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BigDawsNet:
I believe I have one Ex stalking and spying on me...

But she rarely get enough information because I cover my tracks...

The only Living Thing Stalking me around now is my Dog ....

I enter kitchen...she will follow me and lie down

I enter my room...she jump on bed

I enter sitting roomm..she jump on sofa to watch series with me

I enter toilet she stays at the door waiting for me to finish dropping my shiit


I think she maybe spying for the Russian government

Awww such a cute little dog, how sweet!

igbowoman:
Same feelings
If a man will not eat because he is angry at me,let him not eat.
I will pour away the food and wash the plates

Nne iwe na ewe kwa gi o, pour away the food kwa no chill at all

Bamzyriches451:
Damn
Ain't married yet but once I do, I can never reject food in my own roof, rather I'll pursue my wife from the kitchen after she has finished cooking and I'll lock the kitchen door till she beg me

Lmfaoooo hanhan bros petty much

Richie77:
Yes, but middle of the night, I gently woke up to warm the food, she woke up to help me.

Awwwn

TheGiftedOne:
No. I love food more than quarrel

youdonmeannit

Odiegwu oo.

Baba shey you dey whine us ni lol abeg×3

Another life cut short, so sad.

mrkings84:
Nice one. You know, some customers can be hard to tolerate.

Like how do you tolerate a buyer who comes to your shop, pick an item and you mention a price for her, and she starts bargaining, then you ask her to bring the amount she offered, only for her to tell you that she over offered, and start making another lower offer, and even when u ask her to bring her new offer, she will repeat the process again

No be to chase her out of your shop?

Anyway, seems there's a particular tribe that's good in doing this....

Sorry I laughed after creating the scenario in my head hahahaha I couldn't help it but seriously there are some people that have PhD in riling other people up and it's all sooo frustrating..

The OP is right though but honestly it takes a whole lot of patience, tolerance, understanding and a couple of other soft skills.

Chaiiiii jide obi gi nna, Ife nile ga emecha dimma.

Bluntguy:
With this you just supplied enough tissue papers to herdsmen.

Hahahaha this guyyy

Oniro alaidojuti ni e, OP

Ohh dear, this is a very serious issue esp having him around your kids Gosh! How exactly have you been dealing with this for 5yrs, I dunno but what I do know is that I would've lost my sanity esp when nobody seems to understand..

Even though (most) schools are resuming on the 13th which is a little less than a week now, I still think arrangements can be made for the boy to engage in something productive & rewarding like Kobojunkie suggested.. He may not be interested in construction, farming and all that but then there should be something he'll like, maybe y'all could call for a family meeting and talk extensively about this.. There should be a follow-up and then let him know that there are consequences for every action..

I feel that the fact that your husband doesn't seem all that bothered is what has made this so difficult and then your inlaws have been less concerned, it shouldn't be like that fgs.. Y'all need to take drastic actions before things spiral out of control.. Annddd yes ofcourse mariahAngel touched on the very important part, your kids should know about sex education, they're not too young and it's never too late.

InTheCloudySky:
Right. Akara is fun to make and not stressful at all, imo. I typically make mine like this:

~Soak beans overnight or even for a few hours (my blender's quite powerful that I don't need to soaking overnight)
~Rinse beans, then pulse for a few seconds in the blender (this is a quick way to remove the skin because it splits the beans!)
~Rinse out the skin (I may still have to use my hands for a few minutes when rinsing out the skin completely to my liking)
~Put beans back in blender and blend with peppers, onions, crayfish, other seasonings, salt
~Whisk the batter for a few minutes until it's airy and fluffy
~Add anything else I want to add (fish, meat, etc)
~Fry until golden brown.

This process takes me no more than 30- minutes. By then I've finished frying my first batch. The one hour they're waiting in line to buy akara, they would've finished making their own in half that time. Plus, if they're making theirs themselves they know what goes in it.

Absolutely dear..

For him, I can only imagine the stress of having to go grind the beans some place far from home(that can automatically kill the vibe lol).. Soaking the beans til the skin comes off could take a while though but then I think if it's done early maybe first thing after getting up from bed(delegate anybody that gets up first, another would wash, rinse & go grind the beans, someone standby to whisk the batter, add in other ingredients, fry & set aside), it would be easier that way and in no time breakfast is served..

Your akara is sooo rich dear, I love it talk about the crayfish and other proteins added honestly that goes in only when I'm making moin moin, maybe someday I'll try that for akara.. Really haven't done both in a while, beans is gold in Nigeria aand then my palm oil which I use for frying akara just goes into my pot of soups, beans, stew not occasionally, porridges and native jollof rice now lol.

InTheCloudySky:
If you feel something is wrong, you may be onto something. It's good to listen to your intuition in these sorta situations, especially when it comes to eating food prepared by strangers. Pray over your family and simply start making your own akara at home.

Savage comments up there really got me cracked up but this right here is it, yeah this is it OP.. If this has somehow raised concerns, maybe y'all should start making it at home.. The stress involved, I know that but it'll be worth the while even fulfilling with collective efforts from everyone, it should be fun esp cos this is something y'all love so much.

Funkybabee:
Oh thank you

Like how many years for pt program

2yrs I think.. Some run for 4 semesters, others 3 semesters.

Honestly if you ask me Max, I do not know how you're gonna do it but you should.. I know you will, not necessarily because you won't be able to live with yourself knowing this and keeping it away but because I know you're a good man..

A pregnancy is involved and for the fact that they want to terminate it, they must be really desperate, they will go to any length to make sure they achieve their aim and in cases like this, boyyy will it end in premium tears, definitely.. You can choose to subtly drop the bombshell, if he gets it great but too bad if he doesn't.. Just don't want you losing your license over this scandalous drama.

Last week, two of his elder siblings died.. Sad, may God comfort the family.

Lol the more you look the less you see.

Lmaoo wahaleaux

Nowadays light dey dey sha maybe cos of the cold weather.

I like the way his evil deed was exposed by the supplier but na wa oo.

Funkybabee:
Thank you so much, I hope the fees are not different for ft and pt

My pleasure.. For some, pt is more expensive but then I guess the installmental payment plan gives it some edge.. You could check their portal for that of your proposed course of study.

Funkybabee:
Is there any entrance exam after purchasing the form?

Is it virtual exam or physical, I'm considering my location

And what's the difference between pt and full time program

Yes yes there is an entrance exam, probably in November as it has always been.. I believe the management will decide if it would be virtual or physical..

Hmmm I can't say alot about pt and full time but I'll try.. For pt, one can pay their fees by installments but it's a one-off payment for full time.. I think time duration is different, longer for pt.. Taking convenience into consideration, yea the pt timetable was relatively okay cos of the evening & weekend lectures esp for people who go to work weekdays but currently I think it actually depends on the department so I suggest you do your due diligence in order to make an informed decision.. Good luck!

For the sake of clarity & peace of mind, please start putting away money(buy kolo or be doing ajo) for the DNA test.

realtalk19:
Single mum, seperated for 7yrs now. Yea, I didn't have enough time to know him even though the few months we met few times mostly in public places due to my tight schedule juggling btw school and work. He wasn't truthful with his personality because he felt intimidated by my person and look and didn't want to feel inferior or lesser. It was toxic, abusive and frustrating later .

I already learnt my lessons and moved on.

I know it hasn't been easy but glad you got out of that relationship.. Take care of you and your children, God be with you.

Stung like hell but yeah I guess things happen for a reason.

Love the 3rd picture so much.. Congratulations, may God bless your union.

Happy birthday golden girlll, God's upliftment and fulfillment I pray.

Wetin dey occur for our entertainment industry ke.. Na wa oo

Crossroad1:
Who get voice to sing?
As in, you have a very good voice?
Don't worry, I will sponsor and provide you with the lyrics..

9ice and davido voice combined still better pass my voice..
I dey always sound like frog wey dem starve

Lmaoooo