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A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by msrita(f): 4:41pm On Oct 21, 2014
So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.

He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times .

I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally and wanna be friends with him , I don't think further than that or maybe I do, and oh! He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her. So what's your take on this people, please no harsh comments ,a sister is just sharing her feelings. Thanks.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Nobody: 4:45pm On Oct 21, 2014
I think u sud walk up to him,and ask y he ignores u and behave as if u don't exist.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by MizMyColi(f): 4:46pm On Oct 21, 2014
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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Nobody: 4:49pm On Oct 21, 2014
Erm, i have been in ur shoes doh so i knw wat it feels like buh wah i do when i like a girl and i eel shy to walk up to her is this.....nothing!!! So do nothing, i believe ur feelings for him will suddenly reduce....

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Eberex(m): 4:49pm On Oct 21, 2014
msrita:
So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.
He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times . I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally and wanna be friends with him , I don't think further than that or maybe I do, and oh! He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her. So what's your take on this people, please no harsh comments ,a sister is just sharing her feelings. Thanks.

If you were in the West you would have approached him, but too bad we are Africans. I'll advise you don't make yourself look desperate for his attention as It would send the wrong message and in turn might not really believe you. Hence I suggest you keep your cool. Keep your standard. If he likes you, he should be man enough to at least have a conversation with you.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by thorpido(m): 4:50pm On Oct 21, 2014
He's probably shy and can't approach you.
He's probably not interested in you.
He probably thinks you are involved with the 'most wanted guy'.
He doesn't like the fact that you get too much attention from guys(some guys don't like a lady with too many guys around her).
He's involved with someone.

If you are not the type that can talk to a guy about your feelings for him,then just keep your cool and let him make the move.If he doesn't,then you've just got to let it slowly burn out.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by msrita(f): 4:50pm On Oct 21, 2014
Harbosede02:
I think u sud walk up to him,and ask y he ignores u and behave as if u don't exist.


I don't wanna take that risk sister,you know he might misinterpret the whole thing and if he's a jerk he'll go about telling people I'm falling for him and add some loads of lies. Believe me some guys can and would do that.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Articul8(m): 4:51pm On Oct 21, 2014
What is wrong if u say hello to him?

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Articul8(m): 4:53pm On Oct 21, 2014
msrita:



I don't wanna take that risk sister,you know he might misinterpret the whole thing and if he's a jerk he'll go about telling people I'm falling for him and add some loads of lies. Believe me some guys can and would do that.
Lol. So u knw hw it feels now abi? Let him misinterpret it. U do too. Wt if he doesn't?

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by msrita(f): 4:53pm On Oct 21, 2014
Articul8:
What is wrong if u say hello to him?

I mentioned in my post that we had a greeted a few times.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by clemz85(m): 4:56pm On Oct 21, 2014
Harbosede02:
I think u sud walk up to him,and ask y he ignores u and behave as if u don't exist.

Op take a fellow gender advice.

do it and let's wait d heaven to fall

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by freshness2020: 4:56pm On Oct 21, 2014
Take the bold step and initiate a convo !
...what is killing us is our "Africa Mindset"

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Nobody: 4:57pm On Oct 21, 2014
msrita:



I don't wanna take that risk sister,you know he might misinterpret the whole thing and if he's a jerk he'll go about telling people I'm falling for him and add some loads of lies. Believe me some guys can and would do that.
i knw,guys can be very nasty,bt do u think hez sum1 dat can do sumfin like dat??itz normal 4 im to think u like im wen u ask im d question,bt at d same time if u think itz worth d risk,then take it,bt if it isn't,abeg make una continue to dey eye eachother 4 lecture hall.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by chibwike(m): 4:57pm On Oct 21, 2014
Op, if he continues, just let it pass, he isn't the only guy in the world

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Nobody: 4:59pm On Oct 21, 2014
Harbosede02:
I think u sud walk up to him,and ask y he ignores u and behave as if u don't exist.

Hell right, like he owns her an explanation abi? undecided

See they don't have anything going on between them. I mean they ain't even friends, there's nothing. He doesn't even know she likes him.

So it's only proper that he's treats her that way.
It's normal.

Just because she likes a guy doesn't mean he should like her back or pay attention to her at all.

Friendship doesn't just fall from the sky. If she wants acquaintance and more, she should work, create and promote the atmosphere.

Or sit and crush silently from behind.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Dlionsheart: 5:00pm On Oct 21, 2014
I WAS HERE!!!

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by passionate88: 5:03pm On Oct 21, 2014
msrita:
He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her.
That's exactly how it is with me... Guys think we, she and I are dating... I just enjoy her company.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by passionate88: 5:05pm On Oct 21, 2014
Articul8:
Lol. So u knw hw it feels now abi? Let him misinterpret it. U do too. Wt if he doesn't?
grin grin grin grin

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by msrita(f): 5:05pm On Oct 21, 2014
Thank you all. I get it , there are 2 options, take the risk and walk up to him or crush silently. I think I already know which one I'm taking. Thank you all once again.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Articul8(m): 5:05pm On Oct 21, 2014
msrita:


I mentioned in my post that we had a greeted a few times.
try 2 move a bit closer,ask sm questions, size him up and den u can decide the kind of person he could b b4 mking further moves. U knw hw to.Quite difficult though.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Tapout(m): 5:05pm On Oct 21, 2014
lolz...cheesy He is doing it on purpose, ur probably one of those girls that play hard to get. lossen up a bit, give him a reason to walk up to you or u probably should walk up to him.....It works like magic

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Articul8(m): 5:05pm On Oct 21, 2014
msrita:


I mentioned in my post that we had a greeted a few times.
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Articul8(m): 5:07pm On Oct 21, 2014
msrita:
Thank you all. I get it , there are 2 options, take the risk and walk up to him or crush silently. I think I already know which one I'm taking. Thank you all once again.
Dnt 4get 2 feed us back.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Nobody: 5:08pm On Oct 21, 2014
I think u shud offer him ur kitten on a silver tray,if that doesnt work then that nigga dont gbadun u or hes gayy

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by msrita(f): 5:13pm On Oct 21, 2014
Tapout:
lolz...cheesy He is doing it on purpose, ur probably one of those girls that play hard to get. lossen up a bit, give him a reason to walk up to you or u probably should walk up to him.....It works like magic

I actually think he's doing it on purpose too.
I used to always say that if were a guy I'll make girls fall for and do nothing about,I guess he that guides the universe decided to make me know what it feels like. But as a girl I don't make guys fall for me though ,I don't try at all ,I'm an effortless chic any day anytime . U wanna fall ? Cool, u don't want to ? Better.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Nobody: 5:13pm On Oct 21, 2014
look my dear, atimes this tinz happen jst like that n we can't control it. as some pple hs already adviced, jst walk up to him n say hi n believe me when d friendship started u guys wl be d best of friends...because u said d guy is quiet n many quiet guys r matured.

#thankmeletter#

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by SpaceGoat: 5:16pm On Oct 21, 2014
new crush cool
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by msrita(f): 5:17pm On Oct 21, 2014
youmour:
I think u shud offer him ur kitten on a silver tray,if that doesnt work then that nigga dont gbadun u or hes gayy

Sorry, I don't get that kitten on a silver tray thing..
Pls tell me what I'm thinking isn't what you are suggesting?

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by msrita(f): 5:18pm On Oct 21, 2014
Articul8:
Dnt 4get 2 feed us back.

Lol, I won't forget, going in for second semester next week.. We'll know watsap then.
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Tallesty1(m): 5:22pm On Oct 21, 2014
msrita:
So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.
He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times . I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally and wanna be friends with him , I don't think further than that or maybe I do, and oh! He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her. So what's your take on this people, please no harsh comments ,a sister is just sharing her feelings. Thanks.
You ignored all the guys that are giving you attention and you are complaining that someone is ignoring you??

How does it sound?

You have a favourite guy.

He is got a favourite girl.

So you would be happy if he leaves her and starts walking with you "slowly"?

If you want him that badly then why don't you just walk up to him and tell him your mind?

Abeg park well and free a brother.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by msrita(f): 5:23pm On Oct 21, 2014
Tallesty1:
You ignored all the guys that are giving you attention and you are complaining that someone is ignoring you??

How does it sound?

You have a favourite guy.

He is got a favourite girl.

So you would be happy if he leaves her and starts walking with you "slowly"?

If you want him that badly then why don't you just walk up to him and tell him your mind?

Abeg park well and free a brother.

Thank you tallesty

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