mascot87:


Guy, u funny die

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Yomieluv:
My girlfriends always call me a psycho..

I am indifferent to whatever attitude they put,I don't cram any one's phone number,incase she messes up,instant deletion,without any qualms..

I spent my time,and resources to look good,hardly have time for any dilly-dally with any babe.

Funniest thing,they can't just let me be..

Never treat her like a Celeb, else she will treat you like a Fan..

waagbayi

tranxo:
Pamper to develop, don't pamper to spoil.

dis on fp

I pamper once a while and she does too. If she vex me I dey tell her with red eyes and her head dey straight. No time.... A niggar with money will not give a damn about yall girls and still fvck ur puccy like rags and yall preaching pamper. Hypocrites. Hoes.

AfricanApple:
it can be disastrous. I hate when some is over pampering me, d irony of it all is u can't pamper me forever, so why start now

a true reasoning. very sincere

Hmm... Pamper, wait oooo...u guys meant diapers..... Stop pamperinq jor

Kachisbarbie:


Aii...Why exactly are you telling me, Sir?

there is no problem

BTFormular:
I pamper once a while and she does too. If she vex me I dey tell her with red eyes and her head dey straight. No time.... A niggar with money will not give a damn about yall girls and still fvck ur puccy like rags and yall preaching pamper. Hypocrites. Hoes.

Real men talking!

Pamper ko, Diaper ni. Useless thing be like "lol he's so cute" (after collecting all your life savings). Guys better shine your eyes no dey form borlor. Jasi before dem fall ur hand. Naija girls sharp DIE!!! As in PANA-SHARP!!!

Every lady needs to be pampered cause they all use pampers and if you don't pamper yo gal, anoda guy will use it as a means of intruding into ur relationship.

hadunihade:

Dem don get dis guy I swear

Lmao. Owo awon iya mi osoromoniga ti baa.

lebesgue:


Lmao. Owo awon iya mi osoromoniga ti baa.

won ti ro efo fun were lmaoooo

When you are in a relationship with the right person, you enjoy pampering him / her.

I do because he deserves it.

We shouldn't mistake being caring with pampering. For matured and well nurtured, being caring is what exist btw them because they never took themselves for granted, they reciprocate with each other. They cant decipher pampering. They do things in moderation and caution. Pampering on the other hand is found among fearful, gold-diggers, unlovable and immature in mind.

michaelbiz:


won ti ro efo fun were lmaoooo

Lmaooooooo

smaddly:
Do girls need so much pampering in relationships-isnt it disastrous?
why pamper them so much..is it dat we guys ar afraid of loosin them...we guys just need to limit that and be absolutely truthful with them>>tell them their flaws then proffer solutions>>hopefully they would change.

not all gals shud b pampered bcus sum of dm don't worth it @ all....

AfricanApple:
it can be disastrous. I hate when some is over pampering me, d irony of it all is u can't pamper me forever, so why start now

Mgbeke tins.What makes U think U can never be pampered forever?Chaaiii

MizMyColi:
Moderation is key, in everything.

Case in point, me.

I like to be pampered.
No sane lady doesn't.

However, some of us (ladies) are too controlling in that regard.
We expect the man to go out of his way for us, we expect him to know just what to say to us, how to and when to.
We really don't care about him, except he cares about us.
Ideally, it shouldn't be that way.

A man thinks differently from a woman, there are those times when he just can't bring himself to pamper and be all lovey dovey.
This is why it is dangerous for ladies to base their sense of self worth on people's validation.
Let all the validation you need come from within, not without.

That way, when the pampering becomes less or totally absent, you're able to carry on without loosing confidence in your man/relationship.

To both sides of the divide, I have this to say.

A healthy relationship is about so many + factors.
One major + factor is; Compromise, healthy compromise.

Do u normally develop this somewhere before typing it on here? Your talk is sleek. Marry me. Of course, if....

AfricanApple:
it can be disastrous. I hate when some is over pampering me, d irony of it all is u can't pamper me forever, so why start now

I can, just appreciate me and look out for my wellbeing...

xcelsia:
Lol

ifa hear say them pamper u. . .

3cycle:

You pampered your woman yet she left?
Hmmmm may be you were doing somethings wrongly.

Women are complicated creatures, most of them dont really know what they want.

If u love a woman so much she would complain u are stalking her....if u no love she go stil complain
If u pamper, problem...if u dont she will stil complain

If u are agile and outspoken..she go say u talk alot, if u dey quiet she go turn am to weakness

You can hardly satisfy them.
so pampering a woman is no guarantee that she wont leave when she wants to...infact it will even facilitate her leaving u

Yomieluv:
My girlfriends always call me a psycho..

I am indifferent to whatever attitude they put,I don't cram any one's phone number,incase she messes up,instant deletion,without any qualms..

I spent my time,and resources to look good,hardly have time for any dilly-dally with any babe.

Funniest thing,they can't just let me be..

Never treat her like a Celeb, else she will treat you like a Fan..

One bottle of Orijin for you

I am used to being pampered....it started with my father n infected all my family members. Notwithstanding I am not a spoilt brat as I got a healthy dose of scolding when need be, so I guess there should be some balance.
In a relationship, d girl would definitely love some pampering from her man but don't overdo it else it becomes an obsession n a turnoff. A lady should also offer to pamper her man sometimes. I do that for my man occasionally.....a massage or rub down, a surprise gift when there's no celebration, a candlelit dinner at my expense. I noticed that whenever I do any of these, d guy just trips n for d next few weeks, he is falling over himself to please me........d Queen of d manor gets royal treatment.... Loving is reciprocal
My humble submission

I don't pamper and I do like being pampered.
It irritates me when I see grown ups behaving like bunch of kids.
Every relationship is a potential marriage,I think the ideal thing is to start defining and understanding how we can accommodate and tolerate each other instead of the usual show that doesn't stand the test of time.

Life with the opposite sex is becoming too complex to be spent in pampering - Let's get down to business

laroux:
@op girls actually vary. If you're talking about Caucasians, Latinos and Asians then yes you should pamper them cos they know what love and relationships entails. They know what it means to live someone and they will make your life very easy and worth living. But on the other hand, their Nigerian counterparts are nothing but pile of faeces. Nigerian girls will make your life very miserable cos they are all hoes, ex prostitutes and potential prostitutes. All they know is free food, recharge cards, Brazilian hair, blackberry and the front sit of a man's car cos that's their life worth. While some of the sensible ones amongst these harlots are getting engagement and wedding rings, the others are busy getting recharge cards. Do yourself and don't try pampering a Nigerian girl. The only thing they understand is a good whopping. A very good beating if she goes out of line. If you pamper her she will see you as a fool. If you pamper her she will call you a weak man in the midst of her friends. But on the other hand, if you beat her whenever she misbehave, she will adore you. She will see you as a demigod and will worship the ground you walk.

abeg, one alomo for you

carlos1:


My situuation is same as urs and i thank God its abouut to end. At least i now know whom am dealing wif

It's the way to go bruh

braine:


That's the mistake many of us guys make.

I think we all make such mistakes men and women alike

I don't know if its natural but it happenes in almost every relationship where u do crazy things during d 'in love phase' but months later all those 24 hrs calls, excessive gifts and outings and all other pampering starts to decline and next tin u would hear, he doesn't love me anymore

Nwedy:
I like to be pampered but I don't have a pamperer

Omo u fine small na, afit b ur vampire? Oh sorry I min pamperer.

dokiOloye:

Mgbeke tins.What makes U think U can never be pampered forever?Chaaiii

just tell me how many pple u have seen in the world dat has been continuously pampered since the last forty years of their Union. wake up, we are talking reality. we all tend to get bored doing dsame thing all d time so I guess no one is to be blamed


and, next time you can do better without d insults else your points will be lost in it. I hate to trade jabs