Annibel:


stop calling somebody's wife thief na...

it will be fun chatting with you.. heheheee

She's in for the money.
Dump her silly ass AF.

How can she be threatening to quit, if you don't subscribe to her demands.
That's pure blackmail.

XhosaNostra:
Bridezilla.

Sometimes the present is the precursor of the future, so keep that in mind, in whatever you decide to do.

Personally I don't like ultimatums & threats. She wouldn't get a dime out of me with that attitude. I dislike when people act like you're dependent on them for oxygen.

most Nigerian girls won't like your view...

na dis kind thread nl guys children dey like, now they can pour out their frustration

Fourwinds:
most Nigerian girls won't like your view...

Tough teat

Annibel:
Like you said... YOU LOVE HER...
Biko just give her the money. issorite

I looked at your dp and I understand why you made such a comment. You are too young to contribute to a discuss of this nature. No offense!

XhosaNostra:


Tough teat

in fact they are niches...


hardly will you see them building with you from the scratch.... but own a car and property and see them flying around you....

guy, you better avoid her calls and that of her family for one month, she will take dressing. you said coos she knows you have it so she doesnt want to behave, cut her to dressing, she will comply.

Your fiancee is a yahoo girl.u can give her d money if u want to sha.

yommen:


I looked at your dp and I understand why you made such a comment. You are too young to contribute to a discuss of this nature. No offense!

How sure are you that the moniker belongs to a female?

Such comment made was to crave for mentions and attentions, so as to ease their plans.




Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique , come help the OP

@Bidv Tell her you don't have such money to give. Ask her to forget the wedding if that's the best for her. Watch her reaction. She'll beg ya.

4 kinds of people u should never trust. (1) women (2) ladies (3) female (4) girl .

She said without the 500K she's not interested in the wedding

She's not interested in you better thank your God and move on.

nancyv:

I bet your mom has never contributed anything to your life since u were born. So sorry about that.

he said d truth...nd d truth is bitter

xendra:
na dis kind thread nl guys children dey like, now they can pour out their frustration

one of d gold diggers spotted

People love to complicate things..your brain should tell you that this one you called your wife to be is only interested in you because of your wealth..Think twice and try not to reveal everything to her if eventually you marry her!

bro,.. DT lady dies not love u... dis same stuff happened to me and my so called fiance. she was giving threat and ultimatum. I just over looked it and went further to go on in the relationship. we even went to pastor for premarital counseling... both families are aware. but people in my trying times my girl who claim to love me left me and decided to end d relationship, not knowing she was seeing another guy. pls save ur life and save ur money she loves ur money and not u... well I feel hurt and pained but I have moved on and karma will visit her painfully.

bidv I will be very blunt with you. I hate it when a man use the expression "I love her and I don't want to loose her".

The moment you fill your mind with such expression of I can't loose her, that will definitely be the beginning of you loosing her. As a man, your love for a lady should not surpass the one she has for you. There is nothing like I love her and I don't want to loose her. Your love for a lady doesn't count if she doesn't love you in return. How would you know if a lady loves you? It is by playing the role of a good partner in your life, assisting you in all areas of your life and even going the extra miles in sacrificing for you when the goings are not going well at the detriment of her personal pleasures.

If a lady you wish to marry is giving you condition before a marriage between you and she before it can hold, that lady doesn't love you. She can't stand by you in a hard time. Such a lady could be susceptible to cheating in a marriage.

From my personal view, your love for her surpass the one she has for you if not she wouldn't have been giving you condition for her own marriage she will benefit from.

Can such a lady cook a pot of soup for you with her personal money? Can she buy a gift for you as a way of showing her love for you? You and I know it will always be the other way round.

Any lady that is materialistic is not fit for marriage. Do not let love blind fold you. Look beyond what you feel. It is just an ordinary emotion that always make people take rash decisions that they later regret in life.

If truly people do fall in love , then it should be mutual. Any love that is not mutual will always end up being at the detriment of the one confessing love while the other will be playing the role of a parasite all the time.
In all, it is up to you to decide.

donstan18:
This one you are typing 500k and 2 million up and down, how are we sure you are not owning MTN and GLO!

Below is MY ADVICE

This woman you claimed to love and want to marry, have you asked and confirmed why she wants to marry you?

Is she really inlove with you?
Is she marrying you for love or for money?
Will a lady who loves you attempt such demand?
A lady threatening to call off your wedding if she doesn't get 500k from you should be a clear act to tell you what the future holds.
Be brave!
Think like a man!
Save the future!
Don't be blinded by boobs and ass!
Marriage should be a lifetime contract!

And if I ever hear I REALLY LOVE HER from your mouth again, eh!... If I hear it again!!, If i hear that nonsense again from your mouth!

donstan18:
This one you are typing 500k and 2 million up and down, how are we sure you are not owning MTN and GLO!

Below is MY ADVICE

This woman you claimed to love and want to marry, have you asked and confirmed why she wants to marry you?

Is she really inlove with you?
Is she marrying you for love or for money?
Will a lady who loves you attempt such demand?
A lady threatening to call off your wedding if she doesn't get 500k from you should be a clear act to tell you what the future holds.
Be brave!
Think like a man!
Save the future!
Don't be blinded by boobs and ass!
Marriage should be a lifetime contract!

And if I ever hear I REALLY LOVE HER from your mouth again, eh!... If I hear it again!!, If i hear that nonsense again from your mouth!

icebird25:
My advice to you bros, is to find one girl and make her ur baby mama.. Apart from children and sex woman have no other things to offer in marriage.. That say all men are born equal and free but if you decides to go and marry...you are in your own

U ar not only an "ice bird" but also a "bird brain"

Annibel:
Like you said... YOU LOVE HER...
Biko just give her the money. issorite

"Biko just give her the money" is ur mawt lyk mama ebuka's kpomo

bidv:
Nairalander I bring greetings from the other side,

I have this lady I'm currently in relationship with for 2 years now, early last year I proposed to her and she said "YES" following that I introduced her to my family and the both families got to know each other, December we Did a mini introduction (Knocking at the door), my plans is for us to get married this April. My overall budget is 2M for everything (I don't want to spend too much for wedding). Now the problem is, my fiancée is asking for 500K to buy her personal needs for the wedding that's excluding her family lists. She said without the 500K she's not interested in the wedding. I believe she's asking because she knows I have it. Please I need a good advice of what to do.

Give her the money, if you can afford it. there is no big deal there, am very sure it will be used for your own benefit.

for her to say she will quit the relationship if you refuse, it is just to make you concur or agree to.

if she is asking for 500k jst for wedding proposal..hw much come b bride price or r u still going to pay for bride price [color=#990000][/color]

Please give her the money. You said your budget was around 2M, you can give her and bring your budget down to 1.5m. Secondly, overlook those saying you shouldn't marry her 'cause the threat was to make you give the money, though it was wrong of her to place a condition to it but she may be one of those who don't know how to demand for things as others do. I believe a good wedding gown should cost close to that amount, she'll add make up, shoes, and whatnot. Abi, is there something else she needed the money for?

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kimbraa:
Please give her the money. You said your budget was around 2M, you can give her and bring your budget down to 1.5m. Secondly, overlook those saying you shouldn't marry her 'cause the threat was to make you give the money, though it was wrong of her to place a condition to it but she may be one of those who don't know how to demand for things as others do. I believe a good wedding gown should cost close to that amount, she'll add make up, shoes, and whatnot. Abi, is there something else she needed the money for?

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I hope you overlook this thrash.

TonyBankz:
"Biko just give her the money" is ur mawt lyk mama ebuka's kpomo

attention seeker

bidv:
Nairalander I bring greetings from the other side,

I have this lady I'm currently in relationship with for 2 years now, early last year I proposed to her and she said "YES" following that I introduced her to my family and the both families got to know each other, December we Did a mini introduction (Knocking at the door), my plans is for us to get married this April. My overall budget is 2M for everything (I don't want to spend too much for wedding). Now the problem is, my fiancée is asking for 500K to buy her personal needs for the wedding that's excluding her family lists. She said without the 500K she's not interested in the wedding. I believe she's asking because she knows I have it. I really love her and I don't want to loose her, should I give her or I should let go? Please I need a good advice of what to do.

magarism

bidv:
Nairalander I bring greetings from the other side,

I have this lady I'm currently in relationship with for 2 years now, early last year I proposed to her and she said "YES" following that I introduced her to my family and the both families got to know each other, December we Did a mini introduction (Knocking at the door), my plans is for us to get married this April. My overall budget is 2M for everything (I don't want to spend too much for wedding). Now the problem is, my fiancée is asking for 500K to buy her personal needs for the wedding that's excluding her family lists. She said without the 500K she's not interested in the wedding. I believe she's asking because she knows I have it. I really love her and I don't want to loose her, should I give her or I should let go? Please I need a good advice of what to do.

500k as condition?? She's not serious. It sounds like arrogance for her to say such a thing.
Maybe your love for her is more than the love she has for you. Don't grant her her request. Let's see what she'll do next.

crismark:

he said d truth...nd d truth is bitter

Which truth did he say? He said women are good for nothing except sex and bearing children and I asked him whether his mom never contributed anything to his life.
My mom made me what I am today and I hate when people insult women anyhow just because they were unfortunate to associate with the bad ones.

Ultimatum from your wife to be, we can't advise you because we know you would still cave in, so do what suits you. If there was a time where you ever need to stand your ground its now, as much as am nice I am very stubborn, today's Nigeria is hard and someone wants 500k for gown and makeup. All the best sha

yommen:


I looked at your dp and I understand why you made such a comment. You are too young to contribute to a discuss of this nature. No offense!

Truly too many brats on these platforms, I can tell from their comments

Annibel:
Like you said... YOU LOVE HER... Biko just give her the money. issorite

Dwarf, with Herculian Troubles.