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Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by folake4u(f): 6:31pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
luminouz: Do you know me before |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by folake4u(f): 6:33pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by luminouz(m): 6:41pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
folake4u:Very very well...we have even chatted for sometime,till I realised u just don't know what u want ..n I left u ALONE!!! |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by folake4u(f): 6:45pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
luminouz: . Are you serious? Your name rings a bell though but I don't know if we've ever chatted. What do you think I want since you know me so well? |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Daeylar(f): 7:03pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
yes this is how you handle these kind of girls. playing with their minds, emotions and feelings, using them for fun, instead of just acting like a decent human being, respecting her opinion and walking away, instead you want to toy with her feelings, manipulate her and treat her like trash and what is her offence? she dared to day she wasn't emotionally ready for a relationship, just because when a girl says she isn't ready for a relationship you think it is acceptable to prey on her and use her for fun. disgusting later I'm sure if one girl says men are trash you'll jump out and say not all men, nonsense. I hope there aren't still girls falling for this manipulative nonsense? please, ladies if you have a guy that wants to try this rubbish on you, cut the MF off and pretend like he never existed.(even if they come back begging, or start harassing you, na their way, ignore like they don't exist. ) then move on to look for better men to give your time to. don't waste your time on manipulative fuxkboys like this one below. IBBG: 1 Like |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by IBBG(m): 7:18pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Daeylar:lol. why are you crying more than the berieved. so it is only guys that is good to be friendzone and be recieving the short end of the stick. When the same is being dished out to girls, you cry fowl play. For your information most guys became what you claim "fuxtboys", because when they were the good, nice guys, full of emotion and love for the girl they were crushing on, how did the girl repay them? instead the girls repayed them by calling them weak, boring, no swags, not fun to be with and taking them for granted. At the same time falling head and shoulders, drooling for the so called "fuxtboys". Since birds have learnt to fly without perching, the hunters have decided to learn how to shoot without missing. Morever what the girl the op is talking about is looking for is what you termed "fuxtboy". She doesn't want to be hooked, she wants to be free and have fun. So who falls into this category? your guess is as good as mine. So it is simple, the guy can decide to give her what she wants or cut her off completely based on what he wants. There is nothing wrong in what the girl wants, and there is nothing wrong in what the guy wants. The only difference is trying to reach a middle ground between the both of them based on their expectations. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by luminouz(m): 7:38pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
folake4u:We chatted wella! What I think u want U need time to get matured babe.....ur thoughts are all over the place...u fear closeness or proximity...u avoid WhatsApp chats n all men seem not cool as far as ur concerned....u seem brilliant but undecided when it comes to some issues...u have some lofty future ideas dou but u lacked practical/pragmatic approach to solve these ideas...so they seem more like wishes than goals/visions... Bottomline... U don't know what u really want..at least then....not sure about now... Only one thing can sort u out.... MOTHER TIME... Once u mature,the murkiness in u will disappear. All the best babe.. Luminouz OUT!! |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by luminouz(m): 7:41pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Daeylar:U seem cold-blooded these days....is it the weather or u just going through a tough/rough patch 1 Like |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by trumpcoat(m): 7:44pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
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Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by IBBG(m): 7:53pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
luminouz:Lol. To her only guys deserve the short end of the stick, or should be on the recieving end of things. When the reverse is the case men are now trash. meanwhile the girl the op is talking about doesn't want to be hooked. her reasons being she wants to be free, and she wants to fun. What does that say about the kind of guys she really wants to roll with? your guess is as good as mine. From all indication the girl has made it subtly clear the kind relationship she is likely open to, is either the op shape up, notice it and give it to her or simply walk away and look for someone else based on what he wants as well. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Gudwork(m): 8:02pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Don't waste your time She's a slut....[/quote] I tire for dat OP oh! |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by folake4u(f): 8:05pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
luminouz: Wow,I'm touched . Lol I do not fear closeness or proximity, that's so unlike me. Thank God you said then and not now, people change everyday and so you cant use the past to judge me. Please mention me in the thread we once interacted. Bottom line: You know nothing about me,not even half . |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by TOMSY(f): 8:07pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
sacramento1212:OP. Please follow this man's advice, and you'll win in two ways. One, when you don't have time for her anymore, shell be the one fighting for your attention. Two, your grades will not suffer. Remember you have a primary objective in school, and it must ALWAYS come first in any decision you make. God bless you. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Daeylar(f): 8:11pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
IBBG: my advice to this guy has been to walk away from this girl. nope. I don't support mistreatment of both, which is far more than can be said for you. those girls you're talking about who treated you badly, face those girls. those girls who offended you. face them and them alone. don't make innocent girls suffer for someone else sins, because you're here complaining about girls using boys, but some how you think it is acceptable for men to use ladies. At the same time falling head and shoulders, drooling for the so called "fuxtboys". Since birds have learnt to fly without perching, the hunters have decided to learn how to shoot without missing. Morever what the girl the op is talking about is looking for is what you termed "fuxtboy". She doesn't want to be hooked, she wants to be free and have fun.she is not emotionally ready does not translate to she wants to be manipulated and treated like trash, how are the 2 even equal to you?
and I ask again, how does a girl saying she isn't emotionally ready for a relationship mean she wants to be manipulated and mistreated. what happened to walking away and acting like a decent human being? There is nothing wrong in what the girl wants, and there is nothing wrong in what the guy wants. The only difference is trying to reach a middle ground between the both of them based on their expectations.the middle ground is not manipulation and sick games. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by luminouz(m): 8:14pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
folake4u: *Shrugs* Bottomline: Ur life,ur thought and ur story....write it anyway u want.... Bye |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by folake4u(f): 8:18pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
luminouz: Bottomline: Stop visiting ashewo thread . |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Nobody: 8:22pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Timekeeper:I hope you'll also limit your freedom? You're not married to her yet you want to start setting rules, what would happen if you eventually get married to her? turn into a tyrant? Why do I have a feeling that most of you guys on this forum are coded misogynists? |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by IBBG(m): 8:33pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Daeylar:i' m not sure you carefully read through what the op posted. The girl said her reason for not being emotional ready is that she wants to be free, to have fun, and she has many male friends. What does that say about what the girl wants. it simply means i want us to just be friends and feel free to hangout without attachments. And i'm also free to hang out with other guys and i don't want you to feel ackward about that because hey! i told you from the onset i'm not ready for a committed relationship or to be your girl friend. The girls excuse is open to different interpretations. One of which is friends with benefits with both of us not dating so that you will not feel entitled. The benefits could be anything ranging from money, sex, company, attention etc. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by tical(m): 8:39pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Timekeeper:this is what we call trouble dey sleep yanga wake am.. bros don't get your life complicated. Just walk away silently o. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Fitz22(f): 9:32pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
There is no help, she is not ready. It's simple and clear enough. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Joe4real1988(m): 10:05pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
She jst want to be jumping from one dick to another without any disturbance. Jst let dat bitch go nd kill dat feeling of urs ok |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Timekeeper: 10:11pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Hanseel1: Carry yourself and your useless feelings comot jare... Mumu, where did I say I set rules? If u don't have sumtin better to say, just keep shut..... 2 Likes |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Nobody: 10:15pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Timekeeper: Kid. See his senseless status. Such a slowpoke. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Timekeeper: 10:20pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
TOMSY: Thanks sir |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Timekeeper: 10:21pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Hanseel1:E good as he pain you now... Oponu |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Timekeeper: 10:22pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Hanseel1:E good as he pain you now... Oponu |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by egbabiekperemo1: 10:47pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Timekeeper: Let her go. Dont ever waste your time on any woman who is emotionally not interested or ready for u. There are many fishes in d ocean. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by DonEvarest(m): 10:49pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
IBBG:Please can I get your whasapp digits or your Email address... I need discuss something with you.. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by IBBG(m): 10:59pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
DonEvarest:ibibong@gmail.com |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by mansoura(f): 12:30am On Sep 08, 2018 |
She isn't ready |
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