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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by andycom(m): 9:40pm On Oct 21, 2017
maxysmith:
The only church i can never get married into is Jehovah witness but i don't think church should be a barrier



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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by Mccullum: 9:43pm On Oct 21, 2017
MhizzAJ:
What's wrong with some people
undecided
Because of 'church'

You guys are not ready


This shouldn't be an issue at all afterall u both are Christians

Thank God for the kind of person i am oo...I really don't pay attention to things like this

I don't mind following my husband to his church when I get married as long as it's a Bible believing church.

I wouldn't attend Celestial church sha or Jehovah's witness because I can't be preaching from house to house every Sunday morning

You too already discriminating churches, if so respect the decision of the guy because he knows the consequences of that early control in future.

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by sway112: 9:49pm On Oct 21, 2017
abikeade03:
Are you looking for an Anglican bae? That knows in and out of Anglicanism, then you just got one

Op see applicant oooo.... This one na fresh graduate #tear-rubber

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by JazzMode: 9:50pm On Oct 21, 2017
MhizzAJ:
What's wrong with some people
undecided
Because of 'church'

You guys are not ready


This shouldn't be an issue at all afterall u both are Christians

Thank God for the kind of person i am oo...I really don't pay attention to things like this

I don't mind following my husband to his church when I get married as long as it's a Bible believing church.

I wouldn't attend Celestial church sha or Jehovah's witness because I can't be preaching from house to house every Sunday morning

So you don't like evangelism?
Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by mabea: 9:59pm On Oct 21, 2017
MrDKR:


Thanks!
Trust me when i say here is a wrong place to seek such advice

It is difficult for a pentecostal person to marry orthodox, not because orthodox is bad rather the lack of uderstanding of the doctrines. I used to be very conservative about orthodox churches but now i know better. My guy if u love this lady and believe in her please try and make up with her. Remember u are both marrying each other and u must reach a compromise.

I have a pentecostal friend who married a catholic because her family insisted but today they are no longer in catholic.
Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by CzarChris(m): 10:02pm On Oct 21, 2017
MrDKR:
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So in a nutshell, what are u saying Sir? I should leave my church & follow her to her church to make her happy??
The simple question you should be asking yourself here is, "is she worth it?" Like I said in my earlier post, I'm not a religious person. Personally, "church/denomination" makes no difference, your both fu*#ing Christians for crying out loud. Like in the deal I made, I'll wed you in your church and you live me the fu&k alone. If she couldn't come to a compromise on that with you then my man you actually wasted 2yrs building a fictional relationship. Sorry for being blunt, the both of you have to compromise on something, that's where maturity sets in.

I personally believe that religion has done a lot of harm, even in the Bible, Jesus didn't discriminate, so why should we?
Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by Carter4luv(m): 10:07pm On Oct 21, 2017
My problem with christians we discriminate too much. Marrying from other churches brings unity n peace, but the mentality if other doctrine makes it difficult.

Let her go, Anglican got beautiful girls u can hook up to.
Am proud of the Anglican church.
Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by mabea: 10:08pm On Oct 21, 2017
CzarChris:
The simple question you should be asking yourself here is, "is she worth it?" Like I said in my earlier post, I'm not a religious person. Personally, "church/denomination" makes no difference, your both fu*#ing Christians for crying out loud. Like in the deal I made, I'll wed you in your church and you live me the fu&k alone. If she couldn't come to a compromise on that with you then my man you actually wasted 2yrs building a fictional relationship. Sorry for being blunt, the both of you have to compromise on something, that's where maturity sets in.

I personally believe that religion has done a lot of harm, even in the Bible, Jesus didn't discriminate, so why should we?
The both of them should reach a compromise none of them is doing each other any favour.

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by colyx1(m): 10:09pm On Oct 21, 2017
MhizzAJ:
What's wrong with some people
undecided
Because of 'church'

You guys are not ready


This shouldn't be an issue at all afterall u both are Christians

Thank God for the kind of person i am oo...I really don't pay attention to things like this

I don't mind following my husband to his church when I get married as long as it's a Bible believing church.

I wouldn't attend Celestial church sha or Jehovah's witness because I can't be preaching from house to house every Sunday morning
Bae u just made my nyt.....so funny grin
Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by ranmoor: 10:10pm On Oct 21, 2017
When will people realise that RELIGION IS SCAM? Most Pastors are even struggling with their marriage.

The last thing I will consider in a lady is her religion.

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by slydog(m): 10:17pm On Oct 21, 2017
Chommieblaq:
Mr op please don't listen to anyone telling you to leave your church or give it a thought. If she can break up because of something as mundane asthe church you attend, then she can break up for anything then. If you change your church because you want to get married to her, just be ready to start compromising on many things, because she and her family don't like it.

Haba the Anglican is not born again enough?
Don't they have EFAC?

Why are some Christians like this? That's just the sole reason why there's so much disintegration in Christendom, some people believe there church is better off others, and you have to be a member of their church to be taken serious.


Seriously if I'm in your shoes or I have a brother in your shoe, I will advise him to forget the girl. If you are good for her in all ramifications but she won't agree to marry you because of your denomination, then it's her lost.

God knows I don't likebi overly religious peeps

I love your comment here, so I too need your advice. My own girl who is yet to say yes to me told me this evening that she wouldn't want to leave the Catholic Church after wedding and would love the kids to get baptized there too. I'm protestant and I already agreed to marry her in Catholic cos she says it will be a thing of pride for her and her mum, mind you her mum is Catholic and dad Anglican she went with her mum while other siblings followed dad to Anglican.
What do you think I should do here? How easy will the marriage be when there's no unity of purpose spiritually? Should we go our separate ways? Mind you I want to get married but she hasn't said yes

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by oluplus(m): 10:22pm On Oct 21, 2017
I perceive that your girl attends a Pentecostal church. I don't ibhave any problem with that but most of them believe Orthodox churches are not very spiritual.
Has she ever worshiped in any Anglican church? What are the issues bothering her on that? See, if the church still preaches salvation of souls, repenteancr from sins and there doctrine is in line with the bible, pls stay glue to your church.

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by CzarChris(m): 11:10pm On Oct 21, 2017
mabea:
The both of them should reach a compromise none of them is doing each other any favour.
Finally, sombori understands me. Because if this dude is truly into this girl, some day he might regret this action. Same goes for the female.

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by ststyreal(f): 11:14pm On Oct 21, 2017
MrDKR:
Hello Guys,

Just recently, I lost my 2 years+ relationship with my girlfriend, reason because she said she can Never get married into an Anglican Church & I said I can only leave the church if I'm not okay with the church anymore, but since nothing has triggered my leaving, I'm not willing to leave now. So we both decided to call the relationship Off.

Furthermore, her Daddy also do not like Anglicans, he feels they are not born again. But initially, I felt it was just from her Dad, so I felt like most marriages, one or two family members may not consent to the marriage at an early stage, but with determination from both lovers, they will be able to convince them, so that was why the relationship went this far in the first place.

Sincerely, I really do love this lady so much but its sad to see us part ways.

Was my decision reasonable?? Kindly advice...

Regards!

Don't worry my brother, I get plenty AYF sister for you to marry. Honestly, you guys need to be compatible church wise if not, your marriage will lack that spiritual compatibility. Anglican my first bride! Fellowship!!! In Christ!
Please don't leave Anglican ooooo

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by Nobody: 2:21am On Oct 22, 2017
correctguy101:



@ the bolded...

Not in all cases, some of us just moved on when it all started making no sense due to in-depth study of the politics, way of life and other recorded activities of times past.

No one who wants to tell himself the truth will be stuck with the religions of segregation.
Religions are confused gangs of people who are controlled by the priest who have half-baked knowledge of magic and miracles. Miracle and Magic are purely a scientific affairs, but they con people of their coins and milk them of their butter. Their foolishness, their prosperity.

You were not in religion for the right reasons. You went there for perfection and not for the Creator. The Creator has no business with religions. The Creator deals with you directly based on your DNA.

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by Chommieblaq(f): 3:53am On Oct 22, 2017
slydog:


I love your comment here, so I too need your advice. My own girl who is yet to say yes to me told me this evening that she wouldn't want to leave the Catholic Church after wedding and would love the kids to get baptized there too. I'm protestant and I already agreed to marry her in Catholic cos she says it will be a thing of pride for her and her mum, mind you her mum is Catholic and dad Anglican she went with her mum while other siblings followed dad to Anglican.
What do you think I should do here? How easy will the marriage be when there's no unity of purpose spiritually? Should we go our separate ways? Mind you I want to get married but she hasn't said yes
Fine you have already agreed to wed her in the Catholic Church, which is ok.
After the wedding what then?
Will you want your kids to be baptized in Catholic Church?
Do you want a family that's is divided in terms of where they worship like your prospective in-law's family?
These kind of division have effect on kids, especially when they are young.
Is that a condition for her to marry you?
It's okay if you are willingly to change your church, but then it should be your choice and not as a condition. Marriage and love shouldn't have conditions attached to it.

Of course there's no unity of purpose spiritual. The problem with people that think like that is that they see other Christians as being lesser, they see themselves as the perfect Christian and that is already a problem on it own. After baptizing the kids in her church, they will definitely be going there with her (as their mom), will you be fine with that? If you disagree, you guys will start having issues.

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by gotnel: 4:38am On Oct 22, 2017
MrDKR:
Hello Guys,

Just recently, I lost my 2 years+ relationship with my girlfriend, reason because she said she can Never get married into an Anglican Church & I said I can only leave the church if I'm not okay with the church anymore, but since nothing has triggered my leaving, I'm not willing to leave now. So we both decided to call the relationship Off.

Furthermore, her Daddy also do not like Anglicans, he feels they are not born again. But initially, I felt it was just from her Dad, so I felt like most marriages, one or two family members may not consent to the marriage at an early stage, but with determination from both lovers, they will be able to convince them, so that was why the relationship went this far in the first place.

Sincerely, I really do love this lady so much but its sad to see us part ways.

Was my decision reasonable?? Kindly advice...

Regards!


As religious as we are in Nigeria, things are not working according to how they supposed.
Mr, OP . play your game according to how your mind dictated. It will boomerang one day if you follows a woman dictates concerning your religion.
Religion should be personal affairs even in marriage. It only take two people who understand and mature in their minds.
Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by deltateam: 4:41am On Oct 22, 2017
biacan:
In my church mix marriage exist.......where by if you're not from my church after the wedding in my church you can continue with your church while I continue with mine...... though my current boyfriend that one will follow me anywhere cause he knows am the real deal..... he's so rich and respectful one of the reasons why I love him too

What of the children? Na so una go get them confused.
Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by femi4: 5:17am On Oct 22, 2017
MrDKR:



I will Bro.! I sha know I have treated her well, just the way I wish other men to treat my Sister or Daughter...

Life goes on!
You sound pained. Both of you can't raise kids using different doctrines. Look for a lady that believe in your Church doctrine and marry. I have problem with some doctrine in Anglican, Catholic, JW too
Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by omoh17(m): 5:34am On Oct 22, 2017
my Gf broke up cos I attend sabath
Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by BluntBoy(m): 5:47am On Oct 22, 2017
adetayo234:


Mr hypocrite, are you not the one saying Catholics are going to hell fire the other day? You are confused

Yes, they will go to hell if they don't stop bowing down to worthless images. But, I cannot break up with a lady simply because she is Catholic. Love is a beautiful thing. Even Joseph and Moses married foreign women . Catholics are my Christian brethren; I am very concerned about their souls.
Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by morbeta(m): 6:18am On Oct 22, 2017
maxysmith:
The only church i can never get married into is Jehovah witness but i don't think church should be a barrier

Hope IFA Temple is okay too grin
Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by mabea: 6:45am On Oct 22, 2017
CzarChris:
Finally, sombori understands me. Because if this dude is truly into this girl, some day he might regret this action. Same goes for the female.
Exactly my point too. I have seen it happen several times where the guy would leave his own church and marry the girl from the other church and they later go back to the guy's church except in situations where the lady is more spiritually committed than the guy.

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by crunchyg: 6:51am On Oct 22, 2017
maxysmith:
The only church i can never get married into is Jehovah witness but i don't think church should be a barrier
Abeg Jehova witness people dey no be christians?

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by mabea: 6:55am On Oct 22, 2017
slydog:


I love your comment here, so I too need your advice. My own girl who is yet to say yes to me told me this evening that she wouldn't want to leave the Catholic Church after wedding and would love the kids to get baptized there too. I'm protestant and I already agreed to marry her in Catholic cos she says it will be a thing of pride for her and her mum, mind you her mum is Catholic and dad Anglican she went with her mum while other siblings followed dad to Anglican.
What do you think I should do here? How easy will the marriage be when there's no unity of purpose spiritually? Should we go our separate ways? Mind you I want to get married but she hasn't said yes
It depends on your spiritual ground. Personally i wont wed in catholic. Marriage is a spiritual institution and before going into such covenant i must be careful who lays hand,blesses and pours the oil on me.

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by Nobody: 7:32am On Oct 22, 2017
You will go to heaven.

He is a devil.

cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by Nobody: 7:32am On Oct 22, 2017
You will go to heaven.

He is a devil

cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by jefcee: 7:41am On Oct 22, 2017
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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by Kcdojoto(m): 7:46am On Oct 22, 2017
BluntBoy:


That is what the Church has been reduced to. Thousands of doctrines within the Christian fold can only breed deadly religious affiliations akin to tribalism and encouraging discrimination.
op don't mind anybody telling you to leave Anglican Church, I always ask them what they are doing in their church that Anglicans are not doing? They pray, we pray, they preach prosperity we preach salvation.
That's how I went to the so called living church that decamped from Anglican in Aba, their general overseer keep on telling how he went to China, how expensive his wrist watch is, how they were been oppressed in anglican as Efac bla bla bla.
Today that Church have divived because they are fighting for who will be in control of the Church.
I will remain an Anglican as long as they are still preaching against evil, they are preaching about heaven, God and Jesus Christ our saviour.

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by adedayourt(m): 8:13am On Oct 22, 2017
safarigirl:
it's honestly a stupid reason to cause havoc. I fit stay one day and I will decide I don't want to go to church again and i wikk stilk be living a better life than most church goers


Religious people too get wahala....in fact, black people too get wahala. Get married to a white man and this would not be an issue

I totally agree with u nd religious sudnt reck a marriage but owieng to d fact dat Nigerians are very religious pple, it bcoms an iss.

Imagine a Christ embersy fanatic getting married to a cele fanatic, synagogue to deeper life, one way or d oda religious ideology ll come btw der love.

It's just a case of broken relationship tonorable dan broken marriage

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Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by Smutt360raven: 8:25am On Oct 22, 2017
So a Christian is no longer a Christian?

They only unite when it's time to criticize other religions.

cheesy
Re: We broke up because I Refuse to leave the Anglican Church by Dunni007(f): 8:47am On Oct 22, 2017
she is not serious to continue with the relationship, As an Anglican and a Christian I see no reason y we can't worship in any church (except our spirit isn't OK with it) ...Muslims say their prayers inside any mosque they deem fit, so y do we preach luv wen we don't even love Christendom ? pls search for a lady who will do ur biddings not what she thinks about a church that isn't the requirement to make heaven.

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