, recieve or even read my txts, he only gives it to me when my family calls n will still place his ears on it to hear what we are saying. His friends n lecturers warned him severally to stop going thru my phone cos the more u look the more u die inside. After that stupid relationship, i made it a point not to allow anyone close to my phones again cos its private. I dnt lock my phones, u can easily pick n scroll but u wnt touch them cos i wnt touch urs. I answer all my calls aloud n in front of my man, thats Transparency enough and if i date a non igbo n am having an igbo caller, i make sure i chip in some english to give him an idea of whats going on, i dnt even pick his phone or even look at who is calling when handing him his phone cos there will come a time when he will give me access to do all those things. Dnt let things that are meaningless break up ur relationship, learn to trust, anyone cheating on u will eventually come out in d open. I dnt hide nothing on my phone bt respect me. Cos when u start snooping, i will start deleting everytn that comes in even my contact list will be empty cos am gud at memorizing numbers. Becareful, love ur woman, respect her and with time that phone will be just a play thing to u.

Scash: I have a friend that coded her fone cos of her bf, said he'l get an heart attack if he gets to read her inbox... But shez very devoted
to him
.

oriyominani: She doesn't allow me to look into her phone, does this mean I can't trust her or she is hiding something from me?

Scash: There no biggie joor... Lots of guys might be asking her out and she just doesn't want you to see it. I have a friend that coded her fone cos of her bf, said he'l get an heart attack if he gets to read her inbox... But shez very devoted to him
So if shez actually planning to marry u... Put ur body on d ground, diaz no problem.
Its when you start suspectin shady bizness u shld worry

African mentality, so while she admits she has something good going on for her, she still gives out her number to would be chykers' for what exactly?
are the number give outs work related? and if they are, why would a client or colleague or school mate or neighbor or church group member be sending messages that will give her boyfriend heart attack?
the way girls think make me laugh, you want to keep the guy u want but at the same time give room for distractions, sooner or later you end up "confused" .
what happened to total commitment to your relationship?


obviously, men like me must be few. If i were the so called boyfriend, i will surely lead you on till your 35th birthday after which i will call off the engagement 2 days to the wedding after you must have bought your bridal gown,and make sure i stay closer to you either with your younger sister or cousin.

what arrogance!!!