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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by hero2000: 3:09pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
jaxxy: You are dear. This kind of love is rare but it is the real love. When a man sleep with you before marriage, he might still end up marrying you, but it can never be like if he never got there. After marriage, he can sleep with you as much as he wants. E go tire am sef. |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by mrksquare: 3:09pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Give him sex joor. A female friend who is happily married is regretting not having sex with her husband during courtship. Her husband has erectile dysfunction and could barely make out with her. And this problem is threatening the stability of their marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Gina2019:lol is that what u think?? |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by jamalkareem(m): 3:14pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Better chop something now before you marry oo,before you go say he is another Churchill |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by DJperdurabo: 3:15pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
pryme: Q.E.D Contact me for your business and personal loans. |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Babara1994(m): 3:16pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Gina2019:Is there any other thing a young lady can offer? |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Gina2019(f): 3:16pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
armylord:It's what I know. |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by IgweBUIKE1(m): 3:19pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
you re living in self denial |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Gina2019(f): 3:19pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Babara1994:Of course yes. 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Lufthansa: 3:19pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
and how you sure she is not getting it elsewhere from someone who probably pays her bill but not ready to marry her? @OP and @Gina, if I were the guy I will leave. The only circumstance for which I will marry OP with the clause she gives is if she is a VIRGIN. Anything short of that na to waka. Gina2019: 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Kudos to u for waiting to have sex til marriage.That's how God designed sex to be. For marriage only. Now even said that,u shouldn't have serious issues calling it off unless you choose to make it one since u are so independent and always held ur pants strong. I see no need for this post just like no need for the sex before marriage. What I see here is a Devastated guy. Who should be more upset with himself for not knowing/sticking to what he wants from the onset. Pls,help me advise Him(ur guy) to bail now while he has a chance coz nothing is gonna get any better in the future.The sex and puss is just overhyped...Unless he don't mind. 2 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by DJperdurabo: 3:20pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia: If you couldn't all this while find a reason to believe in the genuity of your man's professed affection for you hence resorting to using sex as a "retain him" strategy, then there's no need to even go ahead with the marriage or still be in a relationship with him. Why? Because if you know your man truly loves you, the issue of abstaining from sex as a strategy to keep him will not even come to your mind. Healthy relationships is more than sex! Contact me for your personal and business loans. |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by DJperdurabo: 3:22pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
IamCookie: Words On Marble. Contact me for your personal and business cash. 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Basher8583: 3:23pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Gina2019: By ensuring the cookie is clean, healthy and well groomed with no fish smell. Cookies can be a big turn-off even for a married man if not well taking care of. Plus she must be ready to rock the boat very well. Sexual compatibility is very key in this particular case. No man will continue with a woman who is uninteresting during sexual activity |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Gina2019:So much Hyping in one post...Why put so much pressure on Sex...U must have backward friends and mentality 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by MiVida(m): 3:26pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Didi2d: No two ways bro! |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by DanielGb(m): 3:26pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by hero2000: 3:27pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
nkemdi89: Using sex as a bargaining tool? Is that what you can read from her post? Bargaining tool for what? In this generation Anyone who wants to do the right thing is considered wrong. How sad. Lady doesn't want to have sex before marriage. She says so plainly. Which one is sex as bargaining tool. Marriage is a covenant. Only fools treat covenant as a common thing. If she wants to be careful, let her be. Hope she doesn't end up with someone with your mindset. What if the guy leaves her after eating her cookie? How would she look herself in the mirror? Used and dumped. What if the guy leaves BECAUSE she didn't allow him have her cookie? Dumped but NOT USED. 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by kharyhordhe(m): 3:27pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Gina2019:my gives me all the time and I no dey give an shishi |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by HARDDON: 3:27pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
vicdom: These types are like vipers bro. But the unfortunate guys marry them and they still run the house. Smh. a super case of someone who lives in a glass house yet go throwing stones.... |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 3:30pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Innobee99: U are mean! |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by DanielGb(m): 3:31pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia: We? Noo. It's more like you initiated the idea of "no sex" however, to keep him you offer cuddle and kiss. What do you now expect�. He will want to dick you. It's either you are ready to bear the consequence of choosing "no sex" by remaining single, or flow along. I am not sure both of you are virgin self. Most ladies using this strategy is a turn off. 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by DNSPro: 3:32pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Gina2019: Hypocrite 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by ojonugba2014(m): 3:33pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
GuestLog:regret kill you there. regret on what!? |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by IamCookie(f): 3:33pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
wisdomkid: You are the ignorant one sir/ma. She(op) gave an account of what transpired and thereby asked a question bothering her, and you expected everyone on this thread to give 'your kind of advice or response? If she is so sure and confident of the promise she made to herself , then why bothered and feeling regret of her actions? Smh 2 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Resurgent2016: 3:35pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
WIZGUY69: There are many places two people in a relationship can have an affectionate chat without locking themselves together in a room. 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by walexy06(m): 3:35pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Aside others compatibility we cared so much about, sexual compatibility is also very important. What makes you think you guys are compatible sexually if you stick to this decision? If you are a virgin n already close to getting married, quite alright he will understand. Dont make it sound like sex is what you only have to offer in the anticipated marriage, after all if sex is not everything, it doesn't worth what you should deny him of equally. Giving such condition is not cool if you are not a virgin. Sex Dont keep a man, the one that will stay will stay. Though it is obvious you are one of the ladies that believe once a guy go to bed with you, you are being used...but that s lame. Review the contract agreement..it is normal after certain period if u know his level of seriousness. #Peace 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Johnsghana(m): 3:36pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
ArticleBeast: If you read her post well, you will understand that she spelt the terms and conditions out for him before they started the relationship and he agreed. He can't change the rules of the game in the middle of the game without being expressly clear about what he wants. He should be honest enough to let her know his true intentions if he knows he can't abide to the agreed T&Cs. He should not use deceit and emotional seduction to get her to change her mind. He needs to be man enough to ask for what he wants. BTW, let us learn to stand for honesty and truth. |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by HBB1(m): 3:36pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Buy him a carton of vaseline! |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by staymore: 3:37pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
With or without sex that guy will not marry you because you think he is a fool and he knows. 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Gina2019(f): 3:38pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
DNSPro:How am I a hypocrite? 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by kerrysmart: 3:41pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
My dear if u don't eat draw soup don't take meat from it... The gods has spoken |
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