He was my first boyfriend dated him for eight years, dude called one day to say he wasn't interested anymore that he needs to focus on his life that I should do the same. Well to cut long story short I got married six month later to a wonderful guy who I'm ready to stand by through thick and thin.


Dude called up one day and was like "he thought I was going to wait for him to finish focusing on his life"

Guy!! me no get chance for oshi

Alhkerimu:
My own be like a movie up till this moment....
Me and my girlfriend we both live in peace, our love is mutual i love her and she love me back. I care for her and she also care for me we are all living fine...
We hav never one day quarel nor fight throughout in our relationship......But suddenly she develop an unpredicted character towards me.
She came to my house one sunday morning and said she want to tell me something an i said what is that "honey "
I quote her saying,

" The reason why i'm here this morning is to let you know that i'm no more interested in this relationship. "
And ask her why but she only gave me a comic reason why she want to quit.
(1) She want to be alone
(2)She want to be closer to God.
And i said is that all she said yess and i respect her opinion an gave gap immediately because to love someone is not by force....

To my greatest surprise, a week latter she came i offer her chair to seat but she decline.
She started a conversation with me by saying,
I only tested you to know if you truely love me but you had fail my test already and this shows me that you did not love me rather you are pretending to love me, because how wish i love her i would have beg her not to quit the relationship, but since i did not beg her to come back show i did not love her.
This is how we take break up..
Happy sunday to all my wonderful people in nairaland

You sef. Why didn't you ask for past questions

teresafaith:
He was my first boyfriend dated him for eight years, dude called one day to say he wasn't interested anymore that he needs to focus on his life that I should do the same. Well to cut long story short I got married six month later to a wonderful guy who I'm ready to stand by through thick and thin.


Dude called up one day and was like "he thought I was going to wait for him to finish focusing on his life"

Guy!! me no get chance for oshi

meeeehnnn, I wonder why people are so wicked...more wicked than the devil.

Dasshboard:


You sef. Why didn't you ask for past questions

In relationship, make sure you are well read before you give people test.

stupid test will surely lead to a stupid result.

teresafaith:
He was my first boyfriend dated him for eight years, dude called one day to say he wasn't interested anymore that he needs to focus on his life that I should do the same. Well to cut long story short I got married six month later to a wonderful guy who I'm ready to stand by through thick and thin.


Dude called up one day and was like "he thought I was going to wait for him to finish focusing on his life"

Guy!! me no get chance for oshi

that was fast
...congrats

The b!tch lied to me that her mum gave her 60k to pay her school fees but she borrowed the money to her besty when her mum when she fell sick. But now the friend is no where to be found.…

… that she went to her friend's house and nobody was around, and their neighbors told her that they have relocated to abuja. But she got their phone number and called and her friend's mum told her that her daughter has fled to Ghana. I was like

So the issue was she needed the money to pay her fee which was closing in two days time. The silly b!tch went on to say threaten me that I have to give her the money if I don't want her to accept the money from one Alhaji that has been trying to fvck her. Imagine Ga!!!

So iwas like : "no problem I will give you the money". I then asked her if she needed anything else and she told me needed a new phone because the one she was using to call me belongs to her cousin the phone she had on mind would cost her 40k.

I then told her not to worry that I was gon give her the money tomorrow


My brothers and sisters, it is about 7 month now and tomorrow is yet to come


I no know whether the girl see tribal marks on my face and that made her to feel she has captured a mugu

Gofwane:
The b!tch lied to me that her mum gave her 60k to pay her school fees but she borrowed the money to her besty when her mum when she fell sick. But now the friend is no where to be found.…

… that she went to her friend's house and nobody was around, and their neighbors told her that they have relocated to abuja. But she got their phone number and called and her friend's mum told her that her daughter has fled to Ghana. I was like

So the issue was she needed the money to pay her fee which was closing in two days time. The silly b!tch went on to say threaten me that I have to give her the money if I don't want her to accept the money from one Alhaji that has been trying to fvck her. Imagine Ga!!!

So iwas like : "no problem I will give you the money". I then asked her if she needed anything else and she told me needed a new phone because the one she was using to call me belongs to her cousin the phone she had on mind would cost her 40k.

I then told her not to worry that I was gon give her the money tomorrow


My brothers and sisters, it is about 7 month now and tomorrow is yet to come


I no know whether the girl see tribal marks on my face and that made her to feel she has captured a mugu

Some girls don't know ANYTHING about love, but they know EVERYTHING about money.

They will soon understand that the love of money is the root of all evil when ritualist use part of their breast for WHAT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR.

He fell in love with someone else while we were still dating. He decided to go for the lady based on some certain conditions that I understood but which he never explained to me. I called it off myself so that he'll be free from pretence and lies. I have nothing against him since I just want him to be happy. It would have been much better if he had explained things maturely. All the best for him!

queenbetsy:
He fell in love with someone else while we were still dating. He decided to go for the lady based on some certain conditions that I understood but which he never explained to me. I called it off myself so that he'll be free from pretence and lies. I have nothing against him since I just want him to be happy. It would have been much better if he had explained things maturely. All the best for him!

Really matured sis...which my ex was as matured instead of being a lying coot!!!!

luminouz:

Really matured sis...which my ex was as matured instead of being a lying coot!!!!

its gonna take some time to heal bro cos it was what i least expected and viewing it from another angle, it was the best idea. You're in another one?

queenbetsy:
its gonna take some time to heal bro cos it was what i least expected and viewing it from another angle, it was the best idea. You're in another one?

I get u n dat was so matured of u!
Nah sis!! Single as a lonely bird!!!
All I do now is flirt with NL gehs online n daz all!!!
Relationship don tire me jare!!!!
If its not tribal issue,its money,if its not,its lies n intrigue n bullshiiit!!!!

luminouz:

I get u n dat was so matured of u!
Nah sis!! Single as a lonely bird!!!
All I do now is flirt with NL gehs online n daz all!!!
Relationship don tire me jare!!!!
If its not tribal issue,its money,if its not,its lies n intrigue n bullshiiit!!!!

...and for how long d'you wanna continue with this?

queenbetsy:
...and for how long d'you wanna continue with this?

U mean d flirting or my single status
Flirting..... D girls all know am just pulling their legs n they don't take me serious(most have bf) so we just yab ourselves n have a good laugh!!
Single status? I don't know coz I haven't seen a good geh since my ex.....pretenses n lies n material wealth seeking oloshos are not what I am looking for DEFINITELY!!!!!

queenbetsy:
He fell in love with someone else while we were still dating. He decided to go for the lady based on some certain conditions that I understood but which he never explained to me. I called it off myself so that he'll be free from pretence and lies. I have nothing against him since I just want him to be happy. It would have been much better if he had explained things maturely. All the best for him!

sorry queenbetsy, I disagree and disclaim your assertion.

you cant fall in love while you are still in love with someone.

if one falls in love while in love it means one does not love the FORMER any longer that was why the LATTER appeal more.

nothing will attract you when you are in love...infact, if you love a blind lady...all the beautiful ladies in the city will look as if there are ugly with two open eyes while the blind lady will look like the beautiful lady with two eyes closed.

End of story, that guy stoped loving you the day he was attracted to the other lady.

luminouz:

U mean d flirting or my single status
Flirting..... D girls all know am just pulling their legs n they don't take me serious(most have bf) so we just yab ourselves n have a good laugh!!
Single status? I don't know coz I haven't seen a good geh since my ex.....pretenses n lies n material wealth seeking oloshos are not what I am looking for DEFINITELY!!!!!

your opinion tho...

queenbetsy:
your opinion tho...

Hmmmm.....so u mean ur different?
U won't ask for iphones n all such!!!! Not tribalistic?

olayiwola4u:


sorry queenbetsy, I disagree and disclaim your assertion.

you cant fall in love while you are still in love with someone.

if one falls in love while in love it means one does not love the FORMER any longer that was why the LATTER appeal more.

nothing will attract you when you are in love...infact, if you love a blind lady...all the beautiful ladies in the city will look as if there ugly with two open eyes while the blind lady will look like the beautiful ladies with two eyes closed.

End of story, that guy stoped loving you the day he was attracted to the other lady.

take a chill pill mister. Quote me well enough. I never said "he fell in love with someone else while we were still IN LOVE" I said, "...while we were still dating"

olayiwola4u:


sorry queenbetsy, I disagree and disclaim your assertion.

you cant fall in love while you are still in love with someone.

if one falls in love while in love it means one does not love the FORMER any longer that was why the LATTER appeal more.

nothing will attract you when you are in love...infact, if you love a blind lady...all the beautiful ladies in the city will look as if there are ugly with two open eyes while the blind lady will look like the beautiful lady with two eyes closed.

End of story, that guy stoped loving you the day he was attracted to the other lady.

I don't get u bro......
Are u saying it is possible to fall in love while in love or it is NOT possible

luminouz:

Hmmmm.....so u mean ur different?
U won't ask for iphones n all such!!!! Not tribalistic?

don't think of it... I will definitely ask

queenbetsy:
take a chill pill mister. Qoute me well enough. I never said "he fell in love with someone else while we were still IN LOVE" I said, "...while we were still dating"

Hmmmm.....datz DEEP!!!!

queenbetsy:
don't think of it... I will definitely ask

Lmaooooo!!!!! U made me laugh!!! Ur cool
Well.....I could do an iphone 4.....
Anything higher u will need to sell my teeth!!!

queenbetsy:
take a chill pill mister. Quote me well enough. I never said "he fell in love with someone else while we were still IN LOVE" I said, "...while we were still dating"

ok...but how would you guys date without loving each other?

luminouz:

Hmmmm.....datz DEEP!!!!

luminouz:

Lmaooooo!!!!! U made me laugh!!! Ur cool
Well.....I could do an iphone 4.....
Anything higher u will need to sell my teeth!!!

awww... all I want is iPhone 7

luminouz:


I don't get u bro......
Are u saying it is possible to fall in love while in love or it is NOT possible

it is not possible.

the moment you see another one and you think is better...you are no longer in love with fist one...

THOSE WHO DATE TWO PEOPLE AT THE SAME TIME NEVER LOVE THEM THE SAME WAY...pls, can you tell me why?

queenbetsy:
awww... all I want is iPhone 7

Then Evans ME n sell my teeth o.....coz no one would pay my ransom!!!

luminouz:

Then Evans ME n sell my teeth o.....coz no one would pay my ransom!!!

lol...you guys should talk...you never can tell if you guys can stay together till the end of time...

just be open minded towards each other.

olayiwola4u:


it is not possible.

the moment you see another one and you think is better...you are no longer in love with fist one...

THOSE WHO DATE TWO PEOPLE AT THE SAME TIME NEVER LOVE THEM THE SAME WAY...pls, can you tell me why?

Y? If we are putting African magic aside(terrestrial forces).........
The amount of love we feel for our partner varies....as in... U may love her more than she loves u or vice versa..
If u don't love her as much as she loves u n u see another girl DAT u love SO much,u might be tempted to explore.....woe betide d guy if d new girl doesn't love him as much as he loves her coz she might/might not cheat on him...
Its TRUE love when both partner love each other EQUALLY!!!!
U know as well as I do dat DAT stuff is rare in naija

olayiwola4u:


ok...but how would you guys date without loving each other?

lemme explain... you're madly in love with someone and he really loves you too but there's a condition. He met someone else that's just as awesome as you are and without that condition and he fell in love totally. You guys are still dating but his love for you has dropped. you should understand from there...

olayiwola4u:


lol...you guys should talk...you never can tell if you guys can stay together till the end of time...

just be open minded towards each other.

Lmaoooooooo!!!
She is cool....we are friends already bro!!!!

olayiwola4u:


lol...you guys should talk...you never can tell if you guys can stay together till the end of time...

just be open minded towards each other.

meaning??

luminouz:

Then Evans ME n sell my teeth o.....coz no one would pay my ransom!!!

luminouz:

Lmaoooooooo!!!
She is cool....we are friends already bro!!!!

what??

luminouz:


Y? If we are putting African magic aside(terrestrial forces).........
The amount of love we feel for our partner varies....as in... U may love her more than she loves u or vice versa..
If u don't love her as much as she loves u n u see another girl DAT u love SO much,u might be tempted to explore.....woe betide d guy if d new girl doesn't love him as much as he loves her coz she might/might not cheat on him...
Its TRUE love when both partner love each other EQUALLY!!!!
U know as well as I do dat DAT stuff is rare in naija

you are right bro...very rare