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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Dearlord(m): 9:00am On May 14, 2018
All is well
Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by ceejayluv(m): 9:02am On May 14, 2018
ednut1:
She never liked the guy. All this mumu women just wan trend to advertise market. Shior

Aptly Summarized.
Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:02am On May 14, 2018
Edge1:



God's time is the best and that might be when you are 45. It's all good though. Good luck.
Yes even 60 would be good.
Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Adesolomon2014(m): 9:04am On May 14, 2018
Foolish gals everywhere, so its a criteria for a man to know abi...Yeye dey smell. If you are really interested in his cooking, y not volunteer to teach him stylishly.
Overrated medical doctor my foot, dnt worry u will see one of ur sick patient to marry u.
Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Ellabae(f): 9:04am On May 14, 2018
shocked The girl can easily teach the man how to cook then. Sincerely i think she doesn't love the man. Cooking should not be one of criteria of choosing a man.
Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by tbliss22(m): 9:05am On May 14, 2018
I agree with the lady 100%

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Gegz(m): 9:08am On May 14, 2018
Personally, I find this desperation by our generation (both male and female) to TREND rather disturbing. Sister, you and a supposed suitor had a private conversation, why post it online? To get comments and likes? are we to endorse your actions or castigate the man for not knowing how to cook? Ma'am, pls keep the dirty linen between you and this man private. we don't need it for public consumption. Thank you

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by tbliss22(m): 9:08am On May 14, 2018
Hmmm, believe this at our own peril....
Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Edge1(m): 9:08am On May 14, 2018
AmazonTopaz:

Yes even 60 would be good.

Sounds like you've never had it easy on this aspect. But please don't be too rigid when they come through. You never can tell if he is the one. It doesn't always end well for most single ladies who are 40 and above, from my encounter.
Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Keleyors(m): 9:09am On May 14, 2018
She is looking for Chef Chima. Another Assurance things shocked shocked
Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by nairavsdollars(f): 9:10am On May 14, 2018
See her thick lips like condom mouth
Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:11am On May 14, 2018
Edge1:


Sounds like you've never had it easy on this aspect. But please don't be too rigid when they come through. You never can tell if he is the one. It doesn't always end well for most single ladies who are 40 and above, from my encounter.
Keyword your encounter not Topaz's encounter. cool

#BABY DADDY.

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by sonofthunder: 9:12am On May 14, 2018
can't she teach him how to cook... na wa oh.
Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Edge1(m): 9:13am On May 14, 2018
Gegz:
Personally, I find this desperation by our generation (both male and female) to TREND rather disturbing. Sister, you and a supposed suitor had a private conversation, why post it online? To get comments and likes? are we to endorse your actions or castigate the man for not knowing how to cook? Ma'am, pls keep the dirty linen between you and this man private. we don't need it for public consumption. Thank you

And that's exactly my point. My younger sister couldn't cook until she graduated from University because she spent most of her time in dometry and hostels where they cook for them. I was opportuned to teach her cos I was around then.
Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Adesolomon2014(m): 9:13am On May 14, 2018
Spygadgets19:
It is very necessary for A Man to know how to cook, what of cases like when your wife is sick or pregnant?
Spygadgets19:
It is very necessary for A Man to know how to cook, what of cases like when your wife is sick or pregnant?

And who said you cant teach him how to cook?
Rigel95:
I think the way some women reason these days is faulty. They expect to have their 'feminine roles' shared with men, but will get pissed if they are asked to pick up the bills, even for once.

Upside down thinking nani

AmazonTopaz:

Oh really undecided?
Well sorry to disappoint you and mikejj tongue.
I don't need a husband I just need kids and a baby daddy or sperm donor would do.
I am not going to Shiloh.If a husband doesn't come while I am in my youth I can have one in my 60's.I have better things to do with my life. cheesy
Life is too short to kill myself because of a husband cool Inner peace is priceless. wink
Alright, u will tell me when you turn sarah(refer to ur bible) plus i bet u are just a mere dreamer...keep ur hopes alive dear.
Archangel15:


You and her will be queuing in line at shiloh 2050

Not to talk of sleeping in the shrine for the gods to impregnate her as well as ur bride price wey go dn devalue.

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Sanchez01: 9:14am On May 14, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
grin


Well, she better find a man that can cook or marry a chef sha.. grin

She's juz looking for an excuse not to get married tongue
The man's mentality is dangerous. He believes he has no concerns with kitchen issues because he is a man, which is a red flag. Every rational man in this modern day would understand that helping out with home chores does not make you less of a man. That man might not be willing to compromise his crooked mentality for anything.
Ellabae:
shocked The girl can easily teach the man how to cook then. Sincerely i think she doesn't love the man. Cooking should not be one of criteria of choosing a man.
You cannot teach a man who believes cooking is solely a woman's job. You can't.

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Zi: 9:14am On May 14, 2018
I'm not happy with all of you shouting "teach him how to cook", wait I'm going to be calling you out one after the other.
emeijeh - stop threatening women with marriage, you may be pushing them to badly raised boys.
ednut
lefulefu - if he had 10million fine! They can pay to get things done!
unknownsolja- are you Dangote? If you are not, stoop down to your levels and learn to cook. Learn to help around the house. When you become Dangote, you can employ domestic help!

From my own experience, not every man wants to learn.
I don't know if the girl is a feminist or not, but some boys (turned men by age) have wasted all opportunities for them to learn how to cook. They simply don't wanna learn because they believe someone is being raised to serve them. Sometimes, it's sheer laziness.

Mothers taught them, they didn't learn. Sisters taught them, they didn't learn. Life (esp at NYSC) taught them, they didn't learn. And you think the girlfriend has the magic wand? undecided

Wait lemme upload pictures.
Pic 1: I wanted us to be doing a weekly cooking contest, that way, I can encourage him to cook more. Forwia!
Pic 2: After dragging and dragging for weeks, this is the food he brought out from the contest. undecided
Pic 3: Would have brought out our chats, but lemme just keeps things private.

Read my post above, this is the 21st century, where men and women work 8 - 5.
I work full time, cooking (or at least showing interest and helping out) is a MUST!T!

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by amstamon: 9:14am On May 14, 2018
AmazonTopaz:

You are actually the one mourning tongue
It is Topaz's life not yours.When guys like you need green card you can marry a 70 year old.
No need for you to be sad that some women don't need men cry.
You can tell that to Oprah Winfrey.
I just need a baby daddy. cool

Inner peace is priceless. kiss
I can be your baby daddy!! Actually that's what I need atm. I'm serious about this..
Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:15am On May 14, 2018
Adesolomon2014:


And who said you cant teach him how to cook?

Upside down thinking nani


Alright, u will tell me when you turn sarah(refer to ur bible) plus i bet u are just a mere dreamer...keep ur hopes alive dear.
Not to talk of sleeping in the shrine for the gods to impregnate her as well as ur bride price wey go dn devalue.
Mind your business I am not dreaming it is my reality not yours.

#BABY DADDY.
I wonder why you are so pained.

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Viking007(m): 9:15am On May 14, 2018
mikejj:
grin grin well well...she has a point doh...bcareful sha so u don't marry a man that will poison you..because every male child in your house knows how to cook..that's means u must marry man that can do d same abi....30 yrs Neva fall on you.

Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Nobody: 9:15am On May 14, 2018
Twoclans:


Good morning lefu

The guy said he is an engineer and the lady reminded him that she is a medical doctor. This one is beyond battles of the sexes. It's also battle of the professionals. lipsrsealed

gud morning my angelwink.. Hw u? Hmm battle of the professionalscheesy. Well she can always teach d guy how to cook ..afterall there are understanding men who can cook who sometimes get married to women who can't cook but they teach such ladies afterwardscheesy.

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:17am On May 14, 2018
Adesolomon2014:


And who said you cant teach him how to cook?

Upside down thinking nani


Alright, u will tell me when you turn sarah(refer to ur bible) plus i bet u are just a mere dreamer...keep ur hopes alive dear.
Not to talk of sleeping in the shrine for the gods to impregnate her as well as ur bride price wey go dn devalue.
Bride price devalue ke.
The future is bright I am not going to Shiloh.
Inner peace is priceless.

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Edge1(m): 9:17am On May 14, 2018
AmazonTopaz:

Keyword your encounter not Topaz's encounter. cool

#BABY DADDY.

...and there is no clause that says you shouldn't learn from others experience for you brace up incase you meet similar situations.

BTW, Try to socialize, so you could get more exposed. No hard feelings though.

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:17am On May 14, 2018
amstamon:

I can be your baby daddy!! Actually that's what I need atm. I'm serious about this..
Explain what you mean by ATM undecided

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by AZeD1(m): 9:18am On May 14, 2018
Too many people with poor comprehension skills.


The problem is not the cooking, it's the mentality (he's an Engineer, so cooking doesn't apply to him).

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:19am On May 14, 2018
Edge1:


...and there is no clause that says you shouldn't learn from others experience for you brace up incase you meet similar situations.

BTW, Try to socialize, so you could get more exposed. No hard feelings though.
I am the queen of socialization. cool

And no need the future is bright cheesy wink.

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Gegz(m): 9:19am On May 14, 2018
Edge1:


And that's exactly my point. My younger sister couldn't cook until she graduated from University because she spent most of her time in dometry and hostels where they cook for them. I was opportuned to teach her cos I was around then.

I just find posting this online uncalled for. You don't want to marry, say it to Him and don't make it a public knowledge. if you want to advice him on cooking, do that privately also. For me bros, this desperation to TREND online at the slightest issue is becoming annoying.

Big ups on teaching your sis how to cook, I admire that Sir

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by san316(m): 9:19am On May 14, 2018
This girl is an animal. She does not like the guy and was trying to mess with him.

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by Edge1(m): 9:20am On May 14, 2018
AmazonTopaz:

Bride price devalue ke.
The future is bright I am not going to Shiloh.
Inner peace is priceless.

Your comments are pointing towards one directions. I seriously don't want to believe you've been hurt emotionally.

If that was the case, pls gear up and give it another trial. It's not the end of the world. wink cheesy

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:22am On May 14, 2018
Edge1:


Your comments are pointing towards one directions. I seriously don't want to believe you've been hurt emotionally.

If that was the case, pls gear up and give it another trial. It's not the end of the world. wink cheesy
No the Amazon queen doesn't get hurt cool
She is the one doing the hurting and advising them to take heart cheesy.
It is actually the beginning of the world if you ask me. cool

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Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by aribisala0(m): 9:23am On May 14, 2018
In any household where there is an adult woman SHE should be responsible for cooking. A man can cook if he wants butt it is the woman's responsibility to cook especially for her children.
I know of men who are chefs and they do not cook at home

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