ola457:

Have been following your thread for a while now and I must say am greatly impressed. Have got this problem with a babe I met some months ago. She look so into me at first with her attitude generally. Right now, we hardly have anything to discuss again even when I try setting up conversation with her, she end up giving me one word answers. Please what is the way forward.

Thanks for the kind words bro... We appreciate. I guess the whole convo went from interesting to boring. She was into u @ first, but now she gives one word answers n stuff. When we meet girls, after a while dey place us into different categories, d bf or just anoda friend category. I guess u didn't make any move on her ..so she got tired @ d end of day. U should set up a date n meet her one on one. Before setting up d date, make sure u guys r on a light positive mood, doesn't matter whether she gives u a one word reply..if she accents, move on with seeing her one on one again. Seeing each oda once more can spark up old feelings.

bruzhgn:
Hey Teddy the Boss, your thread has been quite inspiring and I have followed it from page 1... Kudos to you cos you've saved a lot of lives through this thread... There's this chick I got close to, everything was going well rapport and a lil investment... I eventually fell for her, but did not ask her out cos I wasn't ready yet... An overzealous friend thought he'll do me a favor and asked her on my behalf (I no know who send am). Since then her attitude change towards me, cos she thought I wasn't man enough to ask her, which wasn't the case. Now she has started forming and acting all distant and it's pissing me off. Would really love your advice on what to do cos I want her to be mine. Seems I've kinda lost ma game, cos of a lot of stuff going on with me... Thanks and keep up the good work... A quick reply would be appreciated...

thanx for the kind words. To be sincere dat ur friend bleeped u up. Your friend has exposed a very soft spot to the girl eventhough its all fake. U just av to come out straight if u wana get her to be atleast friendly again n stop d snubbing. Tell her about ur friend's move, u didn't send him, n stuff, cud be tru a txt, after dat, give her a week...den start all over from square 1. Dat ur friend na idiot. U av to let her know u didn't send d guy,, if u don't, she will keep up wif d snubbing n fronting. And if all ur attempts fails...move on with anoda chick, game oda girls.

luckshine:
Hi teddy there is this girl my guy gave me her number. I have not meet or see her b4, he want me to date her but he don't want her to know he gave me her number.
Pls I need guidelines to introduce myself and also what will be my response in case she ask how did I get her number.

check if she is on whatsapp first.. If she is...send dis message " hey hi (insert her name here )...how u doing?..I got ur nbr from true caller app, and tot I should send u a message, hope ur day Is goin great". Don't ask bunch of questions after dat message, once she replies, just say..aite, will check on u later, am kinda bust now". Hours later, u can follow up with a call n take tins from there. Don't rush it, if u do, everything go just Bleep up

xxxtedyxxx:
thanx for the kind words. To be sincere dat ur friend bleeped u up. Your friend has exposed a very soft spot to the girl eventhough its all fake. U just av to come out straight if u wana get her to be atleast friendly again n stop d snubbing. Tell her about ur friend's move, u didn't send him, n stuff, cud be tru a txt, after dat, give her a week...den start all over from square 1. Dat ur friend na idiot. U av to let her know u didn't send d guy,, if u don't, she will keep up wif d snubbing n fronting. And if all ur attempts fails...move on with anoda chick, game oda girls.

I told her i didn't send him, took her out on her buffday and all... She later told me she wasn't ready for a relationship and all but was still giving mixed signals...

xxxtedyxxx:
check if she is on whatsapp first.. If she is...send dis message " hey hi (insert her name here )...how u doing?..I got ur nbr from true caller app, and tot I should send u a message, hope ur day Is goin great". Don't ask bunch of questions after dat message, once she replies, just say..aite, will check on u later, am kinda bust now". Hours later, u can follow up with a call n take tins from there. Don't rush it, if u do, everything go just Bleep up

Hi, the Boss of the game. I need your professional advice on this ish, there is this girl in my class(now in year 3), we were attracted to each other then (4months ago). I asked her out but she said she wasn't interested(she is single) Since then, we used to talk but something transpired between us of which I was at fault(for bashing her due to her inability to pick up my calls). We buried the hatches, we moved on. In recent times, she used to call me. I used to call her as well (though, if she didn't pick my calls after 2 times, I will just neglect her for like a week. She is on Whatsapp but she don't used to come online always.. I'm even contemplating on organizing a date but my fear is that she will find an excuse(cos I have tried it times without number).. I'm currently confused whether to continue with her. My problem is that she likes me within herself, but she hasn't given me the enough audience. However, she is useful to me academically, but from her body language, she doesn't want to look cheap. I don't want to appear as if I'm a dumb man.. Thanks for always been there for us...

op I have a girl. we met during one etisalat Program in school. I got her number. we chat normal for the first few days. I ve known her hobbies and other small small atuffs. reading is one of her hobbies. I got two novels on her birthday(6 days after we met) . as time went on our chat started becoming boring. its always like "hi, how are u, how was lectures?. what are u doing?" stuffs like that. even when I call her d same boring stuffs. I lack topic to discus with her. and now she seems not interested in me unlike d first two days I met her. she takes time to reply my chat and doesn't initiate a chat. I don't know what to do. I need her to be my girl. help me out.

xxxtedyxxx:
u need to do sth. U need to look on the inside first. Something is making u fizzle out when u finally transition from online to one on one game. Its dat dat hard to figure once u look on d inside. Nothing is wrong, its just dat uve not being aving dates, or going out and playing the numbers game. Its a mental stuff. Its ur brain telling ur body n mind u ve lost touch. U need to reinstate ur game again. U need to work the nbrs, work the approaches, u need to task ur sef. As per fizzling out on dates, u should improving your goin out, do random approaches just for d fun, don't ask for nbr, just gist laf play, u need to bring ur mental state to ow it was before. Den u go back to online game, get a girl, hookup on d date, and just see it as sth normal. Its all about practice. Dis same thing has happened to me before. I overcame it by working the numbers. When transitioning From online to real gaming, u need to be ur sef, d same way u were online should be d same way u r in real life, dat way, d babe will know u r congruent with ur reality and not just faking it.

am so grateful, understood all u said, gained a lot especially that of approaching for the fun of it,pls help breakdown;working the numbers.thanks so much

ldpele:
am so grateful, understood all u said, gained a lot especially that of approaching for the fun of it,pls help breakdown;working the numbers.thanks so much

u wcm. Working d nbrs just means approaching/gaming/dating more dan one girl. Meeting lots of chicks and not just focusing on a single girl.

bruzhgn:
I told her i didn't send him, took her out on her buffday and all... She later told me she wasn't ready for a relationship and all but was still giving mixed signals...

don't wait for her or ask about a relationship. Make in invest..assume a bf position and do things an ordinary guy who is just friendz wif her won't do.

Mrford:
op I have a girl. we met during one etisalat Program in school. I got her number. we chat normal for the first few days. I ve known her hobbies and other small small atuffs. reading is one of her hobbies. I got two novels on her birthday(6 days after we met) . as time went on our chat started becoming boring. its always like "hi, how are u, how was lectures?. what are u doing?" stuffs like that. even when I call her d same boring stuffs. I lack topic to discus with her. and now she seems not interested in me unlike d first two days I met her. she takes time to reply my chat and doesn't initiate a chat. I don't know what to do. I need her to be my girl. help me out.

u said u lack stuffs to discuss with her, dats becos u didn't allow ur convo with her to advance. Dts y u easily ran out of stuffs to discuss . Interaction with a girl must always be progressing, from stage a to b to c to d etc. There must be a forward reaction during any interaction wif her. When we ignore this pattern, the girl easily girls bored-y? Becos everything seems stagnant. She doesn't know where to place us. We end up being friendzoned.. U need to start all over from stage 1 to stage 3. Ask her out on a date. One on one. U can rekindle the passion if u can see her one on one. Talk about ow u guys met, d first day, her hobbies, bring up dat vibe back again.

Hi, the Boss of the game. I need your professional advice on this ish, there is this girl in my class(now in year 3), we were attracted to each other then (4months ago). I asked her out but she said she wasn't interested(she is single) Since then, we used to talk but something transpired between us of which I was at fault(for bashing her due to her inability to pick up my calls). We buried the hatches, we moved on. In recent times, she used to call me. I used to call her as well (though, if she didn't pick my calls after 2 times, I will just neglect her for like a week. She is on Whatsapp but she don't used to come online always.. I'm even contemplating on organizing a date but my fear is that she will find an excuse(cos I have tried it times without number).. I'm currently confused whether to continue with her. My problem is that she likes me within herself, but she hasn't given me the enough audience. However, she is useful to me academically, but from her body language, she doesn't want to look cheap. I don't want to appear as if I'm a dumb man.. Thanks for always been there for us...

Omooba224:
Hi, the Boss of the game. I need your professional advice on this ish, there is this girl in my class(now in year 3), we were attracted to each other then (4months ago). I asked her out but she said she wasn't interested(she is single) Since then, we used to talk but something transpired between us of which I was at fault(for bashing her due to her inability to pick up my calls). We buried the hatches, we moved on. In recent times, she used to call me. I used to call her as well (though, if she didn't pick my calls after 2 times, I will just neglect her for like a week. She is on Whatsapp but she don't used to come online always.. I'm even contemplating on organizing a date but my fear is that she will find an excuse(cos I have tried it times without number).. I'm currently confused whether to continue with her. My problem is that she likes me within herself, but she hasn't given me the enough audience. However, she is useful to me academically, but from her body language, she doesn't want to look cheap. I don't want to appear as if I'm a dumb man.. Thanks for always been there for us...

. If she doesn't wana look cheap den U need to earn some trust here first. Use some vague language like ow much u av enjoyed d closeness with her. Pls don't say friendship oh. Use closeness, and how much u ve enjoyed knowing her n stuff, more like appreciating her, since she does help u academically. But before that, u need not be desperate about the whole thing. Relax ur mind first. U need to be unreactive...like not getting angry or bothered if she doesn't pick calls. What d ladies do shouldn't bother us. Be unreactive. Its very important. Don't ask her for a date yet. U need to soften her up before dat so she can be receptive to ur advances and requests . " Hi morning babe, up u slept n woke up fine. Av a great day ahead..missing the old u"... Stuffs like dat. Den follow up with a call later in d evening. Just ask ow her day went, what's she is cooking for dinner, blah blah, continue dis for a while, like..do it on monday, don't do it on tuesady, do d same on wednes, saturday..etc...for like a week. Den place a call..don't request for d date with sms/message. Call her, tell her u missed her smiling face, and it wud be great to just chill wif her again, fix a day, den ask wen she is free. From dere u can settle for a particular day. I use dis method most times. Just be calm about it.

xxxtedyxxx:
. Its a simple situation u guys can resolve. Its a one on one thing. Call her...meet her one on one. And talk to her about it.its just a matter of who is superior. It can be resolved amicably but u need to start from being unreactive. U hate her being bosssy, it pisses u off, now stop allowing what she does (her words actions etc) piss u off. Be d opposite of what she expects. Its a battle of who is d boss. U av a relationship already..don't let it die. Talk to her, take d relationship to how it used to be.

tanks alot it really worked. God bless u

xxxtedyxxx:
. If she doesn't wana look cheap den U need to earn some trust here first. Use some vague language like ow much u av enjoyed d closeness with her. Pls don't say friendship oh. Use closeness, and how much u ve enjoyed knowing her n stuff, more like appreciating her, since she does help u academically. But before that, u need not be desperate about the whole thing. Relax ur mind first. U need to be unreactive...like not getting angry or bothered if she doesn't pick calls. What d ladies do shouldn't bother us. Be unreactive. Its very important. Don't ask her for a date yet. U need to soften her up before dat so she can be receptive to ur advances and requests . " Hi morning babe, up u slept n woke up fine. Av a great day ahead..missing the old u"... Stuffs like dat. Den follow up with a call later in d evening. Just ask ow her day went, what's she is cooking for dinner, blah blah, continue dis for a while, like..do it on monday, don't do it on tuesady, do d same on wednes, saturday..etc...for like a week. Den place a call..don't request for d date with sms/message. Call her, tell her u missed her smiling face, and it wud be great to just chill wif her again, fix a day, den ask wen she is free. From dere u can settle for a particular day. I use dis method most times. Just be calm about it.

Baba, sincerely you are da bomb.. You have replenished my energy. Thanks for your advice sir. I would be grateful if you can pm me your digits. Thanks in anticipation...

xxxtedyxxx:
u said u lack stuffs to discuss with her, dats becos u didn't allow ur convo with her to advance. Dts y u easily ran out of stuffs to discuss . Interaction with a girl must always be progressing, from stage a to b to c to d etc. There must be a forward reaction during any interaction wif her. When we ignore this pattern, the girl easily girls bored-y? Becos everything seems stagnant. She doesn't know where to place us. We end up being friendzoned.. U need to start all over from stage 1 to stage 3. Ask her out on a date. One on one. U can rekindle the passion if u can see her one on one. Talk about ow u guys met, d first day, her hobbies, bring up dat vibe back again.

thanks man! but our exams starts in two weeks time. would it wise to still ask her
for a date? she is a serious type and in her 1st year.

Mrford:


thanks man! but our exams starts in two weeks time. would it wise to still ask her
for a date? she is a serious type and in her 1st year.

no..don't ask her now. Use dis period to check in on her n make ur selves close like before. Den go for d date afterwards. Throughout dis period make sure u act dominant..like a bf already.

Omooba224:
Baba, sincerely you are da bomb.. You have replenished my energy. Thanks for your advice sir. I would be grateful if you can pm me your digits. Thanks in anticipation...

ur wcm bro..alryt.

xxxtedyxxx:
u wcm. Working d nbrs just means approaching/gaming/dating more dan one girl. Meeting lots of chicks and not just focusing on a single girl.

though as much, thanks for the clearification. Cheers!!!

xxxtedyxxx:
u need to do sth. U need to look on the inside first. Something is making u fizzle out when u finally transition from online to one on one game. Its dat dat hard to figure once u look on d inside. Nothing is wrong, its just dat uve not being aving dates, or going out and playing the numbers game. Its a mental stuff. Its ur brain telling ur body n mind u ve lost touch. U need to reinstate ur game again. U need to work the nbrs, work the approaches, u need to task ur sef. As per fizzling out on dates, u should improving your goin out, do random approaches just for d fun, don't ask for nbr, just gist laf play, u need to bring ur mental state to ow it was before. Den u go back to online game, get a girl, hookup on d date, and just see it as sth normal. Its all about practice. Dis same thing has happened to me before. I overcame it by working the numbers. When transitioning From online to real gaming, u need to be ur sef, d same way u were online should be d same way u r in real life, dat way, d babe will know u r congruent with ur reality and not just faking it.

Round off applause 4 baba Tedy

Baba Tedy
When am with a chick alone what kind of romantic discussion would i instantly activate to turn the heat on for a kiss and further advanced it.

Weldone Ted! I av got issue too...There is ds guy that I dated while in sch, he has always had d intention of marrying me cos he introduced me to a member of his family n even wanted to come to my house but i always turned him that but something happen whc lead to breakup. We both moved on. After 2yrs, we started chatting again, and now we both want it to work cos we've sorted out the differences. But the problem now is ....He is not the calling type, always busy n not very romantic and I really want us to start flowing so the marriage can come up soon(like 6months time). What do you think I can do to make himvalways want to speak with him every now n then.
P.S its distance relationship n I understand his nature of work but at d same time, I need him to make time out of his busy schedule to always call or text

Thanks

Trying to call this girl I met in skl a few days ago.
We actually had a nice chat when we talked but the semester's over now and I'm trying to call her but have no idea what to say.

AikayDaWrapper:
Trying to call this girl I met in skl a few days ago.
We actually had a nice chat when we talked but the semester's over now and I'm trying to call her but have no idea what to say.

giv me her numb,i swear im gonna help u as i know what to say

Mostwanted7:



giv me her numb,i swear im gonna help u as i know what to say

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AikayDaWrapper:
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lol...my Eminem bro..,.will do anything for you

AikayDaWrapper:
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lol...my Eminem bro..,.will do anything for you

Oga teddy save a nigg*...my girl friend( which I was able to get tanks to u) will only allow kissing, when I try to touch her boobs she ALWAYS bring my hands down talk less of going for da trophy...I want to bleep her man...help me out pls

Oga Teddy I greet u sir, I was introduces to a geh via her friend and now we've started well discussion wise which is paramount bt where I have issue now is how to go to the next phase of our discussion to let her know what's up. Thanks help a broda

Baba tedy,

I got a girls digits from my friends phone,when I whatsapped she asked me the source and I lied that I synced from fb, and she caught me

What do I do

DOCTORNLIA:
Baba tedy,

I got a girls digits from my friends phone,when I whatsapped she asked me the source and I lied that I synced from fb, and she caught me

What do I do

oops..the true caller excuse wuld av been better. Tell her the truth. She don catch u already bro