DAVIYJONESS:


That's the point I've been trying to make, fornication among youths has corrupt the tradition, making marriage less exciting as it use to be.

Most of these non-virgins most times think they don't have to marry,why should they? They had had sex and have seen the unclothedness of a woman, they have done all possible styles, I'm not saying marriage is all about sex but sex plays major role and its one great excitement of marriage.

See youths going around sleeping with one another, the fact is girls will suffer it the most.

Mr ronald 4lif are you giving up?

Stay thematic bro, you're drifting from the original message of your thread. What you're saying here is in variant with your initial submissions which was condemning women only without the men even as you boasted you have the right to shag as you can't control it.

Having sex is a personal decision and everyone is entitled to their choices. What you consider wrong might not be same for others and even if you must berate non-virgin women, men should equally get the stick otherwise your mission is lopsided and self-serving. You can't feel you're free to screw anything in skirt and women shouldn't because you're a man.

dulux07:
It shud b When both parties r not virgin not d wife only.. ..pray to marry a virgin sha.

it doesn't really matter for the guy.

DAVIYJONESS:
exactly! That night can't be a memory when she is not virgin.

even sef men shouldn't be paying brideprice for non virgins,what is there again to be proud of?I'm sure that pusy must have been scattered by different dicks sizes.

What's so special about wedding nights When most times couples would be at the point of complete exhaustion after the wedding ceremony. I think sex would be the last thing on their mind. Now Op tell me what would happen to a man that has already gotten his wife pregnant before the wedding, would he love her any less placing too much importance on sex at wedding night is not a guarantee for a prosperous and successful marriage.

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ronald4lif:


Stay thematic bro, you're drifting from the original message of your thread. What you're saying here is in variant with your initial submissions which was condemning women only without the men even as you boasted you have the right to shag as you can't control it.

Having sex is a personal decision and everyone is entitled to their choices. What you consider wrong might not be same for others and even if you must berate non-virgin women, men should equally get the stick otherwise your mission is lopsided and self-serving. You can't feel you're free to screw anything in skirt and women shouldn't because you're a man.

I believe that's the way it has been from
Innovation, feminism is empowering women wrongly and that's what you have been advocating, tell me mr ronald4lif why are men elligible to marry as many woman as they can and a woman can marry just one man at a time?

If you allow her make her choice there is 2million chances she might make the wrong one, a girl's life should be vehemently supervised. I know I will be a father of a daughter someday

Anyman who shags anything in skirt has less to lose than a woman, that's should prove my point and as a man if you didn't caught me having sex there is no evidence that I've had sex unlike woman.

They have so much to lose the world is evolving around their sexuality and its changing everything.things are geting worse, they are more of sex object these days.


Men will always be superior.

Youngpo413:
even sef men shouldn't be paying brideprice for non virgins,what is there again to be proud of?I'm sure that pusy must have been scattered by different dicks sizes.

2nd hand everywhere

@op I guess u ain't married,
Anyway, the fact that u re free at last, no more hiding, no more coding, no more fear of std or pregnancy,Nn finally u av u woman that's if u love her, u re happy n excited, ucan do aanything u like, anyhow for whatever duration u please. U now have the right before God n man and even from the law of the land.
Having said that. Wedding notes re usually not sex inclined, the couple wud have been tired n exhausted. Sex might not even be on their mind.
I for one was very exhausted, having had a sleepless night from the Bach eve, the night before n a lot of activities on the wedding day ursef.
But from the following day till ur woman reach pause(menopause) even after then if u re good at it, u re free to enjoy ursef anytime, Anywhere, anyhow. N u make it as exciting as u want it to be.

DAVIYJONESS:
2nd hand everywhere

second hand is even an understatement,the way ladies fuccccks nowadays is so so alarming to the the extent they are no longer satisfied with one dick.

DAVIYJONESS:
2nd hand everywhere

So you are now condemning human beings that were created by God to be second hand. Meaning you are now more precious than the rest of us . And the funny part is that you maybe call yourself a Christian. No man living a life that's immoral has a right to claim anything, in case you don't know.

I'm not encouraging immorality, but discouraging discrimination and slut shaming such as what you're doing here. Your thesis just states that a non virgin shouldn't get married. Sadly , what goes around comes around . Karma, dear. Those guys that have wasted girls, some must definitely end up with a girl they wasted as well. Second hand huh? I'm sure you are third, or even fifth hand. Funny.

Krystalxxx:


So you are now condemning human beings that were created by God to be second hand. Meaning you are now more precious than the rest of us . And the funny part is that you maybe call yourself a Christian. No man living a life that's immoral has a right to claim anything, in case you don't know.

I'm not encouraging immorality, but discouraging discrimination and slut shaming such as what you're doing here. Your thesis just states that a non virgin shouldn't get married. Sadly , what goes around comes around . Karma, dear. Those guys that have wasted girls, some must definitely end up with a girl they wasted as well. Second hand huh? I'm sure you are third, or even fifth hand. Funny.

Please I'm not condemning, what I was saying was girls have change things and have killed the excitement of marriage that's why most non-virgin guys don't care about marriage anytime soon because they have nothing to lose, they have seen it all, done all styles.

On the other hand girls have so much to lose , most girls trade their virginity for money or material things (excluding those who were molested). Which makes them the '2nd hand' which means non-virgin.

ronald4lif:


A woman have sex and she's termed olosho, slut and every other demeaning names you can think of and when a man does same he's cheered by his friends for being a smart guy. No lashes from anyone because he's a 'man'. Why men should receive approval and extolment for having sex and women chastise is prejudicial and chauvinistic. We can't put markers on who should have sex and who shouldn't based on gender when both genders enjoys and crave for it as much. Any condemnation should and must not only be seen as all-encompassing but fair.

Sure because you aren't a virgin doesn't mean you don't deserve one. You do deserve and should have one if you so wishes. But it's hypocritical to demean and chastise non virgins when you aren't one yourself. Just go for the virgins and respect the non virgins decisions and choices.

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thuao:
@op I guess u ain't married,
Anyway, the fact that u re free at last, no more hiding, no more coding, no more fear of std or pregnancy,Nn finally u av u woman that's if u love her, u re happy n excited, ucan do aanything u like, anyhow for whatever duration u please. U now have the right before God n man and even from the law of the land.
Having said that. Wedding notes re usually not sex inclined, the couple wud have been tired n exhausted. Sex might not even be on their mind.
I for one was very exhausted, having had a sleepless night from the Bach eve, the night before n a lot of activities on the wedding day ursef.
But from the following day till ur woman reach pause(menopause) even after then if u re good at it, u re free to enjoy ursef anytime, Anywhere, anyhow. N u make it as exciting as u want it to be.

not everyone use so much energy especially when you have too much money. You'll just sit down and things will be in order.

Gender discrimination everywhere. Virgin or not, ur marriage goes beyond dt wedding nite alone so marry sumone u can have a loving and lasting relationship with as it isn't dependent on virgins or non virgins and enuff of d female discrimination alreadi. They have equal rights also. Which one is superior and inferior again??. Shuooo!

DAVIYJONESS:


I believe that's the way it has been from
Innovation, feminism is empowering women wrongly and that's what you have been advocating, tell me mr ronald 4lif why are men elligible to marry as many woman as they can and a woman can marry just one man at a time?

Don't drag feminism into this discourse as its unrelated to the issue. I'm anti-feminist and neither am I propagating it ideology by my stance. The reason why men can marry more than a wife isn't far-fetch. It's because men had dominion over women from medieval ages. A man can talk to any woman or girl but women can't relate with men coz they weren't permitted to and feared being stigmatized. It's same mentality you've adopted by virtue of the society we grow up, a patriarchal one. Don't also forget that there are matriarchal society where polyandry is practiced and women can have more than a husband. Does it make it right?

If you allow her make her choice there is 2million chances she might make the wrong one, a girl's life should be vehemently supervised. I know I will be a father of a daughter someday

Wow, Mr Jones, are you a male chauvinist? Because this is what this reeks of. I can't wrap my head as to why you're convinced that a girl should be piloted but not saying same for a guy. Don't let the male ego mislead you into thinking a man is way better than a woman. There are as almost equally dumb and directionless men just as there are women.

Anyman who shags anything in skirt has less to lose than a woman, that's should prove my point and as a man if you didn't caught me having sex there is no evidence that I've had sex unlike woman.

Whether there's any evidence to point out one has had sex or not isn't the issue. The issue is one don't go about condemning female non-virgins without doing same for the male. Even worse so when the person isn't a virgin himself. In doing so they're nailing an individual or a group of persons for same crime their guilty of.


Are you a virgin? No. Your woman is just your girlfriend why should she have to live up to your standards. And if you have standards for her, she should have standards for you, too; like your bank account, her future with you, the luxury life, be as cute than mr. Universe. What can you guarantee her?

If she is a virgin and she gives her self to you, and you two are not compatible or you both break up. Then what will she tell the next guy that has same expectation. What era are you from bro? What's with you and virgins lol.

They have so much to lose the world is envolving around their sexuality and its changing everything.things are geting worse, they are more of sex object these days.

My world doesn't evolve around a woman's sexuality, perhaps yours is but not so for everyone. If you surround your world around a woman's sexuality that's your problem not theirs.

Wow. You think a woman is like a sex object? Don't you think that's sexist and a bit misogynist. Please have regards for women and cease from cheapening someone, a human, because of their gender. Your being born a male it's no choice of yours and you could have been a woman. A man is no better than a woman.

Men will always be superior.

I don't want to join words here coz this is not a battle of the sexes even though your position and arguments stem from the believe that a man is superior and must have things their way why women should be their subject. When we're having a gender superiority argument we'd address that. For now, let's keep it thematic.

ronald4lif:


Don't draw feminism into this discourse as its unrelated to the issue. I'm anti-feminist and and neither am I propagating it ideology by my stance. The reason why men can marry more than a wife isn't far-fetch. It's because men had dominion over women from medieval ages. A man can talk to any woman or girl but women can't relate with men coz they weren't permitted to and feared being stigmatized. It's same mentality you've adopted by virtue of the society we grow up, a patriarchal one. Don't also forget that there are matriarchal society where polyandry is practiced and women can have more than a husband. Does it make it right?





Wow, Mr Jones, are you a male chauvinist? Because this is what this reeks of. I can't wrap my head as to why you're convinced that a girl should be piloted but not saying same for a guy. Don't let the male ego mislead you into thinking a man is way better than a woman. There are as almost equal dumb and directionless men just as there are women.



Whether there's any evidence to point out one has had sex or not isn't the issue. The issue is one don't go about condemning female non-virgins without doing same for the male. Even worse so when the person isn't a virgin himself. In doing so they're nailing an individual or a group of persons for same crime their guilty of.


Are you a virgin? No. Your woman is just your girlfriend why should she have to live up to your standards. And if you have standards for her, she should have standards for you, too; like your bank account, her future with you, the luxury life, be as cute than mr. Universe. What can you guarantee her?

If she is a virgin and she gives her self to you, and you two are not compatible or you both break up. Then what will she tell the next guy that has same expectation. What era are you from bro? What's with you and virgins lol.



My world doesn't evolve around a woman's sexuality, perhaps yours is but not so for everyone. If you surround your world around a woman's sexuality that's your problem not theirs.

Wow. You think a woman is like a sex object? Don't you think that's sexist and a bit misogynist. Please have regards for women and cease from cheapening someone, a human, because of their gender. Your being born a male it's no choice of yours and you could have been a woman. A man is no better than a woman.




I don't want to join words here coz this is not a battle of the sexes even though your position and arguments stem from the believe that a man is superior and must have things their way why women should be their subject. When we're having a gender superiority argument we'd address that. For now, let's keep it thematic.

Case closed. If you will excuse me I'm working on an epic list.

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"Virgin", "Virginity", "Vagina" all have same latin origin. So, these words are well befitting a woman. Moreso, there is nothing to indicate a man has lost his virginity; where as, a woman is said to have lost her "V" if her hymen is broken. Whether by sex or other means. In any case, a fulfilling marriage is much desired than a virgin wife who makes the home a hell.

DAVIYJONESS:



Case closed. If you will excuse me I'm working on an epic list.

Lol! Okay man of list. We're waiting for the latest.

hbpeze:
All I know is that if a woman is not a Virgin on a wedding day she uselessed herself and the man is marrying a spare part

U are utterly wrong, coupled with the tone of ur contribution I can surmise that u are just being bitter for no reason..


Virginity is not a yardstick for a great marriage.. She ain't a spare part. infact she might be the pillar of ur home... She might make a terrific soul mate...

Op.. Are u a virgin ur self, if kitty come now won't u do.. ? Even the Biblical injunction enjoined both girls n boys to abstain until marriage.. If u ve violated dat law, u gat no right to call a lady spare part cos we all are spare parts since we do indulge in premarital s, ex

ronald4lif:
What's the excitement of a wedding night when the husband is not a virgin

A man can claim to be a virgin,but painfully a woman cannot..


The answer is there is no excitement.when we are eating rice without meat we call it over here as audio.

It is audio excitement and not video at a wedding night of kpekus already unbotton..


Those who lost their virginity before wedding night there shall be no sex if i was the guy,it is a time to sleep sound sleep jare,afterall what is so special when the gold has been thrown to the pigs.

Bandeco:


U are utterly wrong, coupled with the tone of ur contribution I can surmise that u are just being bitter for no reason..


Virginity is not a yardstick for a great marriage.. She ain't a spare part. infact she might be the pillar of ur home... She might make a terrific soul mate...

Op.. Are u a virgin ur self, if kitty come now won't u do.. ? Even the Biblical injunction enjoined both girls n boys to abstain until marriage.. If u ve violated dat law, u gat no right to call a lady spare part cos we all are spare parts since we do indulge in premarital s, ex

guy go and marry ashewo make she be pillar of your home

Some people shaa... so because i have had a lot of girls, i can't demand to marry a virgin? But a poor girl can demand for a rich man? We live in an imperfect world where u leverage what u have to get what u want. If you find a beautiful grown up virgin in this present time...... then you have a gem on your hand.

DAVIYJONESS:
The wedding night by tradition is suppose to be a special night for couples, the night they look forward to for months or years and finally they had to make the sweet love.

One of the excitement of marriage is sex, especially that wedding night sex, what will be the excitement if your wife is not a virgin? But just a normal lady who has had lots of sex and how will the sex be special to you guys when she is not new but second hand? And you are not the one that deflowered her?

Guys are you going to treat the night like every other regular night ?

Guy... I love you.

Is it just me or some folks wake up and post crap here? Mr poster are you married?
Are you a virgin? By the way is marriage just bout the wedding night?

Bia... Why do you want to know the excitement sef? ... Your sex life is yours and yours alone inugo? Receive sense......

By the way who DE flowered the girl? Isn't it a guy with his joystick? She climbed her self and got DE flowered ba?
Ds post is a waste of my mb.

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DAVIYJONESS:
the man doesn't have to be, male and female virginity are not the same.

Female virginity is more valuable.

So you are not a virgin?