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Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Crazyblue:Greater force is technically divorce. |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Gazzy88(m): 6:52pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Do not bring your relationship affairs here. Most users are teens that are yet to step into the deep waters of marriage. So any suggestion given here is mostly from shakushaku/indomie pikins dem. Shalom 2 Likes |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Crazyblue: Giving what you get... Getting what you give... Equal forces rather than opposite forces. |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
na wao is she a warri girl? 1 Like |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by ashawopikin(m): 7:09pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
burggerx:na dis kine post dey vex me, are u a man at all, s she d only girl or are u suffering from low self esteem? U are just a weakling, dats why she doesn't respect u, man up and dump her! ...except u want to die young |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
eni4real: Damn it this is where people get it all wrong! Are you all equating submissiveness to respect? Respect is a duty you owe to everyone and disrespectfulness which includes verbal insults and more are not what Feminism is all about. On the other hand submissiveness for most feminist is a two way coin, they will submit to you as long as you do the same. But Just like some men over use power, some feminist too can get power drunk, but this no way mean a feminist is aggressive or rude or disrespectful. It's sickens me to see people just say bullshit about feminist because they have rude people around them. Look at Chimamanda, I don't think I've ever seen her even raise her voice. She just ask for us to love and treat each other with same respect |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by babyfaceafrica: 7:10pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Laeroy: maybe,but not everyone can survive that three years of hell ,HBP and stroke is real!!..so please pity gentle and nice men too 2 Likes |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 7:10pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
iRepNaija1:I never said I'm blameless. I have my own flaws too but certainly not rudeness, pomposity, arrogance or disrespecting her family during heated arguments |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Angelacruz: 7:10pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
She will not change.Sorry |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:11pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
uncle005: I have a feeling he is implying violence, I could be wrong though |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Originalsly: 7:12pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Marry her....she will change.... that I can guarantee you. For the better or worse I can't say for sure... but if I were a betting man.... I'll bet heavy on change for the worse. |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by TRIGITIS: 7:13pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Wow, hmm |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by ashawopikin(m): 7:15pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
dominique:end of discussion, oshey! 1 Like
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Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 7:18pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
newdawn2017:The reason why I even created this thread is because I'm beginning to suffer for the trauma. I'm becoming sad day by day compared to the way I used to be |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:23pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Crazyblue:The hallmark of Chimamanda is her intelligence not just her belief in feminism.. She was known for her stuff, feminism is just an icing on the cake.. But some ladies live for feminism.. Such ladies are more of misandrist.. Everything is a gender war to them... I don't expect such ladies to respect or submit to the man that paid their bride price!! 2 Likes |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Crazyblue:A stronger temperament, strong discipline and unyielding personality of a man that should tame a lady of such explosive personality OP don't have that.. He is a cool guy!!! |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by vickydevoka(m): 7:29pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
The only thing a fine gal respects is money. O. p do u have money? U might be a fine boy |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Drenix(m): 7:29pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
I had to leave one babe that I was Considering to take serious cause of disrespectful nature. She talks with no manners. We went out and an issue came up, wat I heard was that. If not dat I have ordered 4 some stuffs she would have left. Mehn day word shocked me. After d whole saga. We went out Separate ways. Weda she dey alive or not. I don't even.know. my dear see dis life I can come n kee my self cause of anybody o 2 Likes |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 7:30pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
eni4real:The truth is that I don't have explosive personality.. If I do, I would have been beaten her quite a few number of times considering the level she has frustrated me to The reason why I need to go in search of a lady who I can handle with my gentleman personality |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
burggerx:Never change your personality to accommodate a lady... Let her go.. She will meet her match.. You will meet your type too.. |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by MzTunechi(f): 7:42pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
eni4real:to a still water relationship |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:53pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Oh my God, I actually thought it was me who wrote this! This is the exact kind of relationship I am or was in...I don’t even know again sef. You just described the situation I’m currently in. |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Todaynews2020: 7:55pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
never |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by danot1030: 7:55pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
burggerx: Maybe she will change after many years but don't expect it early or absolute. 1 Like |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by ShegzyB: 7:57pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Person wey dem warn burn wey dey rob petrol for him own body...... Guy dont break up leave this girl.....dont bother running...FFLLEEEEEE.... Plenty people don talk but my broda..... i can tell you that nothing damages a man quicker with a lasting effect like the mouth of a disrespectful and unsubmissive wife. You will curse the day you were born. You will ask God what sin you committed to receive the punishment of a wife like this. Run when you still can. if you enter, pikin come enter.....dictionary no get enough words to explain MISERABLE..... RUN WHEN YOU STILL can.....there are tonnes of beauty+Brain+loyalty+respectful out the...... shun trophy wife 3 Likes |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
MzTunechi:You are very sure of your qualities.. Nice!! I don't understand the meaning of 'still water' tho |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Laeroy(f): 7:59pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica: You're right though... I'm just pleading on her behalf noni... COS as aggressive and temperamental that I could be, I'm not physically destructive, those people saying he could wake up dead someday are just lying, people like us are just too egoistic and will not settle for anything contrary....and like I said earlier, Childbirth re-birth me a bit and deep down in me, my husband is my ultimate hero, though he doesn't know this.... I can do not anything and as much die for him. Believe 1 Like |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by extremelygolden: 8:00pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
burggerx: Even Mama Churchhill would've warned him also, but he said "no mama, she'll change". Did she change? No, she only got worse. Gentleman, listen to your mother! 2 Likes |
Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by Laeroy(f): 8:07pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
eni4real: Except I do not understand English language again ooo, I am/was a perfect example of what he described.. And no his mother - in law is late, Also prior to our wedding, I wasn't visiting like every other girl will to his family members, I visited his family just once and that was it, although his siblings visited his own place and I wasn't too friendly, what I'm saying in essence is I was me before and after the wedding... I can't say so many things here about me, however I hope u do get the message that people like us also deserve a good chance at love.. My husband today is my hero ooo, a rare gem that I can give him my life but he sure doesn't know this..... 2 Likes |
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