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My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by fullofregrets: 5:46pm On Sep 26, 2016
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by bloomstar: 5:50pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do

You should first go to hospital and get checked up if your womb and other gynaecological process in your body is working. So you will be certain if it is the cause.
Then you should keep praying to God.
If he is yours... He will come back for you.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by sexymoma(f): 5:50pm On Sep 26, 2016
My sister move on
E don hapin, E don hapin
you can't change the fact that it has happened


We Open Up....Gbege
We Nor Open Up.... Gbege
My sister u don do your own restitution be dat ooo

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Cutehector(m): 5:51pm On Sep 26, 2016
Well, cry to God and beg for forgiveness. Acknoledged u have sinned and be sorry for it. Fast and pray. He will forgive you.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Cutehector(m): 5:52pm On Sep 26, 2016
sexymoma:
My sister move on
E don hapin, E don hapin
you can't change the fact that it has happened

We Open Up....Gbege
We Nor Open Up.... Gbege
whch one is gbege? U want d innocent man to not have kids? Pls abeg. She understands that it's all her fault so she shouldn't act all surprised he left.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by sexymoma(f): 5:53pm On Sep 26, 2016
Cutehector:
Well, cry to God and beg for forgiveness. Acknoledged u have sinned and be sorry for it. Fast and pray. He will forgive you.



If na another person type wetin u type so.. u go cut im balls angry

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by dollyjoy(f): 5:53pm On Sep 26, 2016
It's good you opened up to him, a broken relationship is better than a broken or loveless marriage.

Btw what is the doctor report? Is your womb damaged?

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by sexymoma(f): 5:55pm On Sep 26, 2016
Cutehector:
whch one is gbege? U want d innocent man to not have kids? Pls abeg. She understands that it's all her fault so she shouldn't act all surprised he left.
U sabi how many woman do abortion for the guy wey he nor even sabi...

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Cutehector(m): 5:56pm On Sep 26, 2016
sexymoma:
If na another person type wetin u type so.. u go cut im balls angry
mchew.... always looking for fault. Can't ur small brain comprehend it may be as a result of typing too fast?

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by bloomstar: 5:56pm On Sep 26, 2016
sexymoma:
My sister move on
E don hapin, E don hapin
you can't change the fact that it has happened


We Open Up....Gbege
We Nor Open Up.... Gbege
My sister u don do your own restitution be dat ooo


Move on till when? Do you know what it means to be barren? She should mellow down... Pray to God. Get medications. If she confirms medical that she can conceive.
Then she can move on happily hoping that another man will come

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 5:56pm On Sep 26, 2016
Now you've learnt your lesson, next time you would keep your mouth shut undecided....just move on abeg, you spoilt what you had by yourself tongue

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by dollyjoy(f): 5:57pm On Sep 26, 2016
Cutehector:
whch one is gbege? U want d innocent man to not have kids? Pls abeg. She understands that it's all her fault so she shouldn't act all surprised he left.
What makes you think he is innocent?


Do you know what a lady,somewhere is going through right now because of that same man? Pluseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesadsad

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by jamalnation(m): 5:57pm On Sep 26, 2016
Law of karma

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Cutehector(m): 5:57pm On Sep 26, 2016
sexymoma:
U sabi how many woman do abortion for the guy wey he nor even sabi...
lmao... I don't think he'd have left if he asked another woman in his past to commit abortion...

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by dollyjoy(f): 5:58pm On Sep 26, 2016
Cutehector:
Well, cry to God and beg for forgiveness. Acknoledged u have sinned and be sorry for it. Fast and pray. He will forgive you.



Acknowledge.

Never mind!
You are welcomesmiley

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by sexymoma(f): 5:59pm On Sep 26, 2016
dollyjoy:
What makes you think he is innocent?


Do you know what a lady,somewhere is going through right now because of that same man? Pluseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesadsad
U dey mind dem... angry dem sitdon dia dey type yeye

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by sexymoma(f): 6:00pm On Sep 26, 2016
Cutehector:
lmao... I don't think he'd have left if he asked another woman in his past to commit abortion...
nooo why didn't the man she commited abortion for marry her...

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by fullofregrets: 6:02pm On Sep 26, 2016
well I have done everything necessary , my
womb is okay and intact

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 6:08pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
well I have done everything necessary , my
womb is okay and intact

Then why did You tell him bout Your abortion? To make him love You more or what biko?

Some things are better left unsaid.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 6:12pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
well I have done everything necessary , my
womb is okay and intact
you are something else you know that undecided

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by steppin: 6:13pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do
The guy is not for you. He's the pretentious type and will never see you the same way again, even if he accepts you.
Move on.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by fullofregrets: 6:14pm On Sep 26, 2016
I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Cutehector(m): 6:15pm On Sep 26, 2016
sexymoma:
nooo why didn't the man she commited abortion for marry her...
see me see question.. na me tell go answer am abi? As na me chook preek insyd

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Cutehector(m): 6:17pm On Sep 26, 2016
dollyjoy:
Acknowledge.

Never mind!
You are welcomesmiley
u girls just want to step on my nerves this evening...

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Cutehector(m): 6:20pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed

Pls shut up and ask God for forgiveness! Are you d only one dat has committed abortion? David killed Uriah and had sex with his wife and he prayed for forgiveness and d lord forgave him..



So may people in d past have in one way or the order committed crimes against humanity and God forgave them. Pls ignore such suicidal thoughts and seek the face of God

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 6:23pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed

suicidal thoughts because of a man? sad ....you are a disgrace to womanhood undecided

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by fullofregrets: 6:27pm On Sep 26, 2016
I asked God for forgiveness

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by divinehand2003(m): 6:38pm On Sep 26, 2016
Just don't worry yourself about it. Move on because there's more to live for

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by MrPresident1: 6:44pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed


Hey, everyone makes mistakes. Your fiancee is only being childish, he will come back when his thoughts clear up and he realises that no one is a saint. If he doesn't come back, he is not the one for you. Your own will come and stay with you.

No need to commit suicide over triviality, or you think your life is cheap?

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by iPrevail(m): 6:46pm On Sep 26, 2016
fullofregrets:
I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed


Guys, meet the worst human on earth. Her sins are so great and unforgivable. I think we are finally going to be free from evil now that she wants to kill herself undecided

Woman, get your head out of your ass! Shiits happen.. Move the fvck on! sad

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by rebella(f): 6:52pm On Sep 26, 2016
@fullofregrets , you had an abortion the deed has been done. Personally I think instead of crying, you should thank God for making you avoid a fair weather husband, that is someone that will only be good to you when the going is good. That man didn't love you. When a man starts saying you should get pregnant first before the marriage can hold, that's a warning sign.

I know you probably miss him a lot, but remember a broken relationship is better than a broken home.

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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by fullofregrets: 7:21pm On Sep 26, 2016
rebella:
@fullofregrets , you had an abortion the deed has been done. Personally I think instead of crying, you should thank God for making you avoid a fair weather husband, that is someone that will only be good to you when the going is good. That man didn't love you. When a man starts saying you should get pregnant first before the marriage can hold, that's a warning sign.

I know you probably miss him a lot, but remember a broken relationship is better than a broken home.




my dear , you are right ,
we learn everyday ,
sometimes in just a hard way ,
I just wish he can give me chance to make things right again , but he refused to hear my pleas, he said he's fed up , and ready to find another girl , and impregnate her , well I can only wish him luck , am not bad either , God will surely send my own husband and children my way , I moved on already ,

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