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Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Trustedpronet: 6:47am On Nov 11, 2023 |
If the Man is demanding for sex it is appropriate for her to demand for money. 1 Like |
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Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Crumbian: 6:48am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Slaveman343: The bolded? That's where your argument collapsed on itself and it shows that you are so out of touch with reality. You're just like those filthy rich Nigerian politicians and their kids who just can't comprehend the level of poverty and chaos that exists in the land cos they've been so rich and secure for a long time. All those women around that bill guys for so much as talking to them are what? Egyptian women? |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Clinghton: 6:50am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Most girls See their boyfriends as an ATM machine with the ATM card at there disposal. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 7:03am On Nov 11, 2023 |
advanceDNA:There is always an exception. The exception don't make it general |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Gerrard59(m): 7:05am On Nov 11, 2023 |
SIRTee15: Thank you! The hypocrisy is too much. Tomorrow, they will complain Western women are feminists but will never marry them. If they do, they become so meek. Then marry the African woman who is submissive, yet they complain she does not contribute financially to the household, forgetting that when humans have money, they become more assertive and opinionated. Nigerian men should choose a struggle. Be like the rich Arabs and have submissive wives who don't work hard to eke a living, or be like Western men who do 50-50 but are open to having opinionated wives. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by SweetDipBenny(m): 7:41am On Nov 11, 2023 |
I can't date a broke woman. As i dey work u too go dey work.. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by uuzba(m): 7:45am On Nov 11, 2023 |
ednut1:Western countries control the economy of the world. They make sure Nigeria, Africa remains poor. They can always create trouble in other countries, so that other countries will require their services, or loans. That way, they always have money to pay their people. NIgeria just stay one place, servicing ridiculous high World bank Debt. All the money we have, we're using to service debt. We don't have mouth to talk about minimum wage. All our highly Educated people cannot produce anything to export and get the country out of debt. So as we're just Educated and jobless. Our men cannot provide for women like in olden days. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Zooposki(f): 7:54am On Nov 11, 2023 |
tollyboy5: Do you know the only chromosome not necessary for life is the Y chromosome, that is the male chromosome. Nature deems the male specie as useless, and makes no attempt to save it. Do you also know men inherit their intelligence from their mom’s X chromosome? 2 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by AoifeNightfall: 7:55am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: Queen! 🙇🏾♀️😍 |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Magnoliaa(f): 8:10am On Nov 11, 2023 |
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Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by advanceDNA: 8:11am On Nov 11, 2023 |
tollyboy5: Lol...that's why the leadership of a home sorts itself naturally itself out....and not by bullying, shouting or because one person makes the most money or because one has the penís 1 Like |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by advanceDNA: 8:16am On Nov 11, 2023 |
PoliteActivist: There is nothing spiritual and psychological in running from financial responsibility.... Money is hard to make ...pvssy is easy to contribute |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Magnoliaa(f): 8:16am On Nov 11, 2023 |
^^ Na peenis nor dey easy to contribute for relationship? And for marriage, definitely. Let us act like biology hasn't given a fair of burden through pregnancy, labour and breast-feeding to the woman already, that a man will never be able to contribute. 3 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by phemmyfour: 8:20am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Cassandraloius:You don't have to work to give. Some of them are working and are still begging |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by WoroSeeWoro(m): 8:43am On Nov 11, 2023 |
stay away from Nigerian girls of today they are uncultured and not really loveable anymore...many are just runs girls , and not worth it...travel around africa and see wonderful girls who can love you conditionally very sense less creatures , That is why @angrygoat @womenareapezz @savedday2 and @strongalphmale warn us ...to not love dem |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by NOETHNICITY(m): 8:44am On Nov 11, 2023 |
advanceDNA:I love your concept bro. Too many men are simps. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by bukatyne(f): 8:50am On Nov 11, 2023 |
pendragonbladgo: Why would your sister marry a man she doesn't need anything from? For instance, even God needs human beings to worship Him. What is now the usefulness of the husband? For instance, God needs human beings to worship Him. In every healthy relationship, there should be interdependence which is symbiotic. Both parties must bring all their resources to build their home. P.S.: Resources here is not only money. 1 Like |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Mattswaggz: 9:13am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Slaveman343: Maybe you're not talking about the same Nigerian girls the OP is talking about,,, because it's damn obvious you aren't talking about them. btw,,, just update ur username to Slave man for pussy for easy identification that you're a damn simp. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Silentgroper(m): 9:24am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Slaveman343:fine ... Being an African man is something we do everyday and we're still doing it .. You think this is about emulating the western culture?? Then na u Sabi .. We don't just want to hear complaints like *. Umm he's to controlling.. * He doesn't treats me like we're equals.. *, He wants to always prostrate before serving his meal and do the same while taking away the empty dish.. And so on and so forth .. As an African woman,. Your duty is to the kitchen, filling our bellies, doing home chores, bearing children, taking care of the children and providing sexual pleasures when demanded with no complain.. When these responsibilities are being taken out duly, then we'll be that African man you all wants us to be ... I cannot be bankrolling someone and she talks back to me whilst talking to her .. That is disrespectful as an African woman cause I'm literally your god and You're meant to worship... Yes, let's go back to the African ways , I'd love that.. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Iamzik: 9:24am On Nov 11, 2023 |
PoliteActivist: Hahahaha I laughed so hard reading this but my generation is not buying this bobo sha 🤣🤣 A women passed away with millions hidden in various accounts that she was hiding from her husbands in addition to collecting his own money regularly. She didn't build houses, buy cars or open business with her own money. Then I ask myself of what use is continuous accumulation and hiding of money that you will never use? For me I just think it's a sense of insecurity and insatiable greed. And this is not peculiar to women alone. Men have their own also. Many men also hide their assets from women just to avoid this sense of entitlement. Both men and women must do better. Spoil your man with money and presents, it's not a crime....no police will arrest you. You will only make your man happy. Spoil your woman with presents and money. It will make her happy and secure. May God give all of us wisdom 🙏 |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Kingson28: 10:00am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Save yourselves the trouble: 1. DO NOT ask a girl/lady out. 2. DO NOT ask any girl for pre-marital sex. 99% of women have Prostitute Mentality, the idea to collect money and gifts if they give you their body to get pleasure. One way to make women serious and humble is NOT to date or ask them for sex till they can present what they’re doing for a living to support themselves financially. When you ask someone for a favour you empower the individual to give you terms and conditions. Men are truly the problem of our time. They lack self control. You have made prostitutes of these girls. I saw a 19 years old girl demanded and was paid 150k for a weekend. The guy added 100k making it 250k. And you expect that girl to learn a trade and hustle when the hole between her legs can fetch her quick huge cash? NO WAY! |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Saintinoo(m): 10:28am On Nov 11, 2023 |
realG101: More reason I don't do relationship with women again, I just can't phantom why I should take up a lady's responsibilities. If I am married to you fine, but just a relationship? No no no. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by janeedema(f): 12:00pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
If it doesn't work, is simply because the man is playing the role of husband but not one of the leader. There's such a thing as a husband-leader. You aren't a leader by virtue of installment, you are one by virtue of training and process. Most men are planning to head a home with no idea about what it means to be a leader. Ladies are wired to naturally submit to a leader. That's why they admire their boss and appreciate their pastors. If these guys prove to he anything less of a leader, their submission diminishes. A smart man should submit to acquiring leadership skills, that's what wisdom should tell men. But no! They bump into marriage forming husband without a clue as to the demands of husband or leader. You can't go against principles and except success. Principles are universal. When men spit words that are profane, I simply shake my head. For a morsel of meat, Esau said what's his birthright to him and we are in that generation, where men are selling off their birth rights to women and using their own mouths to say, they should share responsibilities because of hunger which is akin to the hardship in the land. Headship comes with demands. Don't be fooled. It does. Your wife is paying the rent as her responsibility in the home and you want her to automatically submit. The same woman you took from her dad to fend for and be her dad, you are insisting she pays rent by living with you. Weren't you supposed to be living somehow before you married her? You want to embrace western culture, and you are asking why we are having divorce rates skyrocket that our forefathers never experienced. You want to lead, your wife, then he smart to know that she is your primary responsibility. When you can't fend per time, acknowledge it. Let her know you could have handled what she is tackling but for financial constraints. That's what a leader does. Don't just keep mute and make her run the home and attribute it to the economy. You are selling your birthright. She is the female partner in the relationship. But you are the head of the union. Then, act like the head. You don't act it by screaming, " I am the head of this house", you act it by taking responsibility. If Adam was punished for not taking responsibility, and we still suffer the brunt of his leadership flaws today, you won't be spared either. Don't become another failed project. Embrace the skills needed to lead. Don't assume you can automatically lead hike wife because you are the prayer band leader in church. Marriages are continually attacked by the enemy due to knowledge gap, not because the couple aren't praying. Be determined to make your marriage different. The wife is the crown In her husband's head. She is not the head. If anything that has two heads is a monster, then rise and lead, so she doesn't have any reason to challenge your headship. Yeah! You can be a husband with traits worth emulating. A husband-leader, indeed. and quote author=advanceDNA post=126877256] The concept of automatic head in marriage in marriage is biblically driven....if u are religious and want to follow it....it's left to you....... It's works for some ..it doesn't in homes where one partner takes advantage of the other person.... Weda there is an appointed head by bible or not.....leadership in marriage naturally and seamlessly sorts itself out over time... Sometimes it's the partner that makes most money that calls the shot....sometimes, it's the person that knows how to keep things together... And sometimes, sadly it's the bully. [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by kkins25(m): 12:01pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
ednut1: Omo!! You're right oh! This plays out in Match making TikTok... I See beautiful babes being turned down and well to do guys being turned down.. Dating game is actually tougher than we make it to be.. To address your point, when both genders are asked, "tell us about yourself, they begin with their jobs. These set of people keep coming back day after day without match.. So,I stumbled upon a serria leone match making stream.. My lord!!!! It was completely different... Instead of the typical Nigerian" how much are u making, " both genders were tasked to say seductive stuffs.. 😂😂😂... As in, single mother was sitting with her three kids dropping rizz to another guy. I was more than flabbergasted.. On the flip side, One time a lady matched with one guy, and she had to first drop disclaimer that "sorry, I have one kid already."... The naija dating scene has become completely transactional....Money for hand back for ground. Nigeria match makers have on several occasions broke shamed men who came up to shoot their shot.. So, I think, as people, we have a very long way to go. Once the background of your home is lit and you have strip lights... ahhhh.... you score 100 points. 😂😂😂. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by kkins25(m): 12:04pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
janeedema: Hmmmm.. Good point. Nothing, I hate more than being put below the authority of pastor.. Id it is her boss self, i can manage. but pastor? Na......... |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by okoroemeka(m): 12:22pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Aaaaarghmed:hmm,I am just wondering how long a hungry girl in need will love you,women are naturally attracted to successful men that will provide and care for them and I don't think there is anything wrong in spending what you can afford to lose on a woman so long she plays her part well |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Rejouir: 12:27pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
advanceDNA:You see that word stingy, you stated there. Seem you have experienced alot. Because me, am even tired. It isn't nice at all when i meet a lady, who is after benefits. Definitely the guy would spend, and care for his woman, but why the entitlements. So does it mean the moment the guy stops earning the relationship stops. It's not nice at all |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by ednut1(m): 12:57pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
uuzba:how come western countries could not keep Singapore, arabs or china poor. The money we are getting even tho small is enough to develop Nigeria. 50m usd that way found in ikoyi- na western world put am there The jewelry and bra allison madueke buy na western world The money governor and presidents dey chop na western world |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by PoliteActivist: 1:07pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Now you get it!! Do you really think most men can make more money than us if not that we codedly want it that way? We instinctively tamp down our own ambition, we sacrifice just so men can be men.. That’s why it is so annoying to us if despite all that we still find ourselves richer than our man! |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by PoliteActivist: 1:24pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
advanceDNA: If not psychologcal/spiritual explain why most women intentionally tamp down their own ambition so men can be men |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by HRprof: 1:33pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
realG101:Would Nigeria men accept GENDER EQUALITY If you want to share bills with woman or don’t expect her to ask you money then accept to be equal with women and have same equal right in very thing that’s what white people you are comparing us practice. Many Nigeria men would say over their dead bodies to accept gender equality. So bro the culture made it to be so not women 2 Likes |
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