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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by mekonglobal(m): 7:38am On Dec 06, 2016
Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!
Seun i kn u are involve in dis, with d way u always cajole the things of God, i surely believe ur Bot is involve in most of the likes dis comment got.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Adedaniel211(m): 7:38am On Dec 06, 2016
Geraldyne:

Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my boyfriend..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.

He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.

I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.

Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks
One man meat is another man poison....
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by cbrass(m): 7:47am On Dec 06, 2016
sinaj:
no angry
Why sad
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by MrOlai: 7:49am On Dec 06, 2016
Geraldyne:

Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my boyfriend..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.

He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.

I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.

Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks

What a shameless human being you are!

You're committing fornication and instead of seeking repentance from God and try to turn a new leaf, you're here asking foolish questions!

As a spinster, you went to a man's house, slept over and had series of sex romps with him, somebody you're not married to!

All that God has blessed you with sexually which are meant exclusively for your husband when you eventually marry, you keep dashing them out!

Some of the problems happening in matrimonial homes are caused by this your shameful act! And some of the shameless culprits would be attributing the problems to enemies or their In-laws!

It's quite unfortunate that sometimes, innocent men later become the victim husbands by getting married to sluts like you!

The earlier you repent to God, the better for you!

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by zaralady: 7:58am On Dec 06, 2016
SmellingAnus:
oh... Just that both of you quoted me almost the same time....


Dat should make it impossible for us to be the same person, because one person cant operate two account @ the same time
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by iykekelvins(m): 7:59am On Dec 06, 2016
Luckymay:

5 rounds is not too much but disturbing her again in the morning, that's some serious thing.

Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Viking007(m): 7:59am On Dec 06, 2016
Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!
Comment of the year. cheesy

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by favexx(f): 8:00am On Dec 06, 2016
Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!
u hit it right der!

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by iykekelvins(m): 8:01am On Dec 06, 2016
AuroraB:
The part of '5 rounds' got me wondering oooooo shocked. Does this guy have a job @Op
Na sex worker grin
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by UmecheMoses(m): 8:04am On Dec 06, 2016
[quote author=Geraldyne post=50644186]
Geraldyn, already the foundation on which the relationship is built is faulty. I often tell ladies never allow premarital sex, if he can't wait he'll be a cheat in marriage.
I'll only tell you two things....
1. Call the sham off..
2. Get back to God and work on your dreams, self aspirations and life goals...

As you do this keep healthy friendships with people and when the time is right marry for purpose and love...

That guy has stolen so much from you and like it or not sex is a covenant. Hit me on whatsapp for counselling +2348067895454
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by basadenet: 8:04am On Dec 06, 2016
It could be as a result of youthful exorbitant, however i will not advise to quit because I don't have another person to give you. And if you quit now, what makes you think that the next person would
be better, and you might even be unlucky to meet the worst. So chill and if it persist, tell him to see a counsellor.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by AuroraB(f): 8:04am On Dec 06, 2016
iykekelvins:
Na sex worker grin
Kai menene grin lipsrsealed
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by baracutie(f): 8:05am On Dec 06, 2016
My advice for you is to tell him you're pregnant. .and see his reaction to it. undecided
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by sinaj(f): 8:06am On Dec 06, 2016
comradespade:


baby sinaj shey na u be d only girl for nairaland
m not o! embarassed
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by UmecheMoses(m): 8:08am On Dec 06, 2016
MrOlai:


What a shameless human being you are!

You're committing fornication and instead of seeking repentance from God and try to turn a new leaf, you're here asking foolish questions!

As a spinster, you went to a man's house, slept over and had series of sex romps with him, somebody you're not married to!

All that God has blessed you with sexually which are meant exclusively for your husband when you eventually marry, you keep dashing them out!

Some of the problems happening in matrimonial homes are caused by this your shameful act! And some of the shameless culprits would be attributing the problems to enemies or their In-laws!

It's quite unfortunate that sometimes, innocent men later become the victim husbands by getting married to sluts like you!

The earlier you repent to God, the better for you!

ARE YOU SURE WE SERVE THE SAME GOD?
The bible says if anyman thinks he is religious but doesn't bridle his tongue, this ones religion is useless.....
Some one went dark, and instead of turning on the lights you cast her into utter darkness, may heaven forgive u
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by jahsharon: 8:10am On Dec 06, 2016
Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!

Even armed robbers and hard drug traffickers do pray before and after operation.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Nobody: 8:11am On Dec 06, 2016
am wondering the amount of mentions u do get in a day
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Jihadijohn: 8:12am On Dec 06, 2016
hhhhhh grin
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by mapet: 8:13am On Dec 06, 2016
Lexusgs430:


The variables you need to consider are - :
1 - All he wants and needs from you is sex
2 - He has a very high sex drive
3 - Your sex drive is not equitable to his drive
4 - If you stop offering, he is bound to look elsewhere
5 - After all the juices are dry, and you don't satisfy his desire anymore (in juice and contours). He would be seeking another supplier
6 - Let's assume he proposes to you(which is unlikely), his sex drive not matching yours, would eventually lead to marital sexual conflicts
7 - He is simply using RPM of your engine (hopefully the engine would not knock)


Take to your heels, heal and find someone else to cherish you......

On the surface of things, I support your points

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Jadapinket: 8:15am On Dec 06, 2016
jmoore:
Prayer after fornication. Chai!!! Aru!!! undecided

You need serious deliverance.
thou shall not judge.....at least she got conscience....I guess u ve not committed fornication mr saint obi
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by hylyne(m): 8:17am On Dec 06, 2016
jmoore:
Prayer after fornication. Chai!!! Aru!!! undecided

You need serious deliverance.


Perhaps, she was asking for forgiveness via prayer.

Stop judging
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by habsydiamond(m): 8:17am On Dec 06, 2016
Sis, shey u won ear true talk. If u keep saying u will stay with him becos of his better side that means u are ready to become intimacy gadget for the rest of ur life. U can't change his sexual attitudes. If u can't cope with him its better u run for ur dear life b4 it would be too late.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by ElSherriff: 8:18am On Dec 06, 2016
I hope this is seen cos I replied late. Before I decided to settle down, I was caught in exactly your boyfriend's web. Yes, I admit it and I have since made good by the person involved because it was wrong. However, in my case, I ended the relationship because I evaluated that I did not contribute enough to the welfare of the girl and because we almost always had sex when she visited me, it definitely meant I was only 'using' her. I did not love her enough to get committed and it was not entirely due to my being insensitive, we just did not bond on that level.
My point is this, you should leave the young man, as I have realized after leaving the girl, I did not feel the urge for sex with the girl I eventually settled with all the time. In short, I have not even had sex with her! there are days she visits and all we do is run around the house and play. This is because I love her beyond her body. It is never right to spend the night over at a man's house without enough commitment from him, even in my case, I forbade the girl from ever sleeping over. You obviously love him, but he loves your body. He will definitely come begging but, I am a guy and I can tell you categorically, you are exactly at par with the soap he self-services with, when it finishes, he buys a new soap. Flee while you can. Finally, as a catholic, we take confessions and remorse seriously, you have displayed an air of defiance about prayers after sin...it is commendable that you believe in God but it is totally wrong to think, just praying after sin is enough to be a christian...I do not blab when I say the first step to making peace with God is accepting that you have sinned, avoiding it with all your might and only begging God when you have made a mistake by falling into sin; not deliberately sinning and 'praying'-God may not even answer such.
Leave him, love God and your Love will find you.

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by jmoore(m): 8:19am On Dec 06, 2016
Jadapinket:
thou shall not judge.....at least she got conscience....I guess u ve not committed fornication mr saint obi
Only if you had eyes, my signature should have given you a clue. undecided


When a thief steals from you, just accept it and say "thou shall not judge".
All these kleg pastors sef. undecided

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by citadels(f): 8:20am On Dec 06, 2016
sis pls quit d relationship. there is no love there. he jst after ur pussy. and when he might have slack it he will dump u. he wants to kill ur libido for life. rember cervical cancer too. cuz excess of sex is d number one cause of cervical cancer. thanks
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by jmoore(m): 8:21am On Dec 06, 2016
hylyne:



Perhaps, she was asking for forgiveness via prayer.

Stop judging
Shatap there. After prayer, she will go for another around of fu**.

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by ElsonMorali: 8:21am On Dec 06, 2016
niyi123:


Because of all these kind of mumu girls, I can't marry non Virgin, most of them are just nothing but a thoroughly used and dumped. I am very sure she is just being used as a sex slave.

Lol. She's dashed all her essence as a woman to boyfriend already, name shaft go remain for husband to chew.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by ElsonMorali: 8:22am On Dec 06, 2016
CorGier:


Abeg ee find place siddon.
Wush mumu husband.

I pity your daughter.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Greataausim(m): 8:22am On Dec 06, 2016
Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!

Mehn.... Our ladies get strong heart dis days, then no dey fear God again
May God forgive us our sins

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Dayhorla: 8:23am On Dec 06, 2016
MrOlai:


What a shameless human being you are!

You're committing fornication and instead of seeking repentance from God and try to turn a new leaf, you're here asking foolish questions!

As a spinster, you went to a man's house, slept over and had series of sex romps with him, somebody you're not married to!

All that God has blessed you with sexually which are meant exclusively for your husband when you eventually marry, you keep dashing them out!

Some of the problems happening in matrimonial homes are caused by this your shameful act! And some of the shameless culprits would be attributing the problems to enemies or their In-laws!

It's quite unfortunate that sometimes, innocent men later become the victim husbands by getting married to sluts like you!

The earlier you repent to God, the better for you!
so u think by insulting her u can actually get her to repent abi? is that how to preach the gospel?
I'm not saying what she did is right but insulting her then telling her to repent is just not the way to do it
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Boyooosa(m): 8:25am On Dec 06, 2016
Geraldyne:


so cos I bleeped...I shudnt pray??...u gonna tell me dah u dnt pray evn wen u a sinner...I want advice nt judgement
Are you married? What does your bible or Quran tell you about #SexB4Marriage?
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by sleekyonyx(f): 8:27am On Dec 06, 2016
jmoore:


One of the dumb folks!!! Have I scammed you? undecided



See how she was insulting a mother of someone, and she is here screaming "let him without sin cast the first stone.".

Before you quote me, try and acquire some common sense.
hey don't quote me again...didn't u see the way the guy insulted my mother too...go back and check the thread I'm not acting like a saint, but u are..

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