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Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by SirAweezy(m): 11:23pm On Feb 19, 2018
I laugh you (in advance) in future... and i say eyahhh sorryyy (in advance) in future.

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Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by koxi: 11:24pm On Feb 19, 2018
MDsambo:
She loves your money not you.

Perfect answer!!!
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by anibirelawal(m): 11:24pm On Feb 19, 2018
Reeberry:
I bet. Na your yansh you use type this comment.

grin tongue
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by kmaster007: 11:25pm On Feb 19, 2018
go look for sum1 else
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by Nobody: 11:26pm On Feb 19, 2018
I live for ultimatums.

I would have kicked her a$$ to the door already.

Women are not a limited model. More are being minted daily in delivery rooms all over the world.

$6K for a wedding? For a young person just starting out?

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Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by repent4christ: 11:37pm On Feb 19, 2018
anibirelawal:


Give her the money, if you can afford it. there is no big deal there, am very sure it will be used for your own benefit.

for her to say she will quit the relationship if you refuse, it is just to make you concur or agree to.
Op this mentality is from hell, Do not listen to this advice. That lady is not a wife material!

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Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by kidsam: 11:38pm On Feb 19, 2018
You are about to be married to a blackmailer, borrow sense my brother

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Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by doughziay: 11:38pm On Feb 19, 2018
Annibel:
Like you said... YOU LOVE HER... Biko just give her the money. issorite
una don start.

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Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by Lexusgs430: 11:39pm On Feb 19, 2018
bidv:
Nairalander I bring greetings from the other side,

I have this lady I'm currently in relationship with for 2 years now, early last year I proposed to her and she said "YES" following that I introduced her to my family and the both families got to know each other, December we Did a mini introduction (Knocking at the door), my plans is for us to get married this April. My overall budget is 2M for everything (I don't want to spend too much for wedding). Now the problem is, my fiancée is asking for 500K to buy her personal needs for the wedding that's excluding her family lists. She said without the 500K she's not interested in the wedding. I believe she's asking because she knows I have it. I really love her and I don't want to loose her, should I give her or I should let go? Please I need a good advice of what to do.

Might be best to loose her, is she getting married for love or money?

She is clearly getting married for money............

Don't start what you can't finish....... The next sequence would be - :

(1) Pay me N20,000 for each round of sex
(2) Pay me N50,000 for BJ
(3) If you want a child, pay me N300,000
(4) To cook your meals N10,000 each day etc etc


What you would refuse rich, start refusing it poor........
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by Oyinlomobambam(m): 11:40pm On Feb 19, 2018
donstan18:
This one you are typing 500k and 2 million up and down, how are we sure you are not owning MTN and GLO!

Below is MY ADVICE

This woman you claimed to love and want to marry, have you asked and confirmed why she wants to marry you?

Is she really inlove with you?
Is she marrying you for love or for money?
Will a lady who loves you attempt such demand?
A lady threatening to call off your wedding if she doesn't get 500k from you should be a clear act to tell you what the future holds.
Be brave!
Think like a man!
Save the future!
Don't be blinded by boobs and ass!
Marriage should be a lifetime contract!

And if I ever hear I REALLY LOVE HER from your mouth again, eh!... If I hear it again!!, If i hear that nonsense again from your mouth!
undecided

If truly you love her, take her to registry. that won't spent u more than 100k and give her the 2million u plan to waste
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by anibirelawal(m): 11:42pm On Feb 19, 2018
repent4christ:
Op this mentality is from hell, Do not listen to this advice. That lady is not a wife material!

Are you God
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by franchasng: 11:42pm On Feb 19, 2018
Men and women beauty eh cheesy

I am sure the op's fiance is very cute and highly loaded back and front like G-wagon, reason he cant reason well again even with clear signs, pity men grin

I used to have a very hot, as in over hot girlfriend like this, she was so cute and sexy that my friends always ask me guy are u sure u want to marry this chick weh fine like mami iwota so grin grin

She's from a rich family o, but see demanding and once u don't grant her demand she will start crying and that makes me weak angry angry

She used this on me and whenever I make up my mind to walk away after friend's advice me, once I see her again and her over beauty enters my head and i am back to caring for her again, poor me cheesy cheesy

Until i began to socialise and met other hot girls then i was delivered and I walked away finally, she is still begging to come back and promising to have changed but fear no wan gree me go back lol

Op, man up and walk away, she is not good for u, once she meets her dream man, she will be begging him to come wed her even for free, thats how ladies are. They form kingkong when they dont love u deeply enough but once they do like my ex who is now pleading and pledging to be the best woman she never was, they will do anything to keep u.

Dont let her beauty overshadow your good reasoning, walk away now and dont go back! Let her learn from this and be good to the next guy she will meet

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Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by Nobody: 11:44pm On Feb 19, 2018
ordinary 500k?....oya, gimme her number sharp-sharp
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by franchasng: 11:46pm On Feb 19, 2018
Oyinlomobambam:


If truly you love her, take her to registry. that won't spent u more than 100k and give her the 2million u plan to waste
hehe, Chairman nairaland association of marriage counselors have spoken, op take this advice if some nut don comot for your head cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by Rolly7: 11:46pm On Feb 19, 2018
You do not have a fiance. What you have is a goal digger. The earlier you look for a decent girl to marry the better for you. A girl who said if you don't give her 500k forget about the wedding is not worth it at all.
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by Doctorfitz: 11:46pm On Feb 19, 2018
Pls give her the 500k but before then I'll add another 500k for you making a total of 1million naira to give her.

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Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by royalamour(m): 11:47pm On Feb 19, 2018
Tell her to go ahead and quit. Tell her that she is turning you off with such dirty request.

What are you afraid of?

That you won't get a better girl?

What if your cash flow stops tomorrow, will she be faithful to you still?

Don't give her the money.

In fact, get another hotter girl.

What effrontery.

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Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by bobbygkmc(m): 11:49pm On Feb 19, 2018
I knew someone will come for his mum ��
nancyv:

I bet your mom has never contributed anything to your life since u were born. So sorry about that.
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by kinibigdeal(m): 11:50pm On Feb 19, 2018
Annibel:
Like you said... YOU LOVE HER...
Biko just give her the money. issorite

Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by franchasng: 11:50pm On Feb 19, 2018
EgunMogaji:
I live for ultimatums.

I would have kicked her a$$ to the door already.

Women are not a limited model. More are being minted daily in delivery rooms all over the world.

$6K for a wedding? For a young person just starting out?
my brother na only broke guys de die on top woman matter because there are 1 million+ hot looking model like single ladies waiting to have an okay guy as their man and this one is here messing up. I doubt he has that kind of money cos if he does, a lady wont give him such useless utimatum and hes here seeking for advice instead of calling off both the wedding and the relationship entirely. angry

When u have just small change as a guy, your major challenge will even be selecting the lady to settle with not being in shortage cos there are uncountable cute good and bad single ladies out there praying to hook up

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Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by lilyheaven: 11:51pm On Feb 19, 2018
donstan18:
This one you are typing 500k and 2 million up and down, how are we sure you are not owning MTN and GLO!

Below is MY ADVICE

This woman you claimed to love and want to marry, have you asked and confirmed why she wants to marry you?

Is she really inlove with you?
Is she marrying you for love or for money?
Will a lady who loves you attempt such demand?
A lady threatening to call off your wedding if she doesn't get 500k from you should be a clear act to tell you what the future holds.
Be brave!
Think like a man!
Save the future!
Don't be blinded by boobs and ass!
Marriage should be a lifetime contract!

And if I ever hear I REALLY LOVE HER from your mouth again, eh!... If I hear it again!!, If i hear that nonsense again from your mouth!
undecided
You are so funny
You are right anyway,
But you made me laugh sooo
cheesy grin grin

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Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by Cruz889(m): 11:51pm On Feb 19, 2018
kepstone:
bro,.. DT lady dies not love u... dis same stuff happened to me and my so called fiance. she was giving threat and ultimatum. I just over looked it and went further to go on in the relationship. we even went to pastor for premarital counseling... both families are aware. but people in my trying times my girl who claim to love me left me and decided to end d relationship, not knowing she was seeing another guy. pls save ur life and save ur money she loves ur money and not u... well I feel hurt and pained but I have moved on and karma will visit her painfully.
z like u ve not moved on bro cos if u ve u won't be holding on to karma

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Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by americanson: 11:53pm On Feb 19, 2018
bidv:
Nairalander I bring greetings from the other side,

I have this lady I'm currently in relationship with for 2 years now, early last year I proposed to her and she said "YES" following that I introduced her to my family and the both families got to know each other, December we Did a mini introduction (Knocking at the door), my plans is for us to get married this April. My overall budget is 2M for everything (I don't want to spend too much for wedding). Now the problem is, my fiancée is asking for 500K to buy her personal needs for the wedding that's excluding her family lists. She said without the 500K she's not interested in the wedding. I believe she's asking because she knows I have it. I really love her and I don't want to loose her, should I give her or I should let go? Please I need a good advice of what to do.

Dude, never trade emotions in place of logic, else you will regret it. A woman who tells me that will be kicked out of my life that instant she made those comments. You don't give conditions on very delicate issue and time as this. She is threatening you when you are not yet married. what will happen when u finally marry her.

That right there means she does not love you but money...

better leave whatever you do now and read this

https://www.nairaland.com/4354101/married-stranger-caught-wife-boss

before you make same mistake as the OP in the link above.
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by sexdoll: 11:56pm On Feb 19, 2018
It's better you lose her now.

Than you later lose her to another man or men who have 500K...

A woman you claim to love is threatening you and yet you cannot see it probably because you're still blinded by love... stupid love, that is...

Look.

The earlier you start practising let go, the better for you.

The girl must have sensed you cannot let her go and so she is taking the advantage to be making unholistic demands.

Man up now!

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Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by sweetilicious(f): 11:57pm On Feb 19, 2018
donstan18:
This one you are typing 500k and 2 million up and down, how are we sure you are not owning MTN and GLO!

Below is MY ADVICE

This woman you claimed to love and want to marry, have you asked and confirmed why she wants to marry you?

Is she really inlove with you?
Is she marrying you for love or for money?
Will a lady who loves you attempt such demand?
A lady threatening to call off your wedding if she doesn't get 500k from you should be a clear act to tell you what the future holds.
Be brave!
Think like a man!
Save the future!
Don't be blinded by boobs and ass!
Marriage should be a lifetime contract!

And if I ever hear I REALLY LOVE HER from your mouth again, eh!... If I hear it again!!, If i hear that nonsense again from your mouth!
undecided
Exactly.I hate it when the only thing a guy wants from me is boob and ass.Like am worthless.Not even to learn from or better conversation.I think its degrading.Act for guys 24 and below.
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by Nobody: 11:57pm On Feb 19, 2018
Rigel95:
Never ever ever beg nor give in to threats and blackmail just to keep a relationship alive, you will eventually become miserable in it...

He should ask ubi Franklin
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by Nobody: 11:57pm On Feb 19, 2018
500k or she calls off the wedding Am i reading this?

Anyway you pay she is a hoe or if she changes her mind to stick with you then she is a wifey.
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by fortunechy(m): 11:58pm On Feb 19, 2018
u don't need a prophet to tell that she is not ur wife........ u should go n give thanks giving for this revelation.
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by franchasng: 12:01am On Feb 20, 2018
hokafor:
To do what with the 500k? If her reasons are convincing then give her the money, you said you are rich what is 500k to give to your fiance for her personal expenses
its not about being rich bro. I have like 3 rich close friends who are below 37yrs and guess what 3 of them married in the last 3 years and are now divorced. One even divorced 6 months after the wedding which i was the bestman cheesy


Reason for divorce They married gold diggers in the form of fiances whose characters later manifested after wedding.

The richer a guy is, the more careful he should be with who he marries unless its your very old time girlfriend who u knew while broke or sth.

Many ladies today are opportunists, and even after reading topics like this, dont wont change but will laugh or get pissed.

If not for sake of kids future and religion, every rich guy should never marry, they should just find a way to have children and live their life free of any committed relationship with any female

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Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by jonero4(m): 12:02am On Feb 20, 2018
Annibel:
Like you said... YOU LOVE HER...
Biko just give her the money. issorite
c ur mouth like give her d money....
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by Ceasardgreat(m): 12:07am On Feb 20, 2018
This one that has started giving you army orders in the form of requests, how sure are you she won't request for your bank account when you get married?

Next she might request your brain who knows??
Re: My Fiancée Is Requesting For 500K Before She Can Accept My Wedding Proposal by jonero4(m): 12:07am On Feb 20, 2018
nancyv:

I bet your mom has never contributed anything to your life since u were born. So sorry about that.
e pain am

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