ronald4lif:


There's always an exception in everything in life. Nothing is 100%. However, when the larger percentage overwhelms the exceptional cases they become irrelevant.

mulattoclaro:
swerve.

missclasssy:
Why is it that most guys think they are so smart, that they can break someone's heart and just move on like it's nothing?

Guys, why do most of you think that you can mess with the life of a girl and just ride off merrily into the sunset, and you still do the same with subsequent ladies?

Why do most of you enter a relationship having the mindset that you are going to just use a lady and move on, and you still do it and feel no remorse?

Don't you know that we are humans and we have feelings and we have emotions? Why do you toil with our hearts like it's your play field?
Why are most of you this heartless, why?

Most of you need to be tied up and burnt at a stake for the gross wickedness you show ladies, and I mean it.

Rubbish!

AgapeCharis:
Hahahahahaa

You should know better.

Vikky014:
you mean you cant love wt ur brain so you will take shit from smeone in d name of lovewhn u love wt ur brain u know whn to quit at any point in time

luxanne:


Exactly.

The exceptions are few but atleast we still got them

missclasssy:


You can't chose to quit "love" anytime you feel like.
Love is not something you have control over.
You can't just wake up one morning and say, " ok I am not going to love this guy again"
It doesn't work that way.

My God, what type of people do we have these days.
There is a difference between loving someone and being in a relationship with someone.
You are mixing the two up.

Venom104:


Haha.. All the hearts your break wont mend yours..

Vikky014:
you mean you cant love wt ur brain so you will take shit from smeone in d name of lovewhn u love wt ur brain u know whn to quit at any point in time

missclasssy:


Love is different from attraction or infatuation.
All these things you mentioned are just what attracts us to people.

That is not love!

IamOdin:


how old are u??.u speak like a 102yr old.



u got something upstairs Bae!!

ronald4lif:

Great. I think we're almost on same page now. Attraction and infatuation falls under interest, they are no way close to love. This is what many relationship are based on but they just use the term love to cover up for their dirty lifestyle. Imagine being attracted or lusting after someone for his money or extra ordinary looks and fxck each other without calling it love. What then can it be called? Fxck buddies? Sounds absurd.
Love do exist but it does happen less than 0.5% of the time, especially in a Nigerian setting. A whole lot of them are mostly after what a guy can offer financially. They will just take cover with the love but that's not why they're in the relationship. The guys too aren't left out as it's now all about the boobs, butts etc that they are interested in. Let a girl be a dullard with the best boobs in the world she'll get more admirers than the intelligent ones.
This is not limited to Nigeria alone though but it's currently at an unprecedented level in Naija. And that's the more reason people should apply their brains when they feel they are in love.

AgapeCharis:
That you love someone doesn't mean you should take trash from the person. Though love is patient, it doesn't mean you should be blind to wrong doings and not be able to make personal decisions.

Vikky014:
Lol. mumsy and popsy dey teach me how to relate with d opposite sex. using themslfs as a case study. am nt too young am nt too old

AgapeCharis:
Eziokwu.

When it's based on interest, then it's not love.

What if the person starts falling short in meeting those interests??
I guess we were on the same page after all.

AgapeCharis:
Some girls sha.

Anyway, it boils down to personal values and morals. I can't go flirting around with many ladies just because someone cheated/is cheating on me. It's foolishness.

missclasssy:


I don't want to call you daft, but you leave me no choice..... You Are Daft.
Stop ranting stupidly like a boy who have just lost his virginity.

You don't need to commit the fallacy of generalization just to drive home your _stupid assertion and insult every Nigerian woman in the process

Oh, because you married a brazilian girl, you think you have achieved something in life?
If that is what you think then you are nothing but a fool, did you hear me? I said you are nothing but a fool.

missclasssy:
Why is it that most guys think they are so smart, that they can break someone's heart and just move on like it's nothing?

Guys, why do most of you think that you can mess with the life of a girl and just ride off merrily into the sunset, and you still do the same with subsequent ladies?

Why do most of you enter a relationship having the mindset that you are going to just use a lady and move on, and you still do it and feel no remorse?

Don't you know that we are humans and we have feelings and we have emotions? Why do you toil with our hearts like it's your play field?
Why are most of you this heartless, why?

Most of you need to be tied up and burnt at a stake for the gross wickedness you show ladies, and I mean it.

Rubbish!

missclasssy:


I don't want to call you daft, but you leave me no choice..... You Are Daft.
Stop ranting stupidly like a boy who have just lost his virginity.

You don't need to commit the fallacy of generalization just to drive home your _stupid assertion and insult every Nigerian woman in the process

Oh, because you married a brazilian girl, you think you have achieved something in life?
If that is what you think then you are nothing but a fool, did you hear me? I said you are nothing but a fool.

Vikky014:
thank you so much. whn someone is not blind to wrong doings and makes personal decision dt fellow is loving with his or her brain

IamOdin:


i'm stunned!!.i never knew a nairaland lady could be this thoughtful..

cc: Toks2008 come and marry dz gurl,we finally found a wise one that makes use of her God given senses

Vikky014:
thank you so much. whn someone is not blind to wrong doings and makes personal decision dt fellow is loving with his or her brain

iamrealdeji:
that's what I just told her :
No be you girls like bad guys? If guy no bad you go talk say he be nice guy and you no like nice guys say na bad guys you want,bad guy show hin bad guy attitude,you com dey complain,another bad guy don use this girl like toilet paper and flush her,bad guys rule the world,its good to be bad,girls love bad guys,babe,take heart,i'm a bad guy too,hope you wouldn't mind dating me so that I can use you like toilet paper and flush you just like my predecessor did,phuck those nice guys,they are so stupid that they keep on loving a girl,they can't use a girl and dump her abi?

ronald4lif:

Gbam!

Vikky014:
LOL

AgapeCharis:


What's your thought on loving with your brain??

AgapeCharis:
My argument on "loving with the brain" was based on loving someone based on physical interests.