kandiikane:



I said goodnight joor!

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To better Africa and take it from the hands of these azzholes called leaders who are selling our resources to the west, eating the cash and paying less than £1 to those working their azzes off at the oil refineries, farms, mines etc. We need to leave the acts of barbarism, corruption, greed etc behind. Homosex.uality is not the problem. We have bigger fish to fry.

Be "forward thinking" and "enlightened." Think big. Those living abroad, Work, save, move back to Africa and help make a difference. Do not lose faith in your beloved continent like sagamite, who will live and die in the UK without leaving any legacy behind.

We have entered a new age and things have to change and are going to change!

So part of moving the continent or country forward is to legalize homosexuality?

Sagamite:

You are obviously not going to suppress the desire, but you can suppress the public act. That is the point.

If you go to Arab countries, you will not see people kissing their partners in public. The laws and culture supress it. So it is possible.

What makes it fail is when you have loose cultural protection and democracy. That is the correlation you would see with the failure of such.

Democracy means every person has a right to vote and their vote carries equal weight. That is bad because there are far more fucktards than people with a brain in every society and the more the culture is not being protected by law, the more the fucktards would beat their chest that they know something while being influenced by other mediums.

I was laughing my arsse off when I was reading this recently:

www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-20932705

Where impressionable fucktards like Kandi called themselves "forward thinking" because they admire a woman without any talent and only came into popularity because she had a sex tape. And the old people who object to her are conservative.

That is the mentality of the so-called "progressives" nowadays.

Lucy Harutiunyan, a 22-year-old public relations officer at Armenian and English newspaper Noyan Tapan, in Yerevan, agrees age has a bearing.

"People who have conservative opinions, which tends to be elders, will judge her. But people who are forward thinking are all proud of her.

"Girls see her as a fashion icon, guys think she's really hot. We love her because she is Armenian and she represents the nation," she says.

I was just laughing when I read that part, I swear. People have become MAD!

These bunch of liberal, funky, progressive wannabe ediots we have nowadays actual think they are the enlightened ones.

Ture that!!!!!! "Forward thinking" my foot. Just because you want to be current and progressive' in every sense of life, does not mean i should do away with my morals and embrace nonentities.

davidylan:

Ego for where? Its not like we are getting paid to endorse the dude. After all is said and done we all go to sleep and the thread is forgotten. Sometimes everything is not all about "ego".
Ego over what? another person's matter?

actually is ego over a fellow" blokos"!!!!! as long it is a blokos talking, Naija men would always have one or two ways to support the 'talking blokos".

^^^^^^^^True dat!!!!! time bombs will be much easier this days, since we do not know the future of gun yet so let the women be on guard. (meant for Nwandos' post above).

logica: She didn't start out to troll; that I can assure you. That's just the easy way out.

Shissh!!! be quiet!!!!! who is looking for any easy way out. everybody have their eye-balls, they can read whatever, which ever way...especially upside down, like some, new-mooners!!

davidylan:

So all of us except you have read the post upside down? Na wa o... pls borrow me your glasses abeg. It is certainly able to read minds.

when it is men that is reading the post,especially Nigerian men, do you expect anything different, apart from ego

dayokanu:

A friend was involved with one, They were arguing , she just said "See what I would do to you" ran to the home pphone dialled 911 and she started crying that the guy has almost killed her.

When police came she showed them the Omorogun (turning stick for Amala that he uses it to beat her.

After like 3 fights it was a Hispanic police officer that advised the guy to separate else the woman would land him in trouble.

After separation one day she called the guy 62 times back to back he didnt pick, Later the police called the guy that they received a report from Sharon that he was stalking her and the guy went to the police station to show his phone with 62 missed call from the woman. The police just told him to avoid her

As it is with the women, so it is with the men. Any other new thing for 2013?? I guess not.

logica: LMAO. It's OK. I knew you wouldn't get my post. It wasn't for you.

Say what? your logic is obviously confusing you yourself, i understand....it is all about "f00l moon"

davidylan:

I went there... the OP is talking one thing you are talking another.

Really?? you gat to be kidding me, you guys are reading the whole freaking post upside down, it is not me the full moon is obviously affecting...all you have to read is the first 2 lines of that post, leave the remaining badderdash!!!!!!! shish........

Does anyone have anything else to add or remove?? i guess not, it is full moon and many people will be changing to werewolf or we-re wolf soon.

logica: Jezuz save me! Why should Ronke ask on her (the wife) behalf why the man had wine in his fridge? That must mean Ronke is the psychotic woman in question. My logic is superb. Standing ovation please!

Story.story!!!!!! i won't be that crazy to stop my ex-hubby from visiting his kids, unless he has psychological problems.

davidylan:

the post says nothing about whether he is paying child support by force or by choice. It simply says he "mails child support". Is it a crime to mail child support now?

When you are giving money to your family willingly, i think is "monthly allowance", when it is not willingly nko "child support" you are supporting the chld because the court said so.

davidylan:

I am more than convinced you must be responding to a separate thread.

go back to page 14 and scroll down you would see Ileobatojo"s post, she has the original poster's quote in there, i do not have time to sift through the pages....

logica: Excuse you? You just proved beyond reasonable doubt that you are dyslexic. For your information, the OP (that be original poster for your sake) is NOT the man in question. Please ask Dayo to call you on the telephone and read the post to you.

You are suffering from the same disease, why should the poster ask on his behalf if he should fight for the kids?

Woged2005: But this has backfired, as her husband has refused to visit, see or even call the kids for the past 7 months. Rather he simply mails the child support. No amount of preaching has changed this man’s heart to call or even start visiting his kids. We don’t know if and when he will. Everyone is just shocked! Very sad!

Fellow Nairalanders is this man right in what he is doing just to avoid a confrontation or custody battle, or should he retain a lawyer too to fight for shared custody of the kids? The kids are in the middle. My interest? I am a God-mother to one of the girls…weeping!!

David, this is from the orginal post, hope you will see the child support part.

logica:

Excuse me, if you are not dyslexic or something, how does the quote below compare with what you said above?

I think you are the one not reading in- between the lines here. He had to ask the public first if he should fight for the custody of his children, when he has everything in his laps to fight the crazy woman he married with...who does that?? I have to ask and wonder if i should keep my children from someone who is suffering from mental disorders. Okwu!!!!!!

dayokanu:

Did you read that went the kids came to visit him the wife quickly went to report that he had Alcoholic wines in his fridge while the kids were around? Why would a woman report her ex has wine in the fridge if not to put him in Jail? So you want him to continue so the woman can accuse him of child molestation for hugging his daughters too tight?

Did you read that he bought the kids phone to contact him which the wife promptly destroyed?

You mean he hasnt tried enough and until he lands in jail before he actually tries

he did now. he tried by having alcohol in the fridge that he knows his wife will find, and also buying phones he clearly knows his wife would break. why he never fought to keep his kids still beats me.Hmmmmmmm!!!!!

dayokanu:

So how would he get into the kids life without getting into jail in the process?

Or going to jail is part of the deal?

Shebi is when he has tried to get into the kids life and failed, that we will see a possibility of jail terms here, he did not try at all....(as according to the poster) to the point that she had to ask him why he was not visiting his kids irrespective of the problems on ground.

little wonder he did not fight for the custody of the kids in the first place, because obviously the allegations were true. it was easier for him to dish out $1000.00 freely and be free of the burden of raising the kids you willingly and moaningly brought to the world.

logica: Once again, does sending $1000 a month as child support sound like "abandonment" to you? Spare me all that "blah blah" you wrote up there. Yes or no please. Once you answer, I will paint the true picture of "abandonment" for you. I hope you have an artistic mind.

We obviously know that his sending that money is only because the court asked him to and by law he has no choice or he will be visiting the prison wella. Even if he did not abandon his kids financially, and only because the law is involved, what of other aspects that make up the kids life; socially, academically, spiritually, emotionally and so on.

i thought the lady that posted this in the first place, said the man in question was not restrained from seeing his children, he chose to restrain himself. He is the "sane" spouse here, quiet, loving and understanding like he was portrayed, and yet he chose to have nothing to do with his own children because of the crazy woman he decided to walk down the aile with' with no-blind folds on him. Please say something else.

logica:

Paying $1000/month child support sounds like "abandonment" to you? Can YOU afford to pay anybody $1000 every month without you drinking garri without sugar for the rest of your life?

So to you, sending money to your children will make up for those little times you spend with your children? especially having the opportunity to watch them grow? the money will be the listening ears they will need when they have one complaint or the other? the money will take them to games and even a time to roll on the floor with your kids? the money will be the one to scold them when they are wrong? the money cannot take the position of either parent in the life of those children, so no matter the millions that was sent, it would be acknowledged by their mother only, all the kids want is their father and mother.