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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 12:46pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Amazo:still offpoint,its just like a gal biting my dick during bj.I will just kill u dat sef |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by arabianights: 12:47pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
wordbank: How you got over 100 likes proves that most people are ignorant on the issue of rape. Note this:MOST RAPE CASES ARE COMMITTED BY A PERSON WHOM THE VICTIM TRUSTS SUCH AS FRIENDS, NEIGHBOURS, e.t.c.THIS IS A WORLDWIDE ACCEPTED FACT. Mothers are advised in all rape seminars to educate their kids on the avoidance of visiting males,allowing their kids to get too familiar with so called "uncles" and so many other advises. Have you ever attended a seminar on rape ? Do you belong to an NGO that assists rape victims? THE OP HAS A VALID POINT 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by saaedlee: 12:49pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Amazo: 12:50pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Goldmaxx: Your d¡ck is not as vulnerable as your balls, go figure. They are anatomically different completely. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Amazo: 12:53pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 12:55pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
oreos:i havent raped any but i hate it wen u women accuse all men of being rapists.Do u knw hw many men dat are in prison nw cos of false rape accusations cos u women knw dat u hav upper hand wen it cums to such issues. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by agoadiv(m): 12:58pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
dasrackhor:we just look dem like lookuzade wen they r bluffing bt dis her own got me vexed up big time |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 12:59pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Goldmaxx: We understand that proving rape can be tricky but it does not mean that you have to attack reasonable points. It does not mean that we encourage women to make false allegations. Once you understand that rape equals to lack of consent then you don't have to worry about anything. 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:01pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
dasrackhor: Ode! What is the essence of writing like an slowpoke to make fun of her? What if she were truly raped what business of yours is it to write like an imbecile_? 2 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:01pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
agoadiv: Ode! |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 1:04pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Amazo:i said swerve biiiiitcchh |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Amazo: 1:05pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Goldmaxx: In addition to what I stated earlier, for all those ladies probing for valid telltale signs of a potential rap¡st, here's another: they talk like this fellow quoted! So watch out for and listen to not just what a man communicates, but far more importantly, HOW HE COMMUNICATES, to have a somewhat accurate preview of the kind of mentality he has. Rapë is a mental thing and rap¡sts are mentally sick. A man's mentality (how he thinks) is a good indicator of his state of being. And often times, from their mode of communication, it's possible to filter them (rap¡sts) out in the crowd. But unfortunately, some girls are just too stup¡d and naive at the same time. This is a dangerous combination. Don't be naive and stup¡d at the same time. The consequences are terribly unpleasant. 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 1:06pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Amazo:ok but a gal dat does dat to me wont go scotfree tho i dont support rape |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 1:07pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Amazo:ok iyyaf hear |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 1:11pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
oreos:do u knw dat wen a gal says no sometimes it means yes.They prove a little resistant not seem cheap and loose. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dfrost: 1:11pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
SirShymexx: Hi SirShymexx, How I wish I could give a glass of chilled Nutri C (wetin you dey expect before? ) for your post. You are among those that have hit the nail on the head. The following are my submissions based on your post: Third paragraph - I agree totally with you. When I was in my early teens, a family friend (female, in her late teens) came over to our house on a routine visit. As soon as she saw that my elder sister wanted to get something outside, she come over to me and started stroking my private part. I was shocked even as little as I was. I slapped her hand away but couldn't push her away because she was quite bigger than me. Immediately my sister came in, I reported the matter to her. My sister gave her a slap of her life and warned her never to come to our house again and she never did. So boys can also be victimised. Fourth paragraph - Rape victims are not in the majority, they are also not in the minority. Are you also aware that husbands rape their wives too? It's a consent issue. Probably at that moment, the wife was not in the mood. But the unnecessary noise owes its credit to social media. More people are becoming aware faster than ever before. Like you said and I quote "it can be dealt with in a more effective way, without creating unnecessary suspicions/tensions between both groups". I reasoned on this line with classicB and she quite understood. But you know men, we are so hard-wired that we can only break at the highest level of pressure. So sometimes we sulk it in and pretend nothing happened while women talk about it. Like I mentioned earlier, they are at the receiving end. It's a very traumatising ordeal. One can never feel the pain of another unless you pass through the same treatment. What I understand from the participants of this topic (especially the women folk) is that they need assurance from the opposite gender that they will be protected (excluding those who hunt for trouble on their own) and also the male folk should speak out for them when the need arises. PS: those who are interested in reading the long post will always read it if they want to learn. No man is an epitome of knowledge. Shalom. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by emsheddy(m): 1:13pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
classicB, Some of my brothers have said it already. If these are the kind of guys u always find yourself with, I advice u go for deliverance my dear. no offence meant. I have had too many female friends, even slept in same room alone with lots of them, without even touching their trouser or skirt, let alone trying to force myself on them. someone needs to drill it into ur head that ALL GUYS are not THE SAME. So whatever made u think of admonishing female folks to never visit male folks is rubbish. If u have a male friend who is always looking at u seductively, or is a womaniser, and u throw all cautions to the wind n chose to visit him alone, that doesn't give u the right to label the entire male folks as MOLESTERS. The signs were there. but u chose not to see them. You have heard what ur male colleagues discuss about ladies, atleast that's an insight to the kind of guys they are. My female friends visit me a lot and prefer to even visit me alone because dat way I give them all d attention they enjoy n want when they visit me. there has never been any attempt to molest, neither will there ever be. You haven't befriend all guys, and so not until u do that, plz do not label all of us as MOLESTERS! |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:17pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Goldmaxx:What is stopping you from asking her whether she meant it. It is better to be safe than sorry. And please stop chasing after messed up ladies. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dfrost: 1:22pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
EggovinMma: Haba EggovinMma , sorry if my post was misinterpreted. So sorry about that. I never insulted you. There is no need to wish me death by lethal injection. I was asking for suggestions on ways to curb the issue. Best regards. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 1:23pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
oreos:ok iyaff hear |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:38pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Dharniel: Just becos a few reckless gals were raped doesnt mean all the guys are dangerous, stop spreading hate on this forum, dont vent your frustrations on the guys , just because they didnt marry u. 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:39pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
kaeforum: Is this for me or the op? |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by KingRaoul: 1:40pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
classicB: Cuz he doesnt ask for sexx? Check his peniss isnt working girl |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by KingRaoul: 1:42pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
classicB: Stop wearing short skirt and visible panties if u come visit me that way i wont rape u sha cuz i have sexuall issues but i will lick ur pusssyy i must |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Netroemmy(m): 1:43pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Thats like 9yrs ago..yaeee!! |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:44pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
naijaboiy:I believe men can be raped, groomed and sexually assaulted. The issue arises when you trivialise and try to justify rape against women. 2 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by KingRaoul: 1:49pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
classicB: Like ? |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by weyreypey: 1:49pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
oreos:Oreos |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:50pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
weyreypey: What? |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by easiest(m): 1:51pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Your creator know what he created that is why he told us how we should be dressing but we human believe we are in 21st century and we are civilized we won't be able to yield to God way then what do you expect? we have to go back to Gos way that is it. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 1:54pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
classicB: It is not right to dress scantily to visit a guy. It doesn't mean that you deserve to be raped but it is better to be safe than sorry. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Dragonking: 1:58pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Raalsalghul:Why will support such a devilish thread? 1 Like |
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