sanmtiago
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do not be polite about turning girls DOWN!


BE AS RUDE & LOUD AS POSSIBLE


ask yourself;
how do ladies turn men down??


if you are polite, they will turn the story around & say you were the one chasing!!
remember Joseph in The Bible?


i ignore completely or physically make her know i do not like or want ANYTHING To do with her or her company.


keep a very straight face when she is around and do not laugh at her jokes. Use your phone to feign busy.


LADIES NA DEM DEY CHASE PASS
but men do not talk
and that is why the whole world is rolling on its side with the WRONG idea.


Cleopathra SEDUCED the pharoahs not the other way...


i am glad you came out with this!
i am so tired of ladies chasing and claiming it is men that do any & every thing to get ladies..


Mtchewww!
Shawn Dem!

Na wa o.

gi am belle jare.

As I'm typing this message, one dey lie naked beside me with my polo round-neck on - no panties thinking i'll make a move - but aunty no know she don Jonz on this one tonight; the only move I'll make this night is to feign sickness when it's 2am dot. Back to the issue at hand, Don't ever for once be strict with them on the subject matter and don't be soft as well; those babes dey always get their day wey dem dey dey useful when you'd least expected it. ere ni won fi omo ayo shey (na play play dem dey use omo ayo do)... Maintain your stance but keep avoiding them subtly - no special skill or advice required

To me you don't have a problem...tell them you are hiv positive ....all try steal their part , they will all run away...

sanmtiago:
Sorry my write up may be lengthy but I'll try as much as possible to be concise

I don't usually see myself as a ladies man cause i'm just a simple person who likes it low key but ladies keep coming around. Of course I like women but I'm not the type who has that excessive impulse to have a woman around me for sex and all that romantic ish. I do have sex when I want to cause I have a girlfriend and I'm loyal to her also. I'm not loyal to her because I love her so much i think I'm loyal because I technically have this inherent self discipline so I hardly chase women. I've dated my girl friend for 2yrs and I've never cheated on her even when I've a deluge of girls flocking around me.

I'm a final year student in my mid twenties and my girl in her early twenties. I don't cohabit cause it doesn't appeal to me so all she does is visit and spend the weekend at my house at times.

Now down to the subject matter I make friends irrespective of their sex but the thing is most of the females I make friends with always want to take the friendship further, they visit me at late hours at times 8pm, 9pm and they stay beyond 10pm and once it's after 10 they begin to give frivolous excuses like, I don't think it'd be safe going home alone by this time of the night or they say they've locked my hostel gate so I literally have no choice than to let them pass the night.

The shocking thing is they begin to make romantic demands like 'can you pls cuddle me I'm cold' I find it so disrespectful cause they know full well I have a girlfriend and I'm not that kind of guy they think I'm.

It happens too often and I'm no longer comfortable with it at this same time I don't want to lose friends as they're nice people. Even as much as my girl knows my level of honesty and discipline she still nervous breakdown because of the inordinate amount of calls from this so called Jezebels.

Please how do I curb this without losing friends cause like I said earlier they're nice and to some extent they've been helpful.

Truth be told, stop deceiving yourself

You are a casanova whetheyou accept it or not

Stop flaunting yourself before ladies, they will deal with you in the long run

Stop paying attention to them abs stop giving audience to them

If you continue this way, you will break hearts and that will affect you

Stop having time for ladies their is no benefit than them clustering around you, you are not honey and they are not bees

Be discipline and focus

sanmtiago:
Sorry my write up may be lengthy but I'll try as much as possible to be concise

I don't usually see myself as a ladies man cause i'm just a simple person who likes it low key but ladies keep coming around. Of course I like women but I'm not the type who has that excessive impulse to have a woman around me for sex and all that romantic ish. I do have sex when I want to cause I have a girlfriend and I'm loyal to her also. I'm not loyal to her because I love her so much i think I'm loyal because I technically have this inherent self discipline so I hardly chase women. I've dated my girl friend for 2yrs and I've never cheated on her even when I've a deluge of girls flocking around me.

I'm a final year student in my mid twenties and my girl in her early twenties. I don't cohabit cause it doesn't appeal to me so all she does is visit and spend the weekend at my house at times.

Now down to the subject matter I make friends irrespective of their sex but the thing is most of the females I make friends with always want to take the friendship further, they visit me at late hours at times 8pm, 9pm and they stay beyond 10pm and once it's after 10 they begin to give frivolous excuses like, I don't think it'd be safe going home alone by this time of the night or they say they've locked my hostel gate so I literally have no choice than to let them pass the night.

The shocking thing is they begin to make romantic demands like 'can you pls cuddle me I'm cold' I find it so disrespectful cause they know full well I have a girlfriend and I'm not that kind of guy they think I'm.

It happens too often and I'm no longer comfortable with it at this same time I don't want to lose friends as they're nice people. Even as much as my girl knows my level of honesty and discipline she still nervous breakdown because of the inordinate amount of calls from this so called Jezebels.

Please how do I curb this without losing friends cause like I said earlier they're nice and to some extent they've been helpful.

It's a stage that will soon pass and a day will come when you will wish you can go back to those days.lol!

I can relate..but mine was worse cos they threaten to even rape me many times but I just dey do Jesus boy...

freshboi88:
I dnt understand, y is no one asking the right question. Y will u carry ladies to ur house u dnt want intimacy wiv knowing fully well u have a gf.

If u dnt want intimacy meet wiv these ladies in public and stop disturbing us here

they already know my place

Op stole my thread. I'm going to sue you. I have been looking for Ideal time to open a thread with this topic,it is shocking to logging to nairaland by this time and I realised I have been overtaken.
In my own situation,I think I'm losing myself them. I seriously need a help because It has affected my spiritual life so bad.

sanmtiago:
Sorry my write up may be lengthy but I'll try as much as possible to be concise

I don't usually see myself as a ladies man cause i'm just a simple person who likes it low key but ladies keep coming around. Of course I like women but I'm not the type who has that excessive impulse to have a woman around me for sex and all that romantic ish. I do have sex when I want to cause I have a girlfriend and I'm loyal to her also. I'm not loyal to her because I love her so much i think I'm loyal because I technically have this inherent self discipline so I hardly chase women. I've dated my girl friend for 2yrs and I've never cheated on her even when I've a deluge of girls flocking around me.

I'm a final year student in my mid twenties and my girl in her early twenties. I don't cohabit cause it doesn't appeal to me so all she does is visit and spend the weekend at my house at times.

Now down to the subject matter I make friends irrespective of their sex but the thing is most of the females I make friends with always want to take the friendship further, they visit me at late hours at times 8pm, 9pm and they stay beyond 10pm and once it's after 10 they begin to give frivolous excuses like, I don't think it'd be safe going home alone by this time of the night or they say they've locked my hostel gate so I literally have no choice than to let them pass the night.

The shocking thing is they begin to make romantic demands like 'can you pls cuddle me I'm cold' I find it so disrespectful cause they know full well I have a girlfriend and I'm not that kind of guy they think I'm.

It happens too often and I'm no longer comfortable with it at this same time I don't want to lose friends as they're nice people. Even as much as my girl knows my level of honesty and discipline she still nervous breakdown because of the inordinate amount of calls from this so called Jezebels.

Please how do I curb this without losing friends cause like I said earlier they're nice and to some extent they've been helpful.

Go and sleep, nymph

hopeforcharles:
Just make sure u keep resisting them till you get that usefulness they are to you and you leave, remember you will soon be out of school its not like its a life long issue

lol.... It is a life LONNNNGGGGG ISSUE


those girls are learners...
when he starts working and gets his place...
if he dears remain Polite and nice
he will suffer WORSE!


next thing will be BABY MAMA fo him head!!!

Ray97:
same thing wif me . right from primary school till university ladies draw close to me.. there was a day i was traveling back home from school and i got to chat with a lady seating beside me. the way we wer communicating felt as if we've known each other for years.. long story short she invited me to visit her place... this is someone i just met in the bus..... anything i do or say how ever odd it may be seems to attract ladies to me... although am very friendly i don't like drawing attention to myself so i try not to get too comfortable wif them... people who don't know me will think am a flirt because of the way ladies stick around. its not money( who dash me), its not sex. they just love being around in fact if i was a monster or a randy person, i would have slept with lots of women.... back in sec school seniors would always put me in their black book. they didn't understand how i do it, talk and flow with their mates and seniors freely like i was using magic.... now i cant keep a girlfriend because they ones I've loved genuinely felt insecure because of the way they see ladies around. they don't believe i can date only them when a finer, richer or smarter person is around the corner. they just prefer being friends. am scared it'll affect me in future before or after i settle down......

Did you later funked that lady? I mean the one you met in the bus?

Macfortune:
Oga poster, how can they be nice and you still call them Jezebels?
Tell us the main story, this isn't what happened... Thanks.

I used Jezebel because they are kinda promiscuous. Some people like sex and they are equally people with good personality.

frozen70:


Truth be told, stop deceiving yourself

You are a casanova whetheyou accept it or not

Stop flaunting yourself before ladies, they will deal with you in the long run

Stop paying attention to them abs stop giving audience to them

If you continue this way, you will break hearts and that will affect you

Stop having time for ladies their is no benefit than them clustering around you, you are not honey and they are not bees

Be discipline and focus

Lol! from my experience way back in school I strongly disagree with you.

I was a confirm born again in school but girls no gree me rest.

Some will threaten to rape me and I stopped visiting girls hostel.

Two sisters even fought to have me but in all these I remained strong in my faith...but I no go lie these days I go just siddon come dey wonder whether nah mumu I be that time but it pays to be sexually decent.

JamaicanLove:





Go and sleep, nymph

ok non-nymph

sanmtiago:
ok non-nymph

Thank God you know

Macon1212:


Liar story for the gods.

okay boss

sanmtiago:
Sorry my write up may be lengthy but I'll try as much as possible to be concise

I don't usually see myself as a ladies man cause i'm just a simple person who likes it low key but ladies keep coming around. Of course I like women but I'm not the type who has that excessive impulse to have a woman around me for sex and all that romantic ish. I do have sex when I want to cause I have a girlfriend and I'm loyal to her also. I'm not loyal to her because I love her so much i think I'm loyal because I technically have this inherent self discipline so I hardly chase women. I've dated my girl friend for 2yrs and I've never cheated on her even when I've a deluge of girls flocking around me.

I'm a final year student in my mid twenties and my girl in her early twenties. I don't cohabit cause it doesn't appeal to me so all she does is visit and spend the weekend at my house at times.

Now down to the subject matter I make friends irrespective of their sex but the thing is most of the females I make friends with always want to take the friendship further, they visit me at late hours at times 8pm, 9pm and they stay beyond 10pm and once it's after 10 they begin to give frivolous excuses like, I don't think it'd be safe going home alone by this time of the night or they say they've locked my hostel gate so I literally have no choice than to let them pass the night.

The shocking thing is they begin to make romantic demands like 'can you pls cuddle me I'm cold' I find it so disrespectful cause they know full well I have a girlfriend and I'm not that kind of guy they think I'm.

It happens too often and I'm no longer comfortable with it at this same time I don't want to lose friends as they're nice people. Even as much as my girl knows my level of honesty and discipline she still nervous breakdown because of the inordinate amount of calls from this so called Jezebels.

Please how do I curb this without losing friends cause like I said earlier they're nice and to some extent they've been helpful.

OP you must really be sick o




Your previous thread was you talking about how you were Antisocial and couldn't talk to girls because of too much vocabulary but suddenly you have a deluge of girls around you.



Something dey smell

tunwumi:


You are spiritually blessed. I like to see your palm lines privAtely but set boundaries so you will not loose it all.

does palm line tell about being spiritually blessed??

sanmtiago:
i just hope it stops soon cause most em them can be so tempting at times

my man, you better start being rude to ladies,
or get ready to do your neighbours everywhere you go (including other people's baby mamas!!)


i used to be like you...

one even had to tell me "you just Mr. Nice guy"!


lol... Turned out she was dating another guy while i "thought" she was dating me!!!...and i was buying her stuff...Chai.. I mumu shaaa....


STOP being NICE to ladies..
if you need them to do something for you...be formal...NOT nice!


if they tag you "Mr. Nice Guy" ...sorry, will be your name very soon.


i repeat...IT IS WORSE AFTER SCHOOL!
in NYSC camp & everywhere else, Na so!

LordAdam16:


Well ladies in relationships, even those with conspicuous wedding rings, get hit on routinely.

So IMO you should just deal with it like virtually all attractive ladies do without raising dust. Turn them down and get on with your life.

That's the curse (or blessing, depending on who you ask) of being desirable.

-Lord

LORD ADAMS!!!
I deh miss ya for Sochi o!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This Op personality is damn scarce and ought to b cherished. Op u have my full respect if what u pasted there is d truth. Kindly get a good tactics on discharging the ladies respectfully.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This Op personality is damn scarce and ought to b cherished. Op u have my full respect if what u pasted there is d truth. Kindly get a good tactics on discharging the ladies respectfully.

From my experience, just act as if you are not aware of the sexual advances. Just carry on with your life. When they are tired, they will leave.

sanmtiago:
Sorry my write up may be lengthy but I'll try as much as possible to be concise

I don't usually see myself as a ladies man cause i'm just a simple person who likes it low key but ladies keep coming around. Of course I like women but I'm not the type who has that excessive impulse to have a woman around me for sex and all that romantic ish. I do have sex when I want to cause I have a girlfriend and I'm loyal to her also. I'm not loyal to her because I love her so much i think I'm loyal because I technically have this inherent self discipline so I hardly chase women. I've dated my girl friend for 2yrs and I've never cheated on her even when I've a deluge of girls flocking around me.

I'm a final year student in my mid twenties and my girl in her early twenties. I don't cohabit cause it doesn't appeal to me so all she does is visit and spend the weekend at my house at times.

Now down to the subject matter I make friends irrespective of their sex but the thing is most of the females I make friends with always want to take the friendship further, they visit me at late hours at times 8pm, 9pm and they stay beyond 10pm and once it's after 10 they begin to give frivolous excuses like, I don't think it'd be safe going home alone by this time of the night or they say they've locked my hostel gate so I literally have no choice than to let them pass the night.

The shocking thing is they begin to make romantic demands like 'can you pls cuddle me I'm cold' I find it so disrespectful cause they know full well I have a girlfriend and I'm not that kind of guy they think I'm.

It happens too often and I'm no longer comfortable with it at this same time I don't want to lose friends as they're nice people. Even as much as my girl knows my level of honesty and discipline she still nervous breakdown because of the inordinate amount of calls from this so called Jezebels.

Please how do I curb this without losing friends cause like I said earlier they're nice and to some extent they've been helpful.

You seem funny guy.... Cos that your older post you were busy asking us how to woo girls

hassan4:
Bleep them while you can YOU FOOL!!!!!

And who gave you the right to call a principled man a fool. That you can't keep you rotten dick in your pants make you wise? This guy prospers in life because he has less of woman wahala to worry about

OP my advice is, if they make advances at you 10 times, tell them NO 10 times with a smile on your face. Trust me they will respect you forever

RealityShot:
my man, you better start being rude to ladies,
or get ready to do your neighbours everywhere you go (including other people's baby mamas!!)


i used to be like you...

one even had to tell me "you just Mr. Nice guy"!


lol... Turned out she was dating another guy while i "thought" she was dating me!!!...and i was buying her stuff...Chai.. I mumu shaaa....


STOP being NICE to ladies..
if you need them to do something for you...be formal...NOT nice!


if they tag you "Mr. Nice Guy" ...sorry, will be your name very soon.


i repeat...IT IS WORSE AFTER SCHOOL!
in NYSC camp & everywhere else, Na so!

YOUR CASE IS DIFFERENT

emerged01:
Op stole my thread. I'm going to sue you. I have been looking for Ideal time to open a thread with this topic,it is shocking to logging to nairaland by this time and I realised I have been overtaken.
In my own situation,I think I'm losing myself them. I seriously need a help because It has affected my spiritual life so bad.

i can helo you.

delete all their ph numbers right now or block them.


if you know where you normally see them, avoid that place.


if they are your neighbours or class/work mates.
Do not greet any of them on monday!
if they ask, do not answer.


Yes, i am asking you to loose "Friends".
THERE IS NO FRIENDSHIP WITH OPPOSITE GENDER!


when you see them as friend, they are waiting for you to ask or give 'green light'.


when you WOO them, they do shakara even though they want it. But wooing makes the dislike you.


UNFRIEND ALL OF THEM NOW.
BE FORMAL NOT NICE WITH GIRLS.


DO NOT LET THEM INTO YOUR HOUSE!!!!!!!!! ? stop it or move away

Starkid3010:

You seem funny guy.... Cos that your older post you were busy asking us how to woo girls

lol probably seeking attention then

castro316:

YOUR CASE IS DIFFERENT

lol...


his in the early stages of my case.


if he doesn't do s i say NOW..he will have same problems i did.


i used to let them hangout at my house, even on gen, gist till 10pm...and walk them home...& some slept....chai..


it's all the same... This is just the beginning

The day you sleep with one, you'll have a timetable for them.

Coded casanova!

femi4:
Thank God, you didn't use "fully well". Tired of seeing that shit!

RealityShot:
lol...


his in the early stages of my case.


if he doesn't do s i say NOW..he will have same problems i did.


i used to let them hangout at my house, even on gen, gist till 10pm...and walk them home...& some slept....chai..


it's all the same... This is just the beginning

your aim is that you hope at some point they will give you punany. OPs case is that he doesn't want it at all so playing mr Nice guy ends up in frustration because you don't get the cookies las las