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Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 6:27pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
biacan: Babe siddon there.. Its good to have insurance ..but don't sleep with then .y can see4 years abi,what if those8 or 10 years.. U can't be confident if any man till y sign dotted lines |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by justmi1: 6:30pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Hmmmm, this is a very dicey situation, though as a young man I detest a girl with "back up " boyfriends, however it is not uncommon for ladies of marriageable age to have back ups. Having said that, a guy that has dated you for 4 years should propose already, it shouldn't always be about money, you guys can plan together. Now the backup guy made a fast move, apparently he loves you more. If you really love your main man, make him propose and return the backup guy's ring quietly, otherwise let the main man go. Be careful though, you could become Lord of the ring In fact the matter pass me, you should never have back up except if it's for power supply... This is like 9ja bet, your ticket fit cut 1 Like |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by adedayoa2(f): 6:31pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Dblock89:girls like this sef, karma no dey catch up with them. Dude, I won't be part of those that will speak bad to this lady cuz men sef get their own for body. Something would have made her have a 'back up' boyfriend. It could be that age is no longer on her side, maybe she's had a relationship that didn't work out and she regretted not having a 'side' boyfriend she can always fall back to, I be woman and I know as e dey go. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by adedayoa2(f): 6:34pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
justmi1:i don't want to know how young you are, but you spoke like a very matured man. Thank you |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Artistree: 6:40pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Menzy86:Deception, not deceptiveness. 1 Like |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by stilldoingokay(f): 6:43pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
VastFinder: how she keep two matured guys in a strong relationship that even lead to marriage, is surprising. she most be a female definition of Yoruba demon, anyway hope you make the wright decision. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Apina(m): 6:46pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
northvietnam:Seriously! Trekking = Community well 1 Like
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Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Ogaonos: 6:48pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Menzy86:let me use dis avenue 2 advice guys abeg if u nt emotional strong 2 handle hrtbreak dnt eva enta/do single date.until u strong 2 handle hrtbrk.most gal do double date nd double dating mak u emotnal strong is a medicatn 2 cure mumu in luv syndrome.nd police bf behaviour.i always laugh wen i c sum guys so quick 2 condemn cheating bf all dis gals who cum online 2 complain about my bf cheating na wash.cheating no dey exist 4 relatnship na marriage e dey exist.nd na ur gf investment in u dt u luk at because most gal always hav more dan 1 dick doing dem.but they always rebuke d act na normal.a wrd is enough 4 d wise dnt felt guilty u bleepin 2 gfs except 1 gf don ova invest in u.or u ar married. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Seahawk: 6:54pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Marry him since the real boyfriend isn’t stepping up. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Huee(f): 6:59pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
MrNigeria2018:So my opinion makes me a hoe?! You need help!! |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by blessingsonflee(f): 7:03pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
The typical adage that says" don't put your eggs in one basket "comes to mind. You said "yes" because you were desperate for marriage. Go on and get married
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Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Haryourmieykhun(m): 7:14pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
continue deceiving ur self after loosing ur virginity to anoda person u now cum back and say yes Mumu |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by nikkypearl(f): 7:35pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
iamJ:na so |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 7:36pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
musa234:and not all girls have back up boyfriends |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by DeWorlex45(m): 7:37pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
fatherdfd:I so much love ur opinion, how can u propose to someone u hav not visited wia she stays, either alone or with someone & with who, parent or other relation?? dis backup guy nah complete learner, so wat would be his action if he later knew dt he was a mere backup bf, & dt his presume girlfrnd was already sleeping or living with a guy hu was her main bf. i dont knw wat really carried dis guy sense away to make him propose to some1 he never visited or know d situation of her accomodation. i am just hearing about a BACKUP BOYFRIEND on dis thread. Chai, some guys don suffer o, cos dey will be forming a real bf not knowing dat dem be mere backup. i fear women,. But i hope say BACKUP HUSBAND no dey o?? cos dis women no fit trust anymore. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Josephamstrong1:i deny it 100%, I dont even have a bf, sorry, ask some1 else |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by pedrozone15(m): 7:42pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Well that's ur business, you have already said yes but I think you are a bad person( not judging, just my view of u). Why? OK let me explain, 1, U have a boyfriend who loves and adores u but still went for backup (as u put it). 2, U have been living with ur bf for months now, and the innocent good guy will be paying ur bills. Question:- How do you think he will see ladies as when he finally finds out? 2, What kind of a heart do u have? 3, Have u even tot about the way ur bf would react when he finds out? Woman it's a new year, hope ur actions wouldn't lead him to commit suicide. God help us guys to find a mother, friend and partner for marriage in Jesus name. 1 Like |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
sinceraconcept:ur opinion is urs, speak 4 urself. my eldest sister has been married 4 about 10 yrs, d other just celebrated 6yrs anniversary, so abeg speak 4 urself |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by stainless239(f): 7:48pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
majamajic: Wow....... I just learnt something |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by DONFASZY(m): 7:57pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Back up bf Back up UPS battery is used as a standby device once power supply is cut off or shutdown?den d alternative is d back up UPS? So dis little b*tch now date and smash 2guys and call one Inverter abi U c reasons why GUYs deal wit dem |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by prinsam30: 8:12pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Divay22: yes na incase the original got lost or currupted or deleted from the main server mistakenly...... |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Azam101: 8:14pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Huee:Talking from experience olosho |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Menzy86(m): 8:15pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Artistree:Thanks alot. Dunno wat I was thinking sef... 1 Like |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by HappyScent: 8:16pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Tell ur man its is a sin to cohabit.go back to ur father or mother house.from there u can watch the two |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aigboeben(m): 8:18pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
gloria34:Anyone cheating in a relationship can't see the future clearly. So she can't really tell if he's going to be a good husband. Would you do same daughter of Zion? |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by samiboy774(m): 8:18pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Its just a Mata of tym...we'll start hearing "Extra boyfrnd" like extra time and/or "Additional boyfrnd" like Additional time.... |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Huee(f): 8:22pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Azam101:So my opinion makes me an olosho!!! You need help!! |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by InfernoNig: 8:30pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Women are evil. A man can not do this. He will break up first. God help us. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by erimmy(m): 8:43pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
VastFinder: |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by locoster(m): 8:47pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
VastFinder:Back-up bf! I've never heard this b4 |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by FaroukM(m): 8:48pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
.....Greedy |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 8:56pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
aigboeben:I am not perfect but I don't cheat. I easily get hurt so I don't want to do same to others |
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