i will like to go straight to the point cause i need your advice right now more than ever.

I have this man that has been helping me out financially and he has been begging me to have a child for him that he will send me to any country to have my child.

Although he has children with his wife but he said he want more children which the wife refused to give him. I have been insisting we use protection, but he always insist on skin to skin.

Recently i noticed that i missed my period, so when i told him he gave me money for the test and said if it is positive i should DECIDE WHAT TO DO AND LET HIM KNOW. On my own side i don't really want to commit any sin by abortion cause my only brother who is married for the past 10yrs is childless and I'm thinking if i can have this child for my brother/family.

Secondly my fiancee who is a pastor, wants us to get married before the end of the year.

Please what should i do should?

Do I explain things to him or just do things my way i.e relocating to somewhere else to have this child including abandoning my education and work?

please i need your advice.

please advice and not insult.

norahvivi: i will like to go straight to the point cause i need your advice right now more than ever, i have this man that has been helping me out financially and he has been begging me to have a child for me that he will send me to any country to have my child, although he has children with his wife but he said he want more children which the wife refused to give him more, i have been insisting we use protection but he always insist on skin to skin, well recently i noticed that i missed my period, so when i told him he gave me money for the test and said if it is positive i should DECIDE WHAT TO DO AND LET HIM KNOW, on my own side i don't really want to commit any sin by abortion cause my only brother who is married for the past 10yrs is childless and I'm thinking if i can have dis child for my brother/family.
secondly my fiancee who is a pastor wants us to get married before the end of the year, please what should i do should i explain things to him or just do things my way i.e locating to somewhere else to have this child including abandoning my education and work? please i need your advice.
please advice and not insult.

you knew skin to skin might result in pregnancy didnt you? well lay on the bed you have made for your self

do your pastor fiance a favor and break up with him quick and since you don't think having sex with a married man is a sin then tell your sugar daddy so he can send you to england to have the baby (i will bet $5 that he is going to disappear on you)

You did not seek for advice when you were busy cheating on your fiance. Now that you are stuck, you want advice. My dear is your cross so carry it. You should be matured enough to decide what you want.

Let he who is witout sin be the 1st to cast the stone, we all make mistakes in life due to ignorance.. I would advice you confes your sins to God and your pastor husband to be and acept your fate.. I know how emotionally down you would be but try and gather strength and courage to face what ever is coming your way.. I advice you find solace in the word of God.

U ar nt serious. Wen u dey enjoy d tin u no ask for adive na nw u knw say u want advice. Carry cross

Congratulations my dear!!!

Burst d bubble gurl n face d consequence

Wrongest place to seek for advice.

OP, I hate to say this but it is this act of yours that will make the likes of 190 and dondav insult you and women in general. You had a relationship which was leading to marriage yet you threw it away by sleeping with a man who is married. Do yourself a favour, end whatever it is you have with the married man, tell your fiancé what has happened and seek for his forgiveness then start life afresh. Whether you abort the pregnancy or not is up to you because I cannot advise you to do anything to it. Let this serve as a lesson to you that you cannot eat your cake and have it back.

My two cents.

great

I tot women always knew wen it wasn't advicesable to have skin to skin sex frm d calculation of their cycle,just curious.well I tink u shud tell ur pastor finace and take wateva comes out of it as ur fate!

CONGRATULATIONS!!! ;DCONGRATULATIONS!!!

Pastor's Fiancee, Fornication On point, Abortion in the making, leaving school coming in... Girl You go Suffeeeeeer o.
So tell me what do you want us to advice you about, when suger daddy dey shine your congo you call us for help even when he was lavishing money on you, you share with us, sorry o if am ash.
But come to think of it what if you got married to that pastor, and one day you were called to preach about adultery or fornication what would you preach? My candid advise fo you is to tell your fiancee, he might have a forgiven heart like ma grand-pa. but come you told us that the promise to take to another country when you pregnant? sorry ehn

Don't forget to invite us for the child's naming ceremony.

my dear it terrible is your s to decide

...Come clean to both parties and face the consequences.
...Tell the Sugar Daddy you are pregnant... and to your pastor that you have been cheating on him.

What do u want me to say?

Come out clean, tell your fiance u pregnant for another man, let him decide, right now you owe your man that much... face the consequences of your actions.

Come o are u not even ahsame

Future mummy G.O. in sugar daddy palava. LOL, and they call Atheists immoral.

fake story...**yawns**

Van snickers: Future mummy G.O. in sugar daddy palava. LOL, and they call Atheists immoral.

How do you know if the Op is not an atheist before being engaged to the faincee pastor

Lol...you don't want to abort because you don't want to commit a sin. So what do u call pre-marital sex by someone who has a fiance with a married man.

Anyways, better report yourself to your Fiance b4 things get worse for you in the future. Or tell your sugar daddy to marry u an make you his second wife.

Na wa o!

except u abort the baby, u belong to the LIME-DADDY cos engagements can be broken.