meobizy:

Why do women always ask men questions they already know the answer to?
I believe NGOs should exist to educate girls from the class of SS 1 and SS 2 on this simple knowledge. Any girl willing to make me spend should know beforehand the consequence(s) to avoid future stories that touch.

MRSoftapples:
How much is a polo or a t shirt in the market?

Not okirika o,,, even some polo sells for 10k and above..
Even before i stopped playing bet9ja visual,, we gamble not less than 6,000 naira in 3 hours,, its even small for some guys i know..
To us its an addiction before we were saved from it..

All i'm saying is that, the lady is wrong,, maybe it's the kind of guys she mingles with..
But six thousand naira on a random lady without demanding for sex is no big deal..

pocohantas:


Your second post nailed it. It depends on the kinda guys she rolls with, or/and the kind of girl she is.

When I was younger, I said things like "all guys want is sex", maybe because the circle of guys around me then were mostly a particular age group (early - mid'twenties) and of some class. Those ones on rampage to test their manhoods. Thinking life is about as fine boy, beard gang and big dick. But as I got older, my circle changed. While I know these type of guys still exist... I have no business with them.

It is however advisable to eat modestly on dates.
It is a date, not the Last Supper.

MRSoftapples:
Bros,, so you mean you can't give or spend 6k on a lady without demanding for sex from her?

Haba bros,, I'm not saying I'm rich o,, but as broke as i am,, 6k is nothing, i mean absolutely nothing if you are a real man..

edimolu:
Some niccurs be acting so stupid...."real men my left butt"..

The lady is right, i for one can't spend that amount on you without demanding for sex..

if i needed to be charitable, orphans need it far more!!!

IamZod:

Jah bless you for this.
If it's not my mum or sister. I am not giving a dime.

Earthbound:


Add making money and planned future to that and you'll find out we're basically the same regardless of age group.


Unless you're probably 55±

TimFisher2:


Is not true!

if you worth it,why not?

I can spend my world to a woman of virtue!

pocohantas:


There are definitely exceptions, but majority start having sense in their late 20s . I am 34

trapQ:
You can't educate people who are utterly senseless. I have been to classy restaurants with white guys who were not even asking me to date them. All the time they spent well over $100 on the food and they never demanded sex from me. They'd still end up driving me home.

Nigerian mentality is such a curse.

Earthbound:
Truth is, the Naira is worthless and inflation is an outright bitch. Otherwise we wouldn't be having this useless conversation. What's there in ice cream and pizza?

EsotericMonk:

Any guy who spends on a lady with the motive of having sex is still a learner and needs to up his game.
But aunty TrapQueen, why would any lady allow a random guy spend $100 on her just for meals? It leaves more questions than answers about her orientation and her ability to draw a line in courtesy.
A 3 course meal for 2 (includind wine) at a mid range restaurant in NY/London wouldnt cost more than $80, except you wantu tell us that they took you to Italian restaurants at the expat neighborhood, ehen, we can reason that one. Even if I wan chop quality Italian meals like craze, I hardly exceed £30
Even companies have a bar on the value of gifts (Which most times is below $50) employees can accept in the course of work.
Bottom line, there is just a thin line.

C4Ltd:
both sexes having sense now

how can you eat over 6k in a sitting with impunity from the guy that is not your father

modified**

I never implied non of what you just said. Read again; it's the girl who should have a sense jor.

Cut down on this "real man" talk ok? it's why we have more Widows these days.

Remember the story of the girl who ate and ate and ordered takeaways for her friends?

anyway a real man has no reason to prove he's a real man unless he loves sex so much as to put it on his status

donbachi:
what were you thinking,when you left your house.dressed to kill and to impress.entered a car,got there and you gave him a hug accompanied with a sexy smile.sat down and placed your order...and you were in the mood while eating all you mentioned...my sister,if you can open your mouth,and eat all you've mentioned...you should be able to open that place.to enable him eat his own share from the main source.

MRSoftapples:
Lol yeah i understand your point but any confirm guy won't complain of 6k if spent on a lady without demanding for sex..

pocohantas:


You can say that again. Trying to fit everyone into a box.

oyb:
Poverty is a mofo. See as people are carrying 6k on their heads.

ericsmith:




let us hear word jere !! 6k is nothing naa guys like you ur male friends go ask of 1k ,,you will that lecturing how buhari spoilt nigeria.

ladyF:
Lol... But it's not about the money they spend na. Even guys that haven't spent one kobo will be using style to steal kiss.

itsCornie:


What an intriguing siggy you have there

trapQ:
You can't educate people who are utterly senseless. I have been to classy restaurants with white guys who were not even asking me to date them. All the time they spent well over $100 on the food and they never demanded sex from me. They'd still end up driving me home.

Nigerian mentality is such a curse.

trapQ:
Uncle........

Bottom line, I am not a glutton and never went on dates for food. The guys there were just too persuasive and it's not my fault I was taken to choice restaurants.

EsotericMonk:

Ok mummy.

pocohantas:


Your second post nailed it. It depends on the kinda guys she rolls with, or/and the kind of girl she is.

When I was younger, I said things like "all guys want is sex", maybe because the circle of guys around me then were mostly a particular age group (early - mid'twenties) and of some class. Those ones on rampage to test their manhoods. Thinking life is about fine boy, beard gang and big dick. But as I got older, my circle changed. While I know these type of guys still exist... I have no business with them.

It is however advisable to eat modestly on dates.
It is a date, not the Last Supper.

Hanseel1:



“On rampage to test their manhoods”. Funniest shït I've read on nairaland this week.

They're on rampage to test their manhoods on who? spirits?
If young boys that age are actually on rampage to test their manhoods then what will you say about the females who they test the manhoods on?

The females of that age are on rampage to test how good their vaginas are at receiving manhoods. . I've seen 30+ many who can't stay a week or days without sex but I'm not sure if there are young boys between 14-mid 21 who can't stay without sex in a week or days.