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Hmmmm e be really things o.. Aswear I no jus wan remember abeg.

Raudha:
Good morning. I sorry for trying to interrupt your discussion. I want to testify to your claims. I am a northerner and I recently got a job from one notthern minister. Guess what, till now she no know how I look. I got her number, sent her a message, she responded and booom! I am resuming on 1st of next month. And it’s a very good place. So yes, some northern politicians are extremely generous with job slot. Just know how to approach then, when and steps.

Wow congratulations to you.. May the light of God's countenance shine upon us all oo.

Lol na normal thing.. It's not just cos they are rich and also not a gender thing.. It's a video so yeah very much expected when everybody is just having a good time.. Catching cruise is allowed, we dey whine ourselves normally na.

Holak:
Social media is just bringing all these to limelight and making it easier. Else, it has been there from time immemorial. I attended village school in the 90s and relationships were also like if you are not doing, you don't belong, from JS 1 to SS 3. I believe that even now, children with proper orientation could still approach it with sense

Yes yes yes, this is it.. These things have been going on, decades back.. It was really crazy then.. Talk about students having carnal knowledge of themselves right there in their classrooms or is it how they did abortions in the most crude way, using iron hangers, etc in the same classroom or some secluded places.. Most parents didn't know what their wards did behind their back; so intoxicating that some "lovebirds" even sneaked out of sight to spend some more time together.. Yes, they were very very discreet in their doings, the fear that relatives/neighbours could see them and eventually tell on them hahaha that fear of the wrath of our parents but it is not like that now & in recent times..

OP I totally understand what you mean by having purposeful relationships.. Purposeful in itself is relative and in this context you can see that there is always a purpose behind any action or deed orrr anything at all.. I feel a lot of them have it all wrong, I mean with the way they're going about it, insane trends and for social validation smh.. Now, I'm not saying they shouldn't "like" someone or have a "crush" on someone orr get infatuated, we all did at some point but then they shouldn't lose themselves just cos of that..

Also, as parents please let's normalize hearing them out, bond with them, guide them, be in the know about things that affects/bothers/excites them(get them to talk about all that goes on with them even if it means going down to their level), give them proper orientation about life & these things, please don't just shut them out or get aggressive with them aand above all let's pray for them, pray with them as well.

Nope, do not assume anything.. I really really do not want to say this butttt then I may be wrong, babe are you 100% sure this man isn't married?

Well, I'd say you both should define whatever relationship you both have going on.. What are his intentions? You both need to talk, I do not understand why he would be "hurt" cos of that except he isn't coming out clean with you.

This life no balance at all at all, just keep that mental note to self.. Pele no too reason am, you'll be fine.

Congratulations OP.. May you always find favour.

pocohantas:
Na why I say lessons must be learned. Some people don’t look o, they just punch.

True.. For me that is always in a hurry to pay and leave.. I make it a duty to alwayss ask for my bill even before I look through my wallet for the atm card.. Most times it's so I can mentally and emotionally process the payment as I go over all my purchases again & again before making any transaction there..

I hope she has learned her lesson though.. Please always ask for your bill before making payment oorrr take a few seconds to skim through the receipt before stepping out.

Karleb:
I hate garlic! If it is the only nutritional thing on earth, I'd still no take it. Not even as pill.

I like ginger though.

Hahaha youdonmeannit, one of nature's gift to mankind lol why do you hate it so much dear..

Well I like ginger too, just not as much as my garlic.. Ginger is great for tomato base, stews, hot ginger tea for the cold weather yhh.. Chewing it alone nah, gushhh it's so damn hot in my mouth that I'm sniffing, my eyes start to water ugh and all I'm trying to do is to get the juice as well as the crushed part to the back of my throat & then swallow.. I'd rather prefer chewing it with tomtom, some kinda balance there and then when I'm gulping my water afterwards, I'm loving how really cool it feels

There's an online portal; you'll get all the info you need.. Also, you posted this in the wrong section.

SageX1444:
Maybe one day, I'll have to try one of your meals prepared with Garlic. But distance and hardship barrier.

One day one day one day e go better e go better.. Lol don't mind me, I was just humming that Face-2-Face family drama song.. Sure, we'll see how that turns out

SageX1444:
we have it planted in our "frontage" as design flower but we don't harvest them.

Oh how I envy you.. Most times I buy lots and lots of them(alwayss panic-buying) just so I don't run out of them lol.. Apart from cooking with them, I chew them(I can imagine you scrunching up your face lol that smell it gives off haha ikr) esp when my throat gets itchy, sore, coarse voice & I'm literally gonna lose my voice in like few hours, the horror! Sorethroat arghhh I hate it sooo much but with my garlic very handy, the battle is won lmao

SageX1444:
I haven't tasted garlic for over 10 years now. Weird isn't it. But where I'm from, we have this pre-registered notion that Garlic is meant for the Indians.

10yrs, whoops that's a decade.. Hmm I think it was around same time I got to know a lil bit more about garlic, now I'm stuck lol.. Yeah, Indians love garlic alot.

SageX1444:
lol. Okay. But that's me preparing laxative ooo.

Hahahaha no not at all okay here's the trick, cook them til the tangy taste is off.. Ehen soo you picked just tomatoes out of all the others, if I say garlic now, I know sey you go run four-forty LMAO

SageX1444:
Tomatoes is my favourite vegetable for cooking. I hope you are not advocating that it should be consumed raw?

Lmaoo well, it's best eaten raw but then it's still okay if you prefer it cooked.. Just don't let them get overcooked is all

Vanderandrew:
Money, not only bosses. If the salary you are going to get on another job is higher, people would quit.

Another is flexibility, maybe the job allows more time for family, leasure, personal development also

Spot on.

Karleb:
Most natural foods, especially plant based, contain antioxidants.

Try going for unprocessed food and drinks. You definitely can't do completely without them but you can greatly reduce your dependence them.

Limit/reduce your use of seasoning, even salt. A doctor once said, if you can taste salt in your food then it's too much.

A good alternative to Maggi is locust beans. You can dry it and grind it to powder form. Some people claim it tastes better than Maggi.


Away from antioxidants and free radicals.

Fish is nutritional than meat. White meat (Snail, Chicken, Turkey...) is more nutritional than red meat (cow meat, goat meat...)

Yes, reduce salt intake.. Some people even sprinkle some while eating, if you do this please stop it..

Locust beans is also a very good source of vitamin A, very delicious too.. Crayfish is really underrated, y'all unwrapping 3, 4, 5 cubes of Maggi or any bouillon seasonings, try ground crayfish I promise you'll love it..

Yes yes, red meat is bad for the heart.. We should also pay attention to the cooking oil we use, trans fat is bad for our heart as well.

SageX1444:
Like?, I'll like to know the name of these kind of food.

Okay, there are a whole lot of them basically comprising of fruits and vegetables.. Top on my list is tomatoes, bad e bad even if na 4 for 200naira.. Following up close is fresh organic peppers.. Next is garlic, I do not joke with this at all.. Then, spinach for my sauces/soups.. Carrots & grapes for snack lol.. I love my onions as well, na why e pain me dah time wey e dey scarce.. Apples, once in a while.. I love avocados so much, doubles as my spread for bread sooo yeah there are a lot more of them, you could look them up on Google.. Hope this helps.

3, from my lips to God's ears

If you say you're not the sweaty type and then your AC is always on whenever you're home or at work.. I'm thinking this skin condition(which looks so much like eczema ofcourse) has something to do with your minimal sweating.. And then you said your dad had these as well but it all cleared after treatment about half a decade ago, did you try to find out what the diagnosis was & what he did to make it clear? No? Why, you should have..

You should go see a doctor as soon as you can, a dermatologist preferably.. Assumptions won't help much, actually I think you should've sought medical advice before now, maybe ran a few tests even before resorting to selfmedication.. MMBM yhh sure but take charge of your health while at it.. And about the rheumatism(not romatism), see a doctor for that as well.

Aww you both look so cute together.. Congratulations to you both and happy married life in advance.

michael77777:
na fried chicken laps be this?

No be only chicken

ikorodureporta:
Chai.. na fish be that'?? See as e cover barrow. Na N50k sef..

Lalasticlala you no come see.

LienwaltAbel:
Nigeria matter Na die. See as prices dey climb NEPA ladder.

No be lie.. Asin eh e jus dey climb dey go, on a daily basis.. How pesin go tek survive, na wa oo.

LienwaltAbel:
Ahhhh your papa was a real stubborn man, mine was quite stubborn too. He bought all these useless Chinese drugs from the likes of Siemens and GNLD, if aboki pass with herbal drug and speaker just like that you'll see him negotiating price of the poison, as much as we hated it there was nothing we could do, if we hid it, it would become a messy ordeal, after his death my mom burnt them all at our backyard, I can imagine how angry she was. Life too hard self to live on a good diet.

Chaiii, stubborn men they were, we can't love them less may their souls continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord, Amen.. Sapa don reach everywhere o.. Na baba God hand we dey laidis.

Please let's be calming down ooo.. Unnecessary name-calling won't get us anywhere.. Please, be civil.

LienwaltAbel:
The third paragraph was what killed my dad . Most especially paracetamol which a lot of people don't know destroys the liver, try and avoid malaria as much as you can and if you get it, don't allow it to turn to yellow fever before you do something about it, I advise doing tests too. If you become wealthy tomorrow rather than waste your earnings on frivolities, go for regular medical tests most especially for cancer, that thing is one of the worst illnesses on earth, you won't know when it starts.

Ohh dear I'm so sorry about your dad.. My dad is late too and yhh the same third paragraph.. He constantly went for checkups at the hospital not regularly though but I never quite understood why he would buy bottles after bottles of herbal mixtures he knew nothing about other than "Mr. A assured me that this will work, Mrs. B said she has used it before, C bought 5bottles for her great great grand father's step-ancestor lol".. We disposed of the bottles but always came back to find more of them, he secretly took shots early in morning & then late at night.. Wahala wey dis thing cause ehn, my papa get stronggg coconut head o, you won't believe that he even went as far as finding a new place to hide 'em bottles just so we won't put them in the bin.. We thought he had stopped sef, it was until his death that we found the new place & some bottles..

Not just paracetamol sef but people keep abusing these drugs, smh their vital organs are in great danger.. Yes yes yes if you feel sick, please do not wait til it's too late, find your way to the nearest hospital, the earlier the better.. Ofcourse it's good to run general body tests once in a while, quite expensive though.. Cancer eh, hardly any symptoms, just very deadly, now as life hard reach I try at the very least to get me going with some foods containing antioxidants.

As the person above me suggested, have your blood pressure checked as soon as you can, preferably at a medical facility.

LienwaltAbel:
It mostly has to do with what we eat, I was thinking exactly about this same thing this morning and thus concluded that the technology we praise would be the same weapon used to reduce life expectancy worldwide and reduce the population.

I can't even really blame drugs because most of the rock stars who od'ed on drugs lots of times are still alive, Mick Jagger, Keith Richards and Ozzy Osbourne for example.

We should really be careful most especially of what we eat, I have made a pact with myself to — when I happen upon a great fortune — stop using all these Maggi and useless spices flying around, the spice that gives me the chills is that Benny chicken spice. I have also resolved to cut down greatly on junk food and all that nonsense.

Some good points here.. In this context, I think we need to be more careful about what goes into our body & out too, we should really..

Everybody wants to at the very least live life normally, yunno enjoy life without underlying illnesses yhh but most times it's how we go about it that matters.. Countless times, I hear people saying "laslas something must kill a man" to justify their actions.. Not going to dispute anything, all I'm trying to say is this:

If you do not feel well please seek medical attention as soon as you can, I cannot overemphasize this, please try not to make assumptions & resort to selfmedication.. Quite a good number of y'all indulge in buying herbal mixtures, some don't even bother to do their due diligence before drowning themselves in it because it's just natural herbs afterall.. "Dem cook am put na orr pesin tell us for bus sey e dey work well well orrr e get pesin wey dem say if I jus buy one bottle for im hand, e go cure all the yamayama sickness".. Please and please if you do not know how they came about the end product, look the other way cos everybody must sha sell market.. Even better you can make yours from the scratch if you want, do your research about home remedies, various herbs and how to use them..

With our crippling economy here and practically everything going wrong, honestly I know it has not been easy at all & we're barely trying to survive.. It is true that death is inevitable but let us not just take the backseat when it's something that has to do with improving the quality of our individual lives.. Let's try to do away with those things or habits that greatly endangers our health as well as reduces our lifespan, seek help however you can.. Shalom!

OMG! I thought he was recuperating He was a vibe, great energyy.. May your soul find eternal rest, Sound Sultan.. Sincere condolences to your loved ones, may God comfort them in this time of grief.

Lmaoooo y'all are sending me So dating is a no no and marriage is okayy.. Hmm I see