Ronald dear! On behalf of all women - virgins and non virgins alike. I love you and words simply cannot cover how much! For sticking up for women! An abberation for NL.

I just admire how you have vehemently and adamantly persisted in your defense for this case! I followed your responses to ops bizzare reasoning! BRAVO

Thru my stressful and tiring work day today, you have put a smile on my face. We need more men like you on NL!

I just came online just to say that "cause you deserve it and then some. Award of the century goes to you really!

No need to add a rebuttal to op, you have said it all! And better than i could have! And from a male...... Just fantafreakingfabulous all around! :-)

Goodnight!

ronald4lif:


A woman have sex and she's termed olosho, slut and every other demeaning names you can think of and when a man does same he's cheered by his friends for being a smart guy. No lashes from anyone because he's a 'man'. Why men should receive approval and extolment for having sex and women chastise is prejudicial and chauvinistic. We can't put markers on who should have sex and who shouldn't based on gender when both genders enjoys and crave for it as much. Any condemnation should and must not only be seen as all-encompassing but fair.

Sure because you aren't a virgin doesn't mean you don't deserve one. You do deserve and should have one if you so wishes. But it's hypocritical to demean and chastise non virgins when you aren't one yourself. Just go for the virgins and respect the non virgins decisions and choices.

You claim to have indulge because your body couldn't hold it anymore but fail to accept that a female non virgin might have done same coz they couldn't resist the urge. What a fair judgment and how nice of you to admit your frail ability of chastity but same time dismisses that of women.

Women's withdrawal attitude towards sex doesn't connote lack of interest but rather an action geared to ensure the guy's interest is genuine. Or perhaps they don't want to be stigmatised by judgmental and sanctimonious people like yourself. When a woman loves a guy and she's sure sex isn't the prime reason you're with her, she'd be the one to initiate sex even more. And there are equally many researches that supports the claim that women perceived withdrawal attitude towards sex is because they don't want to be label sluts like you just did, not coz their hormones craves for it any less than men.

DAVIYJONESS:


This right here is why the country is full of runz girls/sluts/ olosho . When men don't care about what's right and forget the concept of integrity on humans.

Because I'm not a virgin doesn't mean I don't deserve to marry a virgin, whoever I had sex with was by agreement I never forced her be it sex worker or a typical girl. I did it because I had to and my body couldn't take it no more. But a woman case is different they have more self sex control than male when they were virgins( this is by fact through research) whatever made her gave her virginity away is by choice wether being lure/seduced/ deceived she has herself to blame because these things can be neglected.

Like seriously U typed this?

Punkyveer u might be asleep buh once u wake up come see wetin my eyes see for NL this nyt....

misspicy:

So sowi abt...i hope it works someday

Definitely. How was ur day?

wristbangle:

Definitely. How was ur day?

Stressful buh af been minding my business ....yours?

ronald4lif:


A woman have sex and she's termed olosho, slut and every other demeaning names you can think of and when a man does same he's cheered by his friends for being a smart guy. No lashes from anyone because he's a 'man'. Why men should receive approval and extolment for having sex and women chastise is prejudicial and chauvinistic. We can't put markers on who should have sex and who shouldn't based on gender when both genders enjoys and crave for it as much. Any condemnation should and must not only be seen as all-encompassing but fair.

Sure because you aren't a virgin doesn't mean you don't deserve one. You do deserve and should have one if you so wishes. But it's hypocritical to demean and chastise non virgins when you aren't one yourself. Just go for the virgins and respect the non virgins decisions and choices.

You claim to have indulge because your body couldn't hold it anymore but fail to accept that a female non virgin might have done same coz they couldn't resist the urge. What a fair judgment and how nice of you to admit your frail ability of chastity but same time dismisses that of women.

Women's withdrawal attitude towards sex doesn't connote lack of interest but rather an action geared to ensure the guy's interest is genuine. Or perhaps they don't want to be stigmatised by judgmental and sanctimonious people like yourself. When a woman loves a guy and she's sure sex isn't the prime reason you're with her, she'd be the one to initiate sex even more. And there are equally many researches that supports the claim that women perceived withdrawal attitude towards sex is because they don't want to be label sluts like you just did, not coz their hormones craves for it any less than men.

This is by far the best comment on romance section for for past three months.

Well analysed and thoroughly said.

misspicy:

Stressful buh af been minding my business ....yours?

Lol what made it stressful dear?

wristbangle:

Lol what made it stressful dear?

The things we do that makes days stressful...
Nyt nyt,am off

DAVIYJONESS:
The wedding night by tradition is suppose to be a special night for couples, the night they look forward to for months or years and finally they had to make the sweet love.

One of the excitement of marriage is sex, especially that wedding night sex, what will be the excitement if your wife is not a virgin? But just a normal lady who has had lots of sex and how will the sex be special to you guys when she is not new but second hand? And you are not the one that deflowered her?

Guys are you going to treat the night like every other regular night ?

I see no fuss about the wedding night hyping. In as much as you love your bride, remember love covers multiple of sin and whether her kitty cat is over brush or not, you will still have fun and move on to the phase of reality in marriage.

So as for me, I will make the night special for my lady because opportunity comes once in someone life and one need to make it memorable.

misspicy:

The things we do that makes days stressful...

Nyt nyt,am off

OK dear

ronald4lif:


A woman have sex and she's termed olosho, slut and every other demeaning names you can think of and when a man does same he's cheered by his friends for being a smart guy. No lashes from anyone because he's a 'man'. Why men should receive approval and extolment for having sex and women chastise is prejudicial and chauvinistic. We can't put markers on who should have sex and who shouldn't based on gender when both genders enjoys and crave for it as much. Any condemnation should and must not only be seen as all-encompassing but fair.

Sure because you aren't a virgin doesn't mean you don't deserve one. You do deserve and should have one if you so wishes. But it's hypocritical to demean and chastise non virgins when you aren't one yourself. Just go for the virgins and respect the non virgins decisions and choices.

You claim to have indulge because your body couldn't hold it anymore but fail to accept that a female non virgin might have done same coz they couldn't resist the urge. What a fair judgment and how nice of you to admit your frail ability of chastity but same time dismisses that of women.

Women's withdrawal attitude towards sex doesn't connote lack of interest but rather an action geared to ensure the guy's interest is genuine. Or perhaps they don't want to be stigmatised by judgmental and sanctimonious people like yourself. When a woman loves a guy and she's sure sex isn't the prime reason you're with her, she'd be the one to initiate sex even more. And there are equally many researches that supports the claim that women perceived withdrawal attitude towards sex is because they don't want to be label sluts like you just did, not coz their hormones craves for it any less than men.

This is what a feminist would say, it has never and will never be the same, men are superior and immune to some societal activities, as an african you should know that.

Don't forget men have more respect for women they marry a virgin than second hand

Even the way both gender virginity was designed is different, to a male is just first time of having sex, to a female you are opening a sealed box which when it is opened at the wrong time it loses it value. And finally the case of blood as evidence.

wristbangle:


I see no fuss about the wedding night hyping. In as much as you love your bride, remember love covers multiple of sin and whether her kitty cat is over brush or not, you will still have fun and move on to the phase of reality in marriage.

So as for me, I will make the night special for my lady because opportunity comes once in someone life and one need to make it memorable.

love covers multiple sin? That must be a joke, and you leave your gf when she cheat on you?

'Oppporturnity doesn't come any more we create opportunity' by davijones

And stop derailing my thread you wouldn't want me to make list of top derailers and you as number1

nonsense post.....wuz it a spirit dat disvirgined her in d 1st place?.......wat makes a virgin a promising wife?

DAVIYJONESS:
love covers multiple sin? That must be a joke, and you leave your gf when she cheat on you?

'Oppporturnity doesn't come any more we create opportunity' by davijones

And stop derailing my thread you wouldn't want me to make list of top derailers and you as number1

What I mean about love covers all sin is that we guys are not perfect as I am not referring about cheating.

The fact that she is no longer a virgin or involved in royal rumble sexual escapades in the past doesn't connote her to be a bad person in the present.

Before we start pointing out the sawdust in another person's eyes, lets remove the log in our eyes first.

Meanwhile placing too much importance on sex at wedding night is not the guarantee for an effective and a successful marriage.

I hope am communicating man of list.

I am not derailing your thread. I am just airing my opinion.

Good morning.

NemzySeries:
nonsense post.....wuz it a spirit dat disvirgined her in d 1st place?.......wat makes a virgin a promising wife?

you don't even understand the post go and sleep my friend

DAVIYJONESS:


This is what a feminist would say, it has never and will never be the same, men are superior and immune to some societal activities, as an african you should know that.

Don't forget men have more respect for women they marry a virgin than second hand

Even the way both gender virginity was designed is different, to a male is just first time of having sex, to a female you are opening a sealed box which when it is opened at the wrong time it loses it value. And finally the case of blood as evidence.

Men nowadays are more concern with attitude than a sealed kitty cat.

I prefer to marry a non virgin with good character to a virgin with arrogant behaviour.

DAVIYJONESS:
you don't even understand the post go and sleep my friend

TGIF, so u can bite btw ma left & right lower butt ......whiceva u pick suits me...evangelist Virgin if u like dunt go & look 4 a woman wit character

wristbangle:


Men nowadays are more concern with attitude than a sealed kitty cat.

I prefer to marry a non virgin with good character to a virgin with arrogant behaviour.

pls come & help me xplaain to dis dude 4rm bokina faso Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo

wristbangle:


Men nowadays are more concern with attitude than a sealed kitty cat.

I prefer to marry a non virgin with good character to a virgin with arrogant behaviour.

'Character' is one huge topic on its own which I may create thread on before the year runs out.

You can have a non virgin with bad character and a virgin with good character and vice versa.

I don't think a girl's virginity influence her character either positively or negatively.

My point is things that are suppose to be done in later years that brings excitement are done now (intercourse) making the world envolve around female sexuality.

I never want to marry a virgin wife..I need a lady that has had a taste of life coz I have had my share of the taste as well...besides,I hate that screaming of pain and the blood flows for first timers.

DAVIYJONESS:


This right here is why the country is full of runz girls/sluts/ olosho . When men don't care about what's right and forget the concept of integrity on humans.

Because I'm not a virgin doesn't mean I don't deserve to marry a virgin, whoever I had sex with was by agreement I never forced her be it sex worker or a typical girl. I did it because I had to and my body couldn't take it no more. But a woman case is different they have more self sex control than male when they were virgins( this is by fact through research) whatever made her gave her virginity away is by choice wether being lure/seduced/ deceived she has herself to blame because these things can be neglected.

THis has got to be the most stupid crap that I have read in a long time. So you Mr. Big man, have no self control? Wow that says a lot for your intellect and many other things. If you were around, I as a woman, wouldn't want you cause you are too easy and have yourself spread all around the neighborhood. No one wants the fruit that falls at her feet, she wants the one high on the tree. My friend, you are down on the ground rotting.

misspicy:

Like seriously U typed this?

Punkyveer u might be asleep buh once u wake up come see wetin my eyes see for NL this nyt....

There is no shot, patch or pill that could cure that one's dumbness. He deserves to be at the museum because his mumu na serious special case be that

Never mind him. Good morning,hun

PunkyVeer:


There is no shot, patch or pill that could cure that one's dumbness. He deserves to be at the museum because his mumu na serious special case be that

Never mind him. Good morning,hun

I hope u r understanding my signature now,i will kip pointing them n der wack mentality out

misspicy:

I hope u r understanding my signature now,i will kip pointing them n der wack mentality out

Hahaha. I'm starting to see.

hbpeze:
All I know is that if a woman is not a Virgin on a wedding day she uselessed herself and the man is marrying a spare part

Why do people say these kinda stuffs? If I may ask, don't you read threads on NL that has to do with rapē/molestation of children and teenagers? If we really wanna be getting married to virgins, I think the best thing for use to do is to help create awareness about all these rape cases so that parents will be more at alert.

OP, hope you're a virgin too?

So what's the excitement for her if he's not a virgin too?

DAVIYJONESS:
don't mix things up, I'm talking about wedding night excitement.

Other excitements you mentioned are different.

What do you know about wedding nights? Have you been married before?

ronald4lif:


Lol come up with a grounded argument bro, this is infantile. You or no one else have the carte blanche to dictate who should conserve their virginity and who shouldn't.

To go around stuffed up like that is to be pregnant with nothing alive but pregnant all the same. An inability to accept the diversity in persons, decision, views and lifestyle is nothing short of idiocy.

The only authority to define what is allowable and not allowable in their lives or to preserve their virginity is individualistic and no one can usurp individual's choices. The world has long moved on from the era when men have dominion over women's choices and coerce them to abstain from having sex while they screw everything in skirt. Allow everyone make their choices themselves.

If a man is not a virgin , he should never ever have the guts to complain that his wife isn't. They're (a lot of guys) so pompous and selfish. After screwing around they will come and sit on a woman's head to judge. What do they think they are? Something a lot of guys always ignore is that just as they play God on women here on earth, so they will be judged after death and in heaven. Or they feel there will be partiality with god too? The way they try to punish women for what they themselves brought upon them today is the way they will suffer for their own sins after death. A man has had sex he will come back and be pointing fingers and Dehumanizing a woman. All I know is that we are all equal before God and such treatment will be meted out to them as well, through karma or through judgement with God. Selfish and wicked brutes , who will now marry the girls THEY THEMSELVES slept with or disvirgined, Abi who no want better thing now? Their fellow men should take the ones they've spoilt abi? I hate stupidity and stupid arguments.

dos shaging a virgin feel different from shaging non virgin...sex na sex bro..doing in with virgin will even not be exited cos it will involve lots of lectures and easy not to hurt and stuff, yuuk!...........i prefer woman that can do show for bobo biko

She's no virgin, I'm no saint. Makes no difference really. What matters is we were silly enough to get married.

The enthusiasm of being a married couple will definitely make sparks fly that night ie if she isn't pregnant before we get married

Melish:
WHEN HUMANS FIRST GET INVOLVED IN SOMETHING BAD THEY'RE SO REMORSEFUL AND SAD... OVER TIME WHEN THEY'RE SO HELPLESSLY INTO IT THEY START LOOKING FOR WAYS TO MAKE IT ACCEPTABLE..
WITH THAT SAID... DON'T FORNICATE , MAN OR WOMAN.IT'S FOR YOUR OWN GOOD... WE'RE JUST BEATING ABOUT THE BUSH WITH THESE SILLY ARGUEMENTS.

That's the point I've been trying to make, fornication among youths has corrupt the tradition, making marriage less exciting as it use to be.

Most of these non-virgins most times think they don't have to marry,why should they? They had had sex and have seen the unclothedness of a woman, they have done all possible styles, I'm not saying marriage is all about sex but sex plays major role and its one great excitement of marriage.

See youths going around sleeping with one another, the fact is girls will suffer it the most.

Mr ronald4lif are you giving up?

tomyka81:


THis has got to be the most stupid crap that I have read in a long time. So you Mr. Big man, have no self control? Wow that says a lot for your intellect and many other things. If you were around, I as a woman, wouldn't want you cause you are too easy and have yourself spread all around the neighborhood. No one wants the fruit that falls at her feet, she wants the one high on the tree. My friend, you are down on the ground rotting.

dumb, have to self control to a certain age dummy.