tosyne2much:
9. They say they can't date broke guys

80% of Nigerian ladies often utter this statement. Last week, one even told me that she wouldn't date me cos I'm a broke dude. I was told she's now dating my HOD. Smh


10. They say that you should not ask for Sex if you truly love them

Before you castigate me, lemme justify myself. Many ladies who utter this statement are likely to be cheating outside, while you thing they are practicing celibacy. However, statistics have it that, non virgin ladies who always insist on NO sex before marriage are not reliable and cannot be trusted

Nobody should quote me

Ok I won't quote u

misspicy:

where is the insult in my post naw...you are just hungry

n stop justifying insults on women with useless grammer...insult na insult,i just pity the ladies who roll with you all......mtchewwwww

I am really trying hard to make my point to you without using vulgar words.... *rubs chest with hand*


Op didn't insult women... He stated their character which he finds to be decadent. If you see it as insult then it means the existence of this type of ladies is an insult in itself... Capise?

MzNelly:


I don't know what you're talking about.

What I do know is that communication is key in every relationship.
So if you want a feel of your girlfriend's meals, let her know and stop writing her off as bad wife material. She might even be a better cook than you are.

Well am yet to meet a man who hates to eat from her pot but, when there is no pot and no plans for it but rather complains abt cooking not been a hobby...

MzNelly:
"Ladies who possess these qualities are not worthy of wedding ring..."

Lol, you make marriage seem like a fvcking privilege

It is.

Oyind17:
mtcheew

By their response, we shall know them

Decker:


You see them everyday because you hang out with ladies that exhibit the kind of characters the op explained.
And the girls that display these characters are kids. Meaning you hang out with kids, and you know what they say, birds of the same feather flock together. You'd have to be a kid to attract a kid.

Well, well,.... What have we got here?

Firstly, ain't nothing wrong hanging out with "kids", I Dont discriminate Sir...

Secondly, you need to work on your logic Mate... So because I said we see them daily, you assume I literally see them in my everyday life? Lawd Gizos... It simply means it is not a rarity...

Capisce?

MzNelly:
"Ladies who possess these qualities are not worthy of wedding ring..."

Lol, you make marriage seem like a fvcking privilege

It is a privilege or do you want to remain single forever?

gamaliel121:


Tosyne'you'2much

hahahahah

I throway salute baba

Freemanan:



I am really trying hard to make my point to you without using vulgar words.... *rubs chest with hand*


Op didn't insult women... He stated their character which he finds to be decadent. If you see it as insult then it means the existence of this type of ladies is an insult in itself... Capise?

i don't still get why you are feeling worked up i didnt even use vulgar words,we are just explaining things to each other.....

and yes wat of this type of women exist are men saints? the kind of men we see around nowadays ehn,makes me loose hope in relationships.....so if OP wants to create a thread it should be equal....

i know you will say ladies too should create theirs which i wanted to take up d challenge but for the advice of some pple,because dis same guys believe they can do no wrong and with their mysoginist nature they will ruin any thread exposing their bad attributes


fremanan i always see u as sensible...is this fair? answer truthfully

JustOzito:
Ok I won't quote u

Dony quote me oooo

From the epic response of ladies so far, one can tell that the qualities mentioned in the article it's in them.

Instead of embracing and make amends to rectify their derogatory acts, they are defending it as if their life depends on it.

Make una continue oo

donephi:


It's interesting when they ar willing to learn but wat happens wen they dnt want to? Always coming ard with fast food

hahaha I knw right... Sometimes I blame d boyfrnd tho u knw for not bein hard on her...he should be like. Evrytime u always bring home with u fast food.. Dnt u eva cook in dis ur life.. Cux I aint marryn u wit dis kinda character...And he should mean it.. Not sayin it jokingly..



If she doesn't change d next day, leme knw

Freemanan:


Please give a proof of the sentence i bolded. Thanks

I used questionnaire method to carry out the research

wristbangle:


It is a privilege or do you want to remain single forever?

The day you realize the value of a woman, is the day you truly become a man.

iAmCharis:
It is.

Ah... Misogyny at its finest.

tosyne2much:
I used questionnaire method to carry out the research

Perfect. Meaning you have a final data analysis after the collection... Can we see them please

wristbangle:
From the epic response of ladies so far, one can tell that the qualities mentioned in the article it's in them.

Instead of embracing and make amends to rectify their derogatory acts, they are defending it as if their life depends on it.

Make una continue oo

GBAM.....
RES IPSA LOQUITOR

Cutehector:
hahaha I knw right... Sometimes I blame d boyfrnd tho u knw for not bein hard on her...he should be like. Evrytime u always bring home with u fast food.. Dnt u eva cook in dis ur life.. Cux I aint marryn u wit dis kinda character...And he should mean it.. Not sayin it jokingly..



If she doesn't change d next day, leme knw

Lol
Definitely u cnt marry such a person after all said and done yet no ...
Since she's good on the other dptmnt. u continue until u re ready...

donephi:

Lol
Definitely u cnt marry such a person after all said and done yet no ...
Since she's good on the other dptmnt. u continue until u re ready...

hahahhahaha nw dats d area whr men lose their authority as a man

MzNelly:


The day you realize the value of a woman, is the day you truly become a man.

The day you realise that men are not money bag, that is when guys will see u as a potential wife

Freemanan:


Perfect. Meaning you have a final data analysis after the collection... Can we see them please

The network is terrible here.. I will upload it when the network is stable

Freemanan:

GBAM.....
RES IPSA LOQUITOR

Merci beaucoup bro

wristbangle:


The day you realise that men are not money bag, that is when guys will see u as a potential wife

Okay, arguing with you is just too lame for words.

Go hang out with your lazy, frustrating girlfriends who you have nothing to offer to but marriage,

donephi:


Well am yet to meet a man who hates to eat from her pot but, when there is no pot and no plans for it but rather complains abt cooking not been a hobby...

Adon unstern.

Like, she should bring a pot to your house or....?

tosyne2much:
9. They say they can't date broke guys

80% of Nigerian ladies often utter this statement. Last week, one even told me that she wouldn't date me cos I'm a broke dude. I was told she's now dating my HOD. Smh


10. They say that you should not ask for Sex if you truly love them

Before you castigate me, lemme justify myself. Many ladies who utter this statement are likely to be cheating outside, while you thing they are practicing celibacy. However, statistics have it that, non virgin ladies who always insist on NO sex before marriage are not reliable and cannot be trusted

Bro at point 9, similar thing happened on a thread that was on front page about a lady who claimed that she needed a guy who earns nothing like than $500 thousand per annum. I like the response from JP Morgan CEO who said, not that you can't get someone like that but the problem is after 5years, you beauty would have depreciated while my net worth will appreciate which is not good for business.

misspicy:

i don't still get why you are feeling worked up i didnt even use vulgar words,we are just explaining things to each other.....

and yes wat of this type of women exist are men saints? the kind of men we see around nowadays ehn,makes me loose hope in relationships.....so if OP wants to create it should be equal....

i know you will say ladies too should create theirs which i wanted to take up d challenge but for the advice of some pple,because dis same guys believe they can do no wrong and with their mysoginist nature they will ruin any thread exposing their bad attributes


fremanan i always see u as sensible...is this fair? answer truthfully

I care little about your high hopes in relationships as the contrary won't help the kids who are hungry in war torn Syria....

Now back to the issue....
I understand that this thread is lopsided as regards addressing only the female. But hey, the Op didn't say men are saints. Lots of threads have greeted this forum addressing the issue of guys and men so I Dont see your premise to be enough to assume that Op is making ladies monstrous while making guys saints... NO....

And for the records, my apologies for perceiving your emotional out poor as insults.... Nemaste...

MzNelly:


Okay, arguing with you is just too lame for words.

Go hang out with your lazy, frustrating girlfriends who you have nothing to offer to but marriage,

I hang out with sharp intellectual ladies dear. Are u one?

MzNelly:


What do you mean?

You can't see see sheer chauvinism and misogyny dripping from the OP?

hmmmmm !!!

Cutehector:
hahahhahaha nw dats d area whr men lose their authority as a man

In as much as I believe in authority as an African man, I also believe any lady who is matured shuld knw the right thing to do esp wen an issue is been over flogged.

I don't believe in forcing my opinions or making u do something as an adult.
I just take my decisions

tosyne2much:
The network is not good for here.. I will upload it when the network is stable

The court has taken judicial notice ..

wristbangle:


I hang out with sharp intellect ladies dear. Are u one?

Sharp intellectual ladies do not possess the qualities you speak of in the OP, ma fren'.

MzNelly:


Adon unstern.

Like, she should bring a pot to your house or....?

Lol

You dnt force people to do what the do not want to do after several...

U strike me as some 1 who is homely, are u?

donephi:


Lol

You dnt force people to do what the do not want to do after several...

U strike me as some 1 who is homely, are u?

If by homely, you mean "like to cook", yes I do.

But I don't see why I should visit a guy and start cooking. Is he my father?
Except, of course he asks me nicely... Then maybe, I could consider it.