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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 12:46pm On Aug 09, 2015
Amazo:




If you have ever had your balls squeezed hard to near breaking point, then you would know the only thing you will be reaching out to break your assaulter's head with is loud cries for mercy! You will surrender your brazen masculinity and tap out like whimp. It is the greatest weak point to disarm any man; irrespective of size and strength and stamina, the balls remain a 100% vulnerable point. A firsthand experience will convince you. Or alternatively, in the interim, you can try squeezing your balls so tightly as if to damage it and see what information your brain communicates to your body. God never creates anything without vital weakness(es) put in it, should in case it goes rogue. Man is genetically superior to the woman in terms of certain physical attributes, but then having balls balances the equation and affords the woman the opportunity of a level playing field in situations like this.
still offpoint,its just like a gal biting my dick during bj.I will just kill u dat sef
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by arabianights: 12:47pm On Aug 09, 2015
wordbank:
Ur conclusion makes no sense in any way. U met d wrong dude so what? So others should be slaves to their own selves?
U r just amusing!


How you got over 100 likes proves that most people are ignorant on the issue of rape.

Note this:MOST RAPE CASES ARE COMMITTED BY A PERSON WHOM THE VICTIM TRUSTS SUCH AS FRIENDS, NEIGHBOURS, e.t.c.THIS IS A WORLDWIDE ACCEPTED FACT.

Mothers are advised in all rape seminars to educate their kids on the avoidance of visiting males,allowing their kids to get too familiar with so called "uncles" and so many other advises.

Have you ever attended a seminar on rape ? Do you belong to an NGO that assists rape victims?

THE OP HAS A VALID POINT

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by saaedlee: 12:49pm On Aug 09, 2015
classicB:

I can actually foot my own bill wink


classicB:

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Amazo: 12:50pm On Aug 09, 2015
Goldmaxx:
still offpoint,its just like a gal biting my dick during bj.I will just kill u dat sef

Your d¡ck is not as vulnerable as your balls, go figure. They are anatomically different completely.
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Amazo: 12:53pm On Aug 09, 2015
Goldmaxx:
biiiiitchh


I'm not in the mood for senseless vituperations. But in any case...strike one!
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 12:55pm On Aug 09, 2015
oreos:


How many women have you raped? Don't be afraid: D. Nairaland is anonymouscheesy
i havent raped any but i hate it wen u women accuse all men of being rapists.Do u knw hw many men dat are in prison nw cos of false rape accusations cos u women knw dat u hav upper hand wen it cums to such issues.
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by agoadiv(m): 12:58pm On Aug 09, 2015
dasrackhor:
she w̶̲̅ǟš raped and shy to say ΐτ̅..All dis girlz fink we r all fool..we get brain nah..Surely n verily she w̶̲̅ǟš raped..
we just look dem like lookuzade wen they r bluffing bt dis her own got me vexed up big time
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 12:59pm On Aug 09, 2015
Goldmaxx:
i havent raped any but i hate it wen u women accuse all men of being rapists.Do u knw hw many men dat are in prison nw cos of false rape accusations cos u women knw dat u hav upper hand wen it cums to such issues.

We understand that proving rape can be tricky but it does not mean that you have to attack reasonable points. It does not mean that we encourage women to make false allegations. Once you understand that rape equals to lack of consent then you don't have to worry about anything.

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:01pm On Aug 09, 2015
dasrackhor:
she w̶̲̅ǟš raped and shy to say ΐτ̅..All dis girlz fink we r all fool..we get brain nah..Surely n verily she w̶̲̅ǟš raped..

Ode! What is the essence of writing like an slowpoke to make fun of her? What if she were truly raped what business of yours is it to write like an imbecile_?

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:01pm On Aug 09, 2015
agoadiv:
we just look dem like lookuzade wen they r bluffing bt dis her own got me vexed up big time

Ode! undecided
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 1:04pm On Aug 09, 2015
Amazo:



I'm not in the mood for senseless vituperations. But in any case...strike one!
i said swerve biiiiitcchh
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Amazo: 1:05pm On Aug 09, 2015
Goldmaxx:
shut up joor,u dare not try dat wit me cos i will first destroy ur properties wey dey ur room then beat u mercilessly afterwards.
Nonsense


In addition to what I stated earlier, for all those ladies probing for valid telltale signs of a potential rap¡st, here's another: they talk like this fellow quoted! So watch out for and listen to not just what a man communicates, but far more importantly, HOW HE COMMUNICATES, to have a somewhat accurate preview of the kind of mentality he has. Rapë is a mental thing and rap¡sts are mentally sick. A man's mentality (how he thinks) is a good indicator of his state of being. And often times, from their mode of communication, it's possible to filter them (rap¡sts) out in the crowd. But unfortunately, some girls are just too stup¡d and naive at the same time. This is a dangerous combination. Don't be naive and stup¡d at the same time. The consequences are terribly unpleasant.

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 1:06pm On Aug 09, 2015
Amazo:


Your d¡ck is not as vulnerable as your balls, go figure. They are anatomically different completely.
ok but a gal dat does dat to me wont go scotfree tho i dont support rape
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 1:07pm On Aug 09, 2015
Amazo:



In addition to what I stated earlier, for all those ladies probing for valid telltale signs of a potential rap¡st, here's another: they talk like this fellow quoted! So watch out for and listen to not just what a man communicates, but far more importantly, HOW HE COMMUNICATES, to have a somewhat accurate preview of the kind of mentality he has. Rapë is a mental thing and rap¡sts are mentally sick. A man's mentality (how he thinks) is a good indicator of his state of being. And often times, from their mode of communication, it's possible to filter them (rap¡sts) out in the crowd. But unfortunately, some girls are just too stup¡d and naive at the same time. This is a dangerous combination. Don't be naive and stup¡d at the same time. The consequences are terribly unpleasant.
ok iyyaf hear
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 1:11pm On Aug 09, 2015
oreos:


We understand that proving rape can be tricky but it does not mean that you have to attack reasonable points. It does not mean that we encourage women to make false allegations. Once you understand that rape equals to lack of consent then you don't have to worry about anything.
do u knw dat wen a gal says no sometimes it means yes.They prove a little resistant not seem cheap and loose.
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dfrost: 1:11pm On Aug 09, 2015
SirShymexx:


Thirdly, Teenage girls aren't even the only ones who go through this ordeal - a lot teen boys also do.

Fourthly, I doubt rape victims are in the majority. So why the unnecessary noise, when it can be dealt with in a more effective way, without creating unnecessary suspicions/tensions between both groups?

Lastly, The world doesn't revolve around them alone - men are also out here and we're also victims of a lot of things.

P.S: sorry for the long post.


Hi SirShymexx,
How I wish I could give a glass of chilled Nutri C (wetin you dey expect before? grin tongue) for your post. You are among those that have hit the nail on the head. The following are my submissions based on your post:

Third paragraph - I agree totally with you. When I was in my early teens, a family friend (female, in her late teens) came over to our house on a routine visit. As soon as she saw that my elder sister wanted to get something outside, she come over to me and started stroking my private part. I was shocked even as little as I was. I slapped her hand away but couldn't push her away because she was quite bigger than me. Immediately my sister came in, I reported the matter to her. My sister gave her a slap of her life and warned her never to come to our house again and she never did. So boys can also be victimised.

Fourth paragraph - Rape victims are not in the majority, they are also not in the minority. Are you also aware that husbands rape their wives too? It's a consent issue. Probably at that moment, the wife was not in the mood. But the unnecessary noise owes its credit to social media. More people are becoming aware faster than ever before. Like you said and I quote "it can be dealt with in a more effective way, without creating unnecessary suspicions/tensions between both groups". I reasoned on this line with classicB and she quite understood. But you know men, we are so hard-wired that we can only break at the highest level of pressure. So sometimes we sulk it in and pretend nothing happened while women talk about it. Like I mentioned earlier, they are at the receiving end. It's a very traumatising ordeal. One can never feel the pain of another unless you pass through the same treatment. What I understand from the participants of this topic (especially the women folk) is that they need assurance from the opposite gender that they will be protected (excluding those who hunt for trouble on their own) and also the male folk should speak out for them when the need arises.

PS: those who are interested in reading the long post will always read it if they want to learn. No man is an epitome of knowledge. Shalom.
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by emsheddy(m): 1:13pm On Aug 09, 2015
classicB, Some of my brothers have said it already. If these are the kind of guys u always find yourself with, I advice u go for deliverance my dear. no offence meant. I have had too many female friends, even slept in same room alone with lots of them, without even touching their trouser or skirt, let alone trying to force myself on them. someone needs to drill it into ur head that ALL GUYS are not THE SAME. So whatever made u think of admonishing female folks to never visit male folks is rubbish. If u have a male friend who is always looking at u seductively, or is a womaniser, and u throw all cautions to the wind n chose to visit him alone, that doesn't give u the right to label the entire male folks as MOLESTERS. The signs were there. but u chose not to see them. You have heard what ur male colleagues discuss about ladies, atleast that's an insight to the kind of guys they are. My female friends visit me a lot and prefer to even visit me alone because dat way I give them all d attention they enjoy n want when they visit me. there has never been any attempt to molest, neither will there ever be. You haven't befriend all guys, and so not until u do that, plz do not label all of us as MOLESTERS!
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:17pm On Aug 09, 2015
Goldmaxx:
do u knw dat wen a gal says no sometimes it means yes.They prove a little resistant not seem cheap and loose.
What is stopping you from asking her whether she meant itundecided. It is better to be safe than sorry. And please stop chasing after messed up ladies.
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dfrost: 1:22pm On Aug 09, 2015
EggovinMma:


Well I think the system should start by giving your likes lethel injections. Una don dey plenty, it's better for una to reduce small.

Haba EggovinMma , sorry if my post was misinterpreted. So sorry about that. I never insulted you. There is no need to wish me death by lethal injection. I was asking for suggestions on ways to curb the issue. Best regards.
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 1:23pm On Aug 09, 2015
oreos:

What is stopping you from asking her whether she meant itundecided. It is better to be safe than sorry. And please stop chasing after messed up ladies.
ok iyaff hear
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:38pm On Aug 09, 2015
Dharniel:
those guys tried to molest you buh they didn't have their way.
to me, when it comes to rhape the two parties are guilty but that's mostly is not true cuz at times the lady raped might just be completely innocent.
op, there's something you've gotta always remember which is "NOT ALL GUYS ARE THE SAME", we still have good eggs among us buh nah the bads ones full market, so i put it to the ladies to be watchful and very careful...

Just becos a few reckless gals were raped doesnt mean all the guys are dangerous, stop spreading hate on this forum, dont vent your frustrations on the guys , just because they didnt marry u. grin

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:39pm On Aug 09, 2015
kaeforum:


Just becos a few reckless gals were raped doesnt mean all the guys are dangerous, stop spreading hate on this forum, dont vent your frustrations on the guys , just because they didnt marry u. grin

Is this for me or the op?
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by KingRaoul: 1:40pm On Aug 09, 2015
classicB:

I.do have a boyfriend and we've been together for a long time now. He's the only guy I trust with myself kiss

Cuz he doesnt ask for sexx? Check his peniss isnt working girl
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by KingRaoul: 1:42pm On Aug 09, 2015
classicB:

My sister na only God fit save us. These guys are so wicked that they will eventually turn the whole matter against the girl. What more of a bad thing can happen to a raped girl than turning against her? Telling her she initiated the act
If he had raped u that day, he will surely tell his frnds u.came with condom in handy

Stop wearing short skirt and visible panties if u come visit me that way i wont rape u sha cuz i have sexuall issues but i will lick ur pusssyy i must
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Netroemmy(m): 1:43pm On Aug 09, 2015
Thats like 9yrs ago..yaeee!!
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:44pm On Aug 09, 2015
naijaboiy:

[b]You obviously don't have anything to say.

My quotes to you have been more reasonable than all the comments you have made since you registered on this forum.

I don't need a sensible reply from you little girl. Your reasoning is just flawed.

When they call "Rape" y'all will just come out and start shouting even those who deliberately put it on themselves.

Or you don't believe a girl can put herself in that situation?

Then those of you who are too lazy to think and reason will be blaming whoever is accused even when the story is shaky.

And you all are Moh'fuçking hypocrites.

That was how I saw a thread recently of a guy who was raped and I saw the females who commented on that thread laughing at him and calling him "weak".

If at this point you still can't get my point and still think my aim is to support rape then you need to apologise to your teachers at school because you obviously have not made proper use of your brain.

undecided
[/b]
I believe men can be raped, groomed and sexually assaulted. The issue arises when you trivialise and try to justify rape against women.

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by KingRaoul: 1:49pm On Aug 09, 2015
classicB:

That isn't an excuse. I can deem it fit to dress scantily, that doesn't give u the right to rape me. Do u think we girls don't get moved with some male features?? Shud we now rape u people cos of that

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by weyreypey: 1:49pm On Aug 09, 2015
oreos:

I am different. I believe men can be raped, groomed and sexually assaulted. The issue arises when you trivialise and try to justify rape against women.
Oreos
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:50pm On Aug 09, 2015
weyreypey:

Oreos

What?
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by easiest(m): 1:51pm On Aug 09, 2015
Your creator know what he created that is why he told us how we should be dressing
but we human believe we are in 21st century and we are civilized we won't be able to
yield to God way then what do you expect?
we have to go back to Gos way that is it.
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:54pm On Aug 09, 2015
classicB:

That isn't an excuse. I can deem it fit to dress scantily, that doesn't give u the right to rape me. Do u think we girls don't get moved with some male features?? Shud we now rape u people cos of that

It is not right to dress scantily to visit a guy. It doesn't mean that you deserve to be raped but it is better to be safe than sorry.
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Dragonking: 1:58pm On Aug 09, 2015
Raalsalghul:
Guy you are wicked oh. Someone would think you are supporting the Op until you turned it against her. LoL!
Why will support such a devilish thread? grin

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