Michellla:
He won’t leave his wife for you no matter how many promises he made to you, he wont leave her and come marry you. So you can start preparing yourself in ernest for a heartbreak when he moves on to someone else who is just as naive as you are.

And yes he’ll find someone sweeter,more shapelier and better than you ever are.

pity you, he goes home to his wife, and you would go home wishing it had lasted forever

porchbaby:
My sis my own case is critical oh, every man DAT comes my way re married men, some even promise to marry me and send me abroad to live and their wives wuld not know, if a man if God who I always respect,dis man can see vision for Africa he's been disturbing, I know his wife,becos of this I do avoid church, he even ask me to get pregnant for him, and said he wuld send me abroad, since then I fear married men

kaziblake:
And married women keep blaming young girls instead of cautioning their wayward husband with wandering dick..
I have severally told one off like that but he keeps coming back professing stupid and senseless love.

sharon37o8:
[lquote author=Tbillz post=55619768]The Moment you accept Men are polygamous by nature, U have no choice than to move on and accept nature.what's your point exactly?

AntiWailer:
Hmmm.

I understand your position but always remember Karma.

Most of these married men have their A game very tight. They can work on ur psychology and emotion that no matter how wicked you want to be to them, you might end up falling in love.


But like I said. When you remember Karma at all times it might help you to help him to help yourself.

Antichristus:


Already sleeping with him...considering he was already talking about getting pregnant for him?

Safiaa:
I've seen it, and i don't agree. What is now your issue?

Tiny23:




liar liar,pants on fire....how are you today tho?

NnamdiN:
they even go beyond that...one I asked about her hubby finding out, she told me she could handle him, I weak.

Originalsly:
Men are men ... married or not married. Unmarried... we will chase after women openly. Married... we become selective and discreet...having to keep everything on the down low.... gossipers everywhere... the wife nor family members must never suspect much less have trace evidence. Bottom line... the wife must believe in all her heart that the husband is loyal.
Women...females..... a man ..married or unmarried. .. can go only as far as you let him. If he is hanging on your neck...it's because you let him. If your lazy neighbour who dropped out of primary school was after you.... would he be on your neck?...or kicked to the curb?

obstead200:
in fact, I will buy u sharwama.
U are soooo on point. Any girl that wishes to date married men shud just have it in her mind that the only thing she stands to gain is money. She won't take over the man, except she uses jazz

exactlyy

Swints:
What if the girl doesn't want him to leave his wife and she's just enjoying the financial benefits and what if the man wants to take the girl as his second wife? This days many men are taking second and even third wives

ethereal:
This has got to be the most realistic post on this thread.the fact that a "married man" makes a pass at u doesn't make him less of a person. Many families today live on the largesse and benevolence of these "monsters" called "married men".Its a survival option for many ladies and many date 'em but with wisdom, many have found joy and respite frm such relationships. Marrying a single man isnt a lifetime guarantee for marital bliss.Be with whoever chimes ur bells right and not out of propriety.

Nellychinma20:
that will destroy the marriage

Bumbae1:

[s]That is soooooo irrelevant

The first step is the married man ( the one who stood before God and man and took oath and vows to be FAITHFUL!!

Yes the ones dating married men its just karma coming their way but it is the MEN ! The one who is married that is to be blamed
Afterall did jesus chop bread just because he was hungry
But small breast n yansh and thats it . Abeg look mirror joor ..
first to blame is the MAN NEXT IS THE WIFE LAST LAST IS THE SIDE CHIC SHE JUST BEING A HOE WE ALREADY KNOW WHAT HOES DO SO NOTHING NEW .
[/s]

Safiaa:
1. [s]Why are you flashing money to any women besides your wife? Please answer that first

2. When you walk around nigeria, they're women seductively dressed everywhere. Are you going to tell these women to cover up, so married men won't look their way. You're not to dictate how women dress.

3. Is she staying alone by herself. As a married man,
Cant you get up and meet your wife? What are you doing alone with a single woman. She doesnt have any responsibilities. You are responsible for the faithfulness towards your wife.

You men need to accept the truth and take responsibility. Stop looking for excuses in every aspect of your life. Financially, excuses. To be faithful, excuses. Chai...God help our men.[/s]

Nellychinma20:
Thanks for the comments
as usual the society blames us
as usual we are expected to be chaste
as usual we are the guilty one and the man a saint
but let me put it to u all
99%of men cheat in marriage
90% of women will never discover
married men on nairaland still run after girls on this forum(i dare some of u to talk trash and I will disgrace u with proof)
Take it or Leave it we still try our best to keep them off
of.
And to all the accusers, am still a virgin and I don't collect their gifts cos my parents can afford those too.

Alondrah:
I hope sharing your man with another lady will " Chime your bells right" when karma comes knocking. Whatever happens to working (the right way) to survive financial issues? Do we have to be irrational because we are in difficult situations?

Bumbae1:

I can employ 10 of u no try am
Lol jen abeg leave me jare no ki my vibe today
P.s getting husband no be accomplishment please don't teach your daughters such.

Deseo:
A married man disturbed my life then in 100level. Aft months of refusal, I went to his office and told him to kick everyone out which he did.
Then I asked him for 750,000 naira in my account before 4pm that day.
That was the last I heard from him, he'd see me and pretend he never met me.

Nellychinma20:
The funny thing about life is most women don't know their hubby cheats.
Some will go to any length to vouch for their husbands and how faithful he is , funny to me cos i know the bitch he's fucking next door.
But I let them live in their fantasy world
poor them, trusting with such degree

Modragon:
The married man will get to any length to get you because you let him.....more often young gurls dating married men is okay, cus younger gurls wud bleep ur hubby too, wat goes around comes around

Alesandese:
Stubborn or not, once you make up your mind never to do it, then you will not date them. Guys with girlfriends professing love to me irks me let alone married ones. I can't even share self

Nellychinma20:
The funny thing about life is most women don't know their hubby cheats.
Some will go to any length to vouch for their husbands and how faithful he is , funny to me cos i know the bitch he's fucking next door.
But I let them live in their fantasy world
poor them, trusting with such degree

Nellychinma20:
years back I would be the first to comment this but with experience I know better.
pray u don't encounter one cos i have one chasing me for 2yrs+ now and I don't think he's giving up in the nearest future

favexx:
Married men come for me. I eat the little I can(that moment he wants to impress you) when it has entered please be my girlfriend and lets b together, that moment my fone no longer has an owner cos u will call and call and no reply....if its karma....let it pay me the. same way I treat the men

kelvinrhs:

We have that in common

ethereal:
..."irrational"is relative.Being paranoid about "sharing" a partner never did anyone any good,and yes , women have learned to "work"the "right way"....in varied positions too!..quit the moral trap, and get with the program.to each , her own.

obstead200:

@ the bolded: u see, that is where u are wrong. 95% of married men who sleep around will NEVER leave their wife to marry that side chick. To them, that side chick is just a plaything that made herself available to be used to ease tension and make him feel good as a man. U know.......massage his ego because of his ability to conquer any woman of his choice, That is all. They still love their wife or at least respect their marriage. So if that is ur fear, forget it. 95% of the time, u are not taking anyone's husband, the men are simply catching fun, u are free to catch urs too if u are so inclined, or at least make them pay for catching fun with u.