ssoftappless:
U DEY MAD @hoes mentality

am old enough to be your grandmum so show some respect

kedu ife onyea n'ako?

Oyind17:
Joy, I dey see you

i no be dey wit my phone before@afternoon

Jolllyjoy:
i no be dey wit my phone before@afternoon

OK, no qualms

Toks2008:
This will be a very controversial one but as i always maintain...IT IS MY OPINION.

But before i go on,i would like to ask this simple question..Why do we use a condom?

While the answer to that can be too exhausting i believe that many guys will say they use condoms to prevent stds and pregnancy but after marriage they will not even think about using it on their wives but would prefer the lady to use other birth control methods.

This leaves me with one answer to why a man will use a condom on a lady and that is because he sees you as cheap,untrustworthy and a potential std carrier and ofcourse has no deep respect and affection for the lady.

So any lady that allows a man to use condom on her is sexually reckless and cheap...quote me
anywhere...condom is mainly for casual sex
with a casual lady you have no deep respect or affection for.

My candid opinion.

i created a thread on this when a male friend told me something relating to this..

https://www.nairaland.com/2527948/why-he-wunt-use-cds.

i related this to another guy,he said that my friend is likely to be a carrier already as that is the lie this carriers tell just to spread their disease and na mumu girls fall for it....so i am tempted to ask you are you a carrier,if you say no show us a proof of your HIV,Hepatis,overall sexually transmitted diseases test




please sir forgive my outburst but i have to be frank with my post on this tonight...


of all threads you af been creating forming alpha male,chauvinistic male,i swear this is the most illiterate and unreasonable one and I begin to wonder if your association with nairaland boys has corrupted your sense of reasoning....seriously i used to see you as matured adult


i would want you to answer the following questions,i need to test your knowledge of the use of condoms and STDs

Now what is condom? what is it used for
what is an STD,who are the carriers,is it only females that harbour STDs?

who are those that should protect themselves from STDs and unwanted pregnancies?



















Now the worst you can do is to insult my moniker and call your children to defend you but am ready for you all,btw am sorry i don't mince words when i talk


btw no offeinse meant but i can't allow you preach what will affect the coming generation

bqlekan:
this dude is here again.., here is my opinion,

lets assume a dude is HIV positive, going by your opinion now, he must respect that girl and spread the disease to her.. or better still, the dude should not have sex any longer cos he is HIV positive. and that makes him less of a human...

my opinion tho...

You are getting it all twisted.

You can never remove the risk factor from whatever we do in life and even if you marry a virgin,she can still go out to bring any nonsense to you and visavis.

What i am implying here is that when a man uses a condom on a lady,that man is actually passing deep messages to the lady and ordinarily,any decent lady will not even make love "casually" because except a lady is a slut,no lady in her right sense indulges in sex with a man she does not love.

But when a man meticulously makes sure he uses protection on a lady,be most assured that the guy does not have deep respect and affection for the lady.

Now get this point clear,in my world,if you make love with a woman you claim you love with a condom because you dont want her to be pregnant for you then you dont really want her...forget all the cock and bull crap,if a man loves a woman and i mean really wants a woman,he will never be scared of lady getting pregnant for him even if he is 20 and the lady is 18.

ssoftappless:
yeah we are all saying d same thing, a condom is used by people who thinks the lady they are going down with might have some kind of disease or something, taking a look at d history of condoms, it was originally produce 4 prostitutes, now countdown to this day, the men are using what was meant for cheap sluts on their girlfriends. "so its better to use pills or injection than to use condom bcaus by using a condom then ure terming ur girlfriend as a slut. "i am not saying i dont fornicate, infact i fornicated today but i have never used condoms in my life.

what is all this nonsense....are you all sayibg a guy cannot harbour STDs,is STD exclusive to females alone.....

dude like seriously?

so because am proofing mysef trust worthy or whatnot i should not protect mysef from STDs and pregnancy that am not ready for?

are you all mad?
you talk of abstinaince,you hypocrites should swear that you are all virgins or never had more than two partners?


jeez this is hilarious

Jolllyjoy:
am old enough to be your grandmum so show some respect

IFA SLAP UR FRONT PACKAGE EHN

[quote author=misspicy post=40887831][/quote] hmmm u have something to say?

Toks2008:


You are getting it all twisted.

You can never remove the risk factor from whatever we do in life and even if you marry a virgin,she can still go out to bring any nonsense to you and visavis.

What i am implying here is that when a man uses a condom on a lady,that man is actually passing deep messages to the lady and ordinarily,any decent lady will not even make love "casually" because except a lady is a slut,no lady in her right sense indulges in sex with a man she does not love.

But when a man meticulously makes sure he uses protection on a lady,be most assured that the guy does not have deep respect and affection for the lady.

Now get this point clear,in my world,if you make love with a woman you claim you love with a condom because you dont want her to be pregnant for you then you dont really want her...forget all the cock and bull crap,if a man loves a woman and i mean really wants a woman,he will never be scared of lady getting pregnant for him even if he is 20 and the lady is 18.

even when they are not ready for it?

like seriously?

you mean every one should start poping babies in this economy because they wants to show their love for one another?

if you wanna talk about abstinaince please do but don't destroy the protection condom given to people abeg....they don't need this bullcrap

misspicy:

btw no offeinse meant but i can't allow you preach what will affect the coming generation

lol! walahi you no well..you don abuse me finish con conclude with no insult,,if you wan insult me nko? wettin you go talk again?

Relax aburo and get this straight.

Apparently the picture you have in your head is a situation where a guy sleeps with every thing in skirt.

As per my HIV status let me blow your mind that i dont sleep around and for the past 12years of my life i had only one lady and the last time i checked,i am as clean as you can ever imagine so save your comical assertion and get my message clearly.

Only a reckless lady will get down with just any man...real sexually decent ladies don't hjust open their legs for guys to swim in except they are whores and YES condom are designed for whores and not regular ladies.

Now i will repeat this for the last time,no one is really free from stds or HIV because your wife or hubby can still bring it home for you and even condom is not 80% certain to prevent the virus.

What im writing here is about what goes through the mind of a man when he uses a condom on a lady and i believe this is simple enough to understand.

misspicy:


even when they are not ready for it?

like seriously?

you mean every one should start poping babies in this economy because they wants to show their love for one another?

if you wanna talk about abstinaince please do but don't destroy the protection condom given to people abeg....they don't need this bullcrap

Na by force to have sex?

Stay away from sex until you are ready to have babies abi which kain wahala be this?

If you like cry an ocean..if a man uses a condom on you then you are as cheap as the LovePeddler in the brothels and you can as well ask him for payment after the act..

misspicy:

what is all this nonsense....are you all sayibg a guy cannot harbour STDs,is STD exclusive to females alone.....

dude like seriously?

so because am proofing mysef trust worthy or whatnot i should not protect mysef from STDs and pregnancy that am not ready for?

are you all mad?
you talk of abstinaince,you hypocrites should swear that you are all virgins or never had more than two partners?


jeez this is hilarious

a thousand likes for yhu.


The way some guys reason eeeh baffle me at times,...

Toks2008:


You are getting it all twisted.

You can never remove the risk factor from whatever we do in life and even if you marry a virgin,she can still go out to bring any nonsense to you and visavis.

What i am implying here is that when a man uses a condom on a lady,that man is actually passing deep messages to the lady and ordinarily,any decent lady will not even make love "casually" because except a lady is a slut,no lady in her right sense indulges in sex with a man she does not love.

But when a man meticulously makes sure he uses protection on a lady,be most assured that the guy does not have deep respect and affection for the lady.

Now get this point clear,in my world,if you make love with a woman you claim you love with a condom because you dont want her to be pregnant for you then you dont really want her...forget all the cock and bull crap,if a man loves a woman and i mean really wants a woman,he will never be scared of lady getting pregnant for him even if he is 20 and the lady is 18.

now, lets take decency away from this, assuming I'm in a relationship with a lady, we both agreed to keep it safe.. ( does that mean the lady is a slut? why not call the man a slut?) what if during the relationship, either of us contact HIV virus through other means other than sexual intercourse? then we can gladly transfer it to one another right?
like you said,
"no lady in her right sense indulges in sex with a man she does not love."
now she loves me and we've been having sex, the best I can do is make sure it's protected sex for the sake of our future.

now to the emboldened..

assuming I've got a fiancee in her final year in school, bound to go for housmanship next year,.. I think you are telling me to impregnate her.. probably make her pause her career all because I really want her. Sir, it's not the right thing to do.

you probably should say 'abstain from pre-marital sex' that would have been better..

I think I once told you.. you have a problem with premarital sex..

Toks2008:


kikikikiki lol! walahi you no well..you don abuse me finish con conclude with no insult,,if you wan insult me nko? wettin you go talk again?

Relax aburo and get this straight.

Apparently the picture you have in your head is a situation where a guy sleeps with every thing in skirt.

As per my HIV status let me blow your mind that i dont sleep around and for the past 12years of my life i had only one lady and the last time i checked,i am as clean as you can ever imagine so save your comical assertion and get my message clearly.

Only a reckless lady will get down with just any man...real sexually decent ladies don't hjust open their legs for guys to swim in except they are whores and YES condom are designed for whores and not regular ladies.

Now i will repeat this for the last time,no one is really free from stds or HIV because your wife or hubby can still bring it home for you and even condom is not 80% certain to prevent the virus.

What im writing here is about what goes through the mind of a man when he uses a condom on a lady and i believe this is simple enough to understand.

sorry if it came like an insult,i was so pissed at this alpha male idea you ate popping and yes i understand where you are coming from which is totally your view because you must have tested yoursef and have your partner tested and must trust her 100% and she trust you 100% and both of you must have followed the rule strictly just that i don"t know how you prevent unwanted pregnancy tho,maybe you make her go for family panning which is not adviceable for a woman who has never had a child before....


now since we are clear on your case don't you think what applies for you cannot and will not apply for everybody?

what i realy find annoying on this thread is the way you subtle explained your point as if its only girls that harbour STD? so we girls should not protect ourselves? some girls use thw female condom now amd alot of girls ask for the use of condom even if there partner does not want to because in the case of pregnancy we are affected most same with STDs,a woman can contact an STD faster than a man probably because of the way our genitals are shaped

now you said,a girl does not just open her legs to anyman,are you saying it is possible to know a man wirh STD from his forhead or by words of mouth? eg af been single for like a year and am planning on entering the dating game,are you saying i will know an STD free man by his words of actions? or you mean i must take him for a test before we engage in having sex which is a spontaneous unplanned event anyway



bro this post does not really makes sense i swear coz you make it seem like only girla have STDs so guys should beware of them......like seriously?
and the the case of pregnancy i fo ome am not ready or a baby and yet i must satisfy my sexual urge and that does not make me loose or corrupt (preaching abstinainse is totally different) and if i want to engage in any sexual act i will and must request for a condom....

hian

no offeinse abeg,i still see you as an elder and i was brought up to respect elders

misspicy:

what is all this nonsense....are you all sayibg a guy cannot harbour STDs,is STD exclusive to females alone.....

dude like seriously?

so because am proofing mysef trust worthy or whatnot i should not protect mysef from STDs and pregnancy that am not ready for?

are you all mad?
you talk of abstinaince,you hypocrites should swear that you are all virgins or never had more than two partners?


jeez this is hilarious

CALM DOWN, UR BLOOD TOO DEY HOT, this is how u fail exams.

Toks2008:


Na by force to have sex?

Stay away from sex until you are ready to have babies abi which kain wahala be this?

If you like cry an ocean..if a man uses a condom on you then you are as cheap as the LovePeddler in the brothels and you can as well ask him for payment after the act..

now i can see that you are a confused fellow really and i am really suprised at this coming.from you....

this corrolates the adage that humans do not seize to suprise one,


preach abtinense if you want to but saying only girls harbour diseases has shown that i was really wrong about you and yes age does not determine maturity,education is not enough to make a man knowledgeable


gosh this your sense is so achiac







am out jor

bqlekan:


now, lets take decency away from this, assuming I'm in a relationship with a lady, we both agreed to keep it safe.. ( does that mean the lady is a slut? why not call the man a slut?) what if during the relationship, either of us contact HIV virus through other means other than sexual intercourse? then we can gladly transfer it to one another right?
like you said,
"no lady in her right sense indulges in sex with a man she does not love."
now she loves me and we've been having sex, the best I can do is make sure it's protected sex for the sake of our future.

now to the emboldened..

assuming I've got a fiancee in her final year in school, bound to go for housmanship next year,.. I think you are telling me to impregnate her.. probably make her pause her career all because I really want her. Sir, it's not the right thing to do.

you probably should say 'abstain from pre-marital sex' that would have been better..

I think I once told you.. you have a problem with premarital sex..

These are dep facts that may be hard to comprehend.

First you are asking me to leave decency out which is tantamount to saying decency is impossible but just let me flow with that.

Now to the issue of protection..let me be frank with you...except both of you are 100% faithful towards each other,no partner is really safe from stds because as i explained in one of my threads,use of condom does not guaranty protection and i explained in details.

Now even if i preach abstinence does that change the fact that millions will still do it tonight?

Condom use is a deceit from the pits of hell cos it has given the liberty to fornicate easily but im not here to preach but to state the fact that in 99.9% of the cases,when a man makes love to a lady using a condom, he is passing a message to her that his affection for her has a limitation.

If abstinence will solve the problem, fine but as a lady,no man will ever stick that rubber in me neither will i ever use it to make love because when you use a condom,you are only having sex and not making love.

Jolllyjoy:
a thousand likes for yhu.


The way some guys reason eeeh baffle me at times,...

jolllyjoy not all guys think this way but this particular brother is so obssessed with his chauvinistic self which is his business anyway...coz i dont see myself 2fts near his type




imagine saying only female harbour STD so males should use condom for the cheap ones and not use condoms for the trusted ones.....omo am so shocked...amazed,suprised dazed whatever and and am so out of this thread,am controlling my fingers not to cuss him out because i really used to respect him

ssoftappless:
CALM DOWN, UR BLOOD TOO DEY HOT, this is how u fail exams.

abeg go jor...you no even sabi the meaning of the thread you dey here dey support rubbish.....am not suprised though you are only but a troll and never made sense before am just suprised at the OP of this thread,he usually is a reasonable person until this...


gosh am so pained....yes pained



now am out,quote me at ur peril

Toks2008:
This will be a very controversial one but as i always maintain...IT IS MY OPINION.

But before i go on,i would like to ask this simple question..Why do we use a condom?

While the answer to that can be too exhausting i believe that many guys will say they use condoms to prevent stds and pregnancy but after marriage they will not even think about using it on their wives but would prefer the lady to use other birth control methods.

This leaves me with one answer to why a man will use a condom on a lady and that is because he sees you as cheap,untrustworthy and a potential std carrier and of-course has no deep respect and affection for the lady.

Going back history lane,we will find out that condom was created for whores to prevent spreading STIs.So any lady that allows a man to use condom on her is sexually reckless and should be placed side by side with the LovePeddler in the brothels and you can as well ask him for payment after the act.....quote me anywhere...condom is mainly for casual sex with a casual lady a man has no deep respect or affection for.

If i am a lady,i would rather not have sex at all than have a man stick a latex inside me.

My candid opinion.

You don't know we have female condoms too...


you are not informed atal... as you age you'll understand

misspicy:

abeg go jor...you no even sabi the meaning of the thread you dey here dey support rubbish.....am not suprised though you are only but a troll and never made sense before am just suprised at the OP of this thread,he usually is a reasonable person until this...


gosh am so pained....yes pained



now am out,quote me at ur peril

U WAN CHOP CARROT?

misspicy:

now i can see that you are a confused fellow really and i am really suprised at this coming.from you....

this corrolates the adage that humans do not seize to suprise one,


preach abtinense if you want to but saying only girls harbour diseases has shown that i was really wrong about you and yes age does not determine maturity,education is not enough to make a man knowledgeable


gosh this your sense is so achiac







am out jor

It seems this thing guys say about ladies ways of assimilating is totally haphazard..what is that talk about only ladies harboring disease,where did you get that from? And to think she has already started reigning unwarranted insult for what she personally concocted.Cab you please quote your assertion out of my post?

I will stop responding to you if you want to tow the line of mental cacophony

misspicy:

jolllyjoy not all guys think this way but this particular brother is so obssessed with his chauvinistic self which is his business anyway...coz i dont see myself 2fts near his type




imagine saying only female harbour STD so males should use condom for the cheap ones and not use condoms for the trusted ones.....omo am so shocked...amazed,suprised dazed whatever and and am so out of this thread,am controlling my fingers not to cuss him out because i really used to respect him

i cucuma dey sideline dey observe ooo,btw,na he opinion be dat.we all are entitled to our own opinion you know but am kinda surprised tho,all i know is that condom is used for protection.,




no condom,no sex until maybe after marriage and the two parties inovled are tested hiv free even at that one cant really say for sure talkmore of ordinary b.f and g.f.

flokii:



You don't know we have female condoms too...


you are not informed atal... as you age you'll understand

You have no idea how well informed i am.

As regards female condom please forget that..the company sef dey complain of low patronage.

Ok close your eyes and imagine that you want to make love to a lady and she starts inserting the female condom..what comes to your mind?

It wil only take a decent minded lady to catch the drift of this thread and any lady who does not mind sleeping around will see it as trash.

I am not here to preach abstinence as the Bible has done that already and i am not here to argue flimsily..MY POINT is clear.When a man uses a condom on you,he is telling you that he still has some form of reservation towards you and if a man says he does not want to use a condom on you and you spread your legs liek a fool without knowing his health status,OYO lo wa.

Jolllyjoy:
i cucuma dey sideline dey observe ooo,btw,na he opinion be dat.we all are entitled to our own opinion you know but am kinda surprised tho,all i know is that condom is used for protection.,




no condom,no sex until maybe after marriage and the two parties inovled are tested hiv free even at that one cant really say for sure talkmore of ordinary b.f and g.f.

I will send a Christmas gift to you.

Now lets be real for once...if you feel you cant wait til marriage and you must sin as in fornicate at least it will take nothing to know the status of the guy and yours and yes we have other birth control pills or methods that can prevent pregnancy.

But then why the rush?must you make love by fire by force? if you really love each other go get married or stay away from sex.

Condom is a tool between a LovePeddler and her customers and any man who uses a condom on you is indirectly telling you your status.If una like make una abuse me or call me names...Awon omo oni doti

Toks2008:



You have no idea how well informed i am.

As regards female condom please forget that..the company sef dey complain of low patronage.

Ok close your eyes and imagine that you want to make love to a lady and she starts inserting the female condom..what comes to your mind?

It wil only take a decent minded lady to catch the drift of this thread and any lady who does not mind sleeping around will see it as trash.

I am not here to preach abstinence as the Bible has done that already and i am not here to argue flimsily..MY POINT is clear.When a man uses a condom on you,he is telling you that he still has some form of reservation towards you and if a man says he does not want to use a condom on you and you spread your legs liek a fool without knowing his health status,OYO lo wa.

bro... don't you know how conji affects this generation?

even sec. skol children dey fvck demselves for skol... what do they know?

it is very necessary in my own opinion... at least to avoid population explosion...
even if you'd leave STDs out of it

ssoftappless:
yeah we are all saying d same thing, a condom is used by people who thinks the lady they are going down with might have some kind of disease or something, taking a look at d history of condoms, it was originally produce 4 prostitutes, now countdown to this day, the men are using what was meant for cheap sluts on their girlfriends. "so its better to use pills or injection than to use condom bcaus by using a condom then ure terming ur girlfriend as a slut. "i am not saying i dont fornicate, infact i fornicated today but i have never used condoms in my life.

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You talking about pills and injection give a clear image of how much u luv d lady... You dating human being?

flokii:



bro... don't you know how conji affects this generation?

even sec. skol children dey fvck demselves for skol... what do they know?

it is very necessary in my own opinion... at least to avoid population explosion...
even if you'd leave STDs out of it

You all are taking my thread out of context.

I am not debunking the importance or asking anyone not to use a condom. My point is what goes through a guy's heart when he uses a condom on a lady..that is my point.

Toks2008:


These are dep facts that may be hard to comprehend.

First you are asking me to leave decency out which is tantamount to saying decency is impossible but just let me flow with that.

Now to the issue of protection..let me be frank with you...except both of you are 100% faithful towards each other,no partner is really safe from stds because as i explained in one of my threads,use of condom does not guaranty protection and i explained in details.

Now even if i preach abstinence does that change the fact that millions will still do it tonight?

Condom use is a deceit from the pits of hell cos it has given the liberty to fornicate easily but im not here to preach but to state the fact that in 99.9% of the cases, [\b]when a man makes love to a lady using a condom, he is passing a message to her that his affection for her has a limitation.[b]

If abstinence will solve the problem, fine but as a lady,no man will ever stick that rubber in me neither will i ever use it to make love because when you use a condom,you are only having sex and not making love.

you are not addressing the circumstances I gave.. but let me leave that to your conscience.

if you go through your posts, you've contradicted yourself

* you want us to abstain and still have unprotected sex even outside marriage..

@emboldened, I disagree with that totally

if I use latex for a lady I love, the message m passing is [\b]' I want you protected just like I want to. we both are not ready to raise kids, so this act between us is just a way of consuming our love for each other. I care for a perfect future for the both of us, a future with no STDS.'[b]

Abstinence>prevention>cure

as we can't abstain, we gotta prevent

misspicy:

i created a thread on this when a male friend told me something relating to this..

https://www.nairaland.com/2527948/why-he-wunt-use-cds.

i related this to another guy,he said that my friend is likely to be a carrier already as that is the lie this carriers tell just to spread their disease and na mumu girls fall for it....so i am tempted to ask you are you a carrier,if you say no show us a proof of your HIV,Hepatis,overall sexually transmitted diseases test




please sir forgive my outburst but i have to be frank with my post on this tonight...


of all threads you af been creating forming alpha male,chauvinistic male,i swear this is the most illiterate and unreasonable one and I begin to wonder if your association with nairaland boys has corrupted your sense of reasoning....seriously i used to see you as matured adult


i would want you to answer the following questions,i need to test your knowledge of the use of condoms and STDs

Now what is condom? what is it used for
what is an STD,who are the carriers,is it only females that harbour STDs?

who are those that should protect themselves from STDs and unwanted pregnancies?



















Now the worst you can do is to insult my moniker and call your children to defend you but am ready for you all,btw am sorry i don't mince words when i talk


btw no offeinse meant but i can't allow you preach what will affect the coming generation

gangan! koda ki chen-fu ma binu...

thanks for this little piece ma'am.. I hope he listens..

Toks2008:


You all are taking my thread out of context.

I am not debunking the importance or asking anyone not to use a condom. My point is what goes through a guy's heart when he uses a condom on a lady..that is my point.

hmmm!

I understand you perfectly well.

either
1) they are not married and doesn't want to bear d consequences
2) he is sleeping with a prostitute or a runs girl
3)he's married and about to cheat
4)he sees free kitten on social media eg. Nairaland he wants to sharpaly smash

etc. etc.
C'mon married people don't need condom... either d husband or wife could get sterilized and datz all...
they can fvck all they want till end time who carez