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Awwwww that's so thoughtful of them, God bless them abundantly. Belated happy birthday to you, OP. Cheers to many more beautiful years ahead.

The ulcer is not the problem here, you are. She has her drugs, lifestyle changes should follow. If you don't love her anymore, let her know and end things amicably with her. All these "she wants to come over to your house to feel better and you giving excuses" shouldn't even come up at all. I hope she finds peace and moves on with her life.


P.S- marathon s.ex is not and will never be the cure for ulcer. One with an ulcer attack can barely sit still talk more of stand or even walk, with that much stomach discomfort you're probably tired of rushing to the toilet cos you can't possibly roll there, it is a terrible experience. She may actually have ulcer but there's certainly something else in the mix.

Ahh! Waiting for this drama to unfold..

I think you should be more worried about the fact that transportation to your workplace eats way deep into your salary. I'm not saying you should quit your current job, just hoping that you've got your eyes out for another one, a better job.

Don't give into pressure just yet. Believe me, you and your girlfriend are not ready for this now. They want to raise a building as a wedding gift to you & wifey, how about helping you both navigate through everything, all the responsibilities in-between? Yes, they would do their best to help out but it won't seem like enough, then frustration cos you weren't ready or prepared for this but they made you feel that they'll hold your hands alllll the wayyy lol.

Congratulations on your new bundle of joy. He will grow to fulfill God's mandate.

SenatePresdo:
Lol, which one in particular.

The Emeka Ike or Jim iyke?

Both but then Jim Iyke is the one in particular he's rugged like that!

You're right, it helps the little ones understand the language even as they can't speak/write it yet.

It's not too late for you. I learnt the much I know now cos I had to leave the city and go back to the villa for my tertiary education(I kicked against it then lol but I'm glad I did). My roommates made me a laughing stock, my classmates sidelined a few of us that could only speak English, I hated it so much. Whenever we were on break, I'd go to my granny's, stay for a while, stop by at my uncle's house and then back to school. I'd watch closely how people communicated with one another in the bus, in the streets, in the markets and in church. It's very funny now but I was really determined even when I wasn't getting the pronunciation right lol. It did help and to a great extent at that. When I eventually went back to base, my family were amazed haha.

What I'm saying is that it's not too late for you, OP. You can actually learn bit by bit like I did, you can get a tutor as well. Good luck!

No cap lwkm. SenatePresdo, very apt

Mine is hereditary too. So sorry for your loss, may her soul continue to Rest In Peace.

Like you, I hate routine drugs. A family friend told me about sandpaper leaves, wash and squeeze them in clean water and take a glassful thrice daily. Absolutely recommend cos it's very effective, I took it just twice daily for a week and I've not felt that heaviness in my chest for a while now. Squeezing it na work oninown but it's totally worth it. If you can do it on your own or have someone help you squeeze them, I guarantee you'd feel much better. If you can't, keep taking your medications, get enough rest and always check your bp.

Also, if I may add - sometimes when there's a spike in your bp, it could be malaria, get tested & seek treatment as soon as you can.

As for the ginger, try cutting them into small chunks and leave to shrink(until there are little/no moisture in them), you can then ground into powder and store in a cool dry place. You can always infuse some into steamy hot water anytime you like, easy peazy. Also, you can gargle and rinse your mouth right after. I hope this helps.

Garlic, I prefer chewing them cos I feel it's more effective that way. I have relatives that prefer to swallow or cut one or two into very tiny bits for their stews/sauces, that's okay. I'd suggest you try swallowing, maybe last thing before you go to bed. It doesn't mean that the smell will go away totally, no it won't but it won't come on very strong. Well, your faeces may have that garlic smell, your farts too lol.

brimdans:
See this low retarded mofo.

Resist the urge. You've made a second one.

Boiled please, with a bowl of pear

Her mother is lying cold in the mortuary, now thisss. May their souls find rest and may God comfort their loved ones.

It's been 4months now. You haven't been here for sometime, I hope you're alright and your hubby is gradually finding his feet over there. Sending prayers up for your family, everything will be alright.

Nice one, Mr. Governor. Keep coming up with solutions that will suit community needs, may oil never dry from your head.

Lol that is a beautiful gown. The colour is cool on the eyes, it's quite long, the neckline is nice, simple design and no crazy openings. Would y'all have a problem with this outfit if it was worn by an average, obese, non-curvy and/or slim lady? My guess is as good as yours

This is sooo sad. My heart goes out to his loved ones, most especially his mum.

She's very courageous, congratulations to her.

Achotago onye ga enye ha ego i machi akpa. Anaekwu onye ga echi obodo Naijiria, APGA won't be in the top 5, ndi ahu amakwa ife smh.

LadyD22:
I honestly believe it's just a stupid excuse , it's exactly the same thing here , always making me feel bad for getting upset , last night her excuse was that she ate too much , coz we had to wake her up it was too much 5 times in 10- 20 minutes , both her and my other roommate were arguing around 3am and she said it's not her fault that we refused to sleep if we were sleeping we won't hear it and we're lucky it doesn't stink , if it's true and she can't control it , there's no way it won't affect her in the future

Saying you both are lucky her farts doesn't stink, lol it can only be ment. That roommate of yours is indeed a very silly girl.

Eish! Nigeria's best city indeed.

Heart-rending. My deepest condolences, Chidi. May God grant you all the fortitude to bear the irreparable losses.

Hahahaha, it's the "not my fault, I'm a human being" for me. So you and your other roommate are what then? Insects lol? I know someone like that, very loud farts every 5-10mins, it got me so pissed even as it felt like he was just passing gas, odourless gas. The sound is really off-putting *rolling my eyes* and then someone says "c'mon don't be like that, he's a human being, do you want him to hold it in and maybe get hospitalized?" I'm like "oh pleeease!" in my head.

Since it's more like a school hostel allocation and not your rented space/apartment, I'm not sure there's anything you can do about it, you can't kick anyone out and you can't move to another room. The good thing is you won't have to deal with all that for too long. Congratulations in advance, welcome to the favour market.

Zimri:
How many women can you spot?

There are 4.

https://www.the-sun.com/lifestyle/4962509/optical-illusion-four-women-oleg-shupliak-trick/

3 young ladies and an old woman

Really tragic, so sad. May his soul Rest In Peace

Congratulations to Mercy & her hearthrob. Obi na aso anyi May the peace of God be with you both and may that beautiful smile never fade from your faces.

Boyfriend, I thought as much. Whether you carried out the act yourself or not, you all should face the full wrath of the law, including James.

Lol in that case, I hope y'all have a plan B and C.

chimex001:
I suspect one of them is the father of the baby

That was exactly what crossed my mind. Probably he got another friend involved so they could stalk her and eventually execute his/their plan. Orrr one of them wanted an affair with her, she turned him down and he decided to teach her a "lesson". Whatever be the case, I really hope justice prevails. This is horrible.

emmabest2000:
Ara na ebido kwa na efe di ocha

I show my Chinese friend this news and his reaction is the pic below

Legs up

Eziokwu. Ara di na udi na udi Ike gwuru o

It's a marketing job. Lmaooo @you will be paid handsomely, it is strictly commission-based. You're asking if you should go or not? If you're willing to promote their products & can rake in sales for them, why not. By the way, you can continue sending applications to other organizations.

Yeah, that's right!