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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by tpiander: 7:35am On Aug 10, 2015 |
devonpaul: what are you agreeing to nitori Oloun? |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by tpiander: 7:37am On Aug 10, 2015 |
almost all of the stories on this thread do not make sense. Someone is now saying she stayed with a man alone in his car late at night. To do what? perhaps I'm missing something. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by laurenziz6(m): 7:38am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Cutehector: Help me ask her a beg |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Deleayo88: 7:47am On Aug 10, 2015 |
tayediggss:Check the stats of rape incidents in each country on Wikipedia... |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by laurenziz6(m): 7:50am On Aug 10, 2015 |
classicB: I don't understand you. What do u mean? |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 8:01am On Aug 10, 2015 |
its true o.even wen i visited a guy ive known for a long tym.he kissed me forcibly for a lyk 20mins my mouth was sore afterwards wen he tried to rape me i escaped luckily |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by tpiander: 8:04am On Aug 10, 2015 |
just out of curiousity, can you explain how it's possible to kiss for 20 minutes. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by devonpaul(m): 8:05am On Aug 10, 2015 |
tpiander:Loooolz, Gbeborun |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by berbz(m): 8:11am On Aug 10, 2015 |
classicB:u misquoted me, and moreover, clothes ladies wear too give guys impression that they are bad gal, imagine a gal who wears an half dress in d middle of the night to visit a male friend. What am trying To say is that if u dress responsible, pple will address u well and no rape is involve. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by berbz(m): 8:11am On Aug 10, 2015 |
rahymat:which cloth do u wear? |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 8:12am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Carlmax:He doesn't. Tho am not saying all men are animals, but prevention is better than cure |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 8:12am On Aug 10, 2015 |
berbz:Some guys fit rape persoj regardless of how decent u dress |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by emsheddy(m): 9:23am On Aug 10, 2015 |
soonest:lolz! My apologies My lady for 'making you type a long epistle'. Serves the dude right and the news of the beating will serve as a warning to other intending rapists! Chivalry still exists dear. There are a lot of good guys out there. and there are also a lot of bad guys out there. same thing applies to you female folks. But placing a ban on ladies visiting male friends is on the extreme side oooo! |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by emsheddy(m): 9:28am On Aug 10, 2015 |
rahymat:Some guys will just be behaving like a randy goat! how on earth do u force a lady to kiss you nau? how u wan take enjoy the kiss self? Hian! Some guys take pleasure in disgracing the entire male folks! Me wey be say if u visit me, the way I go treat u self, to go ur house to tire u! |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by zicoraads: 9:53am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Well, there is no justification whatsoever for forcing your way on a girl. If she likes, she should dress like Rihanna to your house, it still doesn't give you the right to do it. If my thinking faculty was like some of the guys on this thread, am sure I would have forced my way on so many girls. When I was in school, a girl who we used to engage in 'dirty chats' came to write PUME and slept in my place. I couldn't sleep that night because we were on the same bed, and she had only pants and bra on. I kept an all night vigil...it was so tempting. This was after we had kissed and kissed and engaged in intense romance. Morgan remained hard for a better part of the night. I tried ooo...I engaged all the tricks in the book, but she said no. Inshort, I think am saying this for the first time because I had to cook up stories to tell my friends who were eagerly waiting to hear how the lovemaking was. It was that embarrassing. In between that, I have had a few cases as well. Notably a recent one that happened. I met this girl at a wedding, she was part of the bridal train. We exchanged numbers and kept in touch. She is a student in the university. After a while, we became very close, and practically talked about everything. Our first sexual experience and what not. I finally invited her to my place for the weekend with a promise of spoiling her silly and doing all sort of crazy things to her. She agreed to come. On D-Day, this girl appeared with a short, sexy gown that already had me salivating. I couldn't wait to rip it off her. Fast forward to 9p.m...after we had gone out to eat Suya and yoghurt, and we were gisting about how she has made a covenant with God about not engaging in sex anymore. And to make matters worst, she had already given me a phucking bl0wj0b! I almost cried. I was livid but had to let go. I no noe when I just stand up...go sitting room and go put on cable. The point am trying to make is, no matter how we see it...this can never be justified. A guy who doesn't have an incredible level of self control, should try and cultivate one. Because as a man, temptations would always come. Forcing one's way on a girl because of her dressing and because she has probably led you on is wrong. I have also said no to some ladies because I discovered I wasn't with any protection. What if they had forced their way...would I have said they are right? I believe the title of the thread is wrong though. It sounds like ClassicB made a generalisation. Not all guys are rapists! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dazzlingd(m): 9:54am On Aug 10, 2015 |
classicB: that shows the kind of guys u've been associating with and probably d manner u present ursef. be good before u can attract good guys. saying all guys are potential rapist, perhaps ur future sons are potential rapist? Get wise |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by yetseyi(f): 10:10am On Aug 10, 2015 |
SirShymexx: You are right anyway maintaining a balance is important. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Odunharry(m): 10:30am On Aug 10, 2015 |
IYANGBALI:chaii |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by berbz(m): 10:48am On Aug 10, 2015 |
classicB:are u talking from experience |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by WafiJoe(m): 11:08am On Aug 10, 2015 |
classicB: Madam, you are going off topic. The women you mentioned here, did they go about visiting the men that raped them? Or you are trying to say that it is too dangerous for women to come near men? Wake up. I will advice girls to be smart, know the kind of guy you are associating with. Most of the time we are the cause of our own misfortune. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Philosopher1979: 11:12am On Aug 10, 2015 |
I agree with this lady. I am also campaining against rape even though i am a man. I feel our generation is heading towards Sodom and Gomorah.s I think part of this problem is that nowadays most guys beleive that once a lady visits them, it is for sex which is a horrible idea. Most guys also beleive in the ideology that they must express their sexuality without any moral or religious consideration which is another horrible idea. Most people need to understand that the western world is getting excessing and lunatic about sex and we must not follow them You can check my at [url]femaleimportant..com[/url] And there we can discusss about this female menance |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by WafiJoe(m): 11:15am On Aug 10, 2015 |
classicB: YES. Or are you the owner of the restaurant? 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Crativjosh(m): 1:37pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Oga u just spoke my mind. foolish girls wud not report any case of rape, but they will go about speaking plenty english on Nairaland. the more cases of rape that are reported and actions taken, there wud definitely be a decline in the nonsense act, like u said bro, only perverts engage in the act. SirShymexx: |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by ice234: 1:41pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
So you cant be raped by someone you are in a relationship with? Babe visit if you like do not visit if you like. Girls do visit me, even spend the night and i haven't raped any. misspicy: |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by tayediggss: 1:51pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Deleayo88:I really don't get your point but i just checked Wiki and the opening sentence is; "Statistics on rape and other sexual assaults are commonly available in advanced countries, and are becoming more common throughout the world". You know the stats are based on reported cases right? In underdeveloped countries women are ashamed to report this crime because they are blamed for it and stigmatized. So even if the stats show Sweden as number one, that is not necessarily reality. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by ice234: 1:53pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Keeping a male friend means keeping a rapist, since all men are rapist. classicB: |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by SirShymexx: 3:08pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Crativjosh: Loooool. They are bumbling bees - crying all over the internet, disturbing the peace of everyone like those loutish and ignorant cyber feminazis. When they are ready to take a stand, if rape in naij is as bad as they are making it to be, they will get off their arses and direct their angst towards the right channels to achieve a desired result. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by soonest(f): 3:10pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
emsheddy:Lol! Na so una like visit? |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by fitinwell: 3:32pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
If you are not old enough to take responsibility of your life.., why force yourself into a relationship.. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by estatelinks(m): 7:08pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Manuelson: bad guys only you, why not PS 4, u still live in the past obviously |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by excel001(m): 9:54pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
WHAT? I just refused to comment so that i will read people's comments. Everybody seems to support boy/girl friend sex. Can somebody please without insult tell me the difference between boy/girl friend se.x AND 1. lecturer and student sex 2. A boy and girl se.x(no so called relationship ) sex is sex and premarital sex is evil. The only difference between a guy and your boy friend is "will you be my girl friend" and you repl!y "yes i will". Some guys are even more caring to you, than your so called boy friend that you think have the right to pfuck you. This is why most guys think they have the right to phuck you too since he knows you're already into the game. I don't support Rape ooo. 1 Like |
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