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| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by HENRY940: 7:12pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Get a guy that is good with women, (a.k.a flirt or playboy) He will give you enough space, ...while looking for the extra fun outside 1 Like |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Missmossy(f): 7:14pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Most guys abroad act that way, its a big issue though  |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by introvertme: 7:14pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
mizeminent: What's stopping you from moving on |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by fuckyoumhen: 7:15pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Omohjick:waiting for PART 2 of this story |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Toks2008(m): 7:15pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Omohjick: What happened to the other guy that was nice to you but not asking you out? |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by dacovajnr: 7:15pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Does He know that you're River Goddess' Daughter?  1 Like |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by evidon1(m): 7:15pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
[This is the issue we have. One lady says he is over caring, another will say i need such a man. Ladies sha. quote author=QueenSuccubus post=55169420] Where can I find that kind of guy that call me constantly? Most men nowadays, will juz call or text once in a blue moon with a NONSENSE emoji  [/quote] |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Nobody: 7:16pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Billyonaire:this cracked me up,exactly my point, you prayed for something God answered you and you start complaining again wetin some ladies want no dey this world |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Trybes(m): 7:17pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
You the girl you haven't shown him tangible reasons to trust you. His instincts maybe right sometimes 2 Likes |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Onyeoguego: 7:17pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Omohjick:this is not love BT obsession, pray very well b4 u say yes. because u maybe on ur way to prison. |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by fuckyoumhen: 7:17pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
juman:ol'ooya 'yun, yeye mi afi'deremo |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by luckarub(m): 7:18pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Omohjick: If you ask for my candid opinion, I would have suggested you stop it now while it is still morning, because don't be fooled, this is him and I am sure you know what is paranoia, even if he is in Lagos, just be sure you can move an inch without him around you, before you know it suspicion will creep in, then jealousy. You life is ruin...This is just my opinion. I am a married man, it almost ruin my home, until my wife told me that he would leave me...now I am begging her to stay that I would stop and change for the better. I am saying this from experience. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by pizzylee(m): 7:19pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
he cud just b over protective n jealous or smone has hurt him lyk DT b4 n he cud b cheating n thinks u wud b doing d same.one man's food z relli another's poison.....advice- follow ur heart n u shld call him to TALK abt it...talking z d life of any relationship,never forget dt 1 Like |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Joyvillez: 7:20pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
This lady is not lying. I have met such a guy. My dear, I was chocking too. He was in Lagos and I was in Enugu by then. I won't achieve anything at home cos of his calls. The bad part is that MTN was doing free calls to one special number and he quickly registered me. I answered no other call. I totally lost my peace. Anytime I got tired I switched off my phone and then my peace would return. I can be spontaneous at times and one day I got fed up and told him to stop calling me that it was over. It seemed like play to him but I meant it, I cancelled the free call acceptance and barred his numbers. When he called with strange numbers, I dropped the call immediately I noticed he was the one. That was how I got my peace and freedom back 2 Likes |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by donmalcolm21(m): 7:20pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Leave him and face obodo naija guys 1 Like |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by ngmgeek(m): 7:21pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
You are basically telling us that both of you are not compatible. You like your space but he can't give you that opportunity. There are women who love men like that. If you are not that type of woman, then let him know immediately so both of you will pack it up. The moment you stated that he is caring, I sense that you enjoy the money he is wiring to you and all the gifts. That's why it's hard for you to tell him that he needs to stop the things he is doing that you don't like. Anyways, the choice is yours. You will live with him, not us  |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by hardbody: 7:22pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Bumbae1: Lol, never seen you this paranoid. Take it easy. |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by donmalcolm21(m): 7:23pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Joyvillez:what causes it is insecurity. I do call often in early days of relationship but when we become more grounded then i reduce the call because i know we are one heart so why should i bother her always but i ll mke sure i call her at least twice in a day |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by alobright17(m): 7:23pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
the guy have trust issues,better watch it now before it's too late. which kind every minute call be this?nne u are in hot soup walahi. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by smartn09(m): 7:25pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Your beloved old man is mentally disturbed (emotional disruption) which comes as a result of imballances in one's life .perhaps you should look out for parapsychologist for in-depth analysis. |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by 1miccza: 7:25pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
@OP these comments are what you get when you seek solutions from the public simply follow your heart. |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by spytime(m): 7:26pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Ladies my own advice is that run from an over jealous guy they are the one like that airforce guy that shot his girlfriend over nothing.......... Calling ur girl more than necessary is bad 2 or 3 meaningful times a day is very okay..... Sweetheart leave him and keep praying he's not ur guy don't let ur parents force u into something u never prepared for...... Anyway join Daniel akpata on rc102.3 from Monday 12:30am and learn more about relationship. Am sure u don't know jerk about marriage. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by donmalcolm21(m): 7:26pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Omohjick:Continue dating your ancestors. Don't ypu know that all these ancestors love disturbing us. |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by scachy(m): 7:27pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
If u truly love him n u v nothing u r trying to hide, u won't complain about this. The dude's not in Nigeria n he obviously knew what most gals of this generation is capable of. So he's trying to watch his back n also want to ensure that u r worth it n can be trusted too. # My opinion though. 1 Like |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Jesuschild: 7:28pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
I'll advice u let ur present & future apinex b paramount in ur 2dày decision. Believe it or nt he has a mental condition & he wouldn't change bt get worse over tym. He needs a psychologist 4 help. Don't confuse his obsession 4 Luv. It is a thin line btw wat he has 4 u & anger/hate, should he snap it can get ugly (which he would) Decide nau 4 ur 2day & 2moro. Ur friends ur married 2 their husbands nt urs. Some mistakes r 2 costly. Take care nau. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Jesuschild: 7:29pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
I'll advice u let ur present & future apinex b paramount in ur 2dày decision. Believe it or nt he has a mental condition & he wouldn't change bt get worse over tym. He needs a psychologist 4 help. Don't confuse his obsession 4 Luv. It is a thin line btw wat he has 4 u & anger/hate, should he snap it can get ugly (which he would) Decide nau 4 ur 2day & 2moro. Ur friends ur married 2 their husbands nt urs. Some mistakes r 2 costly. Gud luck. |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by AyamBlaze: 7:29pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Another yabaleft escapee roaming the streets of Nairaland |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by sugarbeesmith(m): 7:30pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Bumbae1:you made a typo error again.but don't mind that guy lol |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by Mospring(m): 7:31pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
iamadonis2:people |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by kabhohd(m): 7:33pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
How were u able to type this epistle completely without his calls interruptions. Or did you do a video chat while typing...lol |
| Re: I Said I Needed A Serious Relationship With A Man, See What I Found! by nickxtra(m): 7:34pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
[quote author=Omohjick post=55168958]My fellow nairalanders, I think I'm in a deep mess. Truly I'm old enough to settle down and my parents won't let me rest. They asked me to stop chasing after money but settle down and we all know men of these days, they like already made just as the way they complain about the ladies...now I met a guy who is ready to settle down and very responsible. He doesn't stay in Nigeria... He is such a caring man and ha never married. He was born and brought up in England but he's from Lagos. Hmmm...the worse part of him is that he's too jealous and calls me like 100times in a day. I'm not exaggerating plz. I'm here in Lagos but he never allows me to rest at all. If he calls me twice and I'm not picking its gonna be problem. He keeps asking are you with someone there? Why are you not replying my chat so fast? Why did you put off your data please I hate it What are you doing right now? Why are you not speaking aloud? Lots of questions and I can't begin to imagine right now. I don't know what to do please help me. He's choking me and just too jealous which is why he's still single according to him, no wife no kids. If possible he can ask me to do video chat with him while crossing the express road. Chai! I don hia am [/quote ] As an 'olokun' or 'ogun' initiated girl, tell us what you used in "hooking" him. Pls check your profile picture. |
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